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>made 400k in crypto
>early 20s
>Dad still thinks I'm a loser because I dropped out of hs, says crypto is "fake money"

No matter how hard I try I can't please him.

>> No.24168952 [DELETED] 

>>24168936
who cares? what are you 14?

>> No.24168999

make it and flex on him for the rest of his life by giving him the things he always wanted but never could afford

>> No.24169033

>>24168999
Idk man I feel so demoralized. I spent years day trading like an autist and lost big time, made most of my money on long shares in btc and link.

He still looks at me like an insolent child who threw his life away. The money doesn't even seem to have value now

>> No.24169043

>>24168936
Your dad is right. You have no real life skills and even if you cash that money out others will take it from you very easily.

>> No.24169063

>>24168936

lol I can be your dad if you want, son. We can talk about crypto and play PC video games together

>> No.24169071

>>24168936
>400k
>dad thinks youre a looser
you probably dont have 400k, and you probably dont have a dad you stinky nigger

>> No.24169077

>>24169063
Lmao based

>> No.24169097

>>24169071

Don’t talk to my son like that, you son of a bitch!

>> No.24169154

>>24168936
Fuck your dad , he must be a narcistic asshole. You have to realize op you shouldn't live just to be a host for your father to try and live vicariously through like some sort of demented second chance for your father. Your father only thinks you're a failure because he is a failure

>> No.24169166

>>24168936
suck your dad's cock that will please him

>> No.24169178

>>24169097
and there goes the thread.

>> No.24169181

>>24169033
Because 400k is gay, get 4 mil and he’ll respect you

>> No.24169184

>>24168936
>It's only real money if you take out a $50K loan for an F150 while working hard at the lumber yard!
You weren't born wealthy, whose fault is that?

>> No.24169195

>>24168936
You are only a loser if you care what your father thinks of you and if you think so yourself.
It's all a perspective question.
You have to stop trying to please him and focus on yourself only while ignoring the outside noise.

>> No.24169200

>>24169154
>Your father only thinks you're a failure because he is a failure
He's a drunken asshole but I had to get 15k from him to start investing in crypto. He said it was a gift but implied it was a loan. He's been holding it against me ever since

>> No.24169203

>>24169097
Lmao

>> No.24169220

>>24168936
i was in your shoes, made a million and realised that you'll never be happy being a caved in crypto neet. atleast you can put that money into good use and buy a house/farm whatever and start doing some normie shit and socialise with people, your dad is going to love it

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24169226

I'll beat the helluva her for one ethereum. That'll teach hum.
For ten XRP I sit on has face and fart. Beyond that I dondu coz no niggah.

>> No.24169227

>>24169200
Pay it the fuck back, with 1 dollar interest

>> No.24169249

>>24169200
Pay him back 20k you ingrateful faggot.

You're a moral failure for sure

>> No.24169260

>>24168936

He literally doesn't think its real. He doesn't know you can cash out to USD and spend it EVEN if you had told him directly you are able. My mom just turned 70 and I showed her I made 150K since Jan starting with fucking 2K in that account. Any time we'd talk about it she'd be like and you can withdraw that and spend it? That conversation happened half a dozen times. Her memory is fine she just didn't think it was real until I quit my job and physically showed her in person. Its not that she thought I was lying they think its like video game points I'm serious. Once Paypal got into it she said she was okay with putting in $1000 and wanted me to help her set up and account. Older generations don't trust anything that isn't tangible its hilarious.

>> No.24169280

>>24169063
and suck each other

>> No.24169305

>>24169033
Move out
Get a car
Get a gf
Make a business

He'll respect you

>> No.24169327

>>24169200

Just pay me back the money son... deep down inside I’m proud of you and believe in you

>> No.24169487

>>24169249
>>24169227
>>24169327
I repeatedly offered to pay it back but he's the bullshitter type where he'll refuse it to make himself look good. I doubt it'd change anything even if I did it and then I'd be 15k down in just another fucking attempt to please him, which is exactly what he wants.

>> No.24169607

sucks to be brown i guess

>> No.24169616

Yo don't let that bitch (your Dad) be the barometer of your worth, Anon - and that goes for crypto too. It's not okay to make your son think he's a piece of shit and you're already a better person than him regardless of your success.

Now cash half that shit out so you have some real money and start your life.

>> No.24170402

bump

>> No.24170418

Buy your dads company and fire him

>> No.24170440
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>>24168999
>make it and flex on him for the rest of his life
this
>by giving him things
???
also checked

>> No.24170547

>>24170440
Is that a good movie?

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>>24168936
You've explained my dad to a tee. He won't take your 'loan' back because he needs to have that control over you to make himself feel better.. Stop trying to make other people happy, you'll never be compensated the way you want. Use your gains and invest in yourself

>> No.24170681

>>24170547
I found it enjoyable, somewhat trashy at some points but all in all a good movie

>> No.24170707

>>24169487
Pay it back to keep yourself "clear". 400k is alot of money in your age. Be careful with your trading and slowly get the make it stack of 1m$.
Quitting crypto is stupid, but having a few 100k realised gains your age would probably make him realise what you have achived.

>> No.24170733

>>24169305
This and then you’ll be a man

>> No.24170849

>>24170667
>He won't take your 'loan' back because he needs to have that control over you to make himself feel better.. Stop trying to make other people happy, you'll never be compensated the way you want. Use your gains and invest in yourself
I'll try to give it back to him or threaten to burn it if he won't take it. I want to cut him out of my life but every time I've tried he goes crazy and acts like I've been killed or am a terrible person for abandoning him. He recently had heart surgery and already uses this as a weapon so I don't try to get out from under his thumb, saying I'd be trying to give him a heart attack by stressing him.

It's all sorts of dysfunctional and I feel like a piece of shit for thinking this but maybe it'd be better off if... Nevermind. Because deep down I love him and I just want his affection for once in my life

>> No.24170894

>>24170849
Just transfer it to his bank account lmao

>> No.24171039

>>24170849
Best of luck. You can't let it affect you forever. He's on his way out and you're just starting your life. You're in better financial shape than most, high school dropout or not. Don't gamble it away. If he doesn't want the money, then don't give it to him. But you need to invest in yourself. You're wasting your time and energy trying to work it out with your dad when you can be doing other things. 20s are your prime. The worst thing you want is to wake up 10 years from now and realize you wasted it. Be strong anon. You got some soul searching to do

>> No.24171174

>>24171039
Thanks anon. I hope everything turns out alright and COVID doesn't fuck me dead out of the gate

>> No.24171222

>>24168936
Don't try to impress your dad, do it for you. If your dad doesn't want to accept it, his problem. you have enough to pay him back whenver and if ever he decides to want the money back. Do what you want to do, not what you think you want to do to live up to your dad's expectations

>> No.24171263

>>24168936
Your dad sounds like a bitch

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>>24171222
Checked. This applies to all relationships. Do things for yourself. And talk to a therapist or you're going to carry this emotional baggage for life. And if you really wanna thank me, do the needful and buy chainlink sirs

>> No.24171772

>>24168999
Why the fuck would you give MORE shit to boomers? They won't appreciate it because that's life for them.
>>24168936
When you're ready to cash some out, go and do your own thing for a while, don't give your parents too much detail. Don't call them regularly. Don't ask hem for stuff. You need to be self sustaining.

>> No.24171806

>>24169033
Because money doesn’t equal respect, I’ve never respected someone simply cause they’re rich

>> No.24171884

>>24169487
I’m sure he’s real impressed when he hears you’ve made 400k but still havnt sorted the money out he lent you, it’s always cunts think they’re doing someone a favour by simply paying back a loan when it shouldn’t have to be asked for

>> No.24171902

crypto gains are like winning the lottery, unless you're in a suit, in an office, you're a cuck and you know it.

t. also unemployed and unskilled

>> No.24171951

>>24171902
Bro that made literally no sense.

>> No.24171952

Withdraw 15k locally, for cash. Place cash on the table he takes it or whatever it’s his, it ain’t hard. inb4 “BuT YoUlL bE DoWn 15K”

>> No.24172028

>>24171806
this

>> No.24172067

>>24171772
>Why the fuck would you give MORE shit to boomers? They won't appreciate it because that's life for them.
This but unironically.
Make it then flex on him by gaining power of attorney evicting him from his house and putting him in an abusive mental home.

>> No.24172142

>>24168936
you'll get his respect when you cash out, move out and shit.

>> No.24172290

>>24168936
stop trying.
grow up.

>> No.24172336

>>24168936
your dad probably realizes 400k isn't going to magically make you stop being a onions incel

>> No.24172480

>>24171951
he is projecting his cuck cope.
>i am a cuck and can not change, therefore others can not change either.
obviously bs, better men than him can improve.

>> No.24172505 [DELETED] 

I agree with you. A useful function for traders should reach profit in all stages of the market. We just have to get enough garanties and min risks, like on Dymmax (dymmax.com) platform

>> No.24172510

>>24172028
why would you care about somebody elses respect? most people are retards anyway, grow up and respect yourself, thats the only person that matters.

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>>24172067
>Make it then flex on him by gaining power of attorney evicting him from his house and putting him in an abusive mental home.
this. boomers deserve the rope

>> No.24172637

>>24169097
Based and dadpilled

>> No.24172768

Maybe he's just jealous, he probably lent you that 15k in the hopes that you'd fuck it up and he'd have ammo for the rest of his life to tell anybody who would listen what a loser you are. Some folks cant stand to see success especially from family

>> No.24172799

>>24172510
you know what, you're right. i will do that

>> No.24172872

>>24168936
Crabs in a bucket anon

>> No.24172978

>>24170849
Why don't you just move somewhere else and let the police know ahead of time that: you are not under any duress to move, you have no criminal record, you just want to start a new life elsewhere.

If you get ahead of this he can't say you are a missing person. If you don't tell anyone where you are living from your old life he will never find you.

Keep tabs on him through the obituary section and collect that sweet sweet boomer money in a few years.

If you don't have a regular source of income you should look into doing something easy just so you can pay the Bill's. You could lose 85% of your stack tomorrow, make a few bad trades and lose everything living off what remains will make you homeless.

400k is not enough to make it. I know that seems like a lot of money to you but that's a decent house in a flyover state. Until you have a couple mil you absolutely should be looking at crypto as "fake video game money"

>> No.24173018

I only have peanuts in crypto but my dad is proud of me and always wants to learn about crypto and he has some btc too.

>> No.24173042

>>24170849
>I just want his affection for once in my life
you're a faggot.

>> No.24173137

just move out wtf

>> No.24173248

>>24168999
>giving him the things he always wanted
No, OP needs to do a better job of explaining how digital currency works and why FIAT is on its way out.

>> No.24173250

>>24172768
Nice cope, who’s parents would ever lend them 15k for crypto of all fkn things. Like it or not he owes his dad a large part or his success being the financial backer of his endeavour, he’s like dan bilzerian

>> No.24173265

>>24168936
fuck his wife and mog him

>> No.24173316

>>24172510
you shouldn't care about other people's respect, and that is the only way to get respect.
Anon doesn't deserve respect since he whines about not getting it from daddy. He should focus on his own life and become someone worthy.

>> No.24173322

>>24168936
This is how you permanently fuck up your child mentally.

>> No.24173397

>>24168936
Move out and completely ignore him. If he comes for the 15k beat the shit out of him.

>> No.24173491

>>24170547
Yeah it’s crazy if all the shenanigans are true. It’s definitely long story tho

>> No.24173555

>>24168999
Hahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahaahah what is this

>> No.24173597

>>24169200
Pay him 20k for the interest of his loan then fuck your mom to show dominance. That’ll shut him up!

>> No.24174260

>>24168936
Take that 400k out of crypto if you want it to mean something to him

>> No.24175476

>>24169097
based and dadpilled

>> No.24175550

>>24169487
it doesnt matter. Take out 15.1k cash and leave it on his desk. dont say anything. Hes a boomer type so this is what you have to do with them.

>> No.24175665

>400k is not enough to make it.
>reddit spacing
Yeah fuck off. all he needs to do is re-invest 50-100k and stay on top of his portfolio

>> No.24175773

>>24168936
My dad is like this to, he even forces me to wage slave for minimum wage, I tell him I make 10 times more trading and he tells me “it’s not about the money it’s about working, getting out of the house and contributing to this world”. I hate boomer mentality so dam much.

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I don't know why mfs hold their dad in this fucked up mental space where their happiness depends on how their dad regards them,

for instance my best friend just discovered that his dad has an insane hoard of psa9+ pokemon cards, probably 6 figures worth, but pops is too oblivious to know about anything. Instead of saying "hey dad I'll give you 10k for those!" and dumping, he's determined to like sell them for his dad at no cost to help him retire as some kind of final tribute to make his father feel like comfortable with him or something, shits retarded.

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>>24175773
>contributing to this world
Boomers don't understand that this is a two-way street. If society doesn't give a shit about you, you have no obligation to give a shit about society.

>> No.24176427

>>24168936
Your dad might just be an asshole. This is a redpill you never hear about. Not all parents are good.

>> No.24176679

>>24175977
his dad will sell high but then turn around and complain to him for the rest of his life cause he misses his cards

>> No.24177653

>>24168936
so stop trying to please him, are you his fucking hooker? live your own fucking life.

>> No.24178689

Anon, it's not about the money it's not about dropping out, it's about seeing your kid as a loser.

A guy without friends, gf and a healthy body sitting the whole day behind a screen. You simply got lucky with crypto.

>>24175977
Toxic mentality, family is everything. If your dad is a scumbag then I agree fuck him. But if he was a good dad you help him out, just like he did when you where 3.

>> No.24178702

>>24168936
get your GED then go to community college then transfer to a real school. If youre not retarded you can do all that easily. 400k will not last you long enough to sit on your ass doing nothing.

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>>24168936
>early 20s
>loser
You're too young to think you've lost anything, anon. Stfu and keep living, you beautiful bitch.

>> No.24179686

>>24168936
can you mentor me unironically? i have $60k capital.

>> No.24179811

>>24168936
It's time for you to face the reality:

Your parents are not the best people in the world. Most likely, your parents are midwit boomers who have no clue about new technologies, and they will do anything to discredit it. The only thing that seperates them from other normies that you hate, is the fact that you share their DNA. THAT'S IT.

Think of them in this way. Why do you become friends with people? Because you enjoy their company, and hopefully they do too. If your parents don't enjoy you, and you don't enjoy them. Then they are just annoying normies that you share DNA with. If you enjoy eachother, then they are very close friends that are older and that you share DNA with.

Look at things for what they are. It makes it easier to make choices.