/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9184306
>I keep silent on my problems so that I won't be annoying

I used to be like you anon.
But then I realized with this kind of "I keep my problems as my own so others won't worry or be bothered," made it impossible for people to really know me and therefore care about my life. While I always made myself available for everyone's single little problem nobody ever reciprocated. Then I realized it was because I never said anything and so nobody ever thought to check up on me since they didn't know I had problems myself. And isn't it fair anon that unless you speak up nobody can really read your mind?

You seem like an open person if people are coming at you with their feelings about mental and financial struggles so I wouldn't ruin that. But the next time a friend tries to rant to you why not mention you've struggled with loneliness and depression for a really long time and you're in a deal of pain? If they're any kind of friend then the least they can do is lend an ear to your feelings and be there for you. You're making a bad decision by keeping quiet and you don't even realize how your pent-up emotions are turning you bitter. Don't suffer alone anon.