Girl On Tinder Threatening To Send My Messages To My Firm / Boss

[Anonymous No.28991029]

I matched with a girl on Tinder one night and we started messaging. Somehow, the conversation turned into an argument over stupid shit. In my drunkenness and anger, I replied calling her a fatass and made a joke that she looked like she put on the COVID-30 / I would sign her up for Jenny Craig.

She replied with a long message how she was outraged I would dare say this in 2021 and that she would be screenshotting this and sending this to my employer. Note: I only have high-level info in my Tinder bio - first name, age, "Investment Banker", school attended, pictures. I didn't reply BUT THEN she replies back with my full name and the name of my bank, PLUS one of my MD's email address (we're all listed on the firm website).

Found out the hard way it's easy to be googled. I'm legit getting nervous / sweating balls that she sends an email to my boss. What should I do? Am I overthinking and should just ignore her threat? Worst case she actually sends a screenshot and my boss reads it, what should I say if I get called out?

[Anonymous No.28991181]

Your boss would probably have done the same

[Anonymous No.28991249]

>>28991029
you do not negotiate with terrorism. fuck that cuntbag nigger

[Anonymous No.28991251]

>>28991029
When in doubt deny deny deny

[Anonymous No.28991263]

she about to blackmail you for life Anon

[Anonymous No.28991267]

>>28991029
Own up to it dude. Your boss most likely will find it amusing anyway. Just tell him you were drunk and had no intention of those messages ever being seen by anyone else. It's not a big deal. If you act like a scared little bitch, your boss is going to treat you like one.

[Anonymous No.28991328]

>>28991029
did you say anything work related? if not nothing you said did you say in public so it doesnt matter at all

[Anonymous No.28991339]

>>28991029
Your fault for ever using social media and especially for using your real info on there. I hope you get rekt, faggot norman.

[Anonymous No.28991350]

Screenshot her profile and show it to boss, he should be like
>yeah shes fucking fat

[Anonymous No.28991351]

>>28991251
For instance

>i don't have a tinder
>i never sent those messages
>you shouldn't believe everything you see online
>are we done here?

[Anonymous No.28991363]

>covid-30

[Anonymous No.28991398]

>>28991029
Say you were hacked you absolute retard

[Anonymous No.28991421]

>>28991029
>2021
why are you still wagecucking?

[Anonymous No.28991422]

Post screenshots or its a lie. If you post then I will help you out.

t. employment lawyer

[Anonymous No.28991441]

>>28991029
This is /biz/. I think you were looking for >>>/r9k/ you can post all the made up stories you want there to make all your incel buddies mad

[Anonymous No.28991449]

>>28991029
>using your real first name on tinder,
NGMI

[Anonymous No.28991528]

>>28991029
Damage control. She's holding all the cards here OP, don't get ahead of yourself. You need to get back to her asking what her price is to keep quiet.

[Anonymous No.28991538]

>>28991029
>getting into arguments on tinder
How’re you not banned by now? I got kicked off for telling a girl rap music sucks

[Anonymous No.28991591]

>>28991029
Deny all knowledge

[Anonymous No.28991600]

>>28991351
>a friend messed with my phone
>my phone got stolen
>who is this person impersonating me?

Don't negotiate with her. Your fear will not go away, even if you pay her.

[Anonymous No.28991638]

>>28991029
Honestly your boss and HR should be the least of your worries. I have a feeling a convo with him (whether denying or admitting) should go fine. What is more worrying for you is if she decides to go "public". If she sends it to some online rag that decides to run with it, then you're fucked. If you really are an investment banker, than that makes you a juicy target (hit the bank you work at by proxy).

[Anonymous No.28991643]

>>28991538
racist pig

[Anonymous No.28991708]

>>28991029
why the fuck would your boss care about that
who cares about some dumb fat bitch

[Anonymous No.28991739]

>>28991029
Just own it. Who cares. If it doesn't work out join the French Foreign Legion.

[Anonymous No.28991754]

>>28991638
To add though, I don't want to see you fired, but you sound like an asshole. So really just apologize and hope she feels forgiving.

[Anonymous No.28991763]

>>28991029
Post screenshots so lawylyers can help

[Anonymous No.28991821]

>>28991029
Get fired. Sue her for defamation and libel. Get hired back again after making a reddit post proving she blackmailed you. Hope the lawsuit works out and she might have enough to squeeze a couple grand out of.

It's not like you hit her or have any physical evidence proving any harm. If she causes you to get fired, that's wrong on her responsibility. Of course if you said the word nigger anywhere you will be fired regardless.