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[Anonymous No.9090461]

You guys fucking lied to me. Money doesn't bring me joy. I've tried everything since I've retired from my crypto gains from last year.

Every day I jog and come back home. I then try to fill up my time by going to the golf course and work on my swing. I've taken holidays to try to ease the pain and it doesn't work.

I'm missing something. That something is love I think. But I see everyone on here talking about how women are vial poison who will just steal all of your money and wealth when they divorce you.

I've began drinking extremely heavily. I sleep with a bottle of vodka beside my bed. When I wake up in the morning I begin chugging first thing. I've stopped working out, I don't leave my house anymore, I don't go golfing anymore.

It got so bad I heard a knock at the door and went to go answer it I was wasted by 10:00 am I fell down the stairs and smashed my face into the door causing my nose to bleed.

Everything I read on this fucking shitboard says that women are a vial weed who will destroy your life. I'm beginning to think that if that's the case I might as well consider ending my life as there's no hope for happiness.

Can some anons please share some of their life experiences with women? Is it worth it? And if not then how do you find joy in life? And don't say having money because that's complete fucking bullshit.

[Anonymous No.9090481]

When my peepee cum I make happy

[Anonymous No.9090507]

Travel somewhere, dumbass. See the world outside your podunk tow.

If you're that desperate for pussy go to Thailand or something, I'm sure you can figure it out.

[Anonymous No.9090510]

>>9090461
not gonna make it

[Anonymous No.9090512]

the answer you've been looking for?
it's easy anon, just make more money

[Anonymous No.9090519]

>>9090461
go do random shit, dont stay at home.

[Anonymous No.9090530]

>>9090461
You can start by being an attractive person both inside and outside. If your face isn't that attractive, it doesn't mean you can't be in shape or groom yourself well.

IMO you exude too much negativity. Be more positive and learn to make a natural, appealing smile :)

You can cry about all the negative shit in your life, but be happy that you have a chance to make your situation better.

Start from there. Frankly you're mentally miserable right now and only you can sort that shit out.

[Anonymous No.9090543]

>>9090461

>drinking the liquid jew

[Anonymous No.9090546]

>>9090461

Pic related applies to everything bro.

[Anonymous No.9090560]

>>9090461
happiness comes when you remove your attachment to ego and desire

[Anonymous No.9090569]

>>9090461
not sure if LARP or autistic

stop reading 4chan most these guys are idiots or trolls with no real world experience. get off the internet and enjoy our beautiful world (including women)

[Anonymous No.9090574]

>>9090461
Money = cute girls (just not in rich countries)

Move to SE Asia or a poor EE country..get expensive car and latest iphone...put those pic up on Tinder. Enjoy.

You will have tons of cute girls swiping on you faggot. Thank me later.

[Anonymous No.9090600]

You're focusing on the wrong things.

Money doesn't give you happiness, but it can provide you with opportunities to be happy.

The point of life is not wasting it. Even if you're a multi-millionnaire and had enough money that you could literally never spend it, you're poor in other ways. You might not have social skills, might have poor knowledge, might spend your days gaming and watching TV rather than chasing experiences and seeing the world.

There's many things needed to be truly happy in life. This will differ person to person so a slight degree, but ultimately you need: Social contact, good mental health, good fitness, good knowledge and above all, you need to be ensuring you're still moving forward.

The problem you have isn't the lack of love, but your complacency. Love comes when someone makes your life better and fills a gap you cannot. The same applies to them. if you've given up on improving yourself, your chances of improving someone elses life is severely diminished, and thus your chance of finding love are reduced heavily.

Those which you're left with are those who either have also given up on improving themselves (generally loosers/undesireables/boring/not-GF material), golddiggers or those in positions similar to yourself (which isn't all that common, and they most likely won't be social much so your chances of meeting them are near 0).


Basically improve yourself, chase what you love in life and love will chase you.

[Anonymous No.9090601]

People are social creatures. We have evolved to live in communities with other trusted members, shared beliefs etc. But in today's world one can easily become atomised like you have. You have no-one to care for you, nobody to care for. You have no community network.

My advice may sound trite:

1) Cut back on the drinking
2) Take up some exercise (maybe you can start with some light walking - just go for a wander and listen to a podcast you might find interesting).
3) Get stuck into something you enjoy, and if that's not immediately apparent then volunteer somewhere (default suggestion i know)

I think you've spent too much time on this website, your views seem distorted and narrow. Take time to read some great non-fiction. Are there any new technologies that interest you?

I believe that every man needs a purpose, and nevermind that you're rich now, you need to find yours.

[Anonymous No.9090613]

Sup op.

I'm you minus the alcoholism and I am pretty decent with women(have a gf now).

It doesn't get better.

[reluctant kneepad girl No.9090618]

me feel you
When me cashed out initially invest
Me felt like hanging self

[Anonymous No.9090625]

a good wife and kids
hobbies
OP is a faggot as usual

[Anonymous No.9090637]

>>9090569
It's a larp. This topic is regularly posted with the same image. It has been half a year.

[Anonymous No.9090641]

>>9090461

Now imagine the same life but as a paycheck to paycheck wagie.

See why you sound stupid?

[Anonymous No.9090652]

>>9090461
Money gives you options, not happiness.
Happiness comes from within, not from another person.
Motivation is what you need in your life. Read up on Maslow's hierarchy.

[Anonymous No.9090656]

>>9090461
>I'm missing something.
No shit, how about missing having to go into a shit job and grind away 40+ hours a week for little in return. I swear, it seems like crypto is making the wrong people rich. People would literally kill to have the freedom you have, and all you can do is whine about it didn't make you feel complete.
Here's the cliff notes:
1.Keep exercising (maybe buy a top of the line mountain bike!)
2. Travel, on your terms. You can literally go anywhere, however you want to.
3. Try to find God (take psychedelics, go to church, meditate, etc.)
4. Do not expect material things to full the hole inside you. Being rich is about freedom, not posessions.
t. Jealous wageslave

[Anonymous No.9090663]

>>9090461
The reason you're unhappy is because you don't feel like you earned all that money. People who have spent years or decades with a business can enjoy it, because they earned it. They put in the hard work and pain. They felt bad so feeling good means something to them.

It's the same reason why you hear about people who win the lotto going broke and becoming depressed. People will argue that he earned it by clicking a bunch of buttons and trading. No it's not. You got lucky getting into BTC or ETH early. And I am a coiner.

Dating could help your problems. It would definitely help having a woman, but she'll use you for your money if you don't respect yourself. You'll still yearn for more, because you'll question in the back of your mind if she loves you or for the money you made and how you can provide for her.

But maybe you should try being less selfish and more selfless?

[Anonymous No.9090749]

I admit I'm jelly of op.
Maybe because they could do the things I can not. They have the resources to research longevity and live a very long time. Hell they have the resources to build a set of power armor and attend a black lives matter rally. So many bullets. Brings a tear to my eye.

[Anonymous No.9090787]

>>9090461
lol 3D
Just Monika.

[Anonymous No.9090815]

>>9090461
>Every day I jog and come back home. I then try to fill up my time by going to the golf course and work on my swing.
>I'm missing something.

Have you watched Leslie Nielsen's Swing school series? After that your swing will be like never before and you feel it in your every day life

[Anonymous No.9090903]

>>9090461
You're a faggot if you can't just enjoy living the neet lifestyle of being comfy and playing video games all day. There's really no greater pleasure than that.

[Anonymous No.9090920]

Change your eating and drinking habits, that shit is gonna wreck you.

Go on a trip to tibet. Check out Lhasa and the surrounding mountains.

It might change your life, or at least make you reconsider your current illogical emotions/feelings.

[Anonymous No.9090947]

>>9090461
I was going to suggest you get a dog, but you sound like you probably couldn't take care of one at the moment.

Do women make things better? Not really.

Good luck anon, oh, give up the liquid Jew please. It will kill you in the most unpleasant manner.

[Anonymous No.9090981]

>>9090461
once you get a women, you will understand what they mean anon

there is hope though, just stop being a useless fucking faggot crying about whatever "happiness" is and start doing whatever you feel like doing to enjoy yourself. protip: drugs just keep you from realizing how fucked you are, they are not the solution- meme

[Anonymous No.9090998]

Send me your gains you worthless faggot so I can put them to actual good use. Get a job because apparently you need someone else telling you what to do feel any meaning. Worthless cunt.

I have like 10 side projects I struggle to do alongside my day job and could use the funding.

[Anonymous No.9091040]

>>9090903
I'm a NEET currently and i get no joy from videogames anymore. i used to love gaming but now that im over 25 i dont find them fun iv tried all the top rated game and i just get bored after a few hours.

[Anonymous No.9091058]

>>9090998
Begging for money is forbidden you broke ass faggot

[reluctant kneepad girl No.9091076]

>>9091040
Kek same
Trading me new video game

[Anonymous No.9091132]

Hi OP

Invest in my startup please.

Porn's fucked me up but the crippling depression is probably worse. But its manageable, hook it up with the angel investment, tanks

[Anonymous No.9091178]

>>9090461
>It got so bad I heard a knock at the door and went to go answer it I was wasted by 10:00 am I fell down the stairs and smashed my face into the door causing my nose to bleed.

Oh man your check is in the mail. Rock Bottom is heading your way soon and before you know it you're gonna be dead broke but with all the same bad habits. That's where you either go suicide or homeless. Depends on your constitution. Have a better go in the next life my friend.

[Anonymous No.9091226]

>>9090461
Maybe look into psychedelics if you think you can mentally handle them, i do them a few times a year to reflect on my life, not everyone reacts well to them though so make sure to do some research if you want to do them.
>inb4 DUDE

[Anonymous No.9091256]

>>9091040
>tried all the top rated game
Well there's your problem. Obscure indie games are where quality in gaming is right now.

[Anonymous No.9091259]

>>9090461
U are absolutely pathetic.

[Anonymous No.9091351]

>>9090481
fpbp desu senpai

[Anonymous No.9091542]

>>9090461
If you're looking for a fix all solution by just finding a gf you're going about it the wrong fucking way. No woman who would put up with dating someone who's life is in the state yours appears to be in will do anything but cause you more misery. You need to find something meaningful, of course money doesn't give you meaning it gives you options. Use your wealth to explore those options, reflect hard on your life to find something that makes it worth waking up to do. Golf or any other sport wont ever provide enough meaning. One thing I've noticed in my life is all the people who have meaningful lives spend their lives working actively towards improving their community, the scale doesn't matter. Could be family, friend circle, religious community, old school, literally anything doesn't fucking matter. If community participation isn't your thing then find a problem in the world you care about and work tirelessly to solve it.

[Anonymous No.9091617]

5 grams of dried psilocybin mushrooms taken in silent darkness

[Anonymous No.9091752]

>>9090461
>vial poison
>vial weed

dude with undeveloped cognitive conceptual network wonders why his life juices flow in ways which cause excessive emotional reactions, news at 11

[Anonymous No.9091773]

>>9090461
Go to Asia, bang some sluts. They love white guys.

Ever since I made it financially, I go to South Korea. First time I went, I got a crush on a qt Korean. She moved to Australia, though.

The second time I went I ended up banging a Russian girl for a week straight.

This is a big difference, when I have love I am not depressed.

[Anonymous No.9091865]

>>9090461

mushrooms.

[Anonymous No.9091884]

>>9090481

The greatest thing anyone has ever said in the history of ever.

[Anonymous No.9091930]

travel around the world....God i wish i could do this...just a rich fucking traveler

[Anonymous No.9091959]

>>9090600
That's correct. It's not women per se, but companionship and socializing.
It's easy to lose and neglect relationships when your focus is "making it" and you just hole up and achieve your goal while all other aspects of your life fall apart. What most people fail to mention is that maintaining relationships takes work. Sometimes I force myself to pick up my phone and call my friends and parents at least once a week because I moved and there is fucking no one I consider close. I slipped into the same state as OP at one point and it just took away 2 months of my life. My friend came over with his wife and they got me into a silly startup idea. That's when I started talking to people again. I do not ever want to go back to that voluntary isolation I put myself in.
Money gives you freedom, you got that right. But what is the point if you don't even have friends to share stupid memes with?

[Anonymous No.9091996]

>>9091959
the women give you cuddling

we are programmed to get oxytocin from cuddling - it's fucking GOAT

[Anonymous No.9092044]

>>9090507
You mean boipussy

[Anonymous No.9092053]

>>9090461
Build social capital. Depending on your skillset you should first build social capital so you have the connections to build financial capital, or you build your financial capital so you have the time to build your social capital.

And ultimately this is an iterative processes. Fix your health (again) and you will find your life is in balance.

[Anonymous No.9092067]

>>9091996
I am still dealing with a terrible break up where my whole life turned upside down and all my plans for future came crumbling down in front of my eyes. I do not want a relationship before i sort myself out. I doubt I can have a meaningful relationship now. I can live without cuddles for now

[Anonymous No.9092070]

>>9090461

FUCK! I want your life man. my passion is the golfswing and all I want is all the time and money to practise, but I can't because I didn't make it in crypto :(. FUCK FUCK FUCK!

[Anonymous No.9092135]

Women aren’t all the devil, anon. I’m from the Midwest, so my experiences were so limited before I joined the military and met people from EVERY walk of life.

Yes, there are some terrible, manipulative women out there. But not everyone is bad. I’m very happily married now and I full intend to spend it with who I got it with.

I’m not a rich guy. Sure, I dream of larger and better things for my wife and I, but she’s fully supportive of me and my crypto aspirations. She never asks me to withdraw anything or dip into it (if anything, she encourages me to keep investing).

Maybe it’ll help, maybe it won’t. Just wanted to show you that not every female is out to take your soul, OP

[Anonymous No.9092150]

Pay me and I’ll bring you out of that shell and surround you with women

[Anonymous No.9092168]

>>9092135
Married? You fucking simp, you are will NEVER make it

[Anonymous No.9092253]

>>9092067
Just go to another country for two weeks and have an unmeaningful relationship where both of you have a nice good bye at the airport

even then, you'll forget about your ex if you have a crush on someone else

[Anonymous No.9092748]

>>9090461
At this point you're better off finding out for yourself. This boards opinion on women shouldn't stop you from enjoying them. Go hunt, you have all the time in the world. Be playful with it. Fire up tinder, and approach in the day time any cuties you see. Fuck the one's that are hot but you don't click with and pursue the one's that fit your personality and lifestyle.

>love

It's not love, just female companionship. A woman can never love a man the way a man loves her.You will feel more fulfilled with either a harem of women to fuck or a decent enough girl to dote on you and miss you and all the couple things. When you have it, you gloss over and don't appreciate it. For example my gf will pop my back zits and trim my toe hairs and make me food. I don't care in the moment, but probably if he she died and I was alone I would long for those little moments. You need to experience these little things as they satisfy some deep need inside a man.

Good luck man you have all the time in the world. There is no reason you can't accomplish this. If you make it a point to get out every single day and work towards this, I wouldn't be surprised to hear you find at least a fuckbuddy in 2 weeks. Start working out again and make sure lots of sunlight is getting into your house. Also take better care of your nutrition and lay off the booze.

[Anonymous No.9093494]

>>9090461

This is posted every 3 months by a roastie who wants us to respond by being all “nooo anon women aren’t that bad” and who hopes that by repeating this story she will validate her own desire that men simply cannot be happy without a strong womyn. This is typical behaviour of lefties and roasties, they create elaborate stories that are bereft of subtlety and seek only to drive some point.

The reality is for whatever anons DO shave this problem and aren’t LARPing like op: is that life is hard, the difficulties of life make it rewarding, be your man, make your own wealth. Once you have it, breathe more, see more, be more. And avoid roasties.

[Anonymous No.9093971]

ditch the alcohol, lift weights, and take trt. your life will change for the better.

[Anonymous No.9094022]

>>9090510
this. you might as well send some of that wealth here, my man. if you're that unhappy buy enough opiods for a lifetime and you'll literally never be sad again.

[Anonymous No.9094065]

>>9090512
This its almost too simple

[Anonymous No.9094216]

Become a family man.

[Anonymous No.9094678]

>>9090601
>People are social creatures. We have evolved to live in communities with other trusted members, shared beliefs etc. But in today's world one can easily become atomised like you have. You have no-one to care for you, nobody to care for. You have no community network

one person alone is not going to make it. you need people, you need a purpose. shared beliefs yes, but which ones? religion? join a cult then. believe in some whack shit like politics? get all fired up over some YouTube shit.? maybe just lack of with the internet in your little cube. have a pointless little hobby like your bitch ass neighbors. have some kids for no reason at all. what's work your time, makes you feel good to be a part of something real constructive??

most people went up in some dead end OP not unlike you except with a wife and kids and a fucking lawn mower and some comfortable dumb car to get fat in

[Anonymous No.9094902]

>>9090461
Friends, family, work and God. Those things are whar counts anon, everything else is just noise. Money definitely will solve providing you with a roof over yoyr head and food to eat but other than that it won't fill up your psychological and spiritual needs. If you want to not worry about food and where to live anymore, then gain money but if you want to true happiness without any care for the world then foster friendships, family and God. First world nations might be prosperous materially but people living in it are dead inside. It's uncanny. Third world nations might be shitholes but they're happy shitholes

[Anonymous No.9094972]

>>9091040
Might not work for you guys but I ended up picking up a old trs-80/ a trs80 color computer/ a zx spectrum and a c64 and ti994a and I spend my days learning those old computers and trying to code on them.

Sure it's not the "latest and greatest" games but the games I have so far have been fun and learning to code on old dead ass language is fun to me. I had no clue BASIC was so limited in 1977 but damn am I having fun working with it

[Anonymous No.9094996]

>>9090461

[Anonymous No.9095912]

Find Buddha, find a loyal woman, have kids, collect happiness.

[Anonymous No.9096666]

>>9090461
>unironically believing shit 4chan autists say ESPECIALLY about social matters

You fucking whiteboys just don't learn..

[Anonymous No.9097798]

You need more money faggot.