/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8309073
I want to cosplay Archer Illya so bad! But when I wear it you can see my ribs and I hate that. Yet my friend's bmi is 10 points higher and she cosplayed in a bikini top and hot pants before.
I'll probably never wear the cosplay in public, then regret I never did and do it when I am 40 and beyond saving anyway.

My bf and i have been having sex less and less lately. I asked him about it earlier, if he feels less attracted to me and he just said he "doesn't see the point" in having sex anymore. Obviously this upset me pretty bad and i'm not sure what to think now. Do i spend too much time talking about frilly dresses, do i annoy him or what? I feel like this is my fault somehow but i'm not like a sex maniac or anything, i like to feel close to my partner sometimes though, this fucking hurts.

>Moved recently
>New comm
>New class
>No friends

I can't expect people to approach me themselves, but when I try to talk to others I just feel like a bother to them. I try to be interested, but it's been 3 months now and I have no one to call a friend. I think I barely passed the stage where you can initiate a conversation without it being too awkward, but not yet at the point where people approach me themselves.

One girl said that I seemed hard to approcach, or too distant, but I'm not sure that's it. How do you know for sure that people don't want to be around you? Please don't let me be the only one who feels this feel.