/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>10646918
Adding to this... I can't say I agree with kink shaming, but I wish it was less... okay to talk about in real life?

Use to, back in the early 2000's, I could wear a spiked collar, and people would say, at most, "Hey, cool goth fashion," or would just ask what style my outfit was if it wasn't typically goth. NEVER did people ask me about 'fetishes'.

Now in the past couple years, I can't even work a job in retail departments (that would allow for alternative fashion like a cigar store) or go in public without the comments taking a very weird turn of...

Well, I literally have customers or random people now ask, "You into DDLG?" "You want a leash for that collar?" "You like BDSM?" "Is that a sub thing?"

And I snap back, "Why would I bring that to the work place," or, "Does this look like a fucking munch? No, it's a supermarket."

If that's what kink shaming prevented, yeah, bring back kink shaming in public. It's only been in the past couple years people act that way. Before, they had sense.