/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

/fa/ggot here, no clue where to ask this so this thread will have to do.

I've recently begun dating a lolita and she invited me to her comm tea party which happens in a week, and I'm not sure what I should wear. I know nothing about jfashion so that's out of the question, but I was thinking maybe I should wear something victorian inspired. I posted this fit back in october, maybe if I swap the shoes for black oxford lows and the jeans for a non ripped pair I'll look presentable, idk.

"Just wear whatever" was her response, but that won't do. Any opinions are appreciated. This is technically a feel, right?