/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8462537
I went to Japan last year and was told by a Japanese girl that lolita is mostly for ugly girls. I saw what she means, the Japanese lolitas I saw, (sweet or other) would be seen as ugly by cgls standards. Most of them didn't have the cute youthful look that everyone fawns over and tries to copy. I didn't personally think they were ugly but everyone here seems to think you need to look like an AP model or those highly photoshopped lolitas all over tumblr.

You people need to stop watching anime, dramas and Jpop and actually go to Japan. Even in the birthplace of lolita and kawaii culture, most people outside of the media don't fit the ideal your trying to push.