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>family dislikes me
>work sucks but pays well
>marriage crumbling
>friends are all dude weed bros 1000 miles away
>depression eating at me
>drinking a 750 and a half of vodka per night going on 5 years
>2 packs a day

Checking stocks and crypto is my only good thing i have left. Love you guys. At the end of the day after everybody ignores me or brushes me off i still have my gains and sometimes losses. It's all i have left. You guys have made me more financially secure than I could ever imagine. Thanks for being my only friend.

>> No.25999798

you aight frogboi

>> No.25999810

age? net worth?

>> No.25999817

>>25999771
I'll take 1 BTC as payment for my troubles.

bc1.wallet

>> No.25999835

I wished I were married.

>> No.25999850

>>25999771
Fuck a 21 year old

>> No.25999872

That’s just how life plays out for most people man you’ll be alright

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>> No.25999925

>>25999771
At the end it only matter if you like and love yourself, refind yourself anon so you can refind life

>> No.25999934

>>25999810
18 years old. Parents left me with only 100,000 dolars in my bank account. Fucking hate my life and these boomer cavemen im forced to live with -_-

>> No.26000071

>>25999810
29.

About 100k. Not much, fucked up my early 20s and have only been really trying last couple years to get a non shit job and start saving.

>>25999798
Thanks bro. That helps to hear.

>>25999872
Yeah. It sucks to end up here but... ya know. Appreciate you though

>> No.26000145

>>25999771
Start a new life somewhere else.

>> No.26000229

>>26000071
you're super young man. plenty of time for a hard reset

>> No.26000371

>>26000229
Thanks. I appreciate your optimism. If i turn around and make it, ill remember your post. I hope you do well, fren.

>> No.26000419

Try to stop smoking

>> No.26000466

>>25999934
>18
>2 packs a day
>750 1/2 vodka per day

Unironically kys slav nigger

>> No.26000488

>>25999771
Don't reproduce and kill yourself at the earliest opportunity you sack of useless shit

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>>25999771
get of the booze and smokes man, they only make your life worse. You gotta treat your self right even if nobody else will. ygmi fren, I believe in you.

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>>26000229
>29
>super young

>> No.26000558

>>25999910
This. Get your shit together OP

>> No.26000566

>>25999771
love you too fren, but you might wanna tone it down on the booze and the smokes. after that long you almost certainly have a physical addiction to it and would need to ween off it with benzos.

>> No.26000610

>>26000419
I have. Its a filthy habit. I know.

Every night though i go out on my patio with a pack of smokes and a bottle of vodka which remains while i stare at my nightmare rectangle and laptop.

$5,000/yr gone

Dont fall for the tobacco meme, or if you do... realize that its a slippery ass slope from occasional one into 1 a day becomes 5/day becomes 10/day becomes pack a day etc.

>> No.26000631

>>25999771
>judges friends for smoking weed
>alcoholic

>> No.26000667

>>26000488
Having this much hate for a stranger only means one thing friend.

OP most people suck, rest assured you will find some enlightenment as you continue on your journey. Chin up and don’t rely too much on gains... life is larger than money.

>> No.26000690

>>26000518
Time is an allusion. I know some old boomer fucks in their 20s and I know some some fucking toddlers in their 50s-60s
I myself am a well-breed angelic and well adjust lil white boi who is almost 29. But I wasn’t conditioned this way. This was hard fought for and well earned.

>> No.26000692

>>25999850
Why

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>>26000518
young at heart

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>>26000690
>Time is an allusion. I know some old boomer fucks in their 20s and I know some some fucking toddlers in their 50s-60s
>I myself am a well-breed angelic and well adjust lil white boi who is almost 29. But I wasn’t conditioned this way. This was hard fought for and well earned.
Cope

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>>26000466
>not knowing hoelw to read IDs
>not knowing how to read replies

I'm a useless sack of dogshit and every night look down the barrel of my sphinx SDP with a chambered gold dot thinking about how i should really rent a hotel room to save my wife the heartache and expense of having to clean up my brains but like jesus fuck dude, you should just pull the trigger, you fucking retard.

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>>25999771

>> No.26000946

>>26000720
Would chris be the same if his parents invested in a consular for him, even if it was in his mid 20's?

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>>26000762
Welp you got me, but anything is better than being a midwit-tier reddit fag. Democracy will never thrive until you faggots finish offing yourselves

>> No.26001143

>>26000631
>alcoholic
>30yr old
>makes 100k/yr
>has investments
>aware of his problem

>dude weed bro
>30 yr old
>makes 23k/yr
>cant afford rent and eats ramen
>thinks his lifestyle is great

Never said one is better than the other, from a substance abuse standpoint, but "dude weed" people are a bit different than "i like to smoke weed" people or functioning alcoholics. That being said there are a lot of "lmao dui #3 just got bailed out" alcoholics who are the scum of the earth.

I nust don't have much in common with my highschool friends who smoke weed all day and lift cardboard box a form place x to place y. I miss them and love them, and think they are good people, but ghey are happy moving box a from x to y for $12.50/hr. I want more.

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>>25999771
Desu the only thing that I believe will make me happy is a job in IT. I am willing to be paid only $30K annually, I'm a leaf, but that's all i want. I'm 26. unemployed, I don't smoke or drink. why are u so upset despite you getting paid so well???

>> No.26001176

>>26000000

>> No.26001221

>>26001143
you sound like a faggot, no wonder everyone around you hates you

>> No.26001594

>>26001221
He sounds pretty based. Sucks hes surrounded by faggots like yourself

>> No.26001922

How do I open shorts on your liver?

>> No.26002044

if you actually drink and smoke that much you must feel like actual death and the withdrawal if you ever quit the alc will be absolute hell.

>t. drank 500ml rum per night for 2 years straight and felt like i was dying for 3 months straight during the withdrawal

>> No.26002082

>>26000145
this. walk away before it's too late. you don't have kids.

>> No.26002085

>>25999771
>drinking a 750 and a half of vodka per night going on 5 years
>2 packs a day
Start with that man. You quit smoking, you quit drinking, you start exercising, you start feeding your body right. It's going to be hard but you can do it; once these goals are accomplished you're going to feel like a new man.

>> No.26002089

>>26000946
No. The guy needed help that he never received. He would never be normal, but probably in a much better place than he is now.

>> No.26002098

I'm 27. Give me tips to not end up like you at 30.

>> No.26002171

>>26000071
>out 100k. Not much, fucked up my early 20s and have only been really trying last couple years to get a non shit job and start saving.

I am you, accept 10 years later marriage failed and no savings.. But I am starting to become positive and will succeed no matter what

>> No.26002274

>>26002044
I took a few nights off and slept 18 hours a day. Most days i wake up at 630am feeling terrible taking calls from my team in bed, and gain full function around noon then work until 7pm then binge a bottle until about 3 or 4am. Sleep 3 or 4 hrs and do it again.

My body isnt doing well. Alcohol is a really bad thing to get into habitually or to cope. Seriously guys... its a losing path. Dont do it.

>> No.26002355

>>25999771
I Just stopped drinking so much.

The only difference is: i have a family, gf, friends, money, doggo, money.

Start working on this stuff man. I've been working on it all my life

>> No.26002391

>>25999771

>marriage crumbling
Divorce hit 50% 1990. I have no more pity.

>> No.26002408

>>25999771
you need to substitute your awful alcohol and tobacco addiction into something less selfdestructionary bru. if you are well insured, just try getting something good out of your doc for a steady stream of pills. inb4 shoo shoo pill jeeeeww.
but for real, alcohol will end you

>> No.26002477

>>25999999
>>26000000

>> No.26002507

>>26002098
Dont drink to cope, dont take up smoking. Every paycheck, put some aside so that you can move in on what you want to buy investment wise.

Coming from being too poor to afford groceries into being able to order uber eats every night is dangerous as fuck because you finally get a taste of not going to bed on a frozen buritto or hungry. Look at every penny you slend as if you were poor still and don't squander it.

For the first few years when i had a decent paying job i was nigger rich. Uber eats. Shooting 500 rounds per weekend. Guns, pens, watches, ammo, eating out 4x/week, uber eats. Look at every purchase like you are poor and dont overspend. That honestly fucked me out of a lot of money.

$5 saved cooking a meal yourself does much better on btc or stonks than it does shitting out a triple dipper from chilis.

>> No.26002568

>drinking a 750 and a half of vodka per night going on 5 years
>2 packs a day
gee i wonder what can be causing your depression

>> No.26002985

>>26000801
This appalling. You are loved. You are love. You are a universe in itself. Unique. Talk to your family. Talk to someone. That is not you. Alcohol is killing your mind, you know that. Yo umight be in over your head. It's ok to ask for help.

>> No.26003088

>>26002274
Go to church and ask God for help. That’s how I stopped drinking. 7 years sober after ruining my life multiple times and back on track.

>> No.26003116

>>26000692
pusy feels gud

>> No.26003130

>>26000610
Nigger wtf how are you alive

>> No.26003243

>>26003088
Im not really religous. Tried as a kid, tried as a teen and tried again in my mid 20s.

I will say that i am really happy for you and im glad you found what works for you. I hope it keeps working and even though im not really religious i will say a heartfelt prayer tonight for you for another 7 years and 7 years after that. Congratulations, anon. I'm happy for you.

>> No.26003281

>>25999771
anon thats way too much alcohol and cigarettes. no wonder you feel like shit. taper off

>> No.26003330

>>25999771
https://youtu.be/XOkU2Ka5anI
Could be worse

>> No.26003352

Taper down drinking until you feel comfortable hopping off. Do it slowly. You might have seizures if you stop drinking suddenly.

Take vitamin b complex like tomorrow you are depleted. Get a multivitamin and also zinc, magnesium citrate, selenium, and vitamin D 5,000 IU. Start taking these it will help you feel better without alcohol.

Start eating real meals with complete proteins. This will help your brain make own feel good chemicals again.

Look into L-theanine, also you can take GABA. It won't pass blood brain barrier but will help your brain synthesize its own by providing building blocks.

Start exercising and getting outdoors doing anything that sounds fun.

God speed anon you got this

>> No.26003361

>>25999771
3 words to turn it all around:
FIST YOUR WIFE.

>> No.26003362

Quit drinking, op. At least for a while then you can ha e the occasional drink or 3 after you get off it. Just don't go overboard like you currently are. I used to be an alcoholic too and it sucks. You can do it anon. Alcohol is a depressant and will only add to your depression. Keep it under control and don't let it control you.

>> No.26003367

>>26000692
It will refresh you.
That youth, that vigor. Those hopes and dreams all that potential for life not yet lived. The sillyness older women lose.

I think it will be good for you and maybe you can learn something from it.

>> No.26003413

>>26003367
Cheating is bad, OP just needs to up the game and fist his wife silly. TRUSTS ME

>> No.26003417

>>26003362
To add on to this, I know it might sound gay but consider picking disc golf up. Disc golf is a prominently white sport and most of the people playing like having a beer or 3 and or smoking a little bud. You'll make some friends eventually out there, disc golfers are really friendly. And if you limit yourself to just having an occasional beer while your out enjoying yourself you'll feel much better. Itll get you outside and getting those vitamin D levels up which will make you feel good too. Decent exercise too with all the walking and throwing.

>> No.26003437

>>26003417
Disc golf is based

>> No.26003438

You can easily reduce your drinking and keep it at a nicer level. Smoking tho idk kinda difficult because everything becomes stressful, doable tho but maybe later. Please consider, thank

>> No.26003445

>>26003362
man I thought i had given up but i'm drinking right now, my vices is like a whackamole I haven't CUMMD in months because I'm trying to magic myself up a nice rural property with dick magic and down goes my Mrs's vodka. She's getting kinda bitchy.

>> No.26003461

>>26003417
fuck that pick up flatland bmx like hard nigga and impress the """"21"""" yos.

>> No.26003475

>>26003362
He needs to taper at his consumption

>> No.26003478

>>25999771
you’ll make it anon but you gotta clean up on the booze and replace it with something else, gym and eating well Probly you’ll not wanna drink as much when you’re on a routine of training and eating well

>> No.26003526

>>26003475
True, I dont disagree. It can be rough and I'm not sure if I got to that point but I think I tapered too. I drink now again but I dont get drunk anymore. Just 1-3 drinks and I stop. I later suggest having a beer or two while out doing stuff but I think a decent period of time of going straightedge does the mind good. Let's you clearly think about your life.

>> No.26003531

OP go into a sportsclub that forms manbonds. jiujitsu for example. in the middle-age-man groups, often times its just dudes. its all comfy, you get alot of exercises and learning how to choke eachother out or do serious harm and then apply this carefully with your dudebros really forms relationships.

also: yeah you are fat and untrained, nobody cares, alot started just saggy and fat and sloppy, theres no shame in not pulling all the 4 rounds, takes a few months and you see and feel real progress

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Really not interested in getting married lads. Everyone says you have to but I've literally only met one, fucking one, happy couple in my entire life.

>> No.26003579

I just want to say thanks to all of you guys.

Life is hard sometimes and you guys are there for me. I hope all of you make it.

Thank you. I love you all (except jannies)

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>>25999771
Same dude, but once you make it, that feeling will go away
Stop drinking, stop smoking and see how you feel then
You're too far down the rabbit hole if you're drinking a fifth ½ a day, hopefully you don't have cirrhosis of the liver but you likely do already to some degree
Protect your liver! It helps you live!

You also need to stop doing drugs if you're feeling bad because it stops you from facing your problems until the drugs stop working
I'm serious about all the Citadel shit, I hope to see you there OP

>> No.26003684

>>25999771
Divorce the bitch. Make money. Quit drinking quit smoking. Invest that wasted money. Save up some cash. Move to where your friends are. Get a better job there. Family is the people who care about you.

Either do that shit, or die unhappy. Your choice. It's not impossible.

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>>26002507
Thanks, fren. God bless you and your family.

>> No.26003751

>>25999771
work out with your wife daily and start fucking her in the ass