/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

When I was new to my comm and didn’t know anyone, there was one girl who went out of her way to chat with me and invite me to things. I really appreciate this because I’m pretty quiet and socially awkward so it’s difficult for me to initiate conversations. I’ve since met many different people and even made some friends in the comm, but I’m still grateful to that girl for being the first person to involve me in stuff when I was an awkward newbie.

Thing is, our personalities don’t work together at all. As I got to know her better I became less and less able to stand being around her for longer periods of time. IMO she’s very obnoxious and melodramatic, and the itch to call her out when she’s saying stupid shit (like how she’ll “literally die, like literally kill myself” if her mother doesn’t buy her a certain brand dress) is growing stronger. Now that I’ve made new friends I’m spending more time with them and less time with her. She seems to resent this, and has made comments in my general direction about how fake friends are always using her and then leaving her. I’ve also noticed her getting friendly with new newbies and overheard her complaining to them about how toxic our community supposedly is. She’s also been vagueposting on FB about ‘lolita bitches’ and how much better she is than them/us.

I thought that slowly distancing myself from her would let our ‘friendship’ (we were never more than friendly acquaintances imo) fizzle out naturally with minimal drama, but now it seems like she’s constantly seething about something and a drama bomb may go off any moment. Am I going about everything the wrong way? Do I owe it to her to try to be her friend, even if I don’t enjoy her company at all? I can’t think of a way to explain to her why I don’t want to be her bff without it being hurtful. I haven’t had to deal with this sort of thing since middle school.

>mfw this morning I woke up on top of my IW Chandelier OP
My boyfriend tends to go to bed earlier than I do and anything that's on the bed at that time gets shoved over to my side. The room is always pitch black when I go to sleep and I stopped counting the number of times I sat down on top of a clotheshanger. I know the easiest way to deal with this is to clear the bed before either of us goes to sleep but I keep forgetting. Plus, sometimes it's his stuff, too. I wish that instead of just shoving everything over to my side of the bed without saying anything he'd call me over so I could put my things away.
But mostly I'm just happy it didn't get damaged.

>>8085044
>mistreats other people's clothes
>clothes get damaged
>well they were bad quality anyway so it's your fault for buying them, no my fault for ruining them!
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