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Why would a woman claim she loves you, you say you love her but then she calls the police and asks them to ask me to not contact her which she could have said herself, then she blocks you. Continues to communicate through social media images with you, then starts talking to your sister to get info then you catch her following in your car.
What the fuck. WHAT THE FUCK.

>> No.54310335

>>54310318
Feeling of powerlessness.

>> No.54310343

>>54310335
It completely feels like a power play, but why? It's fucking insane.

>> No.54310370

>>54310318
weekend /biz/ started early this week.

>> No.54310399

>>54310343
She feels a feeling of powerlessness, and she tries to make you feel powerless, trying to reflect her inner world into the external world.

>> No.54310408
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>>54310318
You have schizophrenia, anon, and you're stalking a poor girl who is terrified of you.

>> No.54310420

>>54310408
In fairness, that's also a possibility.

>> No.54310457

>>54310399
It's called projection.

>>54310408
Mate when you fucking realise that nearly all fucking women communicate via visual imagering in the social media posts, don't come fucking crying here. They all fucking do it because theres no evidence and unless you're involved in the conversational subtext you have no idea. It's done so women with boyfriends can find new partners without getting caught. This is just the way women communicate, probably because they're used to being abused.

>> No.54310489

>>54310318
Never say I love you back. Even if you do.

>> No.54310508

>>54310457
How do you know the visual communication is intended for you?

>> No.54310522

>>54310318
get time stamped video evidence of her following and harassing you. get a lawyer to file for a restraining order. ruin her life if she violates it even once.

>> No.54310527

>>54310457
Projection is, as I understand, an accusation ("it's not me who's doing it, it's you who's doing it"). Reflection is the attempt to re-create one's internal state in someone else.
Your communication also reflects your internal state, i.e. your belief that women are used to being abused.

>> No.54310614

>>54310457
Bro...as soon as a girl acts even remotely psycho, you just bail. It's as simple as that. Just bail. There are so many women out there, and I promise you not all of them are batshit crazy.

>> No.54310835

>>54310318
BPD. Run.

>> No.54310866

>>54310370
Catalogs being spammed hard by someone,
Hide 202 posts 20 minutes ago and already 90 new threads.
Board was dead a week ago.
It's not real someones purposefully sliding everything.,

>> No.54311098

>>54310835
I legit was thinking this, I have a friend who seems to have bad luck and hit BDP like 8 times in a row.
The last 2 I've known are like this.

My only guess is it's either Hookup Culture or Amphetamine abuse in their late teens, like the numbers are fucking nuts

>> No.54311732

>>54310457
this post confirms it, stay away from that poor woman anon

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>>54310866
this. i discovered this earlier as well.

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>> No.54313715

>>54310866
>>54311950
Yep. Board has been slid very hard with bullshit.

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>>54310318
Skimming this thread, other anons have already answered your question; I'll also contribute:

>she's crazy

She sounds dangerously insane, probably BPD/dark-triad; her jealously is also a strong indicator of this -- she is solipsistic, and sees you selfishly as her property, and not an individual with agency -- as well as a sign that she is likely cheating on you (if someone acts suspicious of their partner in a relationship out of the blue, it is usually because they themselves are guilty of cheating).

You should get away from that dangerous creature by taking the following steps:

>go to your local police department and file a report detailing her troublingly inconsistent behavior -- especially her stalking you

>go to your state police department -- which is a totally different thing -- and do the exact same thing (you want redundancy across multiple precincts for reasons self evident to anyone who's ever dealt with the law & bureaucrats)

>with both police reports in hand, find a law school student to help craft you a restraining order pro bono -- they need to do things like this as class projects -- bonus: the student is an available female (who's even crazier than your current girl lmao)

>with your police reports filed and your potential restraining order in the pipe and ready to go get presented to a judge, you are now in a safe position for the next steps

>make a few *nice* social media posts about how great life is, how you should make lemonade when life gives you lemons, how amazing the world is, how people & animals are naturally kind, how you support minority womens' rights, all that jazz

>now make *one* social media post obliquely about HER:

"Have you ever been in love with a CRAZY person? Share your experiences."

>^that will get her -- it's your first social media post relating to her. She might have her Flying Monkeys descend on your post to flamecomment it; ignore.

>she'll message you; respond tersely:

"WE'RE DONE; THIS IS OVER."