This was the worst christmas to date

[Sad Dad No.5434514]

So I have two daughters, 14 and 17.
Their mom agreed to celebrate christmas with me this year so I spent a lot of time, money and love to prepare everything.

2pm:
They arrive in a car that isn't even their mom's, I think it's one of their boyfriend that I have never met.
They basically just said hi and dropped off their things and told me that they would come back in a few hours.
They didn't even hug me or anything, they didn't even lookin the diner room where I had prepared some food for us to enjoy.
They sent like 10 snapchats while they were here before they left also...

6pm:
They come back unannounced, still glued to their phones, no hug etc etc.
I present the 2nd serving of food that I cooked while they were away, which I thought that we would cook together.
They have 0% interest in being with me, they don't even speak to me like I'm their father. And they kept sending snapchats while we were eating and screaming/singing while recording. I've never seen anything like it.

It was so fucking uncomfortable for me to sit there with them, they had been completely changed since I met them a few weeks ago.
I wanted to tell them about a trip to Africa to meet my cousin, spending about 2 weeks there but they were so distracted by their phones that I never brought it up.
I asked them nicely to put away their phones and after about an hour they decided that they wanted to go home to their mom instead.

What the fuck /biz/? What is this social media bullshit that destroy the young? I've made almost $300k in crypto and I wanted to do something nice for my daughters and this is how they treat me?
What do I do?
I never get to meet them because their mother is so fucking crazy.

Sorry for the wall of text and my english (I'm swedish), but I really just need to vent a bit. I spend a lot of time here and I feel like some of you could give me some advice. AMA.

[Anonymous No.5434533]

>>5434514
just bought 100k of your daughters nudes

[Anonymous No.5434575]

I have no advice to give.

Just that I feel for you bro. That's a pretty heartbreaking situation

[Anonymous No.5434591]

>>5434514
Tell them no phone sin the house and if they can't agree tell them to stay the fuck away.
Who lets their kids use cell phone in the house?

[Anonymous No.5434594]

there is a good reason why they murder baby girls at birth in china anon

[Anonymous No.5434600]

>>5434514
it'll be okay anon, and ""most"" young people are clued to their phones these days, your daughters will prob realize when it's too late. Just focus on yourself for now that'll prob make you happy

[Sad Dad No.5434603]

>>5434575
Yeah man. This sucks.
I know that I'm not the best father around but I try my best to do something nice for them and I spent the whole evening crying.

[Anonymous No.5434605]

>17 yo swedish snapchat addict

c'mon anon, post the newds

[Anonymous No.5434617]

>>5434514
welcome to the desert of the real dad-- you lost your parental place the second you put them in front of the computer.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2U9WMftV40c

[Anonymous No.5434619]

Damn, man.. that's pretty sad. Modern technology is fucking up the youth rather than lifting them up...

[Anonymous No.5434621]

Kids are selfish and shitty, don't take it personally. If you raised them right and treated them right they'll grow up to appreciate all you did for them. I wasn't even a bad kid or teenager but I cringe at all the things I took for granted and how I treated my parents and try my best to be a good son now as an adult. Good luck anon.

[Anonymous No.5434632]

The social war is brewing op. 2018 is going to be lit as fuck.

[Anonymous No.5434633]

cmon man youre their dad. take their phones away. youre cucking yourself from happiness

[Anonymous No.5434639]

Just be yourself man, buy high sell low

[Anonymous No.5434652]

>>5434514
>about a trip to Africa to meet my cousin,
Is this a meme thread?

[Anonymous No.5434664]

>>5434633
>cucking
who the fuck lets thier kids or anyone for that matter on their cell phone at the dinner table.
YOU FAILED AT BEING A MAN AND A FATHER

[Anonymous No.5434666]

kill your kids and eat the bodies to regain the lost biomass

t.amoeba

[Sad Dad No.5434708]

>>5434652
My cousin lives in Africa.

>>5434664
I told them to put their phones away when we sat down.

[Anonymous No.5434723]

Nice sob story.. If you weren't in their life when they grew up, stop expecting them to treat you like a real father. Be ashamed not seek pity

[Anonymous No.5434731]

>>5434514
I guess we all do it. My parents often make my lunch etc while i day trade and ignore them. Take some initiative and ban phones during meals at least.

[Anonymous No.5434740]

>>5434666
>kill your kids and eat the bodies
>checked 666
everything is fine here

[Anonymous No.5434747]

It's not too late to try again. Find a young woman and have kids with her. Raise them with your past mistakes in mind.

[Anonymous No.5434772]

This is fake. This is not how people celebrate Christmas in Sweden.

Kan du berätta lite om vad som hände på svenska? Till exempel alla normala traditioner de missade.

[Anonymous No.5434787]

Donate in their names money to some charity.

[Anonymous No.5434791]

>>5434708
Put a fucking jar or something near the front door
tell them to put the damn phones in it before coming inside
STOP BEING A FUCKING PUSSY

[Anonymous No.5434793]

>>5434514
why is this in /biz/ exactly?

[Anonymous No.5434797]

Hey op, i feel for you i truly do.

If you want to improve your relationships with loved ones i hope you will consider reading Feeling Good Together by Md. David Burns

Happy holidays anon

[Anonymous No.5434800]

I'm not sure that there really is much more that you can do other than enforce them to put their phones away and then get dramatics.

If you're trying to be nice because you're making up for not being there or whatever, this is part of the deal esp with teenagers.

God Jul from anon, friend. Just try to do the best you can.

[Sad Dad No.5434803]

>>5434772
Kalle Anka, öppna julklappar, käka mat och så vidare.
De var helt uppslukade av sina telefoner. För fan, hur kan man ge sina ungar tillgång till mobiler hela tiden?

[Anonymous No.5434806]

>>5434731
>we all do it
I'd kill you in a heart beat if it meant I could spend an afternoon of quality time with parents that cared you worthless NEET piece of shit

[Anonymous No.5434812]

Sorry to hear that anon. I feel for you. I hope you meet a lovely traditional lady and can settle in nicely with her, you sound like a good dad and your kids are unappreciative. Theyll get it one day and regret this foolishness.

[Anonymous No.5434826]

>>5434514
Well that's a nice christmas what do you want my father killed himself last christmas.

[Anonymous No.5434830]

>>5434514
>I'm swedish
that unfamiliar car was the car your wife bought mohammed with your cuck bucks

stab the mom and ahmed both to death

[Anonymous No.5434854]

>>5434514
also reminder that your daughters are already fucking niggers

[Anonymous No.5434861]

>>5434514

Sound like degenerate sluts, likely taking after their mom. It’s too late op, don’t try to save them or invest in them emotionally. You’ll never be able to segregate them from social media and they have already learned being attention whores is 100% ok and acceptable.

[Anonymous No.5434864]

>>5434514
>>5434514
Holy shit lad

It's true that women bring nothing but heartache and disappointment. They're so mean and disrespectful these days.

Why'd you and your ex get a divorce?

[Anonymous No.5434867]

>>5434514
I was ok with social media, but with the past updates on facebook whatsapp and all that bs of stories it went down pretty fast to retardness, People are becaming slaves to their phones and the acceptance that everyone else give to them, Fk that shit.

[Anonymous No.5434875]

How hard is this, really?
How much of a cuck do you have to be to let your adult kids sit on their phones throughout a dinner talking to Tyrone, while ignoring you.

[Anonymous No.5434884]

HAHAHA FAGGOT

[Anonymous No.5434901]

Worst part is they probably themselves even shared that "Look up" video on Facebook before

[Anonymous No.5434910]

>>5434812
>Theyll get it one day and regret this foolishness.
yeah when they need help raising malik al-ahmed's child

[Anonymous No.5434914]

>>5434514
> sweden
probably went out to meet local mohammeds

feeling deeply sorry for you, we neckbeards on a hentai image board are your friends though

[Anonymous No.5434918]

>>5434514
Sorry to hear that ok, your daughters are too young and self absorbed to understand that they're hurting you. Don't take it personally, try to be a good dad and they'll come around as they mature.

Watching American Beauty might cheer you up.

[Anonymous No.5434941]

>>5434533
nice
when will they moon sir

[Anonymous No.5434960]

>>5434619
Anyone with a pulse could have seen technology doing this. Its why I invest in crypto. Dont bet against the kali yuga

[Anonymous No.5434977]

>>5434514
Youre probably a massive beta cuck and dont understand what its like to have friends as a teenager, especially women who are very collectivistic and narcissistic by nature.

[Anonymous No.5434980]

>>5434803
Ok, this guy is believable.

Tonåringar är på det sättet. Hade de bara gjort så här senaste veckan? I så fall hände det ju bara en gång.

Var bara en stark person själv, de kommer antagligen vilja ha en relation med sin far.

[Anonymous No.5435010]

>>5434514
that's awful man. I feel for you. i'm lucky enough to have a pretty amazing relationship with my father. both of my siblings do to. we all live within 30 minutes of each other too. I can't imagine what its like to have blood that behaves like that.

[Anonymous No.5435042]

>>5434514

you sound like a little bitch, your daughters would respect you x10 if you had a new hot wife going and gave them 0 love unless they show it first
instead you keep whining about how you wanna talk to them, you sound like you want them to bring out the whip

[Anonymous No.5435047]

Anon I wish I could hug you. I never had a dad. I wish more people were like you. I know this is all bullshit but I am over here tearing up. Hope everything goes ok man. Let me know if you ever want a son.

[Anonymous No.5435078]

>>5434514
Var det de som inte kramade dig eller du som inte kramade dem? De valde inte att ha distanta föräldrar som separerar. Att bli kallare mot sina föräldrar händer per automatik efter de separerar, jag växte personligen upp i sådan miljö och känner ingen stark koppling till dem

[Anonymous No.5435082]

>>5434514
At least your kids aren't like my daughter and her friends
>pic related

[Anonymous No.5435087]

>>5434514
I'm no genius at these situations, but if you want to create some sort of change, you could:

>A.Temporarily get rid of internet while they're around
>B.Give them the same sort of treatment they give you in an effort to teach them a lesson
>C.Attempt to show them kindness, then gradually fade out of their lives temporarily to teach them not to take you for granted.
>D.Adopt a child, and try to have the relationship you could never have with your daughters

[Anonymous No.5435110]

>>5434514
>tfw no father to celebrate Christmas with as he passed when I was in grade school
this is now a feels thread.

[Anonymous No.5435119]

>>5434977
I already shitposted in this thread but:
>spent Christmas with family
>two of my sisters (early twenties) did nothing but sit on the couch snapchatting and taking selfies, completely oblivious about anything else

They didn't even eat with the rest of us due to being too busy on their phones.

[Anonymous No.5435126]

>>5435047
it might be bullshit but you're right. ungrateful children are every bit as awful as shitty parents.

[Anonymous No.5435139]

>>5434514
>having daughters

[Anonymous No.5435150]

GET THE FUCK OFF /BIZ

[Anonymous No.5435157]

>>5434514
>I've made almost $300k in crypto
Use some profits to pay their friends they are texting with to suck and fuck. For revenge.

[Anonymous No.5435164]

>>5434514
Post their feet so we can cum on them and make you feel better.

[Sad Dad No.5435165]

>>5434864
She was crazy.
2 years after we got married, she wanted a divorce and she was able to take out 50% of my house, car, and owned land.

[Anonymous No.5435166]

>>5434514
Read twice, still don't understand what coin I should buy. 3/10

[Anonymous No.5435168]

>>5434514
Should have had boys, they would have loved you more than anything

[Anonymous No.5435179]

>>5435126
They will come to regret in the future too especially when the parent was always so kind and loving,

[Anonymous No.5435187]

>>5435157
do this OP.
also take pics and upload for us

[Anonymous No.5435200]

>>5435165
Fuck your daughters as revenge.

[Anonymous No.5435201]

>>5435139
Want kids... but don't want girls unless they end up gay or have enough self esteem not to let chad pump and dump them

[Anonymous No.5435211]

>>5434977
Narcissist? Maybe egocentric but women are too fucking stupid to be narcissistic. It's pretty easy to break them apart if you got the guts to call them off their bullshit. Women can never be narcissistic because they don't have the smarts to be at the top of anything. If most men treated them like the pathetic shit they usually are when they are out of control you'd see them behaving differently.

[Anonymous No.5435214]

>I'm swedish

[Anonymous No.5435215]

>>5435082
Bullshit, is the left one your daughter? What diet did she get growing up?

[Anonymous No.5435232]

>>5434514

Crypto will make the detachment from reality even more pronounced.

You're aiding in your daughters' detachment, perhaps more ironic is that you profited from the very thing that is destroying them.

[Anonymous No.5435241]

Your the fucking father. You have the authority to make them obey you. Do that.

>Swedish
>Divorced

Oh nevermind. Get out while you still can. RUN.

[Anonymous No.5435259]

Nigger you're their fucking dad and it's your house. Should've been blasting DnB on your niceass surround system you bought with your gains and answered the door in a gold suit.

[Anonymous No.5435263]

>>5434514
Again, I too have no advice to give, but I get it. The only advice I can offer is to other anons that it's not too late for: beware who you marry. Don't go after a girl who's too deep in modern culture, because she will divorce you eventually, and your kids will end up 10 times worse.

[Anonymous No.5435264]

>>5435119
America really is fucked man. We are gonna suffer during the next 60 years something serious, intellectuals are literally looked down upon.

[Anonymous No.5435286]

>>5435211

> narcissism
> smarts

narcissism has zilch to do with intelligence, moron.

narcissism is a preoccupation with the self. So yes, a great deal many women are narcissistic, regardless of how stupid they may or may not be.

[Anonymous No.5435292]

>>5435087
Actually, just give them a gift that reflects the relationship you have with each of them as a lesson in respect. They treat you like a dime a dozen, give them a gift that reflects their actions. It could be a beautiful teaching moment in consideration of others. Give them a deeper gift as a father that will last them throughout the years.

[Sad Dad No.5435296]

>>5434977
You are such a retard. I doubt that you have children.
I have been a teenager, but I have never treated my parents like air.

[Anonymous No.5435297]

>>5434803
Du är inte ensam, är inneboende med en familj med en tonårsdotter som är helt uppslukad. Vill inte vara med på någon familjetillställning, får allt mellan himmel och jord men tar knappt undan tallriken efter sig. Helt förlorad, fyfan för att ha döttrar.

[Anonymous No.5435298]

>>5435211
>If most men treated them like the pathetic shit they usually are when they are out of control you'd see them behaving differently.
Chad puts women in their place. Women are the subservient puppy eyes cum receptacles they're designed to be when in the company of an attractive alpha male. Women don't act out around chad for fear of him never calling back.

[Anonymous No.5435303]

So this is becoming another /pol thread?

Great.

[Anonymous No.5435320]

>>5434514
>2 kids
that's where you fucked up

[Anonymous No.5435324]

>>5435303
Can't relate to /pol/tards who have no money and fell for the trades meme.

[Anonymous No.5435338]

>>5434514
Sorry swedesbro but your daughters are roasties now. Don't be too disheartened though, only some 20% of attractive young girls escape the narrative and dont end up like the vapid whores society puts up on a pedestal

[Anonymous No.5435339]

>>5435241
No, OP take your inner viking out next time. Only rape, brutal sodomy and lots of screaming will make those entitle bitches more submissive.

Rape is the only solution.

[Anonymous No.5435346]

>>5435303
Bet you are lots of fun at parties.

[Anonymous No.5435358]

I never had a dad. I feel sorry for you, they should know how lucky they are

[Anonymous No.5435370]

they will regret it later in life and you know this

just do your best to spend time with them now
its all you can do

[Anonymous No.5435376]

>>5434514
i wonder how many pajeet are advising in this thread

[Anonymous No.5435388]

>>5434514
Was reading intently til i noticed your swedish...
your two blonde blue eyed daughters are probably sucking syrian cocks at a refugee center as we speak. I do feel bad for you but as a Canuck the moment my country gets as bad as yours ill be doing something about it fucking pathetic faggot.

[Anonymous No.5435392]

>>5435376
DELICIA

[Anonymous No.5435407]

>>5435346

With magic mushrooms and psytrance I am fun indeed, what's your excuse?

[Anonymous No.5435431]

>>5435407
cringe

[Anonymous No.5435434]

POST THEIR TITS OR GTFO

[Anonymous No.5435441]

>>5435388
There are Canadian girls acting exactly like his daughters right now, what are you doing about it?

[Anonymous No.5435443]

>>5434603
>I spent the whole evening crying
>divorced dad
>two whore daughters with no morals
>ex wife probably off fucking Mohamed

Honestly, Swede, your Viking ancestors are pissing on you right now. I can’t even believe the state of your country and your people. Absolutely disgusting.

[Anonymous No.5435446]

>>5434514
Yeah man sorry Swede bro social media was a mistake. You should start a new family with your gains. When your daughters are a bit older they will want to know you more. They are at peak retardation

[Anonymous No.5435449]

>>5434514
99% of women are trash that contribute nothing to society, that's just how the world is.

[Anonymous No.5435462]

>>5434514
Is your daughter hot??? She have big breast yes show picture?

[Anonymous No.5435472]

>>5435431

But I'm not discussing this as this is fuckin' /BIZ, so OP take note.

[LAMFO MF No.5435481]

>>5434514
Jesus fucking crist. I feel you my dude.

This is honestly my only fear right now. I fear that this will get worse and my daughter would join their club of braindead social fucks.

Thats why I plan to build my own house and make a family far way from big cities. Going traditional is the best for character.

I'm sorry but you probably have to deal with this for the next 8 years until they grow up.

[Anonymous No.5435493]

>>5434514
Here is why your daughters don't respect you:
>your wife divorced you
>you were not a strong male role model
>you weren't even around them enough because divorced
>you act needy and whiny (p... please put away you phones and talk to daddy)
>now you bribe them with food to come see you
>you blame social media for daughters not giving a fuck about you

How accurate is this?

[Anonymous No.5435503]

>>5434514

>Sweden

They're addicted to low IQ nig-dick now, sorry bro. You Swedes are probably the most ruined men of Europe, and it's women's fault.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bGf-9LH5WkU

[Anonymous No.5435507]

>>5434514
I felt irritated while reading that. IF there is any true to your story, then I just don't know. The girls probably dislike you for some reason, but I think you've lost them, their mother seems not the good kind.

What I'd do if i was you, maybe stalk them, see what they like and what they don't. Maybe bring up stories about their favorite artists and movies. If their mother haven't fed them enough bullshit (or truth if you're horrible), they should start to like you. Also, if you're rich act like you are, women submit with ease to rich people, SPOILER ALERT; including your daughters.

Eg håper det går bra med deg

[Anonymous No.5435519]

This is /BIZ, not /POL, I continue until you fuck off.

[Anonymous No.5435538]

>>5434514
The problem is the mom. You married a roastie, procreated with her, passed one her roastie genes and your autistic ones and now you have sperg daughters from a slut.

[Anonymous No.5435541]

>>5434514

> swedish

Should have married a submissive woman. Not a swede.

[Anonymous No.5435552]

>>5435519
you're the only one who's mad about it and you're clogging up this thread so jog on

[Anonymous No.5435562]

>>5434514

You are from Sweden, where dumb sluts like your daughters are put on a pedestal throughout their lives and taught that men are evil (only white men though).

You skank ex wife will have blamed you for the divorce the entire time further compounding the notion that you are shit in their minds.

Literally emigrate out of Sweden and cut them from your live. Stop paying alimony and liquidate assets and siphon them offshore.

I'm British but at my girlfriend's family in Lithuania at the moment just across the sea from you. We just fucking all stood up as a family and prayed before eating a few hours ago - I haven't prayed since I was 13.

Your daughters will be completely absorbed into normie culture and will likely have half black kids. You made a mistake, move on.

[Anonymous No.5435568]

>>5435503
>letting women have freedom
Nope. It's the men's fault really.

[Anonymous No.5435569]

>>5435538
He wishes his daughters were spergs. They're self absorbed turbo normies

[Anonymous No.5435572]

>>5434514
You should stop caring about them, and focus on yourself instead Sven.

Travel somewhere you always wanted to go, dare yourself by do something different.

The fact that you care about your daugthers so much means that you are a wonderful person, you deserve better than them.

Happy Christmas from Denmark

[Anonymous No.5435591]

>>5435552

Yep, this is /BIZ, I'm not stopping. I am the god dog of /BIZ and you now stop this talking and shill me some coins.

[Anonymous No.5435595]

>>5434514
Man, they are stupidly young. 'Stupid' being the focus and operative word here. Give em until they are 20s. Girls are better than men coming back around to the values of family

[Anonymous No.5435602]

>>5434772
How do people celebrate christmas in sweden?

[Anonymous No.5435622]

>>5435538
Unironically this, there's too many ugly/fat women that are allowed to reproduce in this world. As a /fit/izen I can say that for every 10 guys in the gym there's 1 girl.

Something like 89% of all females will reproduce in their lifetime, vs. only 65% of males.

Shit's fucked brehs

[Anonymous No.5435625]

>>5435165
>2 years after we got married, she wanted a divorce
>daughters are 3 years apart

you fucked up

[Anonymous No.5435634]

>>5435296
I feel like maybe you just lucked out a little bit and your daughters grew up self entitled. Maybe you can reverse this but I'm not sure.

[Anonymous No.5435637]

>>5434514
damn anon. my heart goes out to you this holiday. trolling aside, no one deserves to be alone; nevertheless this time of year. this is coming from a guy who's divorce just went through. my ex was a good sport and we're still friends. she didnt take half my shit either and we have no kids.

look, i remember being a little shit to my dad. your kids are still young. just keep on trying to hang and talk to with them. you're there dad so put pride aside. remember the law of meme magic. if you keep on doing/saying something, it eventually happens/becomes fact. stay comfy with your gains, good luck, and god speed, bro.

[Anonymous No.5435639]

I am the GOD DOG. You have to understand this.

[Anonymous No.5435684]

>>5435595
>be a slut your entire youth
>just kidding where's my trad daddy
It's simply their biological clock explicitly telling them they need to settle down and society implicitly saying the same. They'd much rather be forever21