/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9581923
Just eat the fatty foods. You can eat anything you want without getting fat if you don't eat too much of it.
Train your stomach to not feel hungry as easily. I lost 20 lbs eating fatty and sugary shit every day but still staying under 1200 kcal. Obviously you need to make sure you're still getting the nutrients you need, but otherwise you really don't have to eat like a rabbit to lose weight.

>>9268121
I understand where your problems are coming from. You are wearing a fashion primarily meant for females to wear. You are surrounding yourself with girls wearing this fashion as well. The fashion is for a fairly large part about looking hyper-feminine.
You're comparing yourself to girls, and if girls comparing themselves to runway models is unrealistic, you comparing yourself to girls and wanting to look as feminine as them is literally an unattainable standard. You will probably never feel fully satisfied if your goal is to look more womanly than actual women, because no matter how much weight you lose you're always going to have broader shoulders or bigger hands or I don't fucking know.
And that's fine. You sound like you aren't trans or anything, you just want to be able to compete with the girls in your comm. And maybe you can do so in coording, but trying to compete by wanting to look exactly like a dainty little girl is just not going to make you happy.
Try to compare yourself to other brolitas instead.
(Besides the body image issues lolita obviously shouldn't be the only thing that's getting you out of bed in the morning either - try talking to a therapist, depending on how well healthcare is provided for in your country. Also maybe set yourself a limit on how much you want to spend on clothes a month.)