/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>partner is cosplay photographer
>until we got together, I didn't realize how badly most of the cosplayers in my local community actually treat photographers
>partner tends to forget about dates/meetings etc
>someone asked YESTERDAY to have a photoshoot TODAY
>partner agreed because they want it over and done with, despite getting incredibly stressed because that shit takes A LOT OF PREP
>better yet we were supposed to go on a date today and now it's cancelled

It's the second time this has happened, I don't mind the date thing so much as how shit my partner gets treated. They asked yesterday for a solo shoot and now there's two more people joining it, which just makes things three times more stressful for the photographer, you don't ask that kind of bullshit at 1AM THE NIGHT BEFORE. I swear to god I'm going to give the next person who asks for a shoot with no notice or some other sort of dumbass bullshit a brand new asshole. Whatever happened to being respectful to people who do you favours?