/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>Always wondered how to get myself out there to lolita meetups as an aristo/ouji
>got advice to start and instagram/facebook presence
>Do this, and it works. Pretty well received
>Message com leaders and ask all the rules and say that I want do come to a meetup

Fastforward to meetup
>Only guy dressed up
>Other girls brought their boyfriends
>First 15 minutes everything is fine, they ask me about my wardrobe and compliment my coord.
>Then they start prodding personally
>Ask if I'm gay, which I'm not.
>Once they realize I'm not gay, the flirting begins
>I try to dismiss it and change the subject but whenever I do they find some way to incorporate me changing the subject to mean that I'm getting flustered
>even the girls that have their boyfriends around are lowkey flirting
>I get uncomfortable
>only one other girl realizes this and tries to change the subject as well
>they finally change the subject and talk about their dresses
>Once the meetup is over, and I'm at home a few of the girls wont stop bothering me on FB

Don't get me wrong, I'd rail every one of the girls at the meetup but I'm experienced with how girls are in group settings. I'm not going to do anything flirtatious because it only invites drama. I just wanted to wear my aristo outside and be fancy. Thank you lesbian lolita who saved me.

I'm not really sure what to do, the obvious answer was maybe talk to the admin. The admin is one of the thirstier girls though, and I'm not really sure who in the comm will cause drama. I feel like I went in unprepared.