/biz/ - Business & Finance

[Anonymous No.13162898]

>got told "yeah honestly, anon, you're one of those people that I only hang out with because you come attached with the friend group"
>Everyone started making eye contact with each other and nodding and saying "sorry but honestly yeah... same here"
>which lead to a long awkward pause of wondering why im even here and who even likes me.
>only one guy was like but nah hes chillin' tho let him be(he's white but sounds niggerdly)
>then i stood up and ran away with tears in my eyes
>ended up completely drunk and in a strip club alone
>bunch of uglies but then this ONE really hot girl
>she makes eye contact, comes up and goes, I rarely go up to people but there's some thing really attractive about you.
>gives me a lapdance. Keep buying more songs. Spent all my money.
>she kept whispering about how cute and special i am.
>Believe it for a split second until she realized I'm out of cash and goes to up to the next guy.
>Now Im back home in a trashed mood.

[Anonymous No.13162902]

buy LINK

[Anonymous No.13162909]

>>13162898
learn to be happy without other people. I have/had the same issue. Really hard to socialise. I have my family tho who i can talk to and be friendly around.

I think it's just low self esteem desu

[Anonymous No.13162919]

Never happened to me, haven't been outside in 3 years

[Anonymous No.13162935]

>>13162898
If this is true then don’t take it personal. I imagine your “friends” hate themselves which is why they’re that cruel. For the stripper thing, that’s expected as they hate themselves which is why they’re in that predicament in the first place. Seems like you are the best one out of this whole situation. Take care of yourself anon, you seem like a decent chap. Toughen up a bit and you’ll be okay

[Anonymous No.13162936]

>>13162898
That's horrible anon

But I've always kinda felt that way even when I did have friends

Now I'm a bitter loner who constantly thinks about suicide, not because I was cast out but because I cast myself out a long time ago subconsciously, but I gamble on crypto so that gets me pretty high
Fuck them

[Anonymous No.13162949]

>>13162898
How did that topic even come up in the first place? That's so harsh for no reason at all.

[Anonymous No.13162964]

>>13162898
damn anon, sorry to hear that. that's a tough pill to swallow. the story made me kek hard though

i know you feel down and all, been there, but there's a little positive thing about it: they were being honest with you and you looked through 2 illusions that night. next time you will react different. that's a valuable lesson in this cold world, trust me

t. left by 95% of "friends" after graduation

[Anonymous No.13162966]

>>13162898
Its the worst feeling in the world
You should never associate with that group again, not for your own self respect, it would be embarrassing

[Anonymous No.13162999]

larp

if not you need to seriously reconsider who you think of as your "friends".

[Anonymous No.13163025]

They did you a favor, you could have hung out with them for years to come, not knowing how they really feel
go find people who appreciate you even if it is just one person

[Anonymous No.13163063]

>>13162949
The guy who introduced me to them moved away. I was still in their facebook group and I'd just go to bars and bowling and shit with them because I'd assume I was their friend. And it never an issue I thought they liked me. Felt like a normie finally. But apparently I was neither liked enough nor disliked enough for anyone to do anything about my presence until after one night of drinking I ask this one dude if he would like to get together and do a common interest we were talking about. Then he pauses and grimaces and lets out that line. It surprised me and it looked like everyone at first like "Oh shit he said it" but then as soon as they started making eye contact with each other it's like they formed a cruel beast that reveled in the opportunity to make someone suffer. Then when I was going away I heard them all start bursting out with laughter / excitement like . OOHHOHHOHOHOHOH FUCK HOLY SHIT. and that wigger dude was laughing and banging on the table like "OHOHOHOH YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO DO HIM LIKE THAT!!!! YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO DO HIM LIKE THAT HOLY FUCK. YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO DO HIM LIKE THAT".

>>13162999
I wish I was creative enough to larp

[Anonymous No.13163072]

>>13163063
normalfags aren't human

[Anonymous No.13163092]

>>13163063
Fuck, that’s shitty to hear anon. Screw these normal favs. I don’t understand why people are so needlessly cruel. They use the first occasion to gang up on you all vs one, what cowards.

[Anonymous No.13163095]

Don't hang out with those people anymore and don't go to strip clubs.

Also, work on your social skills because if a dozen people agree you're a tard and you think strippers actually like you, then my friend you have some issues.

[Anonymous No.13163098]

>>13162898
>tfw cut all my friends except 1 after highschool
>still barely talk to the 1 friend
>he may very well despise me at this point

I couldn't care less about their shit friendship at this point, I don't miss the hen pecking and other bullshit that came with being "friends" with them. I truly enjoy being alone, although from time to time I wouldn't mind having a roastie around. Both bang and degrade her verbally for the keks. You'll just have to move on and not worry about it.

Also even though it's an embarrassing moment, understand that every single human on this planet has moments of embarrassment that they desperately wish they could forget forever. It is what it is.

[Anonymous No.13163102]

>>13162898
> wah people don’t like me wah
Kys normalfag.

[Anonymous No.13163109]

>>13163063
They sound horrible. You’re better off not wasting any more time with them.

[Anonymous No.13163126]

>>13162898
How big was this group?

[Anonymous No.13163129]

>>13163063
fuck them man. I unironically know how you feel had the same thing happen to me in high school.

Zero friends. I don't know why since I was nice to everyone and wasn't ever mean. I wasn't a loser in the traditional sense either. Good at all sports, smart, fit decent looking etc.

Sometimes people are just nasty. Really fucking nasty. And after being in crypto i realise that this is how 95% of people are. Greedy. Nasty. And will do anything to "make fun" of someone else so as not to be the one being "made fun" of.

You do you though. Look at all the current billionaires and shit. Do these people look like they have a lot of friends? Do you think people like Genghis Khan and shit had a lot of friends? no they did not. They just focus on their passion. So do that. You will supersede all of them.

At least... that's how i cope anyway.

[Anonymous No.13163133]

>>13163102
Are you retarded? OP just got told by who he thought were his friends that he was to fuck off. Doesn’t get less autistic then this.

[Anonymous No.13163136]

>>13163098
>every single human on this planet has moments of embarrassment that they desperately wish they could forget forever
My friends were telling embarrassing stories and they asked me to tell one and I honestly couldn’t think of one. I felt bad because they told some really good ones and I had nothing. Hmm, does that count as my embarrassing story now?

[Anonymous No.13163174]

Lmao you dumb autist you should know your place in relation to normies.

[Anonymous No.13163181]

>>13163133
Wannabe/failed normalfags are even worse than regular normies

[Anonymous No.13163229]

think about what you bring to the table when interacting with people. Nobody gives a fuck about anyone, people care about how you make them feel when you're around them so, learn to be a good listener, ask open questions, everyone loves to talk about themselfs or learn to be funny and make people laugh

[Anonymous No.13163265]

>>13163063
>laughing and banging on the table like "OHOHOHOH YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO DO HIM LIKE THAT!!!! YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO DO HIM LIKE THAT HOLY FUCK. YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO DO HIM LIKE THAT".
Lmao

[Anonymous No.13163278]

>>13163126
6 including me were out that night but there's like 14 of them in the fb group. just deleted all social media.

>>13163129
Thanks man. We'll make it.

>>13163098
>>13163174
kek. I actually feel better now. Although in the moment I felt beyond JUST'd and humiliated. It's really not that big of a loss now that I think about it most of the time they were boring as fuck.

[Anonymous No.13163327]

>>13162898

what a fucking gaylord

sorry anon, you're better off, think about what really interests you and go make some new lifelong friends that way.

[Anonymous No.13163359]

>>13163229
I literally tried that shit like in Dale Carnegie's book ya smile and ask them questions. Eventually they turn it back on you and ask what you do and then you start trying to explain about crpto then literally sometimes they'd turn away from me mid-sentence then LOUDLY completely start saying something completely unrelated like "OH DUDE REMEMBER WHEN KYLE BROUGHT STACY OVER"

[Anonymous No.13163363]

>>13163278
You’ll bounce back anon. You mentioned one was a wigger, I’d consider them doing a favor for you at that point. Keep your head down and stay focused. Fuck the bullshit

[Anonymous No.13163369]

>>13163359
Btw this sounds like some high school situation. If you’re not in high school and these wiggers are actually “adults” then this should make your situation easier. Who tf acts like that, some fucking faggots, that’s who. Godspeed anon

[Anonymous No.13163378]

>>13163369
I'm 23 but they're like 19-21.

[Anonymous No.13163379]

Just fucking lmao if you don't prefer your own company

I can barely stand being around my 10/10 gf or my best friend

[Anonymous No.13163395]

One of my best friends had to live through the terrible experience to find his mom hanging in his garden

She had used a dog leash

Before the incident a group of friends were always hanging out at his, we were like 18-19. Afterwards, people abandoned him. One friend told me not to bring him to gatherings anymore because hes always pulling everyone down.

The lesson i learned is that MOST will abandon you if you stop supplying what they get out of you. Look for those that hang out with you even when youre dead broke and pissing yourself from your nightmares

[Anonymous No.13163408]

>>13163378
Take the situation as a wake-up call then. You are the company you keep. Fuck those dickheads. You’re at a prime age too, enjoy it.

[Anonymous No.13163423]

>>13163063
Thats what you get for hanging around with normalfags and wiggers

And strip clubs are degenerate, no wonder life deals you shitty cards

Start lifting weights, looksmaxing and removing bullshit from your life


Also blackpill time: if you haven't made good friends in your teens (ones you can trust with your life) you won't make them as an adult.

Adults already have thier own families/careers or other bullshit to worry about, as well as being moulded into the generic wagecuck

It's like missing out on teen love/relationship with a virgin... Inferior

[Anonymous No.13163430]

>>13163395

^good advice, most are shocked to find out who their real friends are

[Anonymous No.13163465]

>>13163423
Right there wasn't the right motivations there to hang out with them in the first place. It was to try to make up for missing both highschool and college "partying" experiences. It was mostly just smoking weed or those THC vape cartridges and drinking.

[Anonymous No.13163466]

>>13163359
You sound like a complete nerd trying to hang out with normies.

Why?

[Anonymous No.13163490]

>>13163466
Give him a break anon, still a young dude learning the ways

[Anonymous No.13163497]

>>13162898
>>Believe it for a split second until she realized I'm out of cash and goes to up to the next guy.
kek why did you go to a stripclub then

[Anonymous No.13163504]

>>13163109
This.

[Anonymous No.13163507]

>>13163497
Really don't know. Tried to up my dopamine.

[Anonymous No.13163720]

>>13162898
>>13163063
>>13163278
>>13163359
>>13163378
>>13163465
>>13163507

Goddamnit Sergey, can you please just start focusing on Chainlink again?

You've given the normie life a shot and it didn't work out, now please get back to the project, I've invested quite a bit and I'll be damned to have it overturned by you going through a fase of trying to mingle with the ambitionless crowd.

Also, start lifting fucking weights if you want to up your manly body juices.

Learn to love yourself, sculpt your physique and become a entity, a presence and a force. You have the ability to use your imagination and to use your mind to the extent where you can create your own reality, where in 5 years time when you are 28, you could be an absolute God. And here yourl are refusing to put this into fruition.. This puts you in a situation where you may as well be a pig or a bug.

You can have more then you have, because you can become more then you are, fucking grind for it.

Seriously Sergey.

https://youtu.be/fN0He8BejQo

[Anonymous No.13163893]

>>13162935
based

[Anonymous No.13164027]

>Business & Finance
how the fuck am i the first to post this

[Anonymous No.13164073]

If you are an autist you really should know power dynamics

you first mistake was to join a group you didn't form
your second mistake was joining something instead of letting people become closer to you
if they don't come to you, you don't come to them, simple as that

however, they at least were sincere to you, imagine forming your life around people like that without understanding this and then later down after some years they backstab you with something more important than just shit talking

[Anonymous No.13164096]

>>13163063
How old are the people in that group? Because you've made them sound like a bunch of teenagers.

[Anonymous No.13164147]

http://classics.mit.edu/Aristotle/nicomachaen.8.viii.html
Godspeed OP

[Anonymous No.13164211]

>>13164027
There's nothing else going on here anyway.

[Anonymous No.13164216]

>>13164027
do you even crab market?

[Anonymous No.13164272]

>>13163095
/thread

[Anonymous No.13164296]

I used to struggle with trying to make friends until I was about 24 then I realized I fucking hate normie fucks. So now I live like a hermit and have never been happier.

[Anonymous No.13164329]

>>13162898
Doppel kek mate

Those guys sound like fucks Anon

Why would YOU want to be friends with them anyway

[Anonymous No.13164356]

Having friends is extremely overrated. Unless those that you work and make money with.
Working on your social skills is good tho, reading books helps with that.
Getting out alone to pick up girls is the best feeling ever, much better than hanging out with "friends".

[Anonymous No.13164479]

>>13163063
This is pretty harsh. Did you do anything like admitting to being an incel, supporting Trump, Alex Jones or did you try to tell them about the Holohoax? Speaking about those kind of subjects will signal to the normies that they can be mean to you.

Did you have anything in common with them? Any reason why they might hate you?

It's also possible this guy was a sociopath and hated you for basically no reason, the rest just submitted.

[Anonymous No.13164482]

Holy fuck, this is suicide fuel

[Anonymous No.13164810]

>>13164027
This is much better than the other shit going on ATM on this board. Plus dude needs some frens.

[Anonymous No.13165001]

>>13164810
Based. Gotta learn to help each other. If you post with anger or hate you just a brokeboi, get your money up and watch your mentality change. And anon fuck em fake as friends, make your money start a business and make them your employees. Sad to tell you but money is the only thing that matters in this life. Get it up and make it happen. Roasties will come after and you can shit on the normies

[Anonymous No.13165199]

>>13164096
A lot of people that are in their early 20's switch on and off between acting like teenagers and adults in my experience. There's some roasties in the group too but only 1 of them was with the group from last night. She of course took the cue from everyone else after the look around session and started agreeing with them and laughing along but also doing a virtual signalling thing. She said "omg That's so meeeaaaan.... that's mean... but yeah but that's kinda true but yeah that's meeaaaan! HAHAHAHA Oh my gooood". These quotes make them sound like dumb teenagers as I write them out but that's how they talk verbatim in those loud group settings especially with alcohol. It's like they got a spike of adrenaline from the situation and just went in on it. Guarantee if I confronted her 1 on 1 about it she would act like she wasn't joining in on the laughter and saying she agreed.

[Anonymous No.13165385]

>>13163063
Normalfags are great, aren't they? You learned your lesson, stay the fuck away

[Anonymous No.13165456]

>>13163095
Most solid advice of the thread so far. Everyone fucks their own life up to some degree and it's important to know when to self-improve.
Also anon's blackpill about friends in adulthood is correct.

[Anonymous No.13165521]

>>13165456

Sounds to me like the problem lay with them -- i.e. they are complete and utter normalfags, and normalfags are, as we know, bad people.

OP, at least you've learned the hard way. It will mean you're less likely to believe you can "fit in" with the herd. Disillusionment is an important step. I never did understand how people could stand socializing in groups. There's always one or two people at the periphery who implicitly serve as buttmonkeys, and if you're not a norman, it's definitely going to be you. People only seem to become human one-on-one, maybe in a group of three. Anything more than that becomes a retard struggle-session. On the plus side a group environment can reveal true colours, and most of them are shit brown.

[Anonymous No.13165579]

>>13163063

Their souls are rotten anon. You did the right thing by leaving.

[Anonymous No.13165754]

>>13164216
clever

[Anonymous No.13165769]

>>13162898
Strip clubs are awful man, stay away from them. Even hookers are a step up but not by much.

[Anonymous No.13165781]

>>13164479
And what was that mutual interest you were on about?

[Anonymous No.13165844]

>>13165781
Ya whatever that activity was go do it more often and make friends there. Its hard to make adult friends tho. Make a family instead.

[Anonymous No.13165846]

>>>/r9k/

[Anonymous No.13165988]

>>13165199
Typical Stacy. It’s more the product of having a weak will than being mean spirited. People gravitate toward the strongest person in the room, and if that person is awful, the group will exhibit the same tendency. Poor stacy’s weak little mind just wanted to fit in. Well I guess just make sure that you treat people with dignity and don’t let yourself succumb to the same disgusting group think as these people, huh?

[Anonymous No.13166284]

>>13162898
Nothing personal man, eventually you realize all of life is transactional. Friends are only your friends because of what you can do for them or if you make them feel good, and woman only have sex as a bargaining tool. That's why bums don't get laid, either you can offer your genetics (Chad's), or you can offer stability (betas who get laid). People are only really interested in themselves.

[Anonymous No.13166295]

>>13166284
Especually your family.

[Anonymous No.13167033]

>>13163423
>Also blackpill time: if you haven't made good friends in your teens (ones you can trust with your life) you won't make them as an adult.
unironically this but after college.
source: guy i met my sophomore year college has been a better friend than people i grew up with.
he'd take a bullet for me man. can't find friends like that easy. a good person who values you is truly priceless.
tell your friends you love them :)

[Anonymous No.13167090]

>>13162898
How old are you? You can always make a new circle of friends once you get to college / new job / move out of town

[Anonymous No.13167200]

>>13162898
Cut contact and move on. Next time, try to find a non-shit tier group of "friends" and have some fucking self-respect.

[Anonymous No.13167280]

>>13164479
>This is pretty harsh. Did you do anything like admitting to being an incel, supporting Trump, Alex Jones or did you try to tell them about the Holohoax? Speaking about those kind of subjects will signal to the normies that they can be mean to you.
No I stayed fairly neutral about those kind of things. This guy with long hair once said "Dude, this dude in my college class said in front of everyone he LIKED trump.. he was like this weird ass conservative dude who used to be in the military" that was the whole story.


>>13165781
It was videography and making autistic beats in fl.

Honestly the issue is my default personality has always been described as "monotone" and people would say things like "it's the quiet ones you have to watch out for. This guy kind of reminds me of me:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GsbIdSGwoEs

I tried filming myself seeing if I could give off different vibes and I'm kind of good at impressions but in a social situation I tense up and anything I try doing becomes really cringy.

[Anonymous No.13167295]

>>13162898
>>got told "yeah honestly, anon, you're one of those people that I only hang out with because you come attached with the friend group"
wonder what how you were acting to cause this

[Anonymous No.13167310]

>>13163465
>trying to be friends with human garbage

idk op what you expect

[Anonymous No.13167341]

>>13162898
>ran away with tears in my eyes
faggot

[Anonymous No.13167373]

>>13162898

28 years old here, and I'll be honest the only person I hang out with regularly is my girlfriend that I've shared an apartment with for 2 years and dated for 3.

All friend groups throughout the years melt away and the only non-GF interaction I tend to have is the social circle she maintains on my behalf and my work colleagues.

Get a GF, she will manage that shit for you and tell you straight if you are being taken advantage of.

>implying females aren't useful at keeping you straight

[Anonymous No.13167507]

>>13167280
Lol you'll be alright man
These people let you know they're not good humans without you needing them in a serious situation
I've had people I thought I could trust screw me over bad, especially you mentioned weed and wiggers they would frame you and collude the second one of them got into any trouble

They're fags and trust me you're much better off without them, you saved yourself bullshit in the future

[Anonymous No.13167677]

>>13167373
bro that was me until i went on her facebook and found out she was trying to fuck her old (female) roomate (who was butt ugly???)
still, just saying, that is objectively bad practice to keep your girlfriend as your only friend. you need a support network.
if you lose your girlfriend you will end up like me, and that is not so great right now.
>25 years old, it was a 4-year relationship we lived together for 3 years. yes, it can happen to you.
don't be a fucking retard and place all your eggs in one basket.

[Anonymous No.13167842]

Sounds like you hang around a bunch of low IQ normies. Why? and why do you care what they think? Just move on.These people are just sheep, there's 0 critical thinking involved in their thought processes. they just like to play follow the leader. go find something you are passionate about and make friends doing that. And be glad you aren't a sheep like them.

[Anonymous No.13167856]

also i'd recommend hitting the weights, it builds confidence and makes it easier to manipulate low IQ normies

[Anonymous No.13167952]

>>13167373
Except that women literally have a waterfall between their legs if they see you performing well in your group of friends, leading other people or especially if you have female friends who maybe even flirt with you.
And as the other anon said, if you lose her you have to start from zero again. Women can change their mind about what they consider okay or boring pretty fast.

[Anonymous No.13168074]

>>13167677
>implying lesbian sex is cheating

[Anonymous No.13168245]

>>13167856
I've been lifting for years and it really doesn't.

[Anonymous No.13168250]

>>13162898
Sorry to hear that but you're far from alone in having friends that you can only hang out with in a group.
I mostly just spend my time on games now.

[Anonymous No.13168254]

>>13167373
>dude, just a get a GF with no friends

Fuck off you NPC.

[Anonymous No.13168262]

>>13163063
cut 'em off for good, I've happy as fuck after distancing myself from people like that. I've got like 2 real friends now total and the amount of bullshit that was removed is fucking great. Granted I could be happy as a hermit so I dunno

[Anonymous No.13168416]

>>13162898
You sound like a complete idiot. He gave you an honest black pill that you have no friends instead of letting you continue your blue pilled delusion that you actually had them. What the fuck did you want to happen instead? Lose years of your life wondering why you never get any calls or invites from them? Lose years expecting them to introduce you to women which they never will?

[Anonymous No.13168425]

>>13168245
you're probably just low IQ, sorry mate

[Anonymous No.13168531]

>>13162898
Normalfags are animals, Anon. I've hung around with enough of them to develop an informed opinion on them.

They adhere to a strict herd mentality, limit themselves to clichéd entertainment, focus on fulfilling only their most basic of needs i.e. food, sex, shelter, social approval, and live day to day, without a single care for the future.

You can try to tame them and become the alpha of the group, but you would more than likely only be butting heads with the existing alpha and not make much progress, and it will only be a race to the bottom on who can be the most normalfag. You're better off spending your time elsewhere.

[Anonymous No.13168540]

>>13165199
I had plenty of experiences like this during high school and just after.
These people are going nowhere fast, anon. Better off without them. You could focus your efforts on trying to beat them at their own game, but honestly it's not that satisfying. You'll just realize how fucking dumb they really are.

[Anonymous No.13168551]

Anybody else /BPD/ here?
>Feel best when you're alone
>Can only hang out with friends for 1-2 hours max before you want to go back into isolation
>Like when people say nice things about you, but don't want to spend time with them
>Constant cycle of getting bored with reality, isolating yourself, getting bored with isolation, re-entering reality ad infinitum

[Anonymous No.13168574]

>>13162898
Well anon, if it makes you feel any better, most relationships are memes mate, it's common to only have 1 really close friend or none, this is the standard

[Anonymous No.13168603]

>>13168425
>muscle mass has anything to do with IQ
You're a special kind of stupid aren't you?

[Anonymous No.13168621]

>>13167373
What a beta cuck. GF's advice should be heard but you shouldn't need her to be socially competent.

[Anonymous No.13168640]

>>13168603
Not what he said

[Anonymous No.13168651]

>>13168603
>doesn't understand you can't manipulate low IQ normies if you yourself are low IQ
keep proving my point you fucking idiot