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I impregnated my 40 yo manager who I've been having an affair with (she's still married has a kid) ever since I joined the co I'm currently at. Worst part is she wants to keep it.

She dropped the news on me early last week and I have been having panic attacks and the biggest existential dread I've faced in my life ever since, it took me days just to get out of bed (been home on sick leave basically she broke the news). She's been constantly texting and calling me wanting to meet (to fuck) and asking what's wrong with me but I just don't want to see her ever again knowing she doesn't want to get an abortion and hang this whole shit over my head. So basically she got the complete hold of me, can fire me easily and financially ruin me with alimony and shit. I've been feeling suicidal and I just don't know what hte fuck i'm supposed to do, please help

>> No.53870159

>>53870147
if she doesnt agree to not demand child support(in writing) then dip out of the country and leave for another continent

>> No.53870165

>>53870159
also demand a paternity test she might be trying to squeeze you

>> No.53870192

>>53870147
Are you fucking dumb? Let the chick raise it and keep fucking retard

>> No.53870232

>>53870159
>>53870165
Is there a way legally to make her do a paternity test? Been thinking about it but I cannot find anything related (I live in Germany btw)
>>53870192
She's in love with me but I'm just a 25 yo dude in my first serious role at a bigger company. Only thought of the whole thing as fooling around but she's constantly nagging me now and I'm scared to death that she wants the little I have now

>> No.53870257

>>53870147
Marry her and find a new ass to fuck on the side. Try not to impregnate that one too ok buddy? Anal sex fixes that

>> No.53870290

>>53870165
>>53870192
this and hope for the best, also shag her while she not fat.

>>53870232
by court order of course

alles gute und viel glück bernd

>> No.53870311

>>53870232
Dude, just uno reverse her and do what girls do go guys all the time

Report her to HR for taking advantage of you, blackmailing you, sexual assaulting you etc and sue the fuck out of your employer

You get paid and then can negotiate a one time payout to her to disappear from your life

You walk away with some cash and so does she. Win win for everyone but your employee

>> No.53870364

>>53870147
Tell her you'll be there for your child but you don't feel that way about her. She'll be crushed and get an abortion.
If that fails, then >>53870311

>> No.53870387

>>53870311
>>53870364
Sueing and HR is majorly a North American thing

>> No.53870452

Imagine not getting excited to father a downie.