/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>super unstable toxic girl gets out of my life
>thank god
>event arrives and she'll be there
>o fuck
>pm me this morning saying sorry,how when she threw a tantrum at me 3 months ago she was feeling soooo bad blablabla
>i don't want her back in my life,she's toxic af
>but don't want conflicts or her bitching/spreading rumors about me to the girls in the comm
>just say "let's forget about it for this time i guess..."
I just pray to god she doesn't see me as a her supah friend anymore, she's honestly toxic but i hate conflicts and i hated the idea of her being at that event.
What do I do now?

Anybody else has their parents or anything being assholes about it?
I'm 21 but I still live at home (muh studies) and even though i "respect their opinion" and try not to wear it around them sometimes my dad can be quite an asshole about it.

>receives a package
>visibly very happy
>dad chimes in
>"ugh,it's your chinese doll clothes again?"
>"Oh uh...yes"
>"urghhh"

>goes to disneyland with family
>get told it was fine if i was dressed up in lolita for this day
>decides to tone it down a lot so they're still comfortable around me
>white OP cutsew,peach pink coat and white boots,beret, nothing more
>dad avoids me all day and grunts about "everyone looking at us"

But two years ago we went to another amusement park, i only wore a cardigan,shorts (decent lenght) with those weeby cat tights and converses and he complained to my mom about how "everyone was looking at us!1!" because of my tights. So maybe he's just super conservative about fashion.

My mom is letting me do my thing even though she isn't super happy about it.
Am I a disappointment for my parents...?