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11648986 No.11648986[DELETED]  [Reply] [Original]

Why do girls like being treated like shit?

I recently got into my first relationship, and everything has been great for around 6 months, however I recently noticed my girlfriend will only really respond positively and be more affectionate and submissive if I am constantly insulting her or just generally being cold and detached. As in, she's most happy and sexually engaged if I am a fucking asshole. Why do they have to be like this? I don't understand it. I just want to be sweet and tell her I love her but it will paradoxically lessen the relationship.

What do?

>> No.11648997

idk why, but what you've observed is accurate where is a fem anon when you need one.

>> No.11649005

Business & Finance

>> No.11649032

>>11649005
This is regarding my most substantial investment

>>11648997
It is pretty depressing isn't it

>> No.11649038

Well maybe you consider it being an asshole but to her she thinks of it as respect and showing you have a spine, and will not deal with her bullshit and emotional swings. Women know they have this and need a man who is a rock and won’t be impacted by it.

I mean unless you’re being an asshole and saying stuff like grab me a soda from the fridge bitch. In that case, your gf is so insecure that she’s probably a fat whale and you’re disgusting trash.

But since you’re insulting her, sounds like you’re both trash. A high value woman wouldn’t put up with that.

>> No.11649044

because they don't want a beta lap dog who has no life outside of her? Sounds like yours may just be damaged, it's often not that extreme.

>> No.11649055

>>11648986
Not all of them are like this. You should probably next your gf anon.

>> No.11649077

Leave her, trust me she is a crazy person. Only use her for sex when needed if not u will become dead inside and she will cheat on you the first sign of weakness.

>> No.11649080

>>11649038
>A high value woman wouldn’t put up with that.
Those are the most depraved whores. Precisely because nobody has the balls to treat them the way they want to be treated in non-sexual things.

>> No.11649091

gotta eat that pussy real good if u want to show ur love

>> No.11649092
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>>11648986
Biologically females are wired to strong chad men. They'll deny it but subconsciously they want the chad's DNA because they need 'aggressive' offspring. To get far in life an anon will need to be aggressive, not nigger tier but a man with a plan/a vision in life.

>> No.11649115

>>11649032
see
>>11649044

you already see things in a classic beta view, girls aren't difficult to figure it out

>> No.11649120

>>11649092

What a lovely inage

>> No.11649129

>>11649092
Can't I be strong and aggressive and still affectionate? Why is that associated with weakness for them? It's like they enjoy being reminded they are lesser creatures or something. I agree it's biological and related to natural selection I'm just not sure how exactly.

>> No.11649147

I have been with a woman who acted how op describes his gf. She went crazy when I left her and tried everything in her power to hurt me. Get out while you can anon.

>> No.11649215

>>11649129
Yes, being agresive against others in from of her, like apes do.

After all females are no more than subhuman and will respond to nature force, dont say you love her but show her no more than one in a while and be agressive in bed like forcefulm

>> No.11649239

>>11649215
>whargarble
write that post again

>> No.11649247
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>>11649129
Yes there's a time and place for that. Women are creatures wired to emotion and they are like cats.
>Scenario 1: You try giving them affection when they don't come to you or not in the "mood".
They'll get angry or lose attraction over you. In many cases in middle of the relationships, they will friendzone you because you give them what they want too easily.
>Scenario 2: While you are busy focusing on yourself and or working on your vision in life, she comes to you and wants you to give her affection.
You tease her first, like saying "maybe" but then give her what she wants. Your sex appeal and attraction is boosted, and the relationship isn't stale because you went Chad and challenged her needs.

TLDR: When you past the honeymoon stage in a relationship, shift the focus on to yourself and your job and only focus on her when she comes to you. It doesn't make sense but that's how women are, they are ruled by emotion and we are ruled by logic.

>> No.11649261

>>11648986
Women want someone to protect and dominate them. Every other beta man in her life gives her the compliments she needs.

>> No.11649273

Because of the primitive brain.

Evolutionary speaking 2 cents: the ones that had to respect the rules were the eunucs or the 2 role male, to be "humble", "educated" and "polite" is seen by the primitive brain as sign of weakness and not power, thats why we tend to see agressive ones as "alphas" and receptive ones as "betas". Like Trump and his agressivity against the media and some groups, even by his enemies this was seen as "guts/balls", whether his opponents that tried to aid that groups was seen as weaker.

When you are being agressive you are showing her that you have the primitive power to "force" her to do something (ie physical damage), her primitive brain see as if you could use it against other males and that means you could protect your offspring.

>> No.11649327

>>11649247
(cont)
Also if you think about it, that is why you see in the news a lot of Millennial female school teachers were caught cheating on their husbands, banging their young (Trump like) Gen Z male students because unlike their Millennial husbands who I guarantee are "Yes" Men, the Gen Z males are probably not only were actively hitting on their teachers but were first disobedient and challenged their female teacher's authority which created that initial attraction.

>> No.11649335

>>11649261
What if I dominate her with love? Hmmmmmmmm?

>> No.11649567

Oscar Wilde wrote that "I am afraid that women appreciate cruelty, downright cruelty, more than anything else. They have wonderfully primitive instincts. We have emancipated them, but they remain slaves looking for their masters all the time."

>> No.11649622

you are telling me women like this?

https://i2.yuki.la/b/0a/ae601670f0bf56a916dfd10a27dfac5d04b6e9a50f5fbff0ea224df6207f80ab.webm

>> No.11649636

>>11649247
This is depressing as hell if true. How can you genuinely love someone you have to constantly play games with?

>> No.11649690

they interpret it as you not being desperate and needy = you must be a valuable, attractive mate with a lot of options in the mating pool

>> No.11649695

>>11649636
You really shouldn’t have to desu

>> No.11649704
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>>11649636
>genuinely love

>> No.11649722

>>11649695
Exactly, games become tiresome when played for too long.

>> No.11649748

>>11649636
welcome to a relationship anon, it's a contest for the rest of your life and one of you will always win.

>> No.11649789

>>11649748
I mean I can understand that in the flirting stage but how about when you're in a real relationship/married? Does that bullshit still apply? I'd honestly rather get a robot gf or stick with anime if thats the case.

>> No.11649796

>>11649636
Take that one with you:
>she will never love you as much as you lover her

>> No.11649834

>ITT anons learn how big of a meme women are
The ones >30 are all fucked in the head from social media and are all juggling 5-10 orbiters if she is above a 3/10. What’s the fucking point?

>> No.11649848

>>11649796
The only thing a woman will love is her children

>> No.11649852

>>11648986
treat em mean

>> No.11649855

>>11649789
Yeah, you have to keep her attracted to you....all the while craving sex from anyone but her.

>> No.11649873

That's right don't overdue assholery btw. Not all woman but most of them doesn't even know where they want to have dinner. They simply can't make decisions by themselves.
It's a thin but bright light between being an asshole and being an assertive man, they really look for dominance most of the time. If you can't be dominant, fake it till you make it.

>> No.11649876

>>11649848
Your mother the only woman cabable of showing genuine love to you.

>> No.11649925

>>11649873
This really.

>> No.11649926

>>11649873
> doesn't even know where they want to have dinner
> can't make decisions by themselves
oh and that's making me angry and why I was happier before having a gf
I had a lot of time and no one was constantly asking me this and that.

I have stuff to do, things to run, getting shit done.
I am so close losing my shit over her asking me some shit every 5 minutes.
That creature as an adult and should work as such and not fucking waste my time with useless shit.

A)
wasting my time and can't concentrate/work on something for more than 5 minutes by aswering her shit
or
B)
I am an rude asshole and everything is my fault

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OP, get a different girl. Many are damaged.
She and/or you might confuse asshole behaviour with dominance and independence, something girls respond positively to and are drawn to.
My girl loves me and showers me in affection because I give her affection too, fuck her like a whore and treat her like the adult she is. If your girl doesn't respond positively to these things get a new one

>> No.11649979

>>11649876
sounds like you have a nice mom lucky dude

>> No.11650008

So true

>> No.11650013

>>11649622
Wow I got hard fast

>> No.11650017

>>11649979
after seeing some other mother-in-laws, I think I have some real luck
on the other hand there is the saying that the mother of a daugther / or in general the mother of the wife, is a dragon.

>> No.11650091

>>11648986

Does anybody know what skit this gif was originally from? Was it on World Peace?

>> No.11650211

>>11648986
It's because she actually likes you and perceives your detachment as an indicator that you may leave. So she tries to make you stay.

If you push it too far, she will just give up and leave herself.

>> No.11650427

>>11649038
Lol high value women LOVE being treated like borderline shit. If they think you need them you are fucked.

What a faggot you are

>> No.11650469

>>11649636
Because as soon as a woman's interest level drops below 50% there's no coming back for her. Games are the only things that make relationships interesting.

>> No.11650497

>>11649789
Of course it still applies! Jesus Christ. Use logic.

When your young..... you date different people because you get bored with people you are dating after a while. What do you think happens when you get married? People don't get bored fucking the same person? They do... which is why it is essential to play games in marriage.

I fucked a married woman last week. I call her a whore when I'm fucking her with my 4 inch cock that barely fits through her fat thighs to enter her pussy. But I have her wrapped around my finger. I snap her and I'm like "when are you sucking my dick next?"

And she loves it

>> No.11650591

>>11650497
>id: CIA JEEZ

based

>> No.11650597

>>11648986
Because you're a pussy and I'm gonna cuck you first chance I get little faggot

>> No.11650632

>>11648986
be a beta cuck and treat her nicely and buy her gifts, I'll be staying up late to answer her calls and ram my 14" in her while she tells you she's hanging out with her "girlfriends"

>> No.11650664

>>11649855
Yes, that factor is annoying, but it is also the main factor that keeps girls attracted to you

>> No.11650755
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>>11648986
Did you ask her what her relationship was like with her father?

>> No.11650809

>>11648986
Women have a hard compartmentalize mental or emotional problems in separate facets of their life. I.E. a woman has problems unrelated to work for example, its tends to follow, where men have better emotional control and have an easier time dealing with emotions when its appropriate. My point is being dominant and aggressive towards a women because its allows them to relinquish responsibility in a sense. Its why many women are submissive in the bedroom. They enjoy not thinking, and it provides relief. There was a study done I read about 3 years on this topic about the dynamic. I'll see if I can find it. I believe it describes some of the reason.

>> No.11650810

>>11649077
Happened to me can confirm
If it wasn't for crazy sex I would have goten out sooner
I'm glad I decided to leave her there are so many better women out there

>> No.11650904

>>11649622
>https://i2.yuki.la/b/0a/ae601670f0bf56a916dfd10a27dfac5d04b6e9a50f5fbff0ea224df6207f80ab.webm

They fucking crave that shit...fuck even girls who have been sexually assaulted often like it. If they already trust you as a mate of course, you can't just beat a random ho, and if you can she is probably totally fucked. Most long term relationships I've had, we communicate our desires and suprise surprise many of them want to be deep throated, smacked around, tied up etc. I mean rough/rape porn is the most consumed among women for a reason.

>> No.11650968

>>11650211
Can comfirm...its fine balance. I pushed a decent girl away after 3 years. I had total control and sex on demand. She would usually initiate. I was on top of my game so to speak, but eventually she said she couldn't breathe so to speak from anxiety, and was afraid because she never knew how I was feeling or thinking. I was kind of a sociopath. I have a better understanding now, I went to far Alpha to the point of destroying the relationship. The problem is I feel stuck in this mindset sort of. So many other problems in my life started getting better when I finally swallowed red pills. Personal responsibility, exercise, discipline, using the power of NO, and generally focusing on self improvment.

>> No.11650988

>>11648986
Alternate between treating her like shit and giving her a token amount of power over you every so often and you have a relationship for life.
Be warned that if you let yourself go, start giving her too much control or become less desirable to other women in general, she will no longer respond in a positive way to this behavior, as you no longer walk the talk.
It's mentally tiring to keep this up over a long period if it's not in your nature.

>> No.11651011

I think you can be nice to women the same way you would be courteous to another man. If they see it as beta behavior then it's on them. There's still some good women out there OP but first you gotta improve your well being. The Law of Attraction.

>> No.11651267

Don't be a fucking idiot, you faggot. If you know and are so sure they like to be treated like shit then treat them like shit and get that sweet pussy. It couldn't be more simple , you autistic fuck.

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>>11649038
>grab me a soda from the fridge bitch.

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>>11650091
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFNlKiQS3ng

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>>11648986
heres a picture for all the young men browsing this board. Please read it all.

>> No.11651644

OP, do you think you're actually going to attract women if you're being feminine?

>> No.11651660

>>11651559
only good post in this thread

>> No.11651731
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>>11648986

Affection is fundamentally dishonest, life is difficult and people will always respect you more if you're direct and rough around the edges, not just women. Also humans fundamentally crave authenticity, if you just shower someone with hugs and kisses and compliments, there's no real narrative, it loses significance because it's just your nature to hand out affection.

Most women crave flow and dynamic, the idea of distance followed by closeness followed by distance etc. fighting fucking making up, repeat. A normal person seeks this in healthy amounts, abused people seek this in excess.

In general try being more direct as a whole and it will do wonders for how much people respect you.

Here's an example, lets say you have a roommate who leaves the fridge open, many people, without consciously realising it, will use some slightly passive aggressive statement like saying 'I wish you wouldn't leave the fridge open', or 'could you please TRY to close the fridge door', etc. Now try just saying 'close the fridge door after you open it', if you want something, just demand it, don't insinuate at it. People think by being indirect they're more polite, but it's really just passive aggressive corporate mentality and its disingenuous and leads to lots of pent up frustration.

tl;dr women want direct, genuine, strong men, society has taught you to be indirect, disingenuous and weak.

>> No.11651862

>>11649092
Am I a schizophrenic or something? Everytime I read this image I can hear the song Erika playing perfectly in my head after reading that line.

>> No.11651868

>>11649273
Interesting. How female and male brain differentiates in matters of "executive brain" and "reptilian brain" ?

>> No.11651951

>>11649247
hahah what the fuck is wrong with you people

>> No.11651962
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>>11648986
>As in, she's most happy and sexually engaged if I am a fucking asshole.

It really depresses me to think how much sex is a tool or an instrument to women - that is, she'll have more enthusiastic sex with you if she thinks you're going to leave her, not because she loves you or because she loves sex.

Granted, you get more sex out of this dynamic - but any actual connection is nonexistent, illusory.

>> No.11652297

>>11651607
thanks

>> No.11652347

>>11650755
Unironically this, really.

People recreate and facilitate childhood trauma in their adulthood to try and overcome it but never succeed and become trapped in their own victim-hood

>> No.11652374

>>11648986
OP I know exactly what you mean. I crushed on a girl who I knew didn't like me, so I just started being a prick towards her since she still was around due to having mutual friends. In the end I got her lol, she said I became an aggressive asshole and she had to have me then.

I still don't get it, like you said I wanna be nice and good to her but the cunt turns into a total bitch once I start showing any affection what-so-ever. So now I just talk down to her and insult her in a joking manner but keep my foot down firm.

I would be lying if I said I'm enjoying this.

>> No.11652449

>>11652374
you are all a bunch of fucking idiots

the first girl I ever had sex with, a literal 8/10 who I was crushing on for months, only started paying attention to me when I started trying to be her friend and made her laugh

my current girlfriend loves me when im affectionate

stop dating damaged whores and you wont have this problem

>> No.11652502

>>11648986
If this is true why aren't autistics successful?

>> No.11652544
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>>11651607
Perfectly explained. Here's a (You)

>> No.11652560

>>11652544
Forgot to censor the feets

>> No.11652605
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>>11649789
I really hope the sexbot craze advances as it will challenge the ego of your typical Western thot. The only power a woman has over a man is her vagina. Take the power by procreation via creating sexbots and I will laugh really hard to see western women pull a 180 and instead compete w/ one another not based on pure physical sex appeal but by who can be the most eligible housewife.

I'm hoping some sexbot producing companies releases an IPO.

>> No.11652725

>>11652449
Shes getting blacked on the side

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>>11649327
>>Scenario 2: While you are busy focusing on yourself and or working on your vision in life, she comes to you and wants you to give her affection.
>You tease her first, like saying "maybe" but then give her what she wants. Your sex appeal and attraction is boosted, and the relationship isn't stale because you went Chad and challenged her needs.
>TLDR: When you past the honeymoon stage in a relationship, shift the focus on to yourself and your job and only focus on her when she comes to you. It doesn't make sense but that's how women are, they are ruled by emotion and we are ruled by logic.
Sorry, it's worse than that.
The end and rebirth of civilization from >>11649247 pic related does not happen in the 4 years of a presidency, or even in one generation (Z in your case). It's not over. This is just the beginning.
Western society will crumble and our land will be divided by chaos and death into new fringe countries that splinter from the sinking ship, before those new civilizations begin the long, long process of rebuilding a culture.

>> No.11652874

because being nice is a way of placating people who are more capable of violence than you. it makes you signal that you are weak or otherwise not willing to engage in violence to protect yourself and your mate

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>>11652841
It doesn't have to be this way.

We are enterting an age of miracles. An age of high tech. We can solve it and have abundance. But only we will get off our asses. Only if you and I work to make tech miracles happen.
Make happen the greatest of impossible miracles:
A solution to the woman problem.

Hail Elon.

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>>11652374
>>11652449
You can be an asshole or nice-ish as long as it is congruent and you aren't needy. The reason why girls love assholes is because they're hard to get and they're not needy betas who will ask for feefees and mommy milkies every 10 minutes. A hot or even regular looking girl is showered with attention and nice words/compliments but guys who are nice to her have a hidden agenda (to fuck her) so they come off as needy/creepy/beta. On the other hand a lot of guys will try being a dick to her just to fuck her, because they hear that's what girls like, but this doesn't work either because it's incongruent and needy as they're only doing it for her validation/vag.

>> No.11653128

>>11653083
how does that apply if you're already in a relationship tho. op said he has just noticed that being a detached asshole makes her happier after 6 months

>> No.11653180

I'm so horny and lonely. I wish I were a Chad.

>> No.11653241

>>11651607
ok this is epic

>> No.11653382

>>11649092
It really is crazy ironic, how individual women desire those selfish offspring that will get ahead in society, yet humanity could never have formed thriving societies without selflessness.

>> No.11653487

>>11653180
Go to the gym
Then go talk to women
Both problems solved.

>> No.11653603

>>11651962
>not because she loves you or because she loves sex.
Most men are shit at sex or have small dicks. Make her happy there, and she'll want sex for itself.

>> No.11654011

>>11648986
Your girlfriend is a degenerate who falls for peacocking.

A real woman wants you to be responsible and breed good genetics. She doesn't care how cheesy you are.

>> No.11654060

>>11648986
Yo man you are getting it wrong. Its not about treating them shit its about being a father figure. I know its weird to say, but women crave for strong leadership, support and taking the reigns. Of course there are variances of women (feminazis etc.) but the usual woman likes to be taken care of.

There is no such thing as like a love from both sides. Relationships are a team, but every team needs a leader. Man i used to be the one thinking that the right girl is the one where both sides meet at halfway but it isnt like that. Women crave for that strong leadership of being shown how and what to do. Its a weird syndrome. Its the oedipus complex. Men crave for women that are like their mother (caring, understanding etc.) and women crave for men that are like their father (protective, supportive, strong). If you act like a strong leader the woman will follow you and start acting like a mother. Dont get me wrong here, its a fucking hassle. It means being a little bit of a bitch but with a leash. When your girlfriends shift ends, pick her up, bring her home. If she goes to meet with her friends, help her. Buy her drinks. DUE NOTE TO NOT TAKE THIS TOO FAR. You need to understand whenever they are bullshitting or not. If there is bullshitting, dump her. Instantly. You dont have to pay for all of their shit, but buy mundane shit like food and drinks. Split the rent and loans if you can. Also try to be fit and a chad mentality. The chad mentality isnt like fucking around with other girls. Try to be wanted. Dont fuck other women but seem that you could. That makes your woman crazy. Look nice, smell good, be confident. Women crave that shit. They are biologically built to crave things that are strong and confident. Its because they view you as the father of their children. You are searching for a woman that could take care of your offspring. Start learning how to make your fucking bed. If your woman is lazy and dirty then yell at her.

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>>11649032
>This is regarding my most substantial investment

Just make sure she doesn't see this thread or it's pink wojacks for ya. Or maybe even better yet, show her this thread and then tell her to fuck off.

Find a girl who likes you for the soft cunt you are, bucko

>> No.11654117

>>11650809
still waiting for the study seems interesting as heck

>> No.11654118
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>>11654060
As Crackwhore Winehouse sung
>play your role

>> No.11654131

>>11650809
Women think about more things than men at any given time. They have to asses their immediate surroundings for threats for example due to being frail. Men don't really have to do that the vast majority of times.
This gives them the freedom to think in a detached manner.

>> No.11654156

>>11654060
Yeah but if their father is a dbag they like dbags

>> No.11654164

>>11654131
No truer words
The most common female emotion is fear

>> No.11654169

>>11654118
Crackhoes blow johns for crack, idiot, Amy Winehouse blew a microphone for her crack. She was legit and died doing what she loved (crack), you're just a random faggot on the internet. The fuck do you know about anything?

>> No.11654170

>>11654156
I say this, DO NOT DATE A GIRL WITH DADDY ISSUES. ITS A FUCKING HASSLE.

There are many fish in the sea who are coming from normal conservative monogamy families. Even the thots. Just find one and its a good relationship. Daddy issue girls are fun and all but it takes a lot more work than picking her up, buying her food + drinks and gifts, travelling. You have to deal with extra issues like alcoholism, sex problems, communication problems. Its fun for some guys but i aint got time to deal with psychology problems. I want a calm peaceful girl who i can take care of.

Start thinking like you are a father but you dont have any kids. I guarantee you it will work and also be a chad. Send nudes to y girl. She will go ham at you. She will think y sending them to other girls. Women are psychopaths. They overthink so much. The overthinking is your bread and butter. Manipulate that to your advantage.

>> No.11654228

I love how niggers on the internet lump all women into one category. It only shows you haven't had any experiences with a woman who isn't actually a nigger whore

>> No.11654297

>>11652449
She is cheating on you mate lol I've give you two years before u break lol... if that was the case then married is the way, everything that is being written is coming from experience, it's real life u should consider yourself lucky.

>> No.11654302

>>11654228
>women who isn't a nigger whore
thats like 5% percent of the women population and they're still instagram whoring mental midget. Might as well lump them together

>> No.11654688

>>11649975
ID Anakin

>> No.11655321

>>11648986
you have a defective product. get rid of it. shes probably evil dude, srsly. sell sell sell

>> No.11655337

>>11648986
BUSINESS, AND, FINANCE

>> No.11655366

bumpin in this thread because me and my gf are in similar situations.

she never does shit just to make me feel better. I am a blue pilled person that only dated 1 girl besides this one.

She has a hard time showing affection though. Everyone of her past relationships has ended because oh her not being able to show affection.

She has always been the one chased in relationships, I think we need to shift the dynamic , but Im not sure how.
I could see myself marrying this girl. but I feel like a doormat sometimes

>> No.11655438

>>11655366
She is confused about you being the father of the relationship. As i pointed out here:

>>11654060
>>11654170

Mate i've been in your shoes before. She has 50:50 respect towards you. There are some issues in your relationship that she doesnt approve. Are you lazy? Are you fat? Are not confident? Are you unemployed? Women care about this mundane stuff. Do you do stuff for her? You need to reach out here. Ill bring y some examples from my past experiences:

Girl used to date wasnt affectionate. Then i started working out a lot and lost about 10kg of weight and fat. Started sending her nudes about myself. Chick got so horny that the next day she was jumping all over me. This continued. Before i was like yeah lets go and have fun in the bed and she was sometimes like meh. When i changed myself more attractive she was like "Hey hon im alone at home, you want to come and destroy me?".

Another example. Used to have this weird situation of money right. I always thought its a 50:50 situation. Suddenly when i started buying some mundane shit like household items, food, drinks bringing her some healthy food unexpected etc. Then the other day i was going to get some Chinese food and said "What y want gurlll". She was like yeah i would love that and that. Suddenly i see my bank account increased. She was like "You are so kind to me and i want to give you cash". Believe it? A FEMALE GIVES A MALE CASH.

Its this weird dynamic you have to have with your girl. Its not the same for all of you. My best advice would be to take the lead and see how she reacts. If its 0 affection still then maybe its time to break up with your girlfriend. You know you are wasting time with a girl if you are trying your hardest while not being a total doormat and she is not doing anything. Breakups are hard mate but sometimes you need to think long-term. It sucks but you got to man up and see if she is indeed fit to be a mother for your children.

>> No.11655457

>>11655438
Cont 2.

Also the more beautiful the girl (mate i've been with in my mind 9/10 thots as well) call me a LARPer i dont really care, but anyways back to the point the more work you need to put in because the more beautiful she is, the more attention she will get outside. Bitch those thots i've dated were approached in public transport and invited to coffee drinks and other stuff. One time my thot explained to me "Yeah there was this rich dude who offered to join him with a helicopter ride to his place". As a chad i was like well fucking go then :D i dont really care (showing strong leadership and not being a bitch). She immediately was like "No i love you boo! You are my only one" shit. If i was like "WHAT DID YOU SAY BLABLA" she would have viewed it as me being a weakass manlet whining. That actually is more repulsive than being this chad type.

>> No.11655493

>>11648986
I know what you mean, but i've found the balance comes in tease flirting. I think part of why guys do it is because it helps you to not put the girl on a pedestal, but it's moments like that where you can take a figurative bite out of her too just to get your affection across.

But it has to happen naturally. Say she goes and does something silly and breaks something and normally you would just go and help and comfort her. Instead, if she brings herself down with some sort of 'arrgh! I'm an idiot' and a goofy smile, consider laughing or stifling a laugh at her reaction. Ask her condescendingly, 'What did you do?' Then calmly fix the problem in silence. Women love that. They want to be rescued, but not by someone who worships them, in fact, if you save the day with a 'oh, it's not your fault, let me help you' mentality, you're actually disagreeing with her in that scenario. If she insulted herself, playfully agree. It means you're an asshole without being an asshole.

Don't worship them.

Now are there any commision free brokerage apps i can use in Australia?

>> No.11655816

I don't think girls like being treated like shit, but I do think you'll get more women by playing hard to get or acting disinterested. In my experience, most women, even the fat autists, have hordes of men who want to fuck them, date them, etc.. But when someone comes who is interested, but doesn't make the move and says he's not sure, then hits on them, but never goes for the kill, it makes them crazy. Why doesn't he like me enough to go after me? How can I get him to make the move? Etc. Playing hard to get is the key. It separates you from the rest of men, who are just thirsty, makes you a challenge, and questions their ego.

>> No.11655834

>>11655457

Nice fantasy there nigger, you're in an anime incel forum full of larping spergs.

>> No.11655868

>>11655457
nice blog, where is the follow button?

>> No.11656216

>>11655457
cryptojunkie is that u?>>11655438

>> No.11656360

>>11655834
common misconception. I was a sperg in high school and never stopped going on 4chan etc but once I got to college I hit the gym, got back into football and joined team and managed to sleep with plenty of attractive girls. Helps that I was never bad looking, just introverted and a bookworm. You'll probably call me a LARPer but I can assure you this place has more than neckbeard incels posting in it.

>> No.11656364

>>11651607
best post

>> No.11656409

>>11656360
> Helps that I was never bad looking, just introverted and a bookworm.
>this place has more than neckbeard incels posting in it

I'm like you, too bad that after years of being a basement dweller, that mindset keeps still sitting in the back of the head even after "making it".

>> No.11656438

>>11656409
yeah same I'll never be a full Chad, there's more to that than going to the gym and dressing well, contrary to what some think. I have friends who have been Chad since the start of high school and they have a kind of immutable self-confidence that I have to drink a shit ton to mimic even for an evening.

>> No.11656480

>>11651731
This is based anon