/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>10087525
anon why

I bought a BTSSB hoodie a few years back, and it was so comfy. It allowed me to feel close to lolita even when I couldn't wear actual lolita. A few days ago, I lost that hoodie somewhere. RIP favourite hoodie.

>Want to break up with bf
>Entire lolita collection at his house
>He'll be sus if I try gradually moving things out

>>10072585
I don't know why people are shitting on you. I've been there.
the problem isn't that the item is not good, it's the guilt. My parents don't get that i love lolita and buy me expensive clothes and i constantly have to pretend to like it, only to never wear it and feel guilty. I am afraid to tell my parents i don't like the clothes because they get really angry. It just feels so bad knowing they spend money on things for me, with good intentions, and not liking the things.

It's really sweet your parents are trying to help you with your hobby and they don't treat you badly because you love lolita. You have wonderful parents. I'm glad you will at least pretend to be happy with it.

Canada air lost my luggage and it had some of my dresses in it, my usakumya pochet and a bunch of accessories and shoes. I filed a report and everything and all I can do now it wait until they find it or accept that it's lost forever and I will get no real compensation.

>>10058742

>tfw still no qt cgl bf to gossip at and go on christmas dates

why am i cursed to be stuck around a bunch of normies and why is everyone cute so fuckin far from me

I was supposed to go back home to Europe for Christmas, but it seems like I won't be able to go because of my SO's poor health. So the gift from this SS will be the only Christmasy celebration that I will have.

Thank you in advance Santa.

>Otome no Tutu OP in ivory pops up on Mecari for a decent price
>ask SS to buy it
>seller deletes the listing before SS manages to nab it
I'm waiting for the seller to relist, but it's been a week and I'm losing hope. Someone hold me;;

>>10042909
Poor dress...

>>10041287
why??? why is everyone so obsessed with sex? I hate being an adult, everyones the same and only wants to talk about fucking, i just want to read about lolitas go away with your normie sex stuff please

>mfw Canada Post told everyone to stop sending mail to Canada
Guess my whites won't match for winter ILD.

>>10032812
>>10032809
mfw I wanna buy like everything you're selling but I'm in Europe and my fucking customs are killer

>>10030574
thank u anon this is sweet! i actually did make plans with him after he got back (After i declined i actually told him we should go see a band play that we both like, and he was all for it, now i'm not sure if we will if i'm giving him space)! And normally i'm not about it either but he's super sweet and something about him gives me stupid butterflies. Thank you for all the advice i'll chill out for the week and give him his space. Hopefully it works out! I'll probably update when i do it

>dress I want from IW is nearly sold out
>still waiting for invoice
>feeling unreasonably anxious
I just want my dress

I wish we lived in a world where lolita was way more popular. When I was a teenager, i wanted no one to wear it so i could be "uneeq" but now I wish more people wore it just so I would get less attention.

I hate shipping in my country. If i want to ship a tshirt from my house to literally anywhere, even within my own city, it's 10 bucks. if i want to ship a shirt to america, it's 20. Everybody always backs out once I drop that dirty canadian shipping quote. I have to mark down items simply because no one wants to pay the shipping on top.
I hate it, bros.

Guys, it's all your fault.
>Years ago
>Used to cosplay
>Frequented /cgl/
>Admired lolita in threads
>Friend lets me borrow her petticoat to try on
>Oh no I'm in love
>Present day
>No interaction with lolita community outside /cgl/
>Have my first haul
>Can do two coords decently
>All my friends say I look good in it
>Still hasn't shown a single thing of this on social media
>Raised on /cgl/ I nitpick my current coords
>My headdress is off-theme and small
>I don't have shoes yet
>Can't put this on the internet
>Still want to buy more clothes
>Joining local second hand groups would out me to my fb-friends
>Feel like these experienced lolitas would judge me
>Don't join the groups
>Don't post anything
>Sit here in my frills
>The seagull salt doesn't taste good anymore

Has anyone been in this situation? Or am I just an insecure pussy?

>>9936724
>tfw Europe
>tfw both MM and anon forget you exist

>>9917167
>>9917157
>>9917141
It gets worse, anon.
Just counted out the designs individually, and I ordered 125 Monika charms and they only gave me 50. They literally ignored my specific requests of how many charms I wanted of what designs and just gave me 50 of each design.
I asked for 95 of Sayori? Only received 50, 40 which were fucked.
Asked for 25 of some love lives? Still got 50 of each design.
I’m so appalled right now, they literally fucked up everything possible. I’m going to go cry for a bit.

>have dealt with passive-aggressive remarks from my friends and cousins since puberty for having small breasts
>fall in love with lolita in part because it flatters my figure so much better than normie fashions do
>finally get my hands on a jsk from my favorite brand, Mary Magdalene
>try it on
>breasts too big