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[Anonymous No.13733927]

I had to move back in with my parents because my dad had a surgery and my mom is an underweight diabetic so they need help.

They are both clearly mentally ill and fight about everything. Right now they're fighting about my birthday (which is in 15 minutes).

How do I continue studying and working towards a new career while living in what amounts to a free range insane asylum, frens?

[Anonymous No.13733958]

You're lucky. My parents made me leave home at 16 years old after a fall out and I was on my own

[Anonymous No.13733962]

Today's my un birthday too!

[Anonymous No.13733969]

Awww, love you bro. Wish you the best. Go to the library to study or go to a coworking place. If you are in nyc there will be one you can pay for with crypto.

[Anonymous No.13733984]

Sorry to hear that my bromium. Have a funny picture, happy birthday

[Anonymous No.13734034]

>>13733958
Honestly I feel that living with my parents for as long as I have has been a significant catalyst for why I'm an emotionally stunted, sexually impotent lunatic myself. I'm not saying I envy you necessarily because such a life would be quite difficult and even dangerous, but perhaps your own circumstances have if nothing else infused in you a stronger constitution and worldly character, whereas everything I say and do is likely a subconscious defense mechanism crafted over a lifetime of tense domestic diplomacy

[Anonymous No.13734054]

>>13733927
Read about it. There will be books on this topic: how to effectively care for the mentally ill. How to nurse sick people and how to manage expectations, "the power of a positive no"
As Donald Trump says: know what you're doing first. Learn everything you can about what you're doing. Read the most relevant books, talk to all the experts you can (in the time available). Plan how many hours per week you will spend on mental-ward nursing. Plan for leisure time, and social time, and learning time 10 hour per week at least!
I am serious when it comes to education, and using your brain.

[Anonymous No.13734102]

>>13734034
If you don't pay rent you're set for life. Try to find excuses to be out in the street as long as you possibly can to avoid dealing with your parents.

[Anonymous No.13734113]

>>13733927
How do their fights go

[Anonymous No.13734132]

If they continue to argue like that despite your efforts, just leave them on their own and stop giving a fuck.
Several years ago I used to live with my mom and dad for a year when they were getting divorced and it is still the worst period I had to go through in my life. Mental-tier arguments every day, loud as fuck.
At this point, if I would have to live with them arguing like that now, I would literally just beat the shit out of my dad at the first sign of an argument and would tell them that if I ever see them doing this again, I am beating them both to shit and leaving. It seems harsh but when they get screaming and physically argumentative, they have pretty much gone ape mode and any attempts at reasoning and rationally talking to them are out the window- they will only respond to actual physical body impulses
Them literally arguing over your birthday when you are here on 4chan not giving a fuck is a classic sign of predenting to care but not really.
If they cannot have enough affection towards you and enough reason in them to stop the arguing, you have no reason to act rational either.
>>13734054
What is this politican slogan blurb, you gave no fucking advice whatsoever

[Anonymous No.13734163]

>>13734034
this is loser cope. I have had the best time staying at my parents place. can take home girls and have done so and had sex, gfs, I have lots of money and free time.

paying rent is for losers

[Anonymous No.13734171]

>>13734163
Fuck off m8, you have different parents. My mother once interrogated me about an earring she found in her bathroom that turned out to be hers, when I was 19 years old.

[Anonymous No.13734225]

>>13734132
>What is this politican slogan blurb, you gave no fucking advice whatsoever
??I gave the best advice in the thread, copy and pasted from the most successful man in the world. If you can't see it because it came from President Trump, you might be mental yourself. Or at least delusional.
Do you need to be spoon-fed?
Here is a book:
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9802109-a-bittersweet-season
Learn from the world's best how to care for your parents.
Bit don't stop there. Know everything you can about what your doing. Seek out a mentor! Send an email right now.
Read a ton of other books that are relevant to your situation.
The other major is to Plan your calendar. Google Calendar, right now. Start blocking out time for when you will care for parents, and when you will work on your own social life, your own study. As I said, if you would bother to read.
https://youtu.be/fbAYK4KQrso

[Anonymous No.13734253]

>>13734171
Should have smacked that bitch dumbass. You should assert your dominance, show them who's the top walrus of the house.

[Anonymous No.13734259]

>>13734225
>the most successful man in the world
ahahaha i should have known you were just a god-tier larp

op is asking what he is supposed to do when his mental parents are arguing and your best response is "m-muh read this book" and some autistic motivation speech.
this is not 1995, people dont read a book about every single problem they have anymore you fucking boomer.

[Anonymous No.13734267]

>>13734054
I don't think I need to read a book pn ot, my parents and everyone else around me seems to confide in me when they can't handle their emotions. I'm not complaining but I figured I'd vent for once

>>13734102
Yeah I'm trying to look on the bright side. I can stay in my workplace as late as I want so I might start hanging out there a little more

>>13734113
Just general screaming at each other, calling each other names and shit. It's pretty sad, pathetic and childish honestly and I always have to drop whatever I'm doing and break it up or drop whatever I'm doing and cease pretending I can concentrate on it anymore.

>>13734132
All else considered I'm not going to beat my 56 year old post spinal stenosis surgery dad up even if he is being a jackass and drinking too much lol, I love my parents but I'll never get out of my own rut living like this either. I'm too mentally fragile to make it one way or another and my brief stint of independence reminded me that this absurdity was awaiting my return

[Anonymous No.13734321]

>>13734259
Oh right, I thought you were OP, but you are also giving advice. That's good.
I can admit when I am wrong , the proof is, as they say, in the pudding.
Just like Trump winning the most powerful office in the world proved something about his big brain, a fact which you seem butt-frustrated about.

[Anonymous No.13734325]

>>13734267
>I'm not going to beat my 56 year old post spinal stenosis surgery dad up even if he is being a jackass and drinking too much lol
then they will have no reason to stop it and I guarantee that things will only get worse and worse.
other case scenario, just leave them on their own, they are clearly not appreciating your input enough. it is not worth the mental damage and trauma that it might cause to you and you are not going to really help them when they act like that, they will not stop doing it.

[Anonymous No.13734357]

>>13734321
More like proved something about the small brains of mutt plebes lmao
> mexicuns finna steal muh low skilled johb!

[Anonymous No.13734393]

>>13733927
pull a terry

[Anonymous No.13734476]

>>13734321
Based and redpilled

>>13734259
What are you like 5 years old? Very cringe and low iq pilled

[Anonymous No.13734508]

>>13734325
This guy doesnt know what he's talking about, and has no idea about operant conditioning for animal training, homosapien of otherwise. It would be a bad idea to follow his advice.
Instead, read the best books from the worlds top experts if you want to go this path.
I am an amateur dog trainer, but even I know that you don't need much negative reinforcement to have a profound effect. A sour look or a grunt is often more than enough. But the best dog trainers don't use negative reinforcement at all, because it has unintended effects, biggest of which is damaging the relationship between trainer and animal. You can train any behavior, even 'dont bark at the door opening' with positive reinforcement clicker training if you are only smart enough to devise the method.

[Anonymous No.13734536]

>>13733927
Don't get involved, I am also living with my folks who are constantly in great tension and my dad also fucks whores or other women on a regular basis (He uses huge amounts of viagra, I've seen his pills despite him having extreme high blood pressure and there is no intimacy between him and my mother)

It's not like I would tell my mother though, my father has fucked all sorts of different women since I was a little kid so I just kinda got used to it.

Only few more months and I finally know do I get in for a school I applied for, then I can move away

[Anonymous No.13734556]

>>13734321
>Just like Trump winning the most powerful office in the world proved something about his big brain
Trump is their (((puppet))) you retarded fucking boomer

[Anonymous No.13734586]

>>13734536
>and my dad also fucks whores or other women on a regular basis
based

[Anonymous No.13734617]

>>13734586
I don't judge him or anything, but it is clear the has some sort of sex addiction. He is also in his 60s, has multiple health problems

I am just worried he will probably die considering he is extremely unhealthy, obese man

[Anonymous No.13734649]

>>13734617
>he will probably die
aren't we all? 60 is quite an age already. do we really all need to get to 70, 80 years old, even more? Especially if health is an issue.

[Anonymous No.13734690]

>>13734649
Speaking strictly from a family perspective, I don't think leaving this world behind while fucking some hooker on viagra is the most honorable way to die.

Individually I do understand that this might be the best case for some "dying on your boots on", but I personally would feel fucking embarrassed if I get a call we found your father on some motel room dead body with priapism and you should thank some fucking hooker who tried to save his life before calling ambulance

[Anonymous No.13734875]

>>13734690
it's gonna be alright

[Anonymous No.13735185]

happy birthday bud

[Anonymous No.13735210]

>>13734253
this basically.

I'm the top walrus at my place and my dad likes it that way ( mum left ) we both live in a huge house, I can bring home girls, I can sex whenever I want. I don't need to work bc he saw how I bought a super fat BMW after the 2017 crypto moon. He is happy whatever I do.

I can smoke weed around the house, I can grow shrooms, some weed if I want. I do whatever I like here. its great if you have a nice parent.


im not moving out until I can pay off a house on my own ( which will be next top of bullrun )

[Anonymous No.13735219]

>>13733927
Remainder that op is basically a copy of his parents fishing for pity attention