/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9931889
seconding all of this to be quite honest. There's no reason to be foaming at the mouth so hard about those three things.

Most fatties look bad imo but i've seen a few looking very cute and well put together (some even working on losing weight or admitting they were big and joking about it like nbd).

I also think /cgl/ gets too nitpicky, half of the time, ita threads have coords that could be easily arranged and besides, we all had ita phases just like you said. Some sadly never learn to take crit tho.

And the hate i see on transfolks is ridiculous,but i can *kinda* understand since because the majority tend to be loud and tumblry or even predatory which makes everyone think all of them are the same but those i am friends with are perfectly fine,passable,and just leading their lives normally. And even quite handsome/pretty i must say.
It's none of your business what they do (unless said person is an actual problem off course).

I've bitched about my friend before on here, but time to do it again.
We've been friends since our teens, and don't live close to each other anymore, but I think I've always been a good friend to her. She's pretty much my only close friend. I don't have a lot of people I talk to, but recently she's made loads of new friends and told me that I'm horrible to her and have 'changed'.
I don't know what's happened. Whenever we hang out she's always talking about her other friends, and I just have to smile and nod as if I give a fuck. One of these girls is very homophobic, and my friend is bi, so why would you want to hang around someone like that? She's hurtful to me as well, she's always calling me stupid and a horrible person, but I just brush it off because I'd rather have her in my life than start drama. It's been like that for so long, it seems pointless to call her out now, but I did anyways, and she has excuses for her behaviour, apparently I deserve it.
At this point I'm exhausted. I don't even know what the issue is, she won't tell me what exactly I've done aside from I went to sleep one time when she wanted me to stay up and entertain her. I really have no fight left in me. Being sad like this knocks all the life out of me, even opening a window seems extremely difficult. I know it'll pass but I hate this. I suppose I'm being replaced. I didn't realise years of friendship could be erased so easily. Sucks to suck.
I just feel like laying down and ceasing to exist.

To keep it cgl related, I don't feel attractive in jfashion because I have a weird body shape. I'm average weight but I don't have a defined waist, even with shapewear. I feel like a cylinder with boobs. I like what I do but someone else wearing my clothes would make them look 10 times better. Seeing photos of myself is hell.

Can we get the feels thread back on track?
And now, for my feel:
>keep losing auctions
>nvm it's just stuff I don't really need desperately anyways
>oh fuck my dd is on lacemarket
>mana-sama pls don't let me lose this one