/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>Be me
>Used to be neckbeard, physics major, anime club secretary
>Facebook friends list was 87% male, mostly scientists and engineers
>No /cgl/ female friends because they always thought I was creepy and trying to fuck due to the fact I was awkward and used to have anxiety

>Fast forward 3 years
>Recovered from neckbeard days, cleaned up and cut down from 5'11 310 pounds to 230 + muscles
>Facebook friends list is still 80%+ male, mostly scientists and engineers
>Try to make friends with /cgl/ girls at cons but they still always think I'm creepy and trying to fuck.

I just want some bros with tits to break out of this catch-22 god dammit.