/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>dated a guy
>introduce him to all the things I like at the time, most notably a certain series I was madly in love with and cosplaying/doing con stuff
>turns out he is an NPC in the original concept and not this new meme “your politics aren’t my politics so you’re NPC”, as in he actually has no passions, hobbies, or interests in life and nonexistent personality, just another “sad weeb guy” loser
>is even only casually surface level interested in anime and vidya, and doesn’t understand the appeal of cosplaying at all, extremely confused when I get excited about planning and making a new cosplay etc
>end up introducing him to some con/cosplay acquaintances friend group who also love the same certain series and are also incredible cosplayers, really talented seamstresses and crafters, in a desperate bid to help him make some friends and get an actual hobby
>have to leave the country for a couple months, finally break up with his boring ass
>in that time he attends cons with them and he becomes “friends” with them and part of their circle

It’s been a whole year and a half since we broke up, and I’ve gone from no longer wanting to be in a relationship with him to outright hating his guts now.
>when we were together the only thing of note to his personality that set him apart from the norm was he made some jokes/talked about stuff that wasn’t SJW and internet politics
>should have been a red flag but oh well I was in an abusive relationship at the time and was desperate to find an excuse to end it
>turns out he’s unironically alt right “praise kek” kekistan cringe. always rants to me in private about women and “we need right wing deathsquads now” and I tried to brush it off as a joke but thank god we broke up. I heard from a mutual friend he unironically worships Disdain for Plebs and still spews that stuff today
>this friendgroup is “killallmen” type sjwesque and all female or dfab NB/whatever
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