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19261777 No.19261777[DELETED]  [Reply] [Original]

why do dads do this?

>> No.19261799

>>19261777
>his dad didn't abandon him and his mother when he was just a child

Yikes

>> No.19261803

>>19261777
Cause he wants you to feel better you cunt

>> No.19261825

>>19261777
If your dad does this you're fucking lucky. Ungrateful cunt.

>> No.19261829

>>19261777
>Checked and kekked
Didn’t think this was a thing in modern day parenting, it was a thing in the 80s-90s when I was growing up. Now that I’m a dad to a young girl AND have depression from a young age, I’d never neglect my kid in the way my boomer parents did with my mental health

>> No.19261838

>>19261777
>his dad didn't yell at him for no reason and call him a retarded loser
must be nice

>> No.19261839

>>19261777
Imagine actually being mad that your dad is trying his best to make you feel better but isn't sure how due to his own upbringing lmao

My dad just told me to get the fuck over it

>> No.19261840

>>19261803
>feel better
>acts like he’s on an intellectual disability pension
Are you just thick or?

>> No.19261852

>>19261777
>mom walks in on anon furiously fapping to my little pony cartoons
>3rd time this month
>mid-20s NEET, no friends, no gf, spends all day in room posting frogs on racist anime board
>mom tells dad he has to fucking address this or she's going to pull her hair out
>not sure what went wrong or how to approach this awkward situation
>knock knock
>...hey buddy how's it goin?

>> No.19261859

>>19261777
>>19261839
When I first saw this picture it made me realize that my father does really care about, and tries his best

>> No.19261861

>>19261852
Kek

>> No.19261863

I'll be a great dad "Hey faggot stop being so sad and come play Minecraft"

>> No.19261866

>>19261777
>depressive episode
depression doesn't exist. why should a dad have to put up with a little faggot sad sack for a son who sits in his room in the dark because he's too lazy to start fixing his life

>> No.19261872

>>19261777
At least you have a dad, my died when I was 5, never went thru a faggy depression tho.

>> No.19261876
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>>19261777
That sounds like something a cliched sitcom dad would do. You’re telling me that actually happens irl?

>> No.19261892
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>>19261866
>depression doesn't exist.
based

>> No.19261894

>>19261863
Based playing factions with your dad and calling people niggers in rust-pilled

>> No.19261905

>>19261777
What other words come out of your mouth when you’re trying to communicate to an unhappy child...
“Hey kid fuck you if you don’t start smiling I’m gonna kick ur ass lol”.

>> No.19261911

>>19261876
It's somewhat true, but sitcoms are still trying to present a hyperactive sense of movement, to keep the audience entertained, while in real life things like this only happen every few months, for the most part.

>> No.19261922

>heh, haven't seen one of these in years
>it's an object/toy in your room
>years
solid fathering, although i guess that's the point of the image

>> No.19261966
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19261966

>>19261777
Hello son! Whoa nice trips, Champ. Listen, I know you’ve been having a hard time lately, but if anyone reading this doesn’t reply to this post your mother will die in her sleep tonight. You wouldn’t want to put your mother through that, now would you son?

>> No.19261986

>>19261777
Because he usually has 30+ years of experience on you and he knows your stupid whiny teenage mood is just a phase he went through also.

He doesn't want to laugh and call you a faggot but he knows you'll prob nut up in a few days.

>> No.19262012

>>19261966
kek

>> No.19262038

>>19261966
Gd1

>> No.19262089

My parents did none of those things because they're both barely-functioning autistics. They're incapable of feeling empathy or forming real relationships. I never really had parents.

>> No.19262131

>>19261777
>*picks up a random object/toy in your room*
>"heh, haven't seen one of these in years"

Delete this fucking thread. Delete it. Delete it now.

>> No.19262133

>>19261905
d-d-dad?

>> No.19262148

>>19262089
Are you Scandinavian or German?

>> No.19262349

>>19261777
Door closed. Always closed

>> No.19262577

>>19261863
Take it from me, your son isn't gonna want to play your retro video games.

>> No.19262694

>>19262089
Stop whining faggot

>> No.19262854
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19262854

>>19261777
>Mom diagnosed sociopath, literally poisoned one of our cats and burned down my dad's room
>Dad violent narcissist, he stopped buying me food or clothes at age 16 saying that he started earning his own money at that age.
>I turn out completely normal

>> No.19262929

>>19262089
Quit ya whinging and grow a blody beard ya scrummy twat

>> No.19262970

>>19261966
Checked and based

>> No.19262997

>>19261825
>>19261803
These, cunt

>> No.19263012

>>19261799
Jokes on you my mom beat him to it, so he had to find other ways to cope/avoid me at all costs...including some very questionable/ugly gfs.

Pretty chill being 12 and basically living on your own but with no wageslaving for food/shelter though.

>> No.19263025

>>19262577
I would have loved to play retro video games with my father. Just because your son didn't want to play some commodore 64 games with you doesn't make that a universal truth.

>> No.19263080
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>>19261777
the ones described by your picture care, they most likely see being emotional as faggy but since youre their kid they step down to your level to show the level of paternal affection that they feel capable of. these men more often than not did not receive the same kindness from their fathers. that’s what i’ve heard at least, my father died for israel when i was six. he didnt want i’m told he felt it was the best career a guy in his position could follow.

>> No.19263133

>>19263080
*he didnt want to i’m told

>> No.19263135

>>19261839
>My dad just told me to get the fuck over it
Based.

>> No.19263203

>>19261966
This would be fantastic actually

>> No.19263295

>>19261777
Got one of these for step dads?

>> No.19263296

>>19261966
KEK, replied and checked

>> No.19263550

>>19262854
>turn out completely normal
I got bad news for you

>> No.19263606

>>19262854
>I turn out completely normal
Dude, you browse 4chan.

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>>19261777
Be thankful if you still have a dad knocking on you. I missed it when my dad did this. He has passed away.

>> No.19263961

>>19261840
>Dad might be intellectually disabled or castrated by modern society.
>Unwilling to bond with dad over the failure of industrial society.
“Dad just doesn’t GET it”

>> No.19263985

>>19261966
yes dad

>> No.19263994

>>19261839
your dad sounds like a good man

>> No.19264013

>>19261966
T-thanks Dave

>> No.19264024

>>19261777
Checked
I invested my dad's money into AAVE. I love my family.

>> No.19264027

>>19261777
because dads are based and part of growing up to be a well-functioning, respectful man is to figure out your own problems while dad somewhat steers you down the correct path

dads aren't there to comfort you emotionally, that's what moms are for. Dads are there to tell you to renew your health insurance and have your back when shit hits the fan

>> No.19264031

my dad died when i was 3

fuck your mom op seriously

>> No.19264039

>>19261777
Because they care about you.

>> No.19264108

>>19261777
this was my mother to a T

>> No.19264139

Parents would tell me to stop playing RuneScape for 17hrs a day

I could not hear to waste precious experience points, but little did I know the real xp was out in the real world

I am now 29 years old and can vote in federal elections

>> No.19264188

>>19261859
I used to think my dad didn't give a fuck, but he really did his best. I thank him with actions and words whenever I can for that even though I'm still picking myself up and I know every one of those "just let me know if there's anything I can do", he means it and it's not lip service

>> No.19264213

>>19261799
this, unironically.

>> No.19264275

>>19264024
bix nood

>> No.19264292

>>19264275
wut

>> No.19264301

>>19261777
This is what happens when you only give one word responses

>> No.19264317

>>19261966
>>19261966
Hehe

>> No.19264385

>>19261799
Mine left before I was born.
Get on my level, losers.

>> No.19264414

>>19261803
>>19261825
>>19261838
>>19261839
NOOOOOO NOT THE DADERINOOOSSSSSSS!!!!

>> No.19264445

>>19261777
>>19261966
You mean White people dads?

>> No.19264621

tfw alcoholic dad
2 weeks ago in one of his drunk episodes threatened me with a fucking machete

In his mind the whole world is against him and in his drunk stupor tought I was out to get him

Normally I even go out of my way to avoid speaking to him, so he doesn't do that stupid shit while he's drunk

Next day when he was sober I confronted him about it, and he just fucking ignored me while I was talking to him.

OP you little shit just be glad your fucking dad is not trying to kill you

>> No.19264763

>>19261777
Your dad is debating whether or not you are old enough to have your thoughts upgraded. Dad's have real advice but sometimes kids arent ready to hear it mentally

>> No.19264792

>>19261966
oh no no no

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>>19261966
Well played.

>> No.19264802

>>19261852
>dad loads the shotgun with tears in his eyes
"Anon, can you come out back for a minute?!"

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>>19262854

>> No.19264816

>>19261966
Sigh

>> No.19264829

>>19261966

kek

>> No.19264835

>>19261777
I miss my father.

>> No.19264860

>>19261777
Because he cares about you but is not professionally trained to handle your inner hate against anyone who dares to "care" for you, because it's kinda their fault too that you feel this way and you are a victim of life. Maybe it's killing him to see his child like this and is trying to help you back on track like any decent father would do.

If he wasn't trying you would be crying "they don't even care about my exsistence, waaaa" and og would be his fault too, right?

Now stop killing your old man and let him help you...

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>>19261966
based dog

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>>19261966

>> No.19264981

>>19261966
LD

>> No.19265304

>>19264860
As if
He cant even get along with mom long enough

>> No.19265320

>>19261777
Because they know its their fault and its too late

>> No.19265352

>>19261777
Op has daddy issues

>> No.19265370

>>19261777
Nice. Numbers. My dad didn't do any of this stuff. It might have been nice.

>> No.19265375

>>19264962
thanks fren, saved

>> No.19265449
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>>19261777
tfw when dad did this and the cliche "are ya winning son?" whenever I was fragging ppl on CS Source or Halo 2.

Now he has frontotemporal dementia and doesn't know what's going on anymore. BUt when he has lucid moment he is still primarily concerned with how I'm doing and if theres anything he can do to help me.

He was a pretty big shot neurologist, and now I am an anesthesiologist; he got to see me graduate medical school and at least understood what all that meant. But now when I am running an ICU and I would have just liked to talk to my dada about what it was like back in his day when he ran the ICU, I can't. SHit sucks. Dads are OP af

Got a 30k Link stack and can't even use it to really do anything for my dad because he doesn't understand anything anymore. If you don't want some incurable devastating disease, make sure to kick a puppy every now and then, for some reason horrific disease only ever happen to extremely nice and caring people, this has been the case in teh ICU and the cancer wards and with my father.

>> No.19265527

Because they know there's nothing he can do to flip your fundamental world view so long as you consider him an ancient relic who doesn't know what it's like to be you

>> No.19265835

>>19261966
Fuck

>> No.19265852

>>19265449
that sucks bro, sorry to hear that

>> No.19265855

>>19261966
not mommy :(

>> No.19265882

>>19261777
At least the ones that are like that are trying, even if many times they're a bit awkward. Being a good father is hard, not that any of you would understand what's like.

>> No.19265889

>>19261966
Checked based caught me off guard 8.3/10

>> No.19265910

>>19261777
>realizing those type of interactions don't happen w me

>> No.19265923

>>19261966
not taking a chance

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>>19261829
>tfw no daughter

>> No.19265958

>>19261825
>>19261803
This you faggot that's a very good Dad.

>> No.19265972

>>19265950

>tfw no daughter gf

>> No.19265973

>>19261966
Fuck you

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>>19261852
her fault for not knocking

>> No.19266023

>>19261777
Mom left dad a year after I was born. My father raised me on a farm. Sometimes I see more affection towards his pets than me but I understood that. One time I accidentally broke dad's fishing rod he beat me up, but he made one for me after that. Always loved fishing and I still have that old rod on the attic. He taught me a lot of skills, and things in life that I would probably never experience, nor experience it like it was in the 70s. Dad died not seeing mom again, and he never told me who she was probably because he was too ashamed he couldn't hold her out for me. I don't know if I could ever respect women in my life lads, it's the women who are fucked up, not us.

>> No.19266024 [DELETED] 

>>19265449
>If you don't want some incurable devastating disease, make sure to kick a puppy every now and then, for some reason horrific disease only ever happen to extremely nice and caring people, this has been the case in teh ICU and the cancer wards and with my father.

nah they happen to everyone, but nobody gives a fuck about shit people and they just die quick

>> No.19266051

>>19265449
>If you don't want some incurable devastating disease, make sure to kick a puppy every now and then, for some reason horrific disease only ever happen to extremely nice and caring people, this has been the case in teh ICU and the cancer wards and with my father.

nah they happen to everyone, but nobody gives a fuck about shit people and they just die quick. so those LIVING with incurable, devestating diseases are overrepresented by those who were good people and are looked after by someone who loves them

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19266061

>american parenting

>> No.19266086

>>19261966
10/10

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>>19261777
Here we go
Good breakdown on this related to the OP

https://youtu.be/QTsewNrHUHU

And yes, it doesn’t just apply to babies and toddlers but to teenagers and your spouse as well

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>>19261966
>Hello son! Whoa nice trips
>if anyone reading this doesn’t reply to this post your mother will die in her sleep tonight

but it's about op's mother, not the readers'. if anyone wants op's mom dead, they just need to read it and not reply

>> No.19266124

>>19262854

You're here, with us.

>> No.19266460

>>19261966
If you don't reply to me your mom dies instead. NIGGER

>> No.19266474

>>19261966
Fuck off Paul

>> No.19266483

"stop crying and man up" is what dad would tell me. I love him, unironically

>> No.19266489

>>19264894
>>19264962
based doggos

>> No.19266496

>>19261966
heres your (you), pussy ass nigga

>> No.19266513

>>19265449
Would you go research lion mane's mushroom already? Check out Paul Stamet.

>> No.19266515

>>19261966
top kek

>> No.19266624

>his dad isn't dead
Hmm

>> No.19266649

>>19261966
Nigger

>> No.19266659

my dad died when I was 12 and his death was the cause of my depression

>> No.19266673

>>19261966
kek

>> No.19266688

>>19261966
blessed post