/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>2-3 years ago my relationship sucked
>live with my boyfriend
>refused to bathe unless I bathed him, brush his hair, eat unless I brought him food
>mooched off of me completely
>financial manipulation, he was in charge of my funds and committing tax fraud at the time, any time I asked for my money he'd tell me I'd have to deal with the fallout of that
>broke up with him
>he didn't believe me
>didn't get the hint until I packed up my most prized possessions (burando and cosplay)
>find another guy whilst still living with him
>sudden 180 after realizing i was ACTUALLY going to leave him and my relationship has been better since
>no tax evasion
>i'm in charge of my money now
>he got a job and uses most of his paychecks to spoil me (any convention I want, expensive dates, new burando sets)
>we've never fought since, outside of normal couple bullshit
>he's improved himself as a person, went to anger management classes
>don't want to be in a relationship with him due to his past behavior but current relationship is so fucking good I doubt I could find better

I want a financially stable lolita gf instead, no more moochers.