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>Female coworker humiliated me
Should I quit my job? I don't want to go to work anymore

>> No.15482442

>>15482433
Just laugh at her for choosing to be a future cat lady without a family.

>> No.15482446

>>15482433
>he doesn't kill the people that humiliate him
kek stay poor forever

>> No.15482479

Say you're going to grab a coffee and ask if anyone would you to pick one up for them. If she says yes, cum in her coffee in secret, when you hand it to her say, "You asked for extra cream right?"

>> No.15482494

>>15482433
shit in her handbag

>> No.15482551

Fuck her. Seriously, stick out and I guaruntee you you'll end up fucking her or you will become so immune by her pathetic attempts to fuck with you it will be humourous. Either way your fucking her.

>> No.15482576

>>15482551
You're* (for the lone autist that hangs around here just to point out those errors)

>> No.15482597

>>15482433
what did that dumb meanie say/do?
>>15482576
seething abated, thank you

>> No.15482598

>>15482576
>i-i-i-i don't care about what people think
>i-i-i-i'm correcting myself because i want to, not because of social pressure
You worthless cattle.

>> No.15482624

What is your industry, anon? If you are in healthcare in the US, you have a good shot. Just remember that if you make a claim, you will have a black mark on your record forever.

>> No.15482635

>>15482433
Get more attractive than her and then laugh at her for thinking she could be with a chad like yourself

>> No.15482647

Had a slim female coworker that would visit me at my cubicle. She'd visit others too but she'd always leave mine quickly. However something was off about her even though she was a massive roastie/slut. Complimenting my dress shirt or asking where I was going to lunch (to my car) or when I was holding a banana and she says "that's a nice banana you got there" granted she was hungry. She had like 4 or 5 kids probably by different men, pet bull dogs, and a few tats. She quit and I never got her number even though we got along well enough to be friends (would not date).

>> No.15482662

>>15482433
How did she humiliate you OP?

>> No.15482672

Try to fart loud enough she can hear any time you're in close proximity to her. Just her tho. And then start a rumor about how she always smells like farts.

>> No.15482692
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>>15482597
She asked me if I wanted to go out with her on Saturday. I was pretty surprised since I don't flirt with anyone at work because I don't want to get accused of sexual harassment and we at most only exchange pleasantries. Nevertheless, I was a little excited since I'm a khv loser without any friends. I wasn't expecting much since I know how women are. On Saturday I showed up at the restaurant we were supposed to meet up at. I waited for 30 minutes. She didn't show up so I called her. She said apologized for ruining late but assured me that she'll be there. I waited for an hour and she never showed. I then ordered some food and went home. I messaged her telling her that I left the restaurant. She apologized and said that something came up. I told her that she shouldn't have wasted my time. She then message me angrily and called me an ugly piece of shit that nobody at work likes. Today at work I saw her laughing with her friends. I just wanted to be left alone desu.

>> No.15482720

>>15482692
if HR wasn't a honeypot, I'd say you should go to HR. But yeah, look for a new job. you're not gonna win any sort of dispute against a woman. just invest in some crypto and tag her social media with this story when you've made it.

>> No.15482735

>>15482692
Anon, don't delete those texts. You could have something here. She approached you, and ditched you. Now you are uncomfortable at work. Get a lawyer. A successful one. Turn this shit on it's ear. Be the hero we don't deserve.

>> No.15482741

>>15482692
Report her for harassment and try to get her ass fired. Not even joking. Start the first complaint by showing that text to HR. If you don't get her fired she'll at the very least have to stay far away from you. Do not let some cunt win anon.

>> No.15482743

>>15482720
Oh please.
OP, you definitely should go to HR and bring it up. Especially if you have a lot of the proof in texts/etc, thats unacceptable

>> No.15482764

>>15482720
>>15482735
>>15482741
>>15482743
You faggots want him to cry to HR about something that happened outside of work?

>> No.15482780

Show HR the texts and get her fired for harassment.

>> No.15482788

>>15482692
If you also get an aspergers or autism diagnostic you are sure to win, since she preyed on your inability to pick up on social cues.

>> No.15482800

>>15482735
>>15482741
>>15482743
>>15482780
Is this actually possible? I always assumed and still assume that HR always takes the woman's side.

>> No.15482814

>>15482800
They take the side of whoever makes them lose less money. If OP works at a medium/big company and gets a very jewish lawyer he can get maybe 10k or 20k, and the roastie fired.

>> No.15482826

>>15482788
What social cues was I supposed to pick up? I never once hinted that I wanted to go on a date with her. I hardly ever interact with her.

>> No.15483128

>>15482433
rape her

>> No.15483228

I agree with the other anons. Get a good lawyer, get HR on this, and show proof. Sue her. If she doesn't get fired, she will definitely think twice about picking on a guy.

>> No.15483285

99.9 percent of women are evil. Too bad you cant beat them up in public.

>> No.15483337

>>15482800
This is why you never date co-workers anon, you weren't in the wrong but now you know. At least if it was a roastie literally anywhere else you could just ghost them.

Speaking of which, I personally just have a subconscious filter where if there's anyone I don't like I simply erase them from my mind. It isn't flat out ignoring them anything they say I no longer remember, and they simply don't exist to me. Women live for attention, if you at least pretend not to be bothered by it even the women that are laughing with her over time won't want to be around her because they know her true nature. These things always settle themselves in time, just keep improving yourself and reject her advances in the future. The other mistake was probably telling her she was wasting your time. Obviously she was and never intended to show up, making a joke with her friends but you acting bothered by it is probably what got them giggling.

>> No.15483349

1. keep the texts in case she starts something
2. discuss what happened briefly with your manager in private (not HR) so they hear your side of the story

then if she starts something, you've already had the chance to give your manager the truth about what happened
if you go to HR, you don't know those people, it could get twisted. things could get out of hand, the girl could get defensive and nasty with you. keep it straightforward and simple.
don't ask your manager to take any action, just give your manager the information that something between you two happened outside of work but it's over.

>> No.15483420

>>15482433
Humiliate her by raping her while videotaping the act. Send it to her loved ones and coworkers.

>> No.15483427

>>15482433
a female co-worker cut in front of me at the hot dog line during bbq day should I an hero guys?

>> No.15483441

>>15482720
>>15482735
>>15482741
>tell on her because she was mean to me
weak

>> No.15483486

this hit too close to home, some girl at my college asked me on a night out, forced herself on me whilst she was sober, made me get drunk by buying me drinks then the next day said i assaulted her and blocked me on social media.

I seriously hate women and i hope we find alternative methods of reproduction soon so they become obsolete

>> No.15483505

>>15482764
Domt be retarded. This is the world we live in. I tried it my way for too long and soon learned whoever snitches first wins. Because framing, perspective etc. Fuck this bitch. Stood him up, rude. And then standoffish at work.

He should be more alpha and stop the texting and just eat and leave. Crying where are you is adult, but weak. You were going there to eat that night and if she wants to join so be it

>> No.15483538

>>15482826
The lack of social interaction is the cue here.

>> No.15483620

>>15483420
this

>> No.15483686

>>15482551
You're*>>15482576

>> No.15483718

>>15482692
is this a larp? if not you and that girl are both faggots and should kys

>> No.15483837

>>15483337
>Speaking of which, I personally just have a subconscious filter where if there's anyone I don't like I simply erase them from my mind.

I visualize dropping them down a well...
bye bye...bye bye...bye bye...not a chinaman's chance! and wide-eyed gweilo woud laugh...
https://youtu.be/xRfcYg5ug0o?t=775

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15483886

>>15482433
Kick her in the puss

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>>15482692

holy shit

>> No.15483908

>>15482598
Go outside

>> No.15484010

>>15483337
Shit if i could filter out people that piss me off, there would be constant silence

>>15482433
complete cunts like that usually fuck themselves over eventually. Just work on yourself and laugh when you see her in a ditch calling for her cats. All the best anon.

>> No.15484043

>>15482692
/unbothered/ here for the last 2.5 years, I used to feel like you. Then I lifted tons of weights and got confident and now I literally don't care about any social faux pas. This is such a minor incident. The solution is simple: just don't care. In the future, if something like this happens, politely text them and wait a few minutes, then if they dont show up just dont talk to them anymore. No need in arguing or "getting back at them." Truly /unbothered/ people are too focused on their own journey to care about social drama.

Someone's gonna trash this post but I'm genuinely trying to help OP.

>> No.15484048

>>15484043
Also, dont get a new job because a WOMAN made you look slightly silly for a day or two. Get your fucking paper. Pursue the option that is pragmatically best for YOU without any regard for others' silly games.

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15484375

>>15482692

Dude if i was you oh boy boy.
I woulda print out my net worth with all them portfolios 200k$ and would do this:
"TELL ME WHAT THIS IS?!

SHE:"i dont know??"

"YEA THATS RIGHT DUMBASS 200k$ ON BANK OF AMERICA PREMIUM EXTRA ACCOUNT WITH 15k$ DOLLAR OF DIVIDENDS PER YEAR AND PROBABLY MORE THAN YOUR ASS EARNS AROUND THIS CABIN HERE"

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>>15482692

Seriously that really sounds depressing af.
Never ever start something or do something with coworkers m8.
Feel you.

>> No.15484424

>>15484375
Yeah, that would have shown her who's the boss

>> No.15484526

Why you guys spend so much cash on girls. Just go walk.

>> No.15484566

>>15483441
shut up roastie, its not about being nice or mean, its about revenge

OP AVENGE YOURSELF

sue the company

>> No.15484572

>>15482433
Start snorting huge lines of coke before work and use your new-found wit to humiliate her.

>> No.15484644

>>15482692
>that nobody at work likes
This is proof of workplace harassment. Unironically lawyer up. She won't pay (except with her job perhaps), but the company will probably settle. You might not see a massive settlement, but a quick $10k lump sum is nothing to sneeze at.

>> No.15484686

>>15482692
LARP.

>> No.15484798

>>15482442
She is going to receive infinite amounts of love and affection in her life from hundreds of very attractive men and you know it

>> No.15485799

>>15484043
What you said is ok, but he’s not there and is bothered and should go to HR.

>>15482692
Ignore people saying you can sue the company for this. What two private employees do in their free time is not their legal, financial obligation. But, do go to HR. At the very least, it will make everyone hate her and think she’s a petty cunt.

Other than that act normal and don’t dwell on it. Move on but yeah make sure you let a few people know what a child she is but kind of laugh it off, I mean don’t act too wounded around the water cooler

>> No.15486270

>>15482692
This situation can be easily resolved with a glock.

>> No.15486275

>>15483718

>> No.15486299

>>15482433
doxx her

>> No.15486300

>>15482692
>I told her that she shouldn't have wasted my time.
Petty . Should have just shrugged it off and move on. Your fault OP.

>> No.15486308

>>15484043
You've inspired me to work out

>> No.15486327

>>15482692
depending on the contents of the texts; publish them in the workplace?
or go to HR and complain about sexual harassment...
also "something came up" means "chad managed to get hard despite his 'roid overdose"

>> No.15486387

>>15482735
>get a lawyer
holy shit biz, some of you guys are worse than the roasties you hate. grow some fucking balls

>> No.15486446

>>15482826
Bingo, if it’s too good to be true then it likely is, clearly this was obvious

>> No.15486464

>>15482692

Legit just avoid women at work. Office culture is dying anyways.
If you're doing it right you're working from home as much as you can anyways. You can't get #metoo'd if you're in the comfort and safety of your own home.

Get your own sloots from tinder.

>> No.15486542

>>15483337
You can't filter people out in your mind that easily,
You need to find a resolution or a new environment to distract your mind.

>> No.15486569

>>15486542
Remote. Working.

If you manage to get into any "close encounters" with female coworkers in a virtual environment then you deserve to be hanged for your retardation.

>> No.15486581

>>15486464
>You can't get #metoo'd if you're in the comfort and safety of your own home.
Most "metoo" accusations come from people who tried to hook up or start a relationship with people from work. It's the #1 reason not to do it today, apart of course that you're risking your main source of income.

>> No.15486672

OP if she actually called you a loser and you've never even hung out. I would definitely contact HR for lulz

I can't relate because I was friends with roasties and we'd go out and have beers and not have issues

i work in san francisco at a startup so there's literally no work life balance

>> No.15486688

>>15486569
Remote working + project management software + no meetings
Best possible work situation.

>> No.15486690

>>15486464
> getting sloots from tinder
enjoy being jewed over nothing...

>> No.15486700

>>15486690
Enjoy having a dry dick you nerd

>> No.15486731

>>15486700
I've tried tinder and other apps made by Match Group. all dead ends. Enjoy throwing money at jews to chat with fake women.

>> No.15486741

>>15484798
i can picture your fat babyface—your balding scap, and unkempt facial hair
your sagging eyes and open mouth—the reflection of your computer screen in your glasses as you scroll through threads, looking for opportunities to project onto others the humiliation you've experienced as a result of taking no care of yourself and not investing yourself in any productive hobbies
you reek of the stagnant air of your dark rental unit—a scent of stale piss, mold, and human filth
bedsheets unchanged for years on end

i want to beat the degenerate, dead-end loser attributes out of you, and everyone like you
you could easily change, and turn into just an ordinary guy—but you're addicted to the dopamine hit you get from your subservience to the imaginary "cruel woman" effigy that you, and every other pathetic cuck has imagined is real

take naltrexone
lose your addiction

>> No.15486790

>>15486741
> not knowing how naltrexone works in 2019
imagine being this fag!

>> No.15486921

>>15486790
https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/the-truisms-wellness/201509/anti-drinking-drug-may-hold-the-cure-sex-addiction
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1111/ajad.12501
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18241634

get a skill
become attractive
have sex

incels who are only incels because they make no effort to get themselves out of their cycle of patheticism have none of my sympathy

>> No.15487111

>>15486921
ahahahaha
YOU are lecturing ME on how an opiate antagonist works? and how it DOESN'T WORK in the use-cases you provided?

how little you know...

>> No.15487187

>>15482692

WHIP THAT BITCH'S ASS. Wreck her somehow. Shes clearly a total Slumdog bitch. Report and wreck

>> No.15487230

>>15482433
the same shit has happened to me before.
just start looking for a new job if u cant get her fired, etc.

>> No.15487253

>>15487111
what the fuck kind of weak distortionist shill shit are you dishing out? are you retarded? did you even read the summary of the articles?
if you really don't know how to read full articles, i should have explained—you can use sci-hub.tw to view full scientific publications
the article that examines the older guy and observes his cigarette usage in addition to his pornography consumption is unviewable in sci-hub—but here's the exact same article on pubmed, which is viewable on sci-hub:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/28106937

>> No.15487289

>>15487253
Imagine I don't work for elsevier for a second...

>> No.15487340

>>15486741
holy shit that's exactly me!

>> No.15487348

Show her your dick to establish dominance.

>> No.15487514

>>15487289
so, first of all, i would have no reason to believe that you work at, or for elsevier prior to you saying that. as it stands, the only reason such a notion would so much as cross my mind is your unsubstantiated implication that you do—meanwhile, EVERYTHING ELSE suggests that at the very least you only have no association with elsevier, and at worst you're a sociopath or some shill who doesn't want men who feel hopeless in life to ever recover from the depths of their downward spiral. if you WERE employed at elsevier and a competent researcher to boot, you probably wouldn't have made mention of your credentials and would have just posted an article that documents naltrexone's lack of efficacy at treating pornography addiction, in response to my post containing two published experiments that, at the least, suggest efficacy—much more so that no intervention at all.
so, like—do you have any articles? have you encountered any published experiments in which naltrexone's lack of efficacy to partially or fully nullify the dopamine hit experienced upon porn viewing and masturbation was documented? i really don't even care if you're really an employed researcher or not—if you have this information, put it up.

>> No.15487582

>>15487514
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/461486
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22183092
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF01542974

>> No.15488282 [DELETED] 

>>15487582
1/2
so, these are all animal experiments. fair enough—but they're not human experiments, and the difference between sex in rats vs. in humans with relation to what's going on in the brains of each creature could be enormous, so right off the bat, these experiments could be irrelevant to the question of whether or not naltrexone can help a human overcome porn addiction.
regardless, you look into it, and you see that the third study—the one with monkeys—concludes that the animals were deterred from sexual activity by taking naltrexone at a dose of 1mg per kg body weight—which isn't too far off from the 50mg dose that the average person in the ~150lbs range with an alcohol addiction would use.
now, the first and second studies were conducted with rats. in the first one, the rats received doses substantially larger than what the monkeys received—5mg, and 20mg per kg of body weight. if this is a necessary adjustment to make to test for the same effect because of the nature of the animals' brains, then it's an admission that rats are wired very differently than, at the least, the monkeys—and if it's not a necessary adjustment, then it's just a dose that isn't comparable to what monkeys, and humans have to receive to dull the stimulation from indulging in addictive behavior.

>> No.15488293 [DELETED] 

>>15487582
>>15488282
2/2
tl;dr for the paragraph above: no matter what, the first rat study is, at best, only vaguely useful for assessing naltrexone's utility against porn addiction in humans, and at worst it's completely irrelevant. end of tl;dr. now, to further elaborate on this and to maybe seem less like a dismissive dick if i happen to come across as such, one has to consider naltrexone's immunomodulating properties that occur **in humans** when it is administered in low-doses, which are totally separate from the regular, anti-alcoholism dosage effects of naltrexone; an entirely separate protocol in recognition of these unique immunomodulatory effects has been devised, and for anyone who's suffering from immune disorders, i highly recommend they investigate it. with recognition of these effects, there's obviously some non-linear biochemistry that occurs in which opioid receptors are highly relevant, and—i don't know, there could be an effect unrecognized by researchers that occurs with much higher doses of naltrexone in rats, as well as in humans. no idea. the bottom line: the first study's irrelevant.

the second study does not explicitly discuss any practical effects from the use of naltrexone, so i can't really say anything on it. modulating sex hormones is one thing, but if it brings about changes in sex hormones while apparently nullifying the addictive properties of porn consumption and masturbation, then who cares what (relatively unimportant) ways it alters sex hormones? i DO notice that it creates a practical scenario in which males have more free testosterone—cucks take note.

also, while i didn't ask for information specifically published by elsevier and was in fact happy to receive any published work at all, i'd like to point out that only one of those articles was an elsevier publication. needless to say, i hesitate to believe your assertion that you "work for" them.

>> No.15488313

>>15487582
1/2
so, two of these are animal experiments. fair enough—but they're not human experiments, and the difference between sex in rats vs. in humans with relation to what's going on in the brains of each creature could be enormous, so right off the bat, these experiments could be irrelevant to the question of whether or not naltrexone can help a human overcome porn addiction.
regardless, you look into it, and you see that the third study—the one with monkeys—concludes that the animals were deterred from sexual activity by taking naltrexone at a dose of 1mg per kg body weight—which isn't too far off from the 50mg dose that the average person in the ~150lbs range with an alcohol addiction would use.
now, the first and second studies were conducted with rats. in the first one, the rats received doses substantially larger than what the monkeys received—5mg, and 20mg per kg of body weight. if this is a necessary adjustment to make to test for the same effect because of the nature of the animals' brains, then it's an admission that rats are wired very differently than, at the least, the monkeys—and if it's not a necessary adjustment, then it's just a dose that isn't comparable to what monkeys, and humans have to receive to dull the stimulation from indulging in addictive behavior.

>> No.15488325

>>15487582
>>15488313
2/2
tl;dr for the paragraph above: no matter what, the first rat study is, at best, only vaguely useful for assessing naltrexone's utility against porn addiction in humans, and at worst it's completely irrelevant. end of tl;dr. now, to further elaborate on this and to maybe seem less like a dismissive dick if i happen to come across as such, one has to consider naltrexone's immunomodulating properties that occur **in humans** when it is administered in low-doses, which are totally separate from the regular, anti-alcoholism dosage effects of naltrexone; an entirely separate protocol in recognition of these unique immunomodulatory effects has been devised, and for anyone who's suffering from immune disorders, i highly recommend they investigate it. with recognition of these effects, there's obviously some non-linear biochemistry that occurs in which opioid receptors are highly relevant, and—i don't know, there could be an effect unrecognized by researchers that occurs with much higher doses of naltrexone in rats, as well as in humans. no idea. the bottom line: the first study's irrelevant.

the second study does not explicitly discuss any practical effects from the use of naltrexone, so i can't really say anything on it. modulating sex hormones is one thing, but if it brings about changes in sex hormones while apparently nullifying the addictive properties of porn consumption and masturbation, then who cares what (relatively unimportant) ways it alters sex hormones? i DO notice that it creates a practical scenario in which males have more free testosterone—cucks take note.

also, while i didn't ask for information specifically published by elsevier and was in fact happy to receive any published work at all, i'd like to point out that only one of those articles was an elsevier publication. needless to say, i hesitate to believe your assertion that you "work for" them.

>> No.15488369

>>15487582
>>15488313
>>15488325
all this in mind, i very much appreciate the articles you've shared; it's good input.

>> No.15489414

>>15488313
also i'm retarded the second study wasn't conducted with rats as i said it was here, and apprears to review information from experiments performed with human participants; i later recognized that as i got to discussing it. just a minor error on my part.

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>>15482692
>Tfw this hits too close to home
We are all so broken and alone.

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15489764

>>15489665
I just wanna make it and live in peace

>> No.15490000

>>15482433
I had a situation where I was very distraught after I asked out a female coworker and she bailed. Her bailing wasn't bad, but the next day she came to work and she was an icy queen. Previously we had been good friends. I was overinvested etc, but the point is that over the next 5 months I got over the shame of the whole office knowing (I only found out when I overheard other coworkers talking about it). However, I never quit and now I'm the most praised wagie in the office. Even the girl who turned me down now flirts with me.

TL;DR: you're a bitch but if you quit you're gonna forever be the bitch.

>> No.15490051

>>15482692
Bro, maybe something did come up. Maybe she had an emergency. People's relatives can get sick, their parents die, etc. Bad things happen to people's lives and sometimes dinners get cancelled last minute. You shouldn't have scolded her unless you knew for sure she had tricked you. Try to have some humanity, incel.

>> No.15490437

>>15482692
>She then message me angrily and called me an ugly piece of shit that nobody at work likes. Today at work I saw her laughing with her friends.

send her a dick pic