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[Anonymous No.57375602]

I’ve finally made it but i’ve been single my whole life.

How do I know a girl likes me for me and not my money?

[Anonymous No.57375622]

>>57375602
>How do I know a girl likes me for me and not my money?
Just keep her happy and she won't even consider it

[Anonymous No.57375630]

American women actually care less about money than non American women. But they also make for worse wives and have strange, oftentimes arbitrary priorities.

[Anonymous No.57375670]

how old are you?
no women will love you for yourself >25

[Anonymous No.57375687]

>>57375602
Depends on your age anon, if you're over 25 they'll only care about the money, people's attractiveness starts declining rapidly after 25

[Anonymous No.57375829]

>>57375602
What does it say when every very attractive woman wouldn't look at you twice but the less attractive ones might? Have you ever known of a very attractive woman who hasn't become an Instagram brat in an almost completely deterministic way? Would you ever consider falling in love with a woman with a face like Ken Dodd?

It says that the value of love, whatever you place on it yourself, is expressed only in how theirs and your facial features are arranged.

Romantic love is the lowest form of love, it isn't worth having, doesn't last if you have it, potentially costs you everything and you never really know whether it's real.

True love will ONLY be invented when people can decide for themselves exactly how they look, until then it's a meme (sadly). Fortunately, this could happen within a few decades. When this happens, the true love revolution will happen. It will be incredible. See how this post has plunged you to the depths of despair and yet now I have reached in and pulled you from the abyss and invite you to join me in gazing upon the most heavenly of heavens.

We are going there.

[Anonymous No.57375907]

I don't believe in love anymore because I was in love. I could move literal mountains for this person, but they wouldn't do the same for me. That's when it clicked in my head that I should cheat and dump this bitch. My life is mine alone.

[Anonymous No.57375916]

>>57375829
So learning to love uggos is the way?

[Anonymous No.57375927]

After a certain age they look for men who'll be successful in the future

[Anonymous No.57375944]

>>57375602
>How do I know a girl likes me for me and not my money?
you just know. if you never had a gf then its most likely you never will. sorry.

[Anonymous No.57376318]

>>57375829
>Fortunately, this could happen within a few decades.
Ah yes, in 2090
geriatric me will live a teenage romance

[Anonymous No.57376361]

>>57375630
>>57375622
>>57375602
This, american women care about their feelings more than anything else. As long as you have 100,000 instagram followers, you work at a top firm and make 500k a year minimum, and you own a home and have a massive social circle and live in a big Coastal city, then you might just have a shot at picking up a 34 year old chick with 20-30 past hookup partners.

[Anonymous No.57376394]

>>57375602
>How do I know a girl likes me for me and not my money?
Your fortune is part of you, just like your height or personality
Yes, a gold digger is bad, but *90%* of women will see your wealth as a good thing. Finding a woman who isn't at a bit interested in your money is asking for a four-leaf clover.

[Anonymous No.57376437]

>>57375602
theres a 90% shes likes you for your money and 10% she actually likes u.
majority of men are in the 90%.
>>57375670
This too.

[Anonymous No.57376453]

>>57376437
>theres a 90% shes likes you for your money

NTA but I met my GF when I was working a shit job. Best way to find one who likes you

[Anonymous No.57376507]

>>57375602
Pretend that you're a wagie, but really spend your time working out, sleeping the proper amount, and developing your mind. She'll think you're a gigachad in comparison to the fat stressed out messes that most people are, and won't need to know about your money.

[Anonymous No.57376674]

>>57375602
>picrel
Idk if roasties could handle this meme

[Anonymous No.57376996]

>>57375829
That’s a long winded way to say
>im trans btw

[Anonymous No.57377006]

>>57375602
>How do I know a girl likes me for me and not my money?

You'll know because she's a woman

[Anonymous No.57377042]

>>57375602
What makes you think you deserve someone that loves you for your personality? If that hasnt worked up until this point? Use the money to trap some dummy hoe. If she leaves you, threaten to kill her family

[Anonymous No.57377057]

[Anonymous No.57377079]

>>57375602
Im 25 and still haven't made it, guess what i hold and how many women I've been with.

[Anonymous No.57377083]

>>57375602
how about not trying to use money as a hook for romance, dumbass

[Anonymous No.57377116]

>HR roastie texts me "Hi I'm jennifer from Acronym, you can call me back!"
>have literally no clue who she is or what job I applied for
>she doesn't tell me what job I applied for when I text her back
Holy fuck I hate women. I'm so tired of the fucking games bitch I'm not trying to date you I'm trying to interview for a fucking accounting job can't you just act like a fucking human being?

[Anonymous No.57377125]

>which women aren't inherently designed to be hoes

None of them. All of them are animal designed to bend over for the one bringing the biggest amount of kill or literally throwing her against the wall like a bug.

Live beneath your means, never spend your actual money on her until after you're married. Don't tell her about your money until she's agreed to marry you (you do need to tell her before) and you've finalized your wedding plans.

There are good girls out there, but you won't find a virgin older than 17 in most places so don't make that your sticking point. And good girls will still want a man who can take care of them in their castle. There might even be a good woman who attempts to avoid looking at money as part of her assessment, but it will be a struggle to find, there are nearly 4 years where if you're not making quality provisions, she and or your child will be dead, and women only get a (relative to your 6 times a day) few chances to get offspring.

[Anonymous No.57377131]

>>57375829
>t. autistic 27 year old virgin who doesn't drive

[Anonymous No.57377178]

>>57375602
If no one loved you for you before you had money, why would anyone love you for you after you have money?

[Anonymous No.57377189]

>>57375670
Date an "18" year old

[Anonymous No.57377196]

>>57375916
WOULD

[Anonymous No.57377227]

>>57375916
Are you implying you look like that? Are you Jewish?

[Anonymous No.57377251]

>>57375670
Realized this when I was 27 lmao. But realistically it's more like past 18, teen love is the only time that "he's my soulmate" shit works, and even then having a car makes it more likely you're her soulmate.

[Anonymous No.57377284]

>>57377116
You're wasting time applying like that. You need to be spending the time you're using on filing the forms, on meeting people in the business and learning about the job and who you'll be working with.

Unless the job is remote work.
And then the proper answer is,
>Good day Jennifer, and thanks for your interest. I'm glad to hear I've peaked your interest as a possible coworker. Before we finalize the interview time, Jennifer, can you please send over the latest description of the job for which we'll be interviewing to <youremail>? I'm immediately available to interview on X between, W and Y, and P and S between Q and R. If those are not good times, my calendar gets more open after next week.

If she sends from a personal account, you're dealing with a scam or a startup. Otherwise, her email should show what company, or the listing should. If she won't do that, move along, either they want to fit you where they want you or they're not organized well enough to have her in HR.

[Anonymous No.57377314]

>>57377227
W-what...?

[Anonymous No.57377330]

>>57377284
>You're wasting time applying like that. You need to be spending the time you're using on filing the forms, on meeting people in the business and learning about the job and who you'll be working with.
Okay, texted her.

[Anonymous No.57377409]

>>57375916
The term
>making love
is not a mistake. the act of orgasm with another human is the creation of instincts to attachment. she will gain a grade or more to you. even more when she has your healthy children.
but you should only use this when you're married, because breaking that bond is harm to you and her, and using that before you have sworn to uphold each other, for some reason, actually causes disharmony. these are sociologically tested human traits for greater than 50% of the population, if I recall they are beyond supermajority to the 95%.

>>57377330
Remember, you don't want to lie, but you can still present yourself in a positive light. If you're going to be in the office with them, don't ever lie about yourself and your hobbies. You'll just end up hating the performance and making others uncomfortable. There are businesses that operate in that way, stay away from them, imo. You can get money, but you'll get an ulcer or hypertension, or just suffer endless depression. Better to make a minimum wage for a few months where you can be yourself (not an offensive pig mind you) until you get the job that fits, than have to put on more social grace, or opposite, than you might normally.

[Anonymous No.57377517]

>>57377314
Answer the question.

[Anonymous No.57377572]

>>57375602

[Anonymous No.57377761]

>>57375916
I'd probably love her anyways. She did age a lot this past year

[Anonymous No.57377776]

>>57375602
First, get over the idea that your money shouldn't matter and you should be liked for who you are exclusively. If you really have made it, if you're the quality guy you think you are, your money is just a prerequisite condition to access the women where your money doesn't matter because the women you're dating have as much earning power or inheritance as you do. Your mistake is having let's say $1.5 million and still dating Applebee's hostesses. At a certain level of wealth, those days need to be done.

What I learned is that your best bet is networking and staying in your tier of quality. Money enables access to the higher tiers. At those tiers everyone has money so the only element of your money that matters is that you have a certain minimum quantity of it. You need to start dating women that are attorneys, physicians, engineers, etc. You need to start hanging out with people in your professional tier in general because again, money simultaneously matters, but no longer matters at a certain tier. And if you're a good quality guy, at that level everyone plays matchmaker. Every good family has a niece or cousin or daughter or granddaughter who either is single and an oncologist or doing their residency.

Everyone has a tight network at that level and everyone is trying to keep their headaches minimal. You need to get into it. Go join a country club if you have to. I'd probably do that if I didn't have the network I had already in place. Thankfully though, I had a few buddies who became vastly successful a little before I did and so my invitation into the club really just required me to break up with my loser gf of the time who didn't fit in at all, cut ties with certain family members who also couldn't hang, and after that it was like "Welcome to the party, everyone here is fucking awesome and successful...by the way have you met Priyanka? She just broke up with her boyfriend. She's a pediatrician and yoga instructor."

[Anonymous No.57377909]

>>57375670
>>57375687
this, women hate older men

[Anonymous No.57378310]

>>57376361

we need to follow each other bros to get our follower/following numbers up
who's down?

i'm just too scared to dox myself on 4chan lmao but maybe someone can set up an email address or discord server for this

[Anonymous No.57378569]

>>57375670
>>57375687
>>57375927
>>57375602
Date younger women. 18-20

[Anonymous No.57378645]

>>57375602
this is literally my wife, who I'm pretty sure I'll have to divorce in the next three months

[Anonymous No.57378823]

>>57375602
>How do I know a girl likes me for me and not my money?
lol
lmao even

That's like a young hot woman saying "how do I know he likes me for my personality and not my beauty and fertility?" Get real

[Anonymous No.57378885]

>>57378569

girls at that age aren't trynna date someone who's 30+
also dating apps don't match you with them. it's auto set to 5 year gap.
so unless you lie about your age on dating apps, you won't match with them. and if you lie what are you gonna say when they find out you're 7 years older than you claimed?

[Anonymous No.57378891]

>>57377409
nominated "least likely to get laid this year"

[Anonymous No.57378901]

>>57378885
>girls at that age aren't trynna date someone who's 30+
They are if he's mid 8figs. You think a girl who is 20 is going to dip on a guy worth 40mil? lol bro

[Anonymous No.57378977]

>>57375602
>early 20s
>fantasize about making it to impress my oneitis

>late 20s
>made it but my oneitis has hit the wall

[Anonymous No.57378988]

>>57375670
>no women will love you for yourself >25
They didn't love you for yourself under 25 either. That was infatuation. Anon need to come to terms with the fact that all love from women is conditional, if you fuck up or they get over it - they leave. Their love is not unconditional. This isn't depressing btw. It's just a fact of life.

[Anonymous No.57378992]

>>57378885
>at that age aren't trynna date someone who's 30+

Zoomer with no life experiences

[Anonymous No.57379004]

>>57378310
same ive been trying to figure out how to raise my instagram followers without buying them so I can dm girls easier its hard lol

[Anonymous No.57379012]

>>57378992
older people aren't attractive anon, women in their early 30s are less attractive than their early 20 year old selves and the same goes for men

[Anonymous No.57379033]

>>57378992

dude, try making a tinder or bumble profile and list your age as 32 years old.
see how many 18-24 year old girls you match with.

[Anonymous No.57379092]

>>57379012
Women and men gauge attraction differently. That anon is right you have zero life experience

[Anonymous No.57379109]

>>57379033
Zoomers complain endlessly about older men poaching their girls yet insist to themselves that girls don't like older men. Wew.

[Anonymous No.57379110]

>>57379012
>>57379033

Go outside. Unless you're Chad millionaire you're only getting bots

[Anonymous No.57379136]

>>57378988
only retards believe in unconditional love. of course love is conditional.

[Anonymous No.57379157]

>>57379136
>only retards believe in unconditional love
Not retards, just naive young men. Almost all men buy into this lie in their formative years. It's not their fault: they were too young to know any better. But it's their fault if they continue to live in denial about it.

[Anonymous No.57379185]

>>57379157
22 yo zoomzoom here, please give more advice anon, I unironically still believe in unconditional love, don't know if it's because of my age (or conditioning by my parents?) or because of the media though

[Anonymous No.57379261]

>>57375622
This, all you need to do is to make her cum just about enough times her pussy gets sore and she will be with you for life.

[Anonymous No.57379300]

>>57379185
>I unironically still believe in unconditional love
we need to agree on the definition but it kinda exists anon. incels are just very bitter. hal finney became handicapped and his wife loved him till the end even if paralyzed. this is an example of what people call unconditional love (even if it is still conditional to some extent)

[Anonymous No.57379313]

>>57379300
>hal finney became handicapped and his wife loved him till the end even if paralyzed
this is the kind of shit I want, hopefully there's someone out there for all of us

[Anonymous No.57379321]

>>57379300
when i say unconditional love doesnt exist i mean if you start letting yourself go and gain a lot of weight and start acting like a total jerk you wont be loved unconditionally

[Anonymous No.57379352]

>>57379321
one of the main reasons why I want to make it is to have time to be healthy, eat proper food, sleep 10 hours, go to the gym regularly,...
You can't really do this shit while waging, you don't have the energy for it, I have 200k saved which I think is good for my age, that's not a lot in the US but it is in my europoor country

[Anonymous No.57379371]

>>57378885
lolll my brother in christ you are mistaken

[Anonymous No.57379381]

>>57379352
>200k saved at 22
>not a lot in the us
are you trolling? you're richer than 99.5% of people your age or the median 44 year old in the us

[Anonymous No.57379391]

>>57379381
thanks fren, honestly this board makes it seem like that isn't a lot sometimes, housing is so damn expensive that 200k doesn't sound like a lot.
I already have a small car my parents bought me so I just need money in stocks to pay me good constant divvies and to buy a house in cash, the faster I get off the waging hell the better (not to play vidya and masturbate like a lot of anons here but to have time to better myself).
good night anon

[Anonymous No.57379403]

>>57379300
>everything I don't agree with in "incel"
These buzzwords have decimated any serious discussion amongst younger people. Truly moronic. Men are capable of unconditional love for women, but women do not have this for men. This is a simple fact of life
>(even if it is still conditional to some extent)
one that you cannot help but concede.

There is truth in the old adage that women are pragmatists who pretend to be romantic, and men are romantics that pretend to be pragmatists. I'm not saying you shouldn't be romantic. It's in a man's nature to be this way sometimes, but you shouldn't expect this to be reciprocated in equal measure. Men and woman are wired differently, and we have different needs/expectations.

This shouldn't make you bitter. That denotes a lack of discernment. Rather men should have unconditional love for Truth itself - love of wisdom, and God.

[Anonymous No.57379428]

>>57379403
>Men are capable of unconditional love for women, but women do not have this for men. This is a simple fact of life
sorry but that's the kind of nonsense being shared by bitter incels.

[Anonymous No.57379456]

>>57379428
>This shouldn't make you bitter. That denotes a lack of discernment. Rather men should have unconditional love for Truth itself - love of wisdom, and God.
You have to cope. It's time.

[Anonymous No.57379504]

>>57379428
To add: women are capable of unconditional love, - I'm not saying they aren't - but they only have unconditional love for their children. Not their man. This is the result of countless millennia of hardwiring into them, and if you think that has changed due to the recent Disneyfication of the last few decades, you are out of your mind.

[Anonymous No.57379518]

>>57379504
>but they only have unconditional love for their children
that's not even true, many women dont love their children. but i understand your confusion since you're a retard, confirmed by the fact that you're a christcuck.

[Anonymous No.57379538]

>>57379518
>you're a christcuck
I only mentioned Truth, wisdom and God in the general - never alluding to anything Christian specifically.

Though it's very telling that you naturally associate Christ with those things.

[Anonymous No.57379587]

>>57379538
>men should have unconditional love for Truth itself - love of wisdom, and God.
because most people here who talk about "men should have unconditional love of God", are usually christcucks but i concede that you may be a muslimcuck or any other religiouscuck (there are thousands of religious beliefs out there, all more or less equally retarded).

[Anonymous No.57379618]

>>57379587
>my asshole is permanently prolapsed from other threads because I take this place way too seriously, so now I am going to project my impotent loser rage at you
Okay very cool. Keep me posted

[Anonymous No.57379629]

>>57375670
I had a girl who was crazy about me for 9 years, she was so in love with me, engaged we were. Then I lost my job, I got depressed, drank a lot and within a year she was gone even after I showed signs of getting better because the spark was gone. Plenty of times she fell down and got depressed during the relationship and I stuck it out, I think girls move on quicker than we do and a lot of them have this sociopathic mentality that they don’t owe men shit and kind of hate us.

[Anonymous No.57379743]

>>57377572
That poor black kid has her forehead. He didn't get anything good from either side.

[Anonymous No.57379783]

>>57379629
Think about it like this
A woman needs a man in order for her to "make it". If you are not helping her make it, its really in her best interest to monkey branch

[Anonymous No.57379847]

>>57379618
you have no argument saying women aren't capable of unconditional love unlike men. that's just retarded. sounds like you have mommy issues desu.
>>57379629
men do the exact same thing and stop their relationship

[Anonymous No.57379854]

>>57379783
Yep, they don’t have that possessive element like we do really

[Anonymous No.57379862]

>>57379629
>and kind of hate us
Women hate other women around them who are doing better than them far more than they hate men. But these optics aren't useful to the unspoken goals of the sisterhood so they try not to parade them in open society.

[Anonymous No.57379882]

>>57379847
Not all men, there were times she was completely unattractive to me but I figured she’d get better again as life has its ups and downs, I was ready to stick them all out for her no matter what.

When I got fired she secretly hated and resented me for it and and told me crap like I had you on the right path and you blew it and said losers have a better life than us etc, finally was getting back up on my feet mentally and financially and then she ran off and banged her coworker who just wants to fuck her and probably doesn’t want a relationship, women have no empathy for men

[Anonymous No.57379884]

>>57379847
>women aren't capable of unconditional love unlike men
I said women are capable of unconditional love, but this is only reserved for their children, not men.
>sounds like you have mommy issues desu
Another interesting projection. You legitimately have mommy issues if you refuse to deal with the fact that women cannot love you like mommy does. Men understand what I'm talking about, and it doesn't annoy them. They process it however they must and move on, because they understand how to regulate their emotions. Boys refuse to accept this and go into histrionics because they're psychologically unequipped to handle real life.

[Anonymous No.57379922]

>>57379884
>I said women are capable of unconditional love, but this is only reserved for their children, not men.
yeah, it just reflects your low IQ
>you're projecting, you can't accept reality
you're the one projecting here mate

[Anonymous No.57379943]

>>57379922
>you're the one projecting here mate
No, that would be you. Anon you are crashing and burning like some sort of faggot codependent Hindenburg over the bittersweet reality that they will never be a woman who could love you as much as momsy does. Get it together and grow up.

[Anonymous No.57379951]

>>57375602

The older I get the more I feel like women are just incapable of love.

[Anonymous No.57379961]

>>57379951
To make an honest woman out of her in spite of this is the burden of man. Women and boys will never understand.

[Anonymous No.57379966]

>>57377776
Say more. I’m a young adult trying to start. I just graduated and got my first big boy job.

[Anonymous No.57379986]

>>57379629
>lost job
>depressed
>drank a lot
So you had no money, probably didn't take her out on dates, sedentary and complaining nonstop for a year, and were probably a wreck if not physically abusive when drunk, she put up with it for an entire year, and now all women are sociopaths? Aren't you fags the ones that claim a woman expires after 25? Women don't have eternal youth to waste on you. 9 years, barely engaged, and then wasted ANOTHER year of her life. POOR GIRL. You sound like a loser and she took too long to find self respect.

[Anonymous No.57379993]

>>57379587
Hi jew!

[Anonymous No.57380001]

>>57379986
>Women don't have eternal youth to waste on you.
This is a decent point. You can't laugh at them for having a smaller window of fertility then cry when they're moving as much as possible to capitalize on it before it's done.

[Anonymous No.57380005]

>>57375602
>2024
>falling for the biohole jew
Just find a cute whore to fuck and deal with the STDs. It's easier and they won't end up taking half your net worth and child support when they get bored of you.

[Anonymous No.57380007]

>>57379943
anon please. your brain just can't understand nuance which is normal since you're low IQ. low IQs absolutely hate nuance because it completely shatters their black and white world views. it actually forces them to acknowledge that the world is more complicated or different that the simplistic idea they made of it.

[Anonymous No.57380010]

>>57380007
benis

[Anonymous No.57380017]

>>57379986
Not denying I was a fall down man, but it happens life goes up and down, the point is when they do we stick it out a lot better than they do

[Anonymous No.57380052]

>>57375602
Someone needs to update this meme to add “vaxxed 5x” and a mask selfie

[Anonymous No.57380055]

>>57380017
...and my point is women have more to risk. In addition to her limited window of physical attractiveness and fertility, childbirth is deadly. A woman may not consciously want children, but there are subconscious motivations in attraction. It's why a woman looks for the social and financial success of a man. It tells her if he's a provider that will stick it out when she's vulnerable during pregnancy and birth. Being mobile during pregnancy, especially the last months, is difficult. She's torn apart after birth. This is assuming everything else went well and she didn't develop one of many complications like pre eclampsia (seizures), gestational diabetes (induced by the placenta), chord prolapse or infections that can lead to sepsis (which is an excruciating slow death), etc. She needs cared for, her young are vulnerable, they need the tribe OR YOU. Being a drunk faggot over a long period of time is just a tell to her biology you'll abandon her, on some level you already have. Being physically present is not enough.

[Anonymous No.57380067]

Anyone have that image of that roastie changing her age on tinder after some chad roasts the fuck out of her wanting kids at 45?

[Anonymous No.57380126]

>>57375622
Biggest BS ever

>>57375602
Don't show your money at first and see if you can get her. Then keep her at a distance for a while to check and if it goes good then you can reveal. But the problem is that you are probably an incel so you don't know how to do any of these... Too bad.

[Anonymous No.57380281]

>>57378885
>girls at that age aren't trynna date someone who's 30+
depends on the guy. If the 30+ year old isn't bald and isn't overweight or middle age looking then age isn't an issue. 18 year olds are more likely to try an age gap relationship especially nowadays when it's so taboo. Making it taboo and "too adult" makes it so they want to prove they are real adults

[Anonymous No.57380291]

>>57379012
>and the same goes for men
men aren't women. most don't age as bad as women
>also dating apps don't match you with them. it's auto set to 5 year gap.
>dude, try making a tinder or bumble profile and list your age as 32 years old.
Just meet women in real life

You're obviously a zoomer male threatened by older men taking your women. Work on yourself and when you're 25-30 you too can get an 18 year old gf as nature intended

[Anonymous No.57380292]

>>57375602
get your self a BLACK or LATINA QWEEN. They know how to value and appreciate their rich, WHITE BOY.

[Anonymous No.57380343]

>>57375602
Time to go live abroad anon
>t. abroad liver

[Anonymous No.57380724]

>>57377776
Uhhh women and earning power in the same sentence lololololol. “Professional women” are the absolute worst phenotypes for childrearing. They’re literally trying to be men and neglecting their only real purpose. Now off to the country club bathroom you go to suck off your besties. Lololol

[Anonymous No.57381289]

>>57380292
only women with real hair are acceptable

[Anonymous No.57381573]

>>57379504
And Chad, an extremely attractive (and or evil) man.

[Anonymous No.57381761]

>>57379943
I wish I could find a woman who loves me as much as mommy does :((

[Anonymous No.57381786]

>>57379783
THIS, its legit part of their recipe for success. Its the same for a guy to be well off with money as it is for her to have a good husband

[Anonymous No.57381815]

>>57375670
How does that work? If I find a girl and we both love each other at 22. Will she stop loving me after I get 25 years old?

[Anonymous No.57381844]

>>57377178
What women want changes as they age. Younger women just want to have fun and enjoy their youth. But don't worry, when they get older, they will be all over the successful nice guys like you. You will win in the end :))

[Anonymous No.57381891]

>>57377776
This honestly.
I used to work in small fintech company, and was highly competent there. the girls in that company were way way above what you usually meet out there, and usually smart and nice. and they were interested in me too, cause i showed high competency at job and because they got to know me just by working together, so it wasn't a forced "date".

anyway, outside of work i meet the dumbest women who have absolutely nothing going for them, who non-ironically act like they are better than me and with whom basically every meeting or chat is them having their hand on the "next" button. it was quite frustrating and i stopped online dating and stayed just dating my business chicks, but i realize the selection-bias plays into here too. the nice, cute girl you actually want will not even be doing online dating, whereas its precisely the low-effort girl, who has nothing in their life will go on online dates where she gets swarmed by hundreds of hungry dudes, and this is what allows her to get away with such delusional behaviour.

[Anonymous No.57381931]

>>57381844
>You will win in the end :))
Chad's post wall leftovers is not winning. It's retroactive cuckoldry.

[Anonymous No.57382065]

>>57375602
Don't let them know you're rich until they've already accepted a proposal for marriage.

[Anonymous No.57382171]

>>57378988
Correct. And as as you said, this fact is not depressing but liberating. It means realizing you have control over the romantic feelings of women if you know what you're doing.

[Anonymous No.57382283]

>>57382065
>Don't let them know you have wealth that they can use state power to steal, until you give them that state power.

[Anonymous No.57382309]

>>57382283
Yes, of course. If they've agreed to become your wife, to join their life to yours, while thinking you're poor or average, then they've earned the right to your wealth. If you don't think they're trustworthy enough, then why marry them in the first place? Are you a retard?

[Anonymous No.57382314]

>>57380292
Dayum...

[Anonymous No.57382315]

>>57381844
This will most likely work but it is not winning. You are a provider, not an object of passion. You are expected to give but receive nothing in return. You may get children but she will teach them to resent you the same way she does.

[Anonymous No.57382316]

>>57377057
Honestly this. Yes roasties exist, so do normal women.

[Anonymous No.57382321]

>>57381289
That is real hair, lmfao.

[Anonymous No.57382326]

>>57382316
Less and less, anon. Less and less (but same for men).

[Anonymous No.57382392]

>>57375602
Because you know her from before you made it

[Anonymous No.57382511]

>>57377079
chainlink?

[Anonymous No.57382527]

>>57375630
what a reasonable point of view

[Anonymous No.57382545]

>>57378901
do you put your NW in your dating profile? youre delusional. girls at that age think $100k is a lot of money. after that the non-financial things matter more

[Anonymous No.57382573]

>>57377409
What if I know for sure I'm going to marry this girl, why does having sex create disharmony? I believe you but it's so hard to stop doing it... Could my relationship still make it? I want to get married asap and we've talked about it but I can't seem to stop having sex

[Anonymous No.57382696]

>>57381289
your loss, nigger. Resting your head close to an EBONY QUEEN's fragrant, voluminous, curly hair is only for people who deserve it.

[Anonymous No.57382734]

>>57382283
You just need to let her know she will be *not* alive if she tries to cross you. She needs to respect you. To fear you. Simple as.

[Anonymous No.57382768]

>>57382573
I'm sorry, but it's already over. Sex was supposed to be the glue that would hold your marriage together. Now that you've had it before your marriage, getting married has lost its purpose. Basically, both of you didn't think the other was worth waiting for.

Start over (with a LATINA or BLACK queen, preferentially).

[Anonymous No.57383034]

>>57379352
>200k saved
>22
Meanwhile I'm 33 and 200k in debt lmao, this shit is so fucked

[Anonymous No.57383256]

>>57379847
>men do the exact same thing and stop their relationship
"Nearly 70 percent of divorces are initiated by the wife." - INTERNET, THE
I can assure it's the same in all kinds of relationships. Retarded roastie. Fuck you.

[Anonymous No.57383495]

>>57381844
this is why you get an 18 year old gf

[Anonymous No.57383526]

>>57375602
Step 1 dont talk about your money and live a normal life,
Step 2 meet girls and see

[Anonymous No.57383546]

>>57377409
>but you should only use this when you're married, because breaking that bond is harm to you and her, and using that before you have sworn to uphold each other, for some reason, actually causes disharmony
Source: trust me on this, bro

[Anonymous No.57383567]

Be in a situation where loving themselves is equal to loving you, where seeking their good is seeking your good.
If you are a part of some kind of community (like a religious one) it gives mechanisms where her having a good relationship and being devoted to you is important for her to maintain the goods she gets from her community/religious life. That's the easiest way

Apart from that just be very skeptical/cautious of the kind of people she is around everyone but women in particularly particularly evaluate things socially. Are their friends in good relationships? Is she friends with any fucked up weirdos promiscuous people?

Like I said part of the foundation for someone being able to love someone else IS selfish, in the sense of it makes the goods they are seeking and getting for themselves dependent on having a good relationship with you. If they don't have that you can't really be that confident. Loving herself has to involve loving you, it has to be a harmonious/complete thing.

[Anonymous No.57383583]

>>57380005
A true third-worlder...

[Anonymous No.57383602]

>>57379986
No, he sounds like a normal man, facing normal ups-and-downs of life. His woman sounds like shit, and you sound like even less than that.

[Anonymous No.57383625]

>>57379518
>anti-Christ
Third worlder spotted! Civilization destroying parasite spotted!

[Anonymous No.57383647]

>>57377776
Trust fund baby detected. Can’t wait till you lose your “wealth” in a messy divorce or in other stupid “investments”. I will admit that you need to find a women who likes you for who you are, but this “society tier” bullshit is stupid unless you’re truly in the “in” crowd like the Rothschilds. Rich professions are not real wealth and are a clear sign of new money.

[Anonymous No.57383774]

>>57379157
>>57379300
>>57379504
Reminder that Lafayette's wife showed up to the fort her husband was imprisoned in and forced the captain to also arrest her just so she can be with her husband
She even died because of it (got preumonia from the bad conditions IIRC)

True love existed in the past, it's our sick modern society that is the problem, women have become completely deranged, I suffer from delusions of grandeur yet compared to an average white women I'm humility itself

[Anonymous No.57384223]

>earn money
>decides to find woman BECAUSE he made money
>doesn't want the money to be a factor in her decision making
lol

Embrace the fact that you offer money ONLY the same way you probably put a very high value on her sexual attractiveness

[Anonymous No.57384456]

>>57383774
this won't happen in the age of instagram and google. women are minutes away from finding answers to their questions about men

>>57379986
post tits

[Anonymous No.57384827]

What does it matter if you got money.

[Anonymous No.57384974]

>>57375602
You will know if shes happy doing simple things with you. Things that dont involve spending money. Try to test her by doing something laboreous, like taking your recycling in for cash. If shes happy with helping you then shes a good one.

[Anonymous No.57385153]

>>57377572
oh man. should've totally said 'something about the photo'.
>what a beautiful young black boy, is he yours?

[Anonymous No.57386308]

>>57377284
>peaked
this board truly is all jeets

[Anonymous No.57386451]

>>57377057
the board is dead atm that's why threads like these get so many replies. also people are retards and the black pill gives these incels enough intellectual stimulation and online camaraderie to keep going in life. these "men" love to roll around in their own feces, splashing and dunking each others heads in it without actually doing anything to better themselves. they'd rather just complain.