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Financially speaking, how do I recover from this?

>> No.57430344

Buy Hokk. The old contract one.

>> No.57430362

>>57430340
Wouldn't worry about it, it's another story that shapes who you are. Take it in stride, keep the useful stuff, forget the rest. The sun will rise again and you'll find your ideal partner soon enough.

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>>57430340
literally 4 billion more women out there, just move on.

>> No.57430388

>>57430362
I mean I’m so fucking embarrassed

She was a beautiful girl I knew from school and we hung out as friends and got along so well, I mean we could hangout all day and time would just fly by

I never had that good of a time just hanging out with a girl before. And she was so beautiful I couldn’t help but get feelings.

She was wayyy out of my league and I went for it. Now it feels like she’s telling me she would love me as a partner but I’m just too ugly…

Like she had to force herself to try to me intimate with me but in the end it would just be too uncomfortable for her

>> No.57430397

>>57430388
Old fag here. If she isnt physically attracted to you now, with women, that can change over time if you are 'there for her' long enough - yes its 'simpy' but it does happen/work for chicks.

>> No.57430409

https://youtu.be/onLyWviregc?si=UY7e6l2To3weLi35

You're welcome. You lost her forever btw move on.

>> No.57430425

>>57430397
>If she isnt physically attracted to you now, with women, that can change over time if you are 'there for her' long enough
lol this is bullshit

>> No.57430431

>>57430425
no it aint mate. I've seen it before.
It is almost The case of roastie rides the cock carousel and settles for you, but if this guy loves her that much (hes a dumb ass) he can wait it out.

>> No.57430432

>>57430425
This. You're just waiting for the wall so she can give up and settle with you and resent you forever lmao

>> No.57430441

>>57430432
beat you by like 9 seconds lmaooo
>>57430431

>> No.57430457

>>57430388
You went for it though, that's what counts. Embarrassment and failure and a risk you were willing to take, and you took it. You still got something out of this.

>> No.57430464

>>57430431
I mean honestly in this case I’m not even sure what to think. She is not a promiscuous woman at all.

I don’t want to scare her by pouring out my heart and asking her to explain all her feelings.

But I think she is a little socially awkward and uncomfortable with physical intimacy in general. She is in her 20s and never even had a boyfriend before. And we cuddled before and it was fine. It’s just when I tried to kiss her that she got uncomfortable.

>> No.57430472

i love how during bobo times biz just becomes a more supportive r9k. OP, you are a faggot, she is not real because she does not have blue messages. even if she is real, she is too poor for an iphone and a relationship with her will lead you down a path of hanging with poor normies that cannot compound interest. imagine your son being taught about life from some chick that cant even afford 50 bucks a month. life is teaching you something here. like the other fudbots said, you are fine and there are so many women out there, just dont sperg your insecurities on her and isolate her emotionally so she will miss you inside her head and eventually when you make it she will crave your cock when you come home for christmas from dubai

>> No.57430474

>>57430388
Checked.
Hey man, work on it. Women are attracted to gravitas. Work on yourself. If there's something YOU don't like about you, get to fixing it. Respect yourself and that shit will radiate.

>> No.57430480

>>57430344
So wich one? Post it and i might buy

>> No.57430511

>>57430474
Yeah well also I’m freaking out because I am on dutasteride which helped me grow my hair back, but emotionally it made me a total bitch like falling in love w a girl like this, so now I’m like fuck I either keep taking dutasteride and be an emotional weakling or get off it and hopefully become more of a stoic but become an actual baldcel and severely hurt future romantic prospects

Also have some mild ED (but maybe just cause I’m fat and addicted to caffeine and nicotine)

>> No.57430527

>>57430511
>fat
Found the problem.

Sort that shit out.

>> No.57430560

>>57430511
Sounds like you're bout my age (36) here are my experiences after getting divorced 3 years ago

1. Either you get em all or you get nothing. I am starting to breach top 15 of males imo (6.5 looks, 7 figs, good personality) and every girl I dated tells me she loved me (which isn't real). You either get em all or nothing, very binary.

2. Hair - if you can't afford hair transplant work harder. I don't use hair meds cause aren't they estrogenic and shit fuck your hormones?

3. Dick - I admit I use blue chews (Viagra). The funny thing is that I fuck better than I did in my twenties. I premature ejac but with blue chews I can swap condom and keep going. And Mt dick is fuller and bigger. And there's (supposedly) no bad side effects. And it's affordable. Just eat one before you meet her and for 1-3 hours you'll be a fuck machine

4. You're too focused on one girl. At the end of the day she's a girl so rules of hypergamy, abundance, all that redpjll shit still apply no matter how much you see her as the snowflake intelligent girl who is "above" all that. She ain't.

>> No.57430588

>>57430560
TELL EM STEVE DAVE

>> No.57430711

>>57430384
You're going to be much happier if you just stop taking women seriously. They're all retards and marriage is dead so the one thing they're good for doesn't exist anymore.

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>>57430511
legit advice itt. you have what you need here. now stop thinking so much and boom - youre instantly less of a bitch

also best way to get over someone is to get under someone and the jealousy angle will surprise you how well it works if it works

>> No.57430751

>>57430340
If that is a girl actually not trying to assign blame 100% on you, consider yourself extremely fortunate and walk away. Don't agree, don't disagree, just consider yourself lucky and walk away. If your relationship lasts a while and doesn't work out you "wasted her time" and for that you deserve death. If your relationship doesn't last a while and you call it quits in order to not waste a girl's time then you're "a player" and for that you deserve death. In fact, that response is so uncharacteristic of women that there almost has to be special conditions surrounding this. Did you date this girl? Did you fuck her? I have never seen a woman so cool with a relationship no matter how casual ending.

>> No.57430760

>>57430388
>>57430751
Scratch my questions above...that makes A LOT more sense, fucking lol...

>> No.57430798

>>57430760
So, considering the facts how to proceed?

I was thinking we just not talk for a while and try to collect my thoughts.

But she apparently wants to meet this week and give me some frozen meat cause I’m going to the gym and she said she had a bunch of extra frozen ground beef in her freezer?

>> No.57430844

Bros I have a problem. There is a woman ive been dating, second one today. She is pretty much everything I would want but she's fat.

How coachable are women? How likely is it that I would be able to fix her

>> No.57431112

>>57430844
I have had like 5 fat women that I wanted to coach into 9s in my lifetime. None of em worked out. I gave up on this concept. Women are way too much "take me as I am" and insecure. Now I look for men to do this with nohomo

>> No.57431134

>>57430388
Gay.
Oneitis vibe.
Chad up or fuck off.

>> No.57431135

>>57430340
>respond “ok”
>never communicate with them again

>> No.57431157

>>57430844
I did it with my gf, been with her 4 years now. Granted, she's not a retard. Top of her high school class, Princeton graduate, just finished her master's degree now and born into money. I'd say the majority of fat women won't do what she did any diet with the help of a nutritionist, but her womanly cravings for food really didn't go away. I have to basically bully her out of eating retarded shit sometimes, in a friendly way. I think it's the curse of a girl who was once fat unfortunately.

>> No.57431202

>>57431157
You weren’t worried she would leave you for a bigger chad once she lost the pounds?

>> No.57431239

>>57430511
>fat
Fix your issues, they'll yield you actual stable long-term results.
>>>/fit/
Read the sticky, pick a beginner linear program, switch to tm/madcow/531 when you reach intermediate levels, hit 1/2/3/4 and cut to 12% bf. If you've sorted other issues in your life out, you can watch women magically appear in your life.

The other anon is right. Either you get them all or none.

>> No.57431257

>>57430384
how much under 25 years old, white and not fat though?

>> No.57431338

>>57430511
>fat
>nicotine

Come on, buddy. Your most important asset of all is your body. Look after it.

>> No.57431369

>>57430397
That sounds like a post-wall settling for a beta bucks after getting run through by a train of Chads. Nice recipe for a dead bedroom and even more pain and humiliation.

>> No.57431452

>>57430798
First, pat yourself on the back for "going for it." Shit happens, but the act of desiring something and going for it is going to enrich your experience on this Earth a lot. That is the behavior of a person who takes action, so even though it didn't work out this time, it's the right way to be in general.

Second, there are a ton of women out there. Tons. You're really hung up on this girl, but she has equals and superiors and in all likelihood the good times would have turned ugly eventually anyway. You probably won't get to see them with her, but I'd bet money that over time she'd have ended up doing something or many things that would have eventually made you be screaming to get the fuck away from her.

Third, lose weight. More than that, get in actual physical shape.

Fourth, get a hair transplant and hop on fin if the stuff you're on is making you act like a little girl.

Fifth, women that still want to hang out with you after you make a move are "cool" with you so that's good because it means you didn't fuck up anything too badly, but things are now going to be confusing as shit for you. This is where everything gets tricky. She might actually toss you an underhanded pitch and you won't swing at it. Try not to over think it. Get it all out your head and get back to your mental center. I've been in that situation where you go for it, get rejected, and then a week later the girl is suddenly in your bed and you're actually hesitant to do anything because you're like "wait a second...why is she in my bed now, but she dodged the attempt to kiss her literally a fucking week ago..." I haven't ever come across the correct move here, but for me just pretending like nothing happened worked/works wonders. Go for it and get it or get rejected and be like "oops shit oh well anyway..." and then wait for another pitch.

Bottom line is though you'll be alright.

>> No.57431466

>>57430340
Fake thread it's a bot.
Look at the filename and ignore these threads they will fill with responses as it's all bot driven nonsense.

>> No.57431475

>>57430844
You have as much chance of getting a fat girl into an athletic girl as a girl has a chance of turning the cute guy addicted to heroin into a fortune 500 CEO and model father figure.

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>>57431257
>i put any race

plenty

>> No.57431593

>>57431134
best advice. Seriously op level up and let her realize she should’ve invested in you at your low. Price that bitch out for not buying a make it stack or let her buy in at a higher price but just as a pump and dump

>> No.57431668

>>57431452
Well, the confusing part for me is that I actually DID get the underhanded pitch you talk about

A week before, I had admitted my feelings to her. She said she only sees me as a friend.

But then we hung out again and she asked to come over. We cuddled on my couch and watched a movie. She slept over on couch. Next day we hung out all day I asked her to come over again. She seemed happy to. So I thought this time I’ll cuddle and maybe just try to to give her a kiss.

Cuddling seemed fine, and I mean second night in a row she wanted to stay over. I thought a kiss was an appropriate.

But she was just totally not into it.

I really feel bad saying all this personal stuff involving her online for random pajeets to read but shit. I’m so fucking confused and it’s cheaper than a therapist.

>> No.57431720

>>57430340
You could be like me 30k in debt because a bitch is holding me hostage pretty much. If I ever get out if this no more women ever again

>> No.57431740

>>57431452
>Fifth, women that still want to hang out with you after you make a move are "cool" with you so that's good because it means you didn't fuck up anything too badly, but things are now going to be confusing as shit for you. This is where everything gets tricky. She might actually toss you an underhanded pitch and you won't swing at it. Try not to over think it. Get it all out your head and get back to your mental center. I've been in that situation where you go for it, get rejected, and then a week later the girl is suddenly in your bed and you're actually hesitant to do anything because you're like "wait a second...why is she in my bed now, but she dodged the attempt to kiss her literally a fucking week ago..." I haven't ever come across the correct move here, but for me just pretending like nothing happened worked/works wonders. Go for it and get it or get rejected and be like "oops shit oh well anyway..." and then wait for another pitch.
Interesting that you mention this. I was in this situation with a girl for years, half of high school basically, mostly because I was young, autistic, and didn't understand women. In hindsight, the key is to get more attractive (lift, run, dress better), stay fun when you hang out with her (have game), and most importantly make a move when the next opportunity arises. If I could go back I would do a lot differently, because I was clueless but the opportunities were so obvious in hindsight. Sometimes the opportunities arose passively, other times it was induced by me acting more "alpha" and negging her (in hindsight she liked that and I wish I had acted on that). Nowadays I'm not as clueless and more polarizing, in the sense that it's pretty obvious if I'm going to have sex with a chick, so I tend to not get into these weird on-and-off friend-but-maybe-more-someday bullshit.

>> No.57431761

>>57430511
>Also have some mild ED
kek get off it now
it doesn't get better

>> No.57431788

>>57431668
Yeah that is weird. In my opinion you were right to make a move however it was probably bad to "admit your feelings" so now you're fighting uphill so to speak. I think you need to pull back emotionally, possibly get another girl which could make this one jealous. High probability that she would come around if she sees you could be "snatched away" from her by some other bitch. Women are territorial of men, whether they fuck them or use them for attention only. Unfortunately right now you're the latter kind (orbiter, friendzone), so you need to increase your attractiveness to women in general to make her reassess your value.

>> No.57431823

>>57431761
I’ll probably just switch to finasteride. Which is brutal cause dut has given me amazing regrowth. Almost impossible to tell I’m thinning now when I was visibly bad before.

Thing is I have a prettyboy youthful looking face

But a fucking stone cold steve Austin massive cranium. (For my high IQ aryan brain)

I’ve shaved before and it just looks… not good. Not terrible but just uncanny.

I mean my head actually looks good shaved, I unironically have a skull just like Jason Statham or Bruce Willis. The problem is the rest of my fave doesn’t match, I’m like an uglier beiber facially so being bald just won’t work.

>> No.57431838

>>57430388
nigger you know what? Spite is a very strong feeling. Weaponize that

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Guys..how do i financially recover from breaking this girls heart by not wanting to be her bf then she accuses me of using her........?

>> No.57431876

>>57430560
Just so you know, there's no such thing as premature ejac. Naturally having sex is meant for you to release the seed. The faster the better, it means you are more healthy. In the past it was beneficial to get the deed done as fast as possible. You are vulnerable during the deed. If it takes long you might get eaten by a tiger

>> No.57431891

>>57431668
Honestly man she sounds a little fucked up anyway. I don't think I've ever cuddled with a girl and not hooked up with her, so I'm not sure what angle she's playing there with you and that would annoy the shit out of me if I was in your situation. Mixed signal as fuck. My honest to God solution these days if I was single, some girl was cuddling with me, I went for a kiss, and she wasn't into it? I would put her on the back burner and go get another girl or two on the roster. Maybe take a road trip or a vacation or something with some friends. Something to reset and restore perspective.

I'll admit I'm not that guy that is like "excuse me potential girlfriend, let's sit down and have an open dialogue about some of the goings on recently because I really want to communicate!" Every girl in my experience would just be like "ew" for even daring to try that. Maybe some guys get results doing that, but I don't, haven't, and know of no one who has. So again, it's odd this chick is cuddling with you and being physically intimate, but like filing you as a "cuddle buddy" or some shit. Fuck that. I wouldn't be a dick to her or anything like that, but I'd absolutely add another girl or two to my life depending on how easily you can do that.
>>57431740
Yea, you get better and more fine-tuned over time for sure and you also get a lot less emotionally reactive to them in general. You have a lot less "WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME?!" moments and a lot more "is this going to be a regular thing with you now?" ones instead.

>> No.57431899

>>57430340
You didn't bring your A-game. You needed to wear a bullet-belt and skull rings and be cool. Instead, you were Mr High Finance and you turned her off with your dull business-related talk.

>> No.57432133

I banged over 100 girls without paying, around 30-40 hookers and like 20 "sugar babies" and I still feel lonely, mainly because no one I meet is relationship material.

>> No.57432149

>>57431876
Yea but I always spiritually viewed it as..

An alpha strong male feels no threat from those around him so he takes his time fucking all he wants while the beta cucks watch
The beta cucks have to quickly go in and out without getting caught by the alpha so they have to eiaculate fast like prey

>> No.57432181

>>57430340
Easy peasy, chinkenese. This is what you should do to financially recover and even profit:
1. Tell her you were confused and you don't actually feel anything resembling live for her, apologize for making her feel uncomfortable, and tell her you just want to be friends with her. Act and sound like you mean it
2. Hang out with her, and act like she's your strictly platonic best friend in the whole wide world. Stop being a simp, be less physical with her.
3. She'll be confused as hell , and believe me, she'll make the moves to actually win your heart back.
4. Profit
P.d if she start dating someone else during this infallible plan, block her from all media with no further explanations. Learn from your mistakes and move on

>> No.57432213

>>57431823
>Thing is I have a prettyboy youthful looking face
you are FAT and BALD SHUT UP WITH THIS COPE

FIX YOUR FAT
FIX YOUR BALD
(i bet you have great eyelashes tho frfr)
FIX YOUR FAT
FIX YOUR BALD
FIX YOUR FAT
FIX YOUR BALD
FIX YOUR FAT
FIX YOUR BALD
FIX YOUR FAT
FIX YOUR BALD

>> No.57432309

>>57431452
>the act of desiring something and going for it is going to enrich your experience on this Earth a lot. That is the behavior of a person who takes action, so even though it didn't work out this time, it's the right way to be in general.
that's how people become poor lmao

>> No.57432487

>>57430388
You are so fucking based it’s unreal. Do you know how many guys just wait or hide their feelings? You went for it and tried. There are literally hundreds of millions, maybe even a billion or two who are too scared to do what you did. What a pleasant read.

>> No.57432623

>>57432149
This doesn't make much sense because at pretty much any time in our (pre)history, the beta cucks could just gang up on the alpha chad and stab him to death.

>> No.57432648

>be 23 year old kissless virgin
>depressed every waking moment
>she walks into my life
>fall inlove
>get married
>7 years later
I wish I had stayed single. Don't bother with women.

>> No.57432718

>>57432648
Sounds like a great story

>> No.57433482

>>57431668
Bruh, I've had the same type of a girl. Admitted feelings, told me she sees me as a friend. Started doing weird shit confusing me as hell. I do not like these retarded games, admitted feelings 2x, got rejected 2x.
After that I just cut all contacts with that girl. If you have chemistry for her just wait few months until it fades away.
If she plays with you it's not a friendly move.

>> No.57433516

>>57430464
There are women who don't like sex, a friend broke up with his girlfriend over it, because after the initial few months where they fucked all the time, it just stopped and she wasn't interested at all.

>> No.57433542

ahahaha my nigga shes literally saying she couldnt physically touch you thats how ick'ed out she was and shes saying this to ur face basically mocking you...yikes

>> No.57433728

>>57432623
the beta cucks have historically always lived in fear and awe of chads spiritual energy. stacies love having chads seed spray inside them and the beta incels have to watch and they secretly love it too

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>>57432487
very true. Well done to him for just fucking doing it.

>> No.57435176

>>57430798
i guess anything could come out of that visit, ranging from long term relationship to actual metaphorical "frozen meat"
act cool and unironically be yourself, you'll soon know where you stand

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>>57430511
>I am on dutasteride
Ok, now it's just funny

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>it's another relationship "advice" thread from the genetic dead ends and black souls of 4CHAN

>> No.57435291

>>57430340
>both ends
what did you do to her?

>> No.57435629

>>57431512
>min weight 75kgs
>not fat
ameribro...

>> No.57435881

>>57430384
One day, back in 1896, I was crossing over to Jersey on the ferry, and as we pulled out, there was another ferry pulling in, and on it there was a girl waiting to get off. A white dress she had on. She was carrying a white parasol. I only saw her for one second. She didn't see me at all, but I'll bet a month hasn't gone by since that I haven't thought of that girl.

>> No.57435906

>>57431134
>oneitis
Holy shit i didn't know people still use that term unironically. Are you 12?

>> No.57435978

>>57435881
based and redpilled

>> No.57436115

>>57433542
she's just not ready to have him inside
completely different thing
that's why she's delivering him "frozen meat"

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>>57431257
>white
You don't have to do that to yourself.

>> No.57436252

>>57431861
What are your disgusting needs?

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>>57430511
real talk
>get fit (but don't listen to /fit/ faggots trying to base your entire identity out of how much you lift or how many mires you get from other anons)
>get off any pharmaceutical that isn't necessary to keep you alive, just be a baldcel
>realize that just shooting your shot with that girl and failing puts you farther ahead than the legions of whining incels out there
>keep going, stack paper, get healthy, get your libido back, you might never find "the one" because western society is literally crumbling right now but that doesn't mean you get to lie down and die

>> No.57436284

>>57432487
>>57433762
Funny thing is that he probably messed up with timing and he burned any chances he may had. Thing is that OP looks serious as fuck while the girls just want to have fun. Had he waited for 10 more years, he would have probably married her.

Ideally, he could have gone for a pump and dump in his teens and for a ring in his 30s. That’s what I did with my wife and I think I got the best of both worlds

>> No.57437431

>>57433728
>the beta cucks have historically always lived in fear and awe of chads spiritual energy.
Not really. They hate it because they wish they were like that, hence they gang up and kill chad unless they are somehow benefiting from chad also. This is essentially how society works in general but there's also a theory tha marriage was invented to placate the mass of betas who had nothing while chad had his harem, so that they each had at least one woman to fuck (sometimes) instead of going full nopussy incel murder mode.

>> No.57437443

>>57430340
>bad feeling on both ends
you shouldn't have been so rough

>> No.57437446

>>57430397
LOL, OP do NOT listen to this, holy fucking SHIT you just know this """man""" donates to streamers

>> No.57437455

>>57436214
>implying this very extreme case is even half as bad as black hair on normal medshits/browns

>> No.57437465

>>57430340
You know a board is dead when chronically online losers like this start treating it as their personal livejournal. The cancer is spreading.

>> No.57437477

>>57437465
Cope. Off-topic threads are fun.

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>>57437477
>incels crying about not having sex is fun

>> No.57437504

>>57431134
brutally honest answer

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actually it's pic related OP, it gave her the ick

>> No.57437531

>>57435881
Why didn’t you act anon? What stopped you??

>> No.57437551

>>57437495
>he doesn't realize it's schadenfreude
I just enjoy the suffering of others and giving bad life advice.

>> No.57437587

>>57437551
>unironically calls people chads and defends "betas"
You're one of them

>> No.57437605

>>57431134
This is the only valid advice. It sounds cold but this is the only course of action as a man. Close the thread and move on.

>> No.57437644

>>57437587
Kek dumb nigger with no reading comprehension. Maybe instead of seething autistically you could just close the thread? Lmao stupid nigger.

>> No.57437670

>>57437644
Way too easy. Keep on chimping out for me, incel.

>> No.57437688

>>57430397
Don’t listen to this guy. It may work like that but she will never be in love with you and always know she settled. Just get a less pretty chick that actually wants you

>> No.57437716

>>57437688
I mean isn’t it possible she just takes a long time to warm up to someone?

Not all women want to do physical stuff right away.

>> No.57437795

>>57437716
How dare you suggest that there is nuance beyond anon's single anecdotal experience where some woman gave in to an aspie's gnat-like advances only to find out that it wasn't for her.

>> No.57437821

>>57430511
Do not under any circumstances stop dutasteride. It is fucking over 100% if you go bald.

>> No.57437983

>>57430798
OP I’m unironically a Chad with a lot of success in these matters. Do not go to get frozen meat from her. Tell her you are busy this weekend “Ah thanks I’ve got plans this weekend though” and then DO NOT TEXT HER AGAIN FOR THREE WEEKS. If she presses you about it just say “meeting up with a friend” and be extremely vague and short. Then no contact at all for 3 weeks straight and don’t text her back at all. You’ll be in better shape after that. What you cannot do is allow this girl to text you something like she did in your OP and then just continue to be her friend and emotional support. That’s beta and will destroy your chances.

You need to communicate:
1. you are not interested unless it’s to be with her romantically
2. You are the catch, not her

Doesn’t matter if she’s out of your league. Doesn’t matter if you’re fat.

Some other tips:
-never text her long gushy texts
-never communicate your negative feelings such as worries or depression or sadness. Anger is ok. Other than that only positive emotions.
- do not communicate your romantic feelings about her UNTIL SHE DOES FIRST. The opposite is cyanide for romance.
-always text her half the time she texts you
-be light and funny and not serious


You’re already in a bad spot because you’re friendzoned and she doesn’t view you as a potential romantic partner. You need to gradually shift this image of yourself. You do this by removing availability and subtly implying you are fucking other women.

Ideally you would just ignore this one and find another one but you have oneitis so we all know that’s not gonna happen.

>> No.57438016

>>57430340
Also your word for word response to the OP text should have been

“lol it’s not that serious”

>> No.57438066

>>57430388
>She was wayyy out of my league and I went for it. Now it feels like she’s telling me she would love me as a partner but I’m just too ugly…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=whuXVq-SURM

this video is literally about you lmao

>> No.57438090

>>57437983
Great tips if you're in high school and trying to date a teenager with BPD

>> No.57438150

>>57438090
Women are children

>> No.57438196

>>57438150
Alt-right incels are pedophiles

>> No.57438230

>>57437983
This guy gets it. The only answer to wanting to text and be with a bitch is to find another bitch to burn your time on until first bitch's cooldown is reset. That's why if you want to go out every week you should have at least 3-4 bitches.