/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>10623436
>I'd prefer that a romantic relationship stem from becoming friends or something first
Are you a cosplayer? That is something I've seen happen a lot in local groups.
Also,
>Tinder
my nigga, you're likely not gonna to live your shoujo manga love story with boys you met on Tinder.
The app itself is fine, but if you're NOT looking to get touchy, then you have to tell them, because most people install that app _because_ they want to get touchy and have sex etc etc
That being said, don't give up! I've actually met a good friend of the opposite sex on Tinder. Our personalities matched well but I was way too busy with university and work back then to actually go on a date. But we got along really well, there was no pressure from any sides, and we'd meet each other to hang out on cons.
What I recommend is putting your nerd interests there so people can come to you to talk about it, not just because they thought you were cute. Do that while keeping in mind that most people _will_ want to get phyisical soon anyway.