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technically the state is to blame here

>>55587321
No. You just seek out lossporn so you can roastiepostie all day and night hoping someone, somewhere, will think your neovagina is a better option.
It never will be. In fact people would pay their entire networth to avoid it.

This is cancer, but then again he for whatever reason let this cancerous woman into his life and even signed a contract with her

>>55587351
ok retarded woman worshipper. they will get you one day but you are too stupid to understand.

>>55587321
this problem is solved by monero

>>55587321
Uhm hello???? Have these people even HEARD of the Blockchain

>>55587321
We used to be able to take these women to mental asylums and permanently leave them there. The modern state's involvement in marriage has been a complete disaster for the west.

>>55587321
What warning signs besides the obvious ones that your gf is gonna divorce rape you after marriage? With virginity and good family relationship being the most important factors.

>>55587321
Why would any man agree to get married in the modern age?

Is there any advantage financially speaking?

>>55587321
>getting married in an alimony state
fucking kek.

>>55587603
the fact she is a woman is bad enough news. run.

>>55587378
Sir this is 4chan women find us repulsive

>>55587378
>woman worshipper.
kek, everytime
>they will get you one day
Ok roastiepostie

>>55587603
Being bad with money and in debt. When I found out my last gf had 10's of thousands in student loans yet would throw her paychecks around on stupid shit that was all I needed to see

>>55587378
cope he is 100% correct you are just a loser lmao

currently at almost the two year mark of an ongoing divorce (she is trying to extract as much as possible and i am fighting every front out of principle). 50k to lawyers so far.. still not divorce. Marriage in the west currently is the biggest scam/racket with numerous industries profiting off destruction

>>55587790
i guarantee i have had more sex than everybody in this thread. you are just primates with no real brain or thought.

>>55587944
>i guarantee i have had more sex than everybody in this thread. you are just primates with no real brain or thought.
>>55587899
>I have slayed more prime pussy than you will ever do in your curry stinking street harasser life
Everytime

>>55587351
This except instead of being an incel obsessed with trannies I'm gonna say I'm a tranny and OP is a nasty incel

>>55587321
A woman can be a mans biggest boon or his downfall
Rule #1: dont marry the first girl to give you positive attention

>>55587321
>>55587351

monero shill bait thread

>>55587618
>Just ignore women and suck nigger dick instead anon
Nick Fuentes pls go.

>>55587983
they are all evil. thinking otherwise is mental retardation.

>>55587321
Women mechanically behave like some organism that lures you in with a sweet smell or taste and then while you're distracted, slowly digests you. Whether it's marriage, relationships, whatever, outside of sex and fitting in with everyone because you're the cool guy with a girlfriend, women are an absolute detriment to life. The key is to limit your commitment and engagement with them. You do something like a 3 month relationship maximum until you absolutely want kids and then you just accept that you're going to get financially ripped up in exchange for reproducing. That's all. Accept the reality of it. Pretty much every woman behaves identically in a big picture sense. It's just constant escalation of demands on your time and constant impairments on every idea or activity you wish to pursue.

If you metaphorically (or in some cases literally) want to hike up the mountain, women will find a way to be in a wheelchair at the time and make you feel horrible for doing so. So the thing is, they don't just nail you with an explicit bill in a divorce, they cost you in a ton of more indirect and less obvious ways as well. The moment you want to go to a concert with your buddies and your girlfriend makes it anything less than a great life experience, she's costing you. I say it all the time, leave it up to a chick to be on a yacht with her boyfriend, somehow end up jealous of the good time everyone else is having, and then instinctively seek out how to make the experience awful. And that is going to be most women.

>>55587321
always have been

>>55587616
no.

>>55587603

The most important factor is personal financial responsibility and income of their own. Don't be fooled, your idealized traditional virgin will feel entirely justified taking as much as possible for the benefit of their children. Half won't ever feel like enough if they've been living off 80% or more of your income.

In general, people behave this way if they feel like they "Need" the money, be it for lifestyle or legitimate reasons like their children. I used to work for a divorce attorney as a paralegal and the amicable splits were always double high income earners. (Two doctors, two medical device salespeople, shit like that).

>>55588262

Correct. In my case it's a perk. I'm naturally inclined to never spend or enjoy any of my money. Acknowledging the financial cost of doing anything fun sours the experience for me, so it's unironically more enjoyable if she just does the planning and spends the money. Yes, I understand that this is 200 proof distilled copium, don't care. I've had a lot of enjoyable experiences that I would have otherwise been too cheap to make happen myself.

Have to roll the dice. Ideally you get your income and wealth up to a point where you could lose half and still be able to afford doing the things you want to do. Quite frankly, everyone should have that as a goal, just to cover fluctuations in market/economic conditions.

>>55588226
t. Had a single mom

>>55587603
Has anyone EVER heard stories of a woman improving after marriage

>SHE DRIVES A BEEMER
Women don't have to have nice cars to get dick, men need to constantly be competing for vagoo.

>>55589510
My wife is finishing her PhD. We're more financially stable than ever before, more responsible than ever, are planning our future kids and budgeting such that we can continue to live our carefree lives very lucratively together into old age.

Yes it gets better but not without good communication and some long chats about what you want together. Plenty of deadbeat dudes I know who have gone through a "quarter life crisis" and ruined their own credit/depleted savings/ gone into dead end jobs after hitting one bump in the road of life.

TL;DR: People who give a shit and work hard TOGETHER will always make it.

>>55587343
>If by State you mean "no fault divorce" and "women's rights" because they reinforce a woman's natural laziness and inclination to hypergamy, then you would be correct, it is the state.

It doesn't change the fact that women will always take advantage of this issue given enough time.

>>55587321
Was that filing status worth it?

>>55589558
>without good communication
I hate this fucking meme. Yes, communication is important but not just talking. What makes a relationship last is saying you will do something and ACTUALLY doing it. From throwing out the trash every week for pick up, to spending less to even dressing up once a week. After years and years of saying you’ll do a million little things and you do none of them, it eventually breaks the relationship. Women are more susceptible to this than men because, despite what modern dating tells you, men are the ones that lead the relationship. I don’t doubt you and your wife talked shit out but I bet money you actually holding her and yourself accountable was what made things better.

>>55587343
correct

>>55587321
when women start buying that's a sell signal

>>55589558

>phd wife
>kids

lol

>>55589510
My wife has. Ending up with shitty women is a skill issue.

100% of divorces are caused by marriage

>>55589558
Lmao give it ten years. You still haven't faced your first boredom challenge that modern marriages never seem to get past.

>>55591466

He'll probably be fine. PhD women tend to be exceptionally boring people, and they like it that way. A lot of them end up with PhD's due to a "Stay the course" mentality, which in this case means just staying in school until you run out of school to do.

The real challenge comes when they're out of school and have to find work. If they struggle to find meaningful employment they get depressed, and their student loan payments hang over their head. Most of the time they'll cling onto a provider husband for dear life, to the point where they get clingy.

>>55587378
Mommy issues or rejected by women your whole life?

>>55588816
>>55588262
Stephen King's wife fished his little known novel Carrie out of the trash can when he gave up on it and it ended up being the novel that kickstarted his whole career.
But yeah, women are always a net negative right

>>55591430
92% of divorces are instigated by the w*man

>>55593461
That was back in the 70s anon. Relationships were quite different back then. Very very few modern women would stay with King through his coke binging days.

>>55593598
Maybe dont binge coke then lmao

>>55593461
Stephen king is a fucking faggot.

>>55587321
I didn't even show up to my own divorce proceeding
0 alimony
0 child support (no kids)
I got to keep the ring I gave her
I got the dog
She got the house but paid out all the equity I had paid towards it (2 installments of $10,000)

Get a prenup.

>>55587351
ouch. the truth hurts

American women are so fucked lmao
Here women appreciate it if you treat them sometimes but most expect to go 50-50 in relationships. The concept of divorce rape is basically foreign because alimony doesnt exist and prenups (if done properly by a lawyer) work

>>55595820
America sets the tone for the rest of the world. East europe for example has no pure trad waifus, just materialistic harpies that have western expectations of men who earn eastern wages + eastern entitlements. If you want loyalty and companionship, get a dog. If you want to coom, get a 50 dollar silicone pussy from japan. Women are unnecessary unless you want to reproduce.

>>55587343
the 19th amendment is the biggest issue

>>55587351
cope and seethe female

>>55587790
keep cucking bezos

>>55587587
In the absence of church there is literally reaaon to marry other than state benefits (if any)

>>55596407
*no reason*

>>55596272
>everyone who disagrees with me is female
roastieposties are just the other side of the simp coin
you can't stop obsessing and roastieposting
if you actually believed what you said you would know that all attention is positive attention
you unironically support their lifestyles by being a seetheviewer and content sharer
and you do it for free

>>55594248
seethe pussy

>>55596422
seethe faggot, men are organizing against you, we will repeal the 19th, kys

>>55587351
>You just seek out lossporn so you can roastiepostie all day

Well it's not exactly hard to find given how many marriages end in divorce (more than half), 90% initiated by women.

>>55587616
If your woman earns more than you or has more assets, sure. Never happens though because women always marry upwards.

>>55587351
>You just seek out lossporn so you can roastiepostie
they hated him because he spoke the truth

>>55596543
>female
>faggot
kek, fickleness is a feminine trait roastiepostie
>>55596570
you still went out of your way to find the content if it wasn't divorce-rapes it'd be some other ragebait content you WANT to feel this way
in fact you probably pay roasties for providing you with easy content to entertain yourself with, directly or indirectly
i find this amusing and don't pay you a penny for the clownshow

>>55596656
The fuck are you babbling about you schizo.

Imagine giving money to an ex wife who cheated in you. What kind of man would do this? Stoo being a faggot.

>>55596269
Yeah that shouldn't be there.

>>55596665
>schizo
i'm not the one with a roastie in his head rent free kek

>>55596407
Benefits of marriage
>Better tax rates
Detriments of Marriage
>Divorce rape

>>55587321
i had sex with a woman once now i'm bankrupt.
50k down the drain

>>55596656
keep seething, women are dogs, we will rape them and keep them as slaves, allahu akbar

>>55596857
>seething
of course you're a consanguinitymaxxer

>>55596965
kill yourself feminist, die in a pit

>>55587321
I think a lot of people just settle for whoever is available both in terms of dating and then inevitably in marriage.
So yeah, if you're just going to settle for the first piece of pussy that smiles at you it's a bad idea and there are usually signs all along the way to let you know it's a bad idea.
That said, if you have a solid girl then marriage is a great investment into your future.