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Was anyone here ever a pathetic loser in all facets of life, moreso financially, and managed to completely turn your life around? If so, what did it take?

>> No.12463219

Turned out that I actually hadn't been a loser and that all the time I spend ignoring school/parents paid off.

Perception creates reality.

>> No.12463271

>>12463200
I turned life around after I invested $13k into Chainlink. Now I’m gonna drive a lamborghini when I get rich. вклaдывaть дeньги Chainlink

>> No.12463418

>>12463200
Ex junkie here, was in massive amounts of debt to very shady people and literally living in my parents basement.
Got clean after taking ibogaine, moved to a different city, got labouring job, turned in into apprenticeship, became qualified tradesman, made money and lived frugally, got married, bought modest house with very little mortgage, then went to university while working part time, about to complete masters degree.

>> No.12463623

>>12463418

wow

how old were you then and now?

>> No.12463795

>>12463200
Yeah i had a "dark night of the soul" period, blamed all my problems on me/ the system. basically i was a teenager with to much time on my hands. I felt some sort of gangstalking, like feds or demons and i turned to God and begged him to step in my life.
after that good shit started happening and now im back to normal

>> No.12463817

>>12463623
he was probably like 20 dude so it's meaningless

>> No.12463834

I used to be a poor loser but i bought [shitcoin #7213] and now im a rich millionare! You can be a rich millionaire too just put all of your money in [shitcoin #7213]!

>> No.12463923

>>12463834
Please to tell us more sir

>> No.12463954

>>12463817

even if you're 40, you can still turn your life around and lead a meaningful life.

yea maybe you won't get a wife/married, but you can find peace within yourself by working hard and making something of yourself.

or y'know, you can give up and cry all day about how pathetic you are. Just ignore all the potential within you and mope all day, yeah that'll make you happy dumbass.

>> No.12463986

>>12463954
Thanks dad!

>> No.12463992

>>12463954
past a certain age, there is no such thing as "making it"

>> No.12464038

>>12463992

Making it is just finding joy, despair is not making it, cope with whatever you want but it's obvious the only meaningful cope is God, all things are vain when you put them towards God, so if you are seeking meaning, joy, or "making it", it would be stupid to not realize the only conclusion is God, if there is no god there is no making it at all

>> No.12464039

>>12463992

The concept of "making it" is entirely subjective

Stop obsessing over making a million dollars. Even if you had five million dollars, you will eventually find zero pleasure in banging thots or taking 5* vacations.

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>>12463954
>even if you're 40, you can still turn your life around and lead a meaningful life.

>> No.12464088

I was poor as fuck and then bought about 1500 bitcoin in 2011 after a friend shilled it to me. Almost sold after it pumped and dump from like 90 cents to 30 bucks to 3 bucks. Luckily didn't keep my shit on an exchange or lose the wallet. Sold about half at 1000 and hodling the rest right now.

Just get lucky, bro, not that hard.

>> No.12464099

>>12463795
more

>> No.12464105

>>12464038
unironically this

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>>12463219
>Perception creates reality.
This anon gets it.

>> No.12464306

>>12463219
Respect. Just had an argument with parents how they think I’m loser but been taking 4-5 vacations a year last 4 years and worked in a top company (did fuckall they showed me the door) for 2.5 years. Am I really a loser? Or just a nomad?

>> No.12464472

Me at 26

>15k debt
>unemployed
>in gay relationship
>fentanyl addict
>interactive hebraic pixelation takes up all time
>balding but didnt shave
>terrible cardio and fitness
>family ashamed of me no friends except gay lover

Me at 30

>live on my own
>have a 8/10 female fuckbuddy
>in a track and field club competing
>in school full time for a trade
>have very small business
>family respects me because i brought girl over for christmas
>have a couple friends
>good grades

It took the willingness to admit i was a degenerate drug addict lazy low iq arrogant faggot that was about to get phased out of the gene pool. Took willingess to disregard comfort and safety to live on streets. Sold all possessions. Boyfriend attacked me when i broke up with him and moved out so i had to literally beat the shit out of him and it was a fight for my life cuz he was younger and stronger than me (but im a ghetto kid that can fight, hes a rich kid with no idea about a real fight but he started one). Had to quit crypto and learn math classes so i wasnt just another idiot gambling shitcoins, now im less of an idiot gambling shitcoins. Had to get a lot of dental work done and get a prescription for addies (life changing legit had undiagnosed ADHD).

Im still a fucking loser and everyday is hard as fuck but i have a good attitude and i show up to my classes and try my best.

>> No.12464488

>>12463200
Getting a job

>> No.12464512

>>12464472
So you bi?

>> No.12464520

>>12464099
well after i got enlightened, i realized my life was actually scripted, they put me through a living hell so i would get to heaven earlier, or an Egyptian initiation. So really im what spiritual favoritism looks like but i didn't know i had this much love and support till last year i thought i was me vs the world.
It was like all my actions in life were predetermined, they already knew the outcome. I came here to do a few things, also im lucky really because they also told me I used to be in hell, the one described in the bible. Now getting out that place is impossible, it makes sense though after having this much spiritual presence watching over me while i grew up.
So basically it was luck, it was refreshing to know i was cared about though. and i went through alot of suffering for what it felt like forever.
atleast the bullshit is done

>> No.12464533

>>12463623
I was using from 14 through 22. I'm 32 now.

>> No.12464555

>>12464472
> went from sucking dick to licking clit
You're as delusional as Link bag holders

>> No.12464584

>>12464520
sounds like you were in a cult mate

>> No.12464587

>>12464039
obviously. you can make it in other ways.

but you are missing the entire point of 'making it', which exists as a concept because the alternative of 'not making it' is much more likely. most people aren't going to make it. if anyone could 'make it' with their shitty boring average life, then the concept of 'making it' wouldnt exist to begin with.

so yeah, for most people, you can't make it past a certain age. and if you are having to lower your sights, such as sentencing yourself to a life as a single childless bachelor when you wanted a family, then you didn't make it, did you, faggot?

quit with this participation-prize meme

>> No.12464596

>>12464555
I did neither lmao. I would never go down on someone, cum and roast flaps are equally disgusting to me.

When you got 8+ inches you call the shots, guy or girl and people suck you off

>> No.12464619

>>12464587
Find peace. The wonder of life is always there. Even if you don't get what you want. Of course you will suffer but it doesn't have to all be suffering. Regardless you will die and be lost to history.

Do you understand now, my child?

>> No.12464639

>>12464596
Wow you're gayer then I thought

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>>12464520
Explain to me how you became enlightened at such a young age? Dark night of the soul was something I was under the impression took like a decade to achieve a state of piercing the void. Regardless were you fighting the system and that’s why things got crazy? I used to want to save everyone but now I realize good and evil are just a part of duality and it’s not my job to save people who have almost the entire sum of the human experience at their fingertips via the internet yet choose to watch sportsball and eat McDonald’s.I feel the opposite my life was hell in my late teens from drug use and I should have died countless times but something kept me alive. Now I feel like I can do anything and I’m more successful than anyone I went to HS with besides professional athletes and I’m back on the path of spirituality and meditating daily.

>> No.12464683

>>12464639
Eating pussy is literally faggot tier. Its a submissive act(aka feminine) and other guys bust their nuts in there. Enjoy slurping jizz out of a roasties fishhole, cuck.

>> No.12464686

>>12464619
shut the fuck up idiot

>> No.12464754

>>12464683
We not in Rome anymore champion... Feel free to suck a cock instead though

>> No.12464806

>>12464683
Someone watched too much sopranos. You're a fucking retard

>> No.12464811

>>12464619
it's about being free from the necessity of employment

you can be as happy as you want but you'll still have to work and thus be less happy than if you "found peace" retired

>> No.12464837

>>12463834
this but unironically

>> No.12464839

>>12464619
Without love it's all suffering

>> No.12464854

>>12463219
>>12464306
you realize this life ends at 45 at most right?
Then you're old and no one wants you anymore and you have no savings, no investments, no on to rely on.

Good luck

>> No.12464894

>>12463200

>autistic incel 12-24
>joined military
>still autistic
>still incel
>got blown up in Iraq
>IED explosion cured my autism, even if it fucked up my leg
>happy, lots of friends, do lots of stuff now
>hard to fug cause my leg muscles are weird, but its okay
>qt grilfriend

>> No.12464907

>>12464683
Aside of the fact that you are having intercourse with 3d roasties in the first place, instead of cute 2d waifu virgins and her close female friends, Anon, I find your view to be pretty one-dimensional. Surely it is true that being the center of a scene is submissive -- being shared is submissive. And you would also most likely agree that it is reasonable to divide males into "fathers and sons" = "alphas and betas", whereas females are divided into "mothers and daughters" (though I personally view all 2d waifus as being my daughters... there is only >the female<, in addition to alphas and betas)... with a hypothetical scene consisting not necessarily of two actors, but three. And then, in this scene, you have the father (you), the daughter (the submissive center of the scene), and the mother (or another daughter if you consider all 2d waifus to be your daughters). So if you then, Anon, perceiving yourself as father, start eating out the daughter... is it submissive? Surely it is not submissive for the father to eat out the daughter, since the father, not assuming a victim perspective, instead says "my 2d waifu is made to be shared BY me" = he is in full control. However, Anon, what if /you/ were to be the center of the scene? What if you were to have intercourse with two 2d waifus? You might turn into the son, believing to have intercourse with two mothers. And then you will lie there in the middle of the scene, submissively, saying "I am being shared by two 2d waifus." That is you assuming a victim perspective, Anon. And receiving oral sex here really makes you submissive, despite being a male. And in regards to 3d, this also often coincides with a male saying "I am being fucked by a woman" or "the woman fucked my brains out." That is him assuming the victim perspective -- That is him being the son.

>> No.12464928

>>12464520
>>12464678

>muh enlightenment
>still driven by capitalism success

lmfao, ur just schizo

>> No.12464944

>>12464683
Thanks comment proves that this is all LARP. Continue having a pathetic life you mouth breather

>> No.12464960

>>12464069
why? it's true.

in 5 years you can start a biz and make 5 mil. You're not 45, you have 15-20 years of fucking 18yo gold dinners before you die/cant get it up.

>> No.12464961

>>12464907
You need some help. Stop posting and leave your mom's basement to get some air.

>> No.12465086

>>12464678
Naturally i was always curious about everything i spent lots of time meditating trying to figure out the nature of everything.

They had my back against the wall, i understood to much about the corruption in governments and threatened to torture my family and me. The thing with understanding is that its in a simple way. its not hard to understand why we are here and what purpose. It's like common sense when you look around i connected the dots. truly its entertainment, but i was a teen with to much time, imagine just waking up and all day just googling and youtube things about the universe for like months straight.
also i got support from the otherside, it was like i was taking downloads slowly. i would walk at night and get streams of thoughts explaining different shit.
I would write down my thoughts, have conversations with myself, write down my conclusions and such.
When i fought against the system everyone has to realize is i was straight larping I had no clue who was protecting me at all literally i knew i had no choice but to larp and it became real so i just rolled with it. basically matyrdomed myself just cause i knew i had no other choice.
basically in life, the harder the quest the bigger the reward.
Good and evil are subjective, evil is just because we can do whatever we want, evil cleans itself up throughout the universe through karma. Things are fair in terms of balance, people who do heinous crimes have to get judged by God and sent to hell forever.

>>12464928
i dont care about money anymore, i still have a family so i need to make money for them so i check here to get new ideas.

>> No.12465103

thinking about ending my life bros. i dont see the point in doing this shit anymore. im ugly, never had a gf and still live at home. everyday i wonder why im such a piece of shit and feel stupid for feeling sorry for myself, cant help it though.

>> No.12465142

>>12464960
lol
my uncle is 76 and still bones his 50y/o wife.

>> No.12465149

>>12465086
You're an egocentric and deluded fool, brother. It's not all about you, that would be impossible.

>> No.12465178

>>12465086
And your perception of evil is like a baby. NATURE is the root of evil, not morality.

>> No.12465199

>>12464854
You can still get laid past 45

>> No.12465262

>>12463200
God (or the universe/simulation/whatever) doesn't make mistakes. Everything is a gift if you can see it that way. You are where you need to be.

>> No.12465292

>>12464754
>>12464806
>>12464907
>>12464944

I know you anons were not expecting a redpill and this is a hard one to swallow so sry about that boys.

>not a single argument just buttmad

I'll explain a bit more, I used to be a pussy eating beta. You can definitely make a woman orgasm through oral sex but she will not see you as an alpha. If you are fine with being seen as a submissive beta male then eat your pussy but the woman will NOT respect you. If the only way you can fuck is to bow down and lick her snatch then I guess that's a beta male strategy for coitus that is better than jacking off.

I just would not ever care about a woman like that, if she cums when I fuck her then she cums if she doesn't she doesn't.

Perhaps if I was really drunk, the girl was a virgin, was two weeks away from her period in either direction and had just had a thorough shower I would consider it.

>> No.12465378

>>12464907
I'll give you another (You) as this might not be pasta. Basically what you have done is gone deep down the rabid whole of integrating non-living 2d representations of living beings into your view of reality. I think you have done this rather unironically so I would suggest reconsidering your viewpoint. Clearly you are redpilled enough to recognize all 3d roasties for what they are but your reaction to the truth is the problem. You have accepted it but then dug yourself into another safe space bubble by integrating 2d waifus which is not a masculine response to accepting a redpill. I recommend treating women like shit as if doing so were an olympic event that you're trying to win a platinum medal at, it helps alleviate the anger at the truth.

>> No.12465392

>>12465149
i barely speak of my success, and i treat people with respect regardless of class. i might be young but my soul old.

>>12465178
the only reason people do bad stuff is because they think its ok, its like they think no one watching or whatever.
Freewill is a gift, a soul can do whatever they want but they have consequences later on in life

>> No.12465400

>>12465086
Odds are it was more your paranoia and the synchronicities got out of hand, I really think unless you are a big fish/influencer (billionaire or celebrity) that (((they))) aren’t gonna come after you unless you are just exposing their lies all day on the internet and have some convincing truth. Than again maybe you reached wayyyy further in a point in spirituality/enlightenment than I have and it made you a target. This again is why I’m done sticking my nose in more powerful entities business, sure having the knowledge is alright I guess but when you try to tell a normal person they just look at you like your crazy anyway. I experienced something somewhat similar to you and can say it was mostly paranoia making me think things were after me. Then again maybe you went deeper down the rabbit hole.
>>12464928
Guess what dummy, you need money to survive in the current state of affairs. You don’t have to give up all possessions and live in a cave meditating 24/7 as a monk to have things click and get a basic idea of what’s what and find peace in yourself. Also if you want to live a better life and be able to make the lives of you and the people you care about better 9/10 times it requires money.

>> No.12465418

>>12465378
>I recommend treating women like shit as if doing so were an olympic event that you're trying to win a platinum medal at, it helps alleviate the anger at the truth.

kek

>> No.12465443

>>12465262
So I was put on this planet for what? Just to suffer? Literally the only good thing that has happened to me is I've got to play a bunch of awesome video games

>> No.12465558

I'm 34, a high school dropout and only making 35k/yr. Is it too late for me? Feel so damn old already.

>> No.12465627

>>12465443
Life is suffering, first noble truth of the Buddha. The others are no more encouraging.

>> No.12465712

>>12463200
F

>> No.12465743

>grew up poor
>went to college, had to get some loans 'cause i wasn't smart enough for scholarships
>make above the average household income as a single 23 year old
thats how mafia works

>> No.12465775

>>12465712
F

>> No.12465864

>>12465443
Suffering is an inevitable fact of life. You can keep dwelling on it and getting frustrated with something you can't change. Or you can accept shit happens, learn from it, and make better choices.

>> No.12465889

>>12465864
It's a little late for me. I'm close to 40

>> No.12465950

>>12464520
Your fucking insane
Is this what crypto has done to you?? Get help now

>> No.12466005

well I didn't really turn it around

sometimes I get real motivated and I start waking up early and spending my time wisely but it usually lasts like a few months at the most

getting a cat while allergic was one of the worst decisions I ever made, getting a 2nd cat being the worst decision, well I got rid of the 2nd cat and I still have dreams about her all the time and I feel a little bad about it and I think if I get rid of Frankie I'll be very extra depressed

>> No.12466034

>>12465392

>Freewill is a gift, a soul can do whatever they want but they have consequences later on in life

That belief gives to calvinism and that people who have hardships deserve it

Job book discusses this

Honestly, you may think christianity is naive, but it actually has a profound theology and philosophy where it overcame many of false paths that give to beliefs that are unsustainable and soon or later will make your faith in god wane, i suggest Philosophy of religion by Hegel if you want a book that is not the bible and discusses it further

>> No.12466681

>>12466034
quality post friend

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>25
>wasting years of not doing jack shit with my life
>keep changing majors
>still working the same shit job I've had since I was 20
>I've only worked in shitty restaurants all my life and I feel like this is it for me
>I"m just not really sure what I want to do with my life
>when I figure something out I just get suck and fail
>still single and lonely
I want to be able to find a good job and also find a nice girl I can be with.