/biz/ - Business & Finance

[Anonymous No.57568008]

I can't fucking do it anymore /biz/

I can't fucking wage anymore. 29, 60k networth rentcel/wagecuck. Everyday blends together, I'm falling behind on work from burnout and keep having to work Sundays. 6 days/week cucked away. I feel too busy lately to even message back my dad. The stress is bleeding into everything and I'm feeling like I'm on the verge of a mental breakdown.

I truly hate everything, but also feel like a huge pussy for being unable to cope with a fucking WFH software job. It's just eating away at my soul.

I don't even look forward to weekends because all I think about is work. I just want to quit but the job market is so shit I'm worried I'll eat up half my savings before I find anything else.

My girlfriend has health issues and effectively have a dead bedroom. Nothing in my life lately except frustration and disappointment. I wage and provide but at the end of the day don't even have any material aspirations. Only thing I'd like is a house and maybe a fun car so I can go on roadtrips. Day to day there's nothing even rewarding to spend my money on.

What the fuck is the point

[Anonymous No.57568016]

>>57568008
sucks to be a normalfag I guess

[Anonymous No.57568027]

>>57568008
went through the same thing when I hit 30, had about the same amount of money as you too.

[Anonymous No.57568049]

>>57568016
Being a normie is shit unless you're a consoomer or a family man. I always work with family men and they're always extremely hard workers. I think as soon as you pump one out you know deep down your fate is sealed

>>57568027
What happened? Did it get better and how?

[Anonymous No.57568056]

>>57568008
Your gf doesn't work and doesn't put out?

I wouldn't accept that. Put your foot down.

[Anonymous No.57568067]

>>57568056
She does work part time. I largely handle the rent and bills but she's not lazy. She does a bulk of the house work so I don't feel taken advantage of. But I still feel blue balled. No amount of chores can make up for a lack of sex

[Anonymous No.57568074]

I’m 29, ~ same networth as you and I love my job. I only make 25bucks an hour but I’m excited to go to work every single day. (I just work 50% though)

If the stars align ill get a 10x from link and ICP and land on roughly 400k which will let me buy a house and basically live off of that 50% job for the rest of my life comfortably. I don’t want for much. I’ll take a months vacation every year or two and do some trip around an entire country so I can see most of the world before I die (not counting absolute shitholes like the Middle East and most of Africa obviously)
>what do you work as
I work in a gym, reception and trainer, I make more money as a trainer obviously but fewer hours than reception so it averages at 25. It’s such a joy to see former lardasses and boomers that have fallen off, skinny bullied nerds etc go from looking like shit to being moderately or very fit, looking healthier being happier, getting confidence and being less in pain. It’s just great.

[Anonymous No.57568112]

>>57568074
That actually sounds awesome anon. I've actually considered personal trainer just not sure how you get into it. I love working out and watch a bunch of physical therapy vids on jewtube.

I imagine I'd have to get in shape again to become a personal trainer though.

Also I'm hoping my bags do something this bull run or it's fucking over for me. Even if I could make 200k I'll be cozy for a while. I have pretty minimal monthly expenses

[Anonymous No.57568138]

37 KHHV, 150K. When I reach 500K I'm leaving to the 3rd world. Possibly even sooner... NPNW

[Anonymous No.57568139]

>>57568008
Oh and, buy a motorcycle instead of a car. Don’t be a fucking retard that drives 100 on a 50 and rams a car that switches lanes without indicating, just a nice alternative to a car and go on road trips on that. Single-handedly cured my depression when I was in my early 20s

Oh and dump your gf honestly it’s not worth it. My ex blue balled me to oblivion and it just grew to resentment and it felt like she robbed me of the prime time to find a permanent partner (~25-28) I always convinced myself it would turn around and be worth it to work through the rough patches, being single wouldn’t be better etc. but they just kept on coming and we’d have sex like 3 times a fucking month if I was lucky, always me initiating and driving it forward all she did was basically do a “Kay I’m in the mood” which is fucking insane considering we were in our 20s

The second I was single it was like the weight of the world fell from my shoulders and I just smiled wherever I went, I could talk to pretty girls and casually flirt without feeling like a jackass, I didn’t even need to go out with them or anything it was just fun. Met some really nice girls and now I’m with one I met by pure luck since she was an exchange student but we made it work cause she was planning to move here permanently after she got her degree, we dated for 4 of the 6 months she was supposed to be here then we spent last summer in Australia where she’s from, and then she came and moved in with me late last year.

[Anonymous No.57568175]

>>57568138
Been considering this. Lately I just wanna throw all my shit in a storage locker and move to Thailand

>>57568139
Motorcycle is based, been considering it as well. Read Zen & The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance and it made me yearn for one

I'm glad you escaped it anon. Sucks because I love her but I feel the same way, like I'm in the prime of my life. Have an ultra high sex drive. Once a month just doesn't fucking cut it.

She told me recently that she'll start blowing me more because it's no fair that I have to be sexually unsatisfied. She said that last week. Hasn't happened yet.

Makes me wanna fucking rage. I'm still young and not ugly. I'm in decent shape, fairly active, good job etc. Just have this feeling I deserve better or more...

[Anonymous No.57568189]

>>57568008

32, 120k nw, currently woman-free by choice

Longtime retard, bought a dog in 2013 instead of BTC. Dog brought me much stress but also much joy, she is currently dying of bone cancer and I hope to have her around still by summer so she can bask in the sunlight a few more times (her favorite).

Job is comfy, work for Jews, ~100k/yr 35-40hrs/wk. Spent most of the last decade working in or running kitchens, pivoted during tech hiring spree, profited.

Lift every day, cardio most days, keeps me even-tempered.

Planning on buying a condo EOY, depending on economic outlook. Stresses me out desu but it is what it is.

There is no point, muchacho. Life only has the meaning you ascribe to it.

I practice Buddhist and Stoic/pre-Socratic philosophy as I, like you, don't have any material desires beyond the basics (shelter, food). Would suggest reading basics like Heraclitus, Marcus Aurelius, Lotus Sutra, et al.

I wish you the best

[Anonymous No.57568193]

I feel for you anon I left a job that I loved to try something new because we also bought a home.
I hated it so much a couple of weeks in and I was mentally in a dark place. I'm luckily going back into the same job and already feel so much weight off my shoulders.
I have a massive amount in ICP and truly believe that our house will be paid off in a couple of years.
You can do this anon the bull run is just around the corner buy ICP or whatever else you want but make it a big clip. 10k -15 usd minimum and you will get a house easy. Sell between April 2025-Oct 2025 don't fall for the this time it's different meme.

[Anonymous No.57568226]

>>57568008
>not making and selling wooden crones for $100 ea

https://paramuseum.com/pieces/the-catskills-crone/

just kidding, frens. don't make evil statues. thx

[Anonymous No.57568227]

>>57568175
>that I deserve more
You do
I loved my ex too but if you’re not happy you’re not happy. And you’re not doing her favours either, she probably feels guilty for blueballing you (or she’s a cunt, sorry) if you’re already taking care of most of the expenses she has few excuses to at least as she promised blow you. My ex at least had the excuse of working shit hours (6am to 3) so I understood her being burnt out.

You probably like me get more sexual validation from random women/friends in your life than you do from her? That’s not healthy or okay.

[Anonymous No.57568233]

>>57568189
>woman-free by choice
>There is no point, muchacho. Life only has the meaning you ascribe to it.
>I practice Buddhist and Stoic/pre-Socratic philosophy as I, like you, don't have any material desires beyond the basics (shelter, food). Would suggest reading basics like Heraclitus, Marcus Aurelius, Lotus Sutra, et al.
Based anon.

[Anonymous No.57568267]

>>57568008
>>What the fuck is the point
There isn't. Thats the thing. Anyone who tells you otherwise is a lying piece of shit. I know my manager used to tell me that life is whatever I make of it. Thats dumb as fuck and a lie. Thing is, its all up to you whether you want to continue this suffering hoping for better, actively try to end your suffering by getting something better or actively end your suffering my offing yourself. People will tell you the 2nd choice is best but those same people are also looking to exploit you. Shits fucked. And people wonder why kids run off to training camps in the hills. Fucking hell.

[Anonymous No.57568276]

>>57568008
That png looks like it's shaking.

[Anonymous No.57568323]

>>57568049
I've got a baby daughter and a WFH. I'm in project management. I don't get why you're working weekends at all. Though I do see a ton of burnout in our codemonkeys, it's happened so much that we're now having to penalise fags that work unpaid overtime. It's a liability, and the company has regular regulator driven audits. We'll, by the third party consulting firms, but still.
>>57568067
Why are you still with her? Is this your forever girl, is the companionship at least keeping you afloat emotionally? If no and no, break up and move on. I know it's scary, just pull the trigger (and break up, don't shoot her)
>>57568074
Really happy for you. It massively helps when you find something that's rewards you like that. I feel something similar in regularly getting to solve concretely defined problems, and judge the implemented solution by concretely defined metrics.
Also I need to get a trainer, I'm in bad shape.

[Anonymous No.57568371]

>>57568189
I’m really sorry to hear about your dog anon. Hope she makes it to the summer. I love animals they truly deserve the best

I’ve been reading The Meditations. I just have a hard time applying it. I feel like my life is being wasted. I try to just involve myself in the process of work and learn to enjoy it and power through it but it feels impossible.

Working out is fun and helps sometimes but it also fucks my hormones all up and makes me rage at times.

>>57568193
Holy fuck is peak bull really that far away? I was hoping I could coast off emergency savings until it happens. I haven’t put much into a single coin yet. I’m so over diversified right now. Stressing me out

>>57568227
Yeah basically this. I have no female friends anymore but I’m basically at the point where even fantasizing about my girlfriend pisses me off because I know it won’t be a reality.

I don’t understand how the fuck some people are so sexually boring in their 20’s. I just want some good sex on the weekend is that too much to ask?

Even porn makes me seethe. Unironically makes me jealous what the FUCK

>>57568267
This. Just pull yourself up by your bootstraps bro just make something of nothing bro. Life is fucking hell. Cant even get a straight answer on what to invest in because faggots just want to pump their bags. It’s unfortunate you can do everything right in life and still be a fucking failure

[Anonymous No.57568436]

>>57568371

https://youtu.be/_o7qjN3KF8U?si=mmPuNGdzcg61Pget

[Anonymous No.57568451]

>>57568323
>I’m in bad shape
My best advice is to just start right now. Discipline and motivation are overrated just force yourself into your car or whatever and make your way to a gym or park where you can walk. Get 10k steps a day or similar effort from some sport or activity I don’t care how. If you like to shitpost on /biz/ and other boards do that on a treadmill while watching YouTube or
Something. It’s boring as fuck to do cardio which is why I recommend distracting yourself like that. Aerobic exercise is extremely beneficial to your body and mind. Especially if you’re at risk for dementia and Alzheimer’s or heart and artery related bullshit.

And of course lift. It doesn’t matter what weight you start on, you’ll see the numbers go up regardless and it’ll get addicting. I was self-conscious to lift when I started getting into shape at ~24 but started climbing which is great when you’re skinny like me. Now I do roughly 50/50 climbing and gym. But again you really just need to force yourself to go and all of a sudden you’ll realise you yearn for it on rest days. My dad is 63 this year and often lifts 15 days in a row because he’s addicted now (he was out of shape in his 50s)

Get a trainer if you want, the most important thing you’ll get from them is proper form(by a mile this is most important), a training program that suits your needs and progression.

Dunno if I have any other tips I can think of on the top of my head. You’ll automatically start eating healthier too cause it ties into your results

[Anonymous No.57568454]

>>57568371
>what to invest in

Btc eth link, nothing else.

>t. 35 yo boomer with 200iq

Also don’t dump girlfriend, she’s useful for now for splitting bills and lowering cost of living. Dump her after you make it.

In mean time she wants you to take what you want from her, don’t be a pussy. She’s not going to deliver blow jobs on a platter, she wants you to be dominant and initiate and make it happen, do not ask permission.

[Anonymous No.57568532]

>>57568451

Also this, lifting + walking are non negotiable. Absolute most important basic thing you should be doing.

[Anonymous No.57568542]

>>57568008
>My girlfriend has health issues and effectively have a dead bedroom
Just dump her bro. I got rid of my gf a few months after her mother got cancer lmao
You have a higher NW than I did when I was your age and now I'm 35 with $1.7 million. Your 30s can be your best decade but you have to put in the work.

[Anonymous No.57568543]

>>57568008
>im 29 years old

https://youtu.be/WzA_kBOMIj0?si=rIIVdWEkEF7w4em4

[Anonymous No.57568590]

>>57568323
It's not necessary I work on the weekend but deadlines have been so tight and I feel slow as a dev so I try to put in extra work on Sunday so things can keep moving forward.

I think that's a nice company policy though. Things take as long as they take, don't try to work OT to pound it out, I wish we had that in place. The work life balance here has been fucking atrocious lately.

I got reamed out last week because I left early on Friday because I didn't take a lunch break. My PM wanted to get a deployment out after hours. It's fucking ridiculous.

Also she's not emotionally distant, she has issues with her pussy so it's basically been off limits. It's dogshit

>>57568454
This is a based take. It's what I've been thinking about lately. If I actually make it in the bull run I'll just cut her off and move away forever. Have some fun for a while and catch up on lost time.

Also nice advice on taking it rather than expecting it. Probably just approaching it wrong.

>>57568542
Holy based. I'd feel guilty doing that. Although we've been together for a while. Probably a newer fling I wouldn't give a fuck about

How the fuck did you make it to 1.7 mil?

[Anonymous No.57568652]

https://youtu.be/69ixo3DgeZA?si=s4zbbwS6JuBXjjK0

[Anonymous No.57568662]

>>57568590
>Holy based. I'd feel guilty doing that. Although we've been together for a while. Probably a newer fling I wouldn't give a fuck about
I felt guilty about it because of the timing. But why should I stay stressed and unhappy?
>How the fuck did you make it to 1.7 mil?
It's a long story. But basically since early 2018, I've put thousands every month into BTC/ETH and stocks/ETFs, and maxxed out my 401k. It also helped that I dumped a lot of cash into crypto/stocks during the pandemic crash in March 2020.

[Anonymous No.57570098]

just remember that whatever you do, it will come back to you

do good = get good back
do harm = get harm back

[Anonymous No.57570154]

>>57570098
Incorrect. The real world is not a Disney movie. There are 4 possibilities , not 2.
>do good get good back
>do good get harm back
>do harm get good back
>do harm get harm back

[Anonymous No.57570170]

>>57570098
Bro I seriously wish this was true. I was actually just going to come back to this thread to post this.

I’m fucking tired of being nice. Everytime I deal with service workers I always smile and tell them thank you very much. Even when I’m in a bad mood I switch into nice guy mode when I interact with people

It seriously hasn’t done shit for me and I should just start telling the retarded faggot jeets who serve me to kill themselves

[Anonymous No.57570198]

how do i get a remote job from home? I feel I'd do better without having to drive to some office 5 days a week

[Anonymous No.57570215]

>>57570198
I’ve been online since I was 12 and met a lot of people on forums back in 2007. I network in fringe IRC channels and leverage it and get them in as well if they ask. But my first remote job was just an application. The second one was also by application but third was through an online friend I gamed with. Just network with like minded people and it’ll take you a long way. But also just create a nice CV with personal projects. List them on your CV as well

[Anonymous No.57570220]

>>57570215
>But my first remote job was just an application. The second one was also by application

Where did you apply? was this via things like Indeed? I need a starting point here

[Anonymous No.57570227]

>>57568008
I'll be honest OP I'm in a similar situation. I recently started meditating and doing tension/trauma release exercises and they've been making reality feel like it sucks less. Might help you through this.

[Anonymous No.57570233]

>>57570220
Yeah i actually like Indeed. Angel list is a fucking dogshit meme I sent out hundreds of applications on there and never got a reply. You can also check out stackoverflow listings and hackernews has jobs as well. My buddy exclusively finds jobs on hackernews but there’s a lot of jeet startups on there

[Anonymous No.57570237]

>>57570233
was Indeed what you specifically used for those two jobs you mentioned? that you had applied to?

[Anonymous No.57570243]

>>57568323
>I do see a ton of burnout in our codemonkeys
It's one of the only careers that actually pays a liveable wage with prospects of upwards socioeconomic mobility. But most people aren't suited to it, they just went for it because it pays the bills.

[Anonymous No.57570250]

>>57570237
Yup Indeed has been my goto. Got both of them through that website. But don’t fade hackernews either

[Anonymous No.57570266]

>>57570250
Nice. Will try it. Without going into overly detail (I don't like probing people over job specifics, unless they don't care, feels like a private thing but maybe that's just me) what exactly where the two jobs like? was it like data entry shit?

Honestly man my ideal goal now is rather than having to roll out of bed 2 hours before work starts to be able to shower, eat, get dressed, have to drive to get to work it'd be to roll out of bed and already be at my job, as it's remote. I am so sick of dealing with wagecuck 9 to 5 office shit I just want to work at home.

[Anonymous No.57570285]

>>57570266
I’m OP. I’m a software developer I don’t know shit about remote data entry.

But be careful with that mentality. I’ve really been trying to get up earlier lately. I get up and start my day and it’s fucking retarded. After 8 hours my back kills me and I have a headache.

I need a routine where I wake up early and do some yoga and meditate for a bit. Have a coffee smoke etc then focus on the day. I’m getting too old to be cozy sitting at a desk all day

Tbh you might be able to automate a lot of the data entry shit with Chatgpt though so just pay for a GPT-4 subscription

[Anonymous No.57570329]

>>57570285
>After 8 hours my back kills me and I have a headache.
Do you get no downtime? also this is what I do at my job already, just I have to drive to it.

I have a friend who does data entry and as long as he meets his daily quota he's fine. Spends most of the day fucking around on his main PC while his work is on a laptop

[Anonymous No.57570369]

Software development is probably one of the worst jobs for your sanity unless you’re a turboautist. I’m a contractor and need to negotiate new contracts every 3-6 months which only makes it worse, I fucking hate software and would give this up in a second if I had any other skills that could make money. Fortunately the money is very good, I’d otherwise have to be a surgeon or CEO or something to come close to this level of income

[Anonymous No.57570380]

>>57570329
Yeah I get break at lunch for an hour but still dogshit if you have tickets piled up. Varies from company to company some are better than others

[Anonymous No.57570389]

>>57570380
I hear ya. I just figure at this point it has to be a step up for me. My current job is fine, just I.T. shit at a company, it's brainless, easy, and I just sit most of he time eating shit but fuck having to drive out to this thing every day. I feel I'd lose a fair bit of mental stress just being able to sleep an extra 2 hours knowing I can just wake up and be "at work" in literally 5 minutes to the left of my bed after at bare minimum brushing my teeth and putting on something

[Anonymous No.57570427]

>>57570369
I keep trying to blackpill faggots on this. I'm sick of seeing the coding meme propagated. I wish I just went to college and became a fucking electrician.

This industry is ultra competitive. I'm somewhat of a normie with regular social skills but every company I'm at has some no life giga autist who can recite documentation on every function in the programming language is shitting on me in code review.

I don't get any sort of autistic satisfaction from development. At the end of the day I simply don't give a shit. I write the features and want to be done. Then you go through a rigorous code review phase and have to back and forth all day over stupid bullshit.

I'm actually extremely sick of it at this point. Contracting is a whole other level of hell. I'm at least salaried but holy fuck. This industry is shit if you're not a complete faggot. I'm actually thinking project management might be more down my alley lately.

>>57570389
It is nice, I can't lie man I haven't had a non-remote job since I worked in fast food in highschool. I spammed projects and freelance work until I found my first shit remote job. Then after that it's been remote work.

It'll be hard to find your first gig, but once you have 'remote experience' it'll snowball. Pretty much every interview they ask me about my remote programming experience lol.

Basically they want to know if you're self motivated etc, having a prior remote job is a bull flag for hiring managers.

It's difficult to get your foot in the door but once you do it should be a bit easier from them on.

[Anonymous No.57570437]

>>57570154
>>57570098
Thinking in terms of good and harm is not the best. I changed my thinking from this to cause and effect and removed all positive and negative connotations to actions and events and it has changed my outlook on life.

[Anonymous No.57570438]

>>57570427
Also it should be mentioned that everyone who unironically self-identifies as a programmer and makes it a part of their ego and self-esteem is going to be a gigantic faggot. There's no way around it. The people you work with who are good at their job are going to be autistic freaks who you don't get along with (if you're truly not an autistic faggot but a grifter in the industry yourself)

[Anonymous No.57570485]

>>57570427
I got memed into programming in the same situation, I get paid $90k AUD ($60k USD) for a bottom tier programming job and I just never had the motivation to move on because I just couldn't handle the leetcode grind. Praying for my crypto portfolio to 10x over the coming years so I can leave this shitty industry and do something else and have the dividend income or w/e balance out the loss of income. Hell maybe I'd be more motivated to push higher in another field that I'd enjoy.

[Anonymous No.57570613]

>>57570485
My first programming job was remote for 55k CAD...I ate shit for a couple years before I could move onto a company that wasn't total shit, but then I realized even when I got paid more, got more benefits and the hours weren't shit I still didn't give a fuck

[Anonymous No.57570615]

>>57568008
Wfh software job and all you can do is 60k at 29? Lower your expenses

[Anonymous No.57570622]

>>57568008
>realizes the point
>still asks what the point is

You’ll figure it out someday.

[Anonymous No.57570627]

>>57570613
Why not take the teacher pill? I'm a 23yo cs student wanting to be a software engineer for the pay (Am not a nerd, just an above IQ /fit/izien), and I'd just become a cs teacher if the stress is too much.

Also kek at the electrician part as I just thought about dropping out to become one. Starting an apprenticeship at 23yo with a bunch of normie 18yos with high school experience would be soul destroying though

[Anonymous No.57570635]

>>57570615
Not even sure where the fuck my money goes bro. I hardly do shit. Although this is CAD so I don't fucking know. I feel like we're jewed significantly more on our purchasing power.

>>57570622
Elaborate faggot

>>57570627
Fuck I'd probably neck going to school with these retards but smugly rest assured they'll be working at my business someday.

Not a bad idea to teach though, I've heard there's money even in article writing if you're a domain expert on certain languages/frameworks.

[Anonymous No.57570640]

Yeah life is shit and can get way more worse for you. You got to deal with what you have, try make it better only in ways you know how.. nobody here will tell you the secret to your own happiness. Deal with it.

[Anonymous No.57570648]

>>57570640
Shut the fuck up jeet street shitter phaggot kys immediately. Or are you European (arguably just as bad)

[Anonymous No.57570652]

>>57570635
The point is to grind you up and spit you out lol

[Anonymous No.57570653]

>>57570648
This is you bro
>LIFE IS SO HARD WORKING FROM MY HOUSE, OH MY GF DOES NOT GIVE ME SEX, HELP ME 4CHAN
You're truly pathetic and in fact, you must and will kill yourself (in due time).

[Anonymous No.57570654]

>>57570635
>CAD
I'm sorry, anon. The prices over there even for basics like chicken are astronomical, right? Fucking hell I would seriously consider moving someplace else. What's even there to live for in Canada, with all the jeets?

[Anonymous No.57570680]

>>57570653
Definitely a jeet. Exposed yourself when you had WFH envy. T-T-T-THAT'S NOT REAL WORK ANON. I HAVE TO CLEAN POO FROM THE STREETS IN INDIA. Bro just fucking end it it's over.

>>57570654
Yeah it's fucking gay I probably spend 500 dollars on groceries/month for 2 of us.

[Anonymous No.57570868]

Been a trade wagie for the last 13 years and I’m tired desu. The older I get, the more I value my free time outside the cage. I think I’m at a turning point in my life in terms of priorities. Seeing loved ones getting older or passing away is a wake up call to reality, and it makes chasing money that less important. I don’t know what my plans are but I know that I want to do less of this shit.

[Anonymous No.57570922]

are you guy depressed or just living in the US?

[Anonymous No.57571129]

>>57570922
Living in the US

[Anonymous No.57571311]

>>57570868
Im opposite. The older I get the more realize that I have nothing to do outside of work so I might as well just spend as much time there as possible because at least I will make more money. Its fucking sad

[Anonymous No.57571949]

>>57571311
There are so many things to enjoy outside of work which require little to no money. Being an npc wagie is fucking depressing anon. At least enjoy the time you have left in this life instead of only slaving it away for the shekelsteins.

[Anonymous No.57571982]

>>57568008
>My girlfriend has health issues and effectively have a dead bedroom.
> I'd feel guilty doing that.
I don't get this shit, maybe I'm a psycho but just tell her to have sex lol?
I made an arrangement with my ex were i would cook and she would do the dishes, the first time she "forgot" i did it and warned her
When i came home a week later, she hadn't done them so i told her to do it now and she had the audacity to tell me she "didn't feel good"
So i just took my 2 coats, walked out and blocked her on all my socials lmao

Let's say you need an hour of talking to a girl to figure out if she is worth it
It would take you 456 thousands years without breaks to talk to every women on Eartth, why the fuck are you wasting your time on a failed prospect? you're a bagholder for shitty women kek

[Anonymous No.57572006]

>>57568049
>What happened?
I quit my job, almost went back to college but decided to just do freelance instead, did that for 5 years, then just fucked with crypto for another 5 years. Crypto ended in ruin for me so now I just started a job in August, first time I've had a job in 11 years.

>Did it get better
Well back then when I quit it was a really shitty situation at work and the stress would make my left eye twitch involuntarily. My left eye stopped twitching when I quit and it's never returned so I guess things are better in that sense. However I still have to wage and still don't see the point of it all. If I could go back I would still quit that job and taken a break but I would have taken another job after a couple years so I could properly invest. My advice, take a break (not 11 years though).

[Anonymous No.57572039]

>>57568008

[Anonymous No.57572878]

>>57571982
She dodged a bullet

[Anonymous No.57573635]

>>57572878
She dropped out of college and got fat while I'm moving to Malta because I'm making too much money
Better luck next time, turns out the just world fallacy is a fallacy for a reason, it's a winner takes all game

[Anonymous No.57573677]

>>57570680
Just a fellow WFH Leaf dropping in to say you need to find a US-based employer ASAP OP, so you can take advantage of USD salary/stock/benefits while living in Canada. I do that and am way comfier than all my other software dev friends who work for a Canadian company. It really helps with the bullshit cost of living crisis we have right now in Canada. You can probably double or triple your income pretty easily just by interviewing around, there are a ton of remote US-based SAAS jobs these days that will hire good Canadian devs.

[Anonymous No.57573772]

>>57568139

>frees himself from one roastie
>shacks up with another one

out of the frying pan into the fire