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dropped out of uni at 22 after having very bad years

worked and made some cash

now ill be thirty in a month i have nothing to look forward to and actually want to go back to uni

feel like the “it’s just a piece of paper” was cope if my 17yo would look at me he would hero

didn’t have any money was a mess because of chronic pain after an accident was slowly ostracized from others as i couldn’t/didn’t share time with them

want to make my 17yo proud but i don’t see a path

even just completing the diploma now wouldn’t be much of an achievement

plus everybody is 20 now and i’m a decade later wouldn’t be as enjoyable

after i finish the remaining third of the bachelor i could move and get a master but i’d still be the late bloomer

what is left to do for me

>> No.51366206

>>51366020
>Taking on crippling debt for a piece of paper that everyone else took on crippling debt for
Bro what do you mean everyone else is doing it!

>> No.51366223

Uni is about fucking, drugs, and fucking some more.

>> No.51366267

>>51366020
>what is left to do for me

If you don't have a plan after getting your degree, you shouldn't be doing it to begin with.

>> No.51366298

I started uni at 28 after getting out of the military. No one cares and if anything, you'll find it easier to get laid. Stop being a worrywart faggot. Also HAVE A PLAN - don't to go uni just because you think you have to go. You should have shit planned out and goals to meet.

>> No.51366408

>>51366298
what's your plan and your goal anon

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>>51366223
>tfw finishing uni right now as a kissless virgin

>> No.51367414

>>51366471
its ok dude do a postgrad lul. I did my bachelors and studied hard, and postgrad is full of girls lol

>> No.51367430

>>51366020
Stop acting like a whiny little bitch. Decide what you want to do and do it. Don't be a victim pussy

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>>51367414
I am literally in the process of finishing my master's degree

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>>51367442
Ok panic mode, what discipline? You DID pick a field where you can meet women at work/have time after work to meet them, right?

>> No.51367472

>>51366020
Kek you fell for the trades meme, didn't you?

>> No.51367496

>>51367468
It's mostly male oriented, but I doubt it will be any easier at work than during uni

>> No.51367524

>>51367496
Well, I'm in sorta the same boat but I've just started my masters lol. If it doesn't get better I'll be a little disappointed, but I'll just focus on retiring early instead. If I can't have one thing, I'll have another. Head up and all that.

Did you at least get experience talking to girls in your class? I've been trying to do that because in my bachelor's i basically did all classes online like a hiki.

>> No.51367554

>>51366020
just do online school and try to pick up friends through a hobby, the uni thing isn’t as important as people make it out to be

just about getting that piece of paper so you can get a decent job and feel good about yourself

>> No.51367567

>>51367524
I have no problems talking to pretty much anyone, the issue is in getting anywhere past mere talking.

In any case you definitely have to actively engage and then be the one who escalates during interactions I guess. Keep in mind that I write this as a clueless kissless virgin

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If you read this Reddit spacing you need to go back.

>> No.51367598

>>51367442
>>51367524
>Losers who have to literally get a masters to prove to anyone they aren't a complete incompetent morons

>> No.51367610

>>51367568
Sorry i'm posting off my phone, I'll stop the reddit spacing just for you. Oh, and if you use the fagfrog, you DEFINITELY need to go back.

>>51367567
Yeah, I have no idea what girls are interested in but I can at least engage them in casual conversation. And nobody drops any sort of 'hint' for me either, which makes me think that I might just be too unattractive to make it.
I think it's more common now though, because a lot of my friends are in the same boat and just chugging away with work/getting together on weekends/vidya. Helps take the edge off I guess.
>>51367598
Well, god forbid I'd like to go into academia.