/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I'm going to be entirely honest. Being tall and being into Japanese fashion fucking sucks. If you're brand standard size you can just buy entire coordinates. Through trial and error and a ton of research you have to figure out what can and cannot fit you, and brand coordinates will never fit, its always one item from this store, one item from that store and praying to god the colors match up/are as advertised online. I want to go from lolita to Ouji. Turns out Ouji is made for short people too.
I want someone to handhold me and say "here is an outfit suited for a tall person like you"
So I can try it on and figure out if I like the fashion on me in the first place before doing additional research on my own. Where could I go about finding someone to help me make a tall friendly coord or am I just on my own?