/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Noose anon here. First of all, thank you everyone for both words of comfort, kindness, but also worry.

>>9780337
>>9780356
The reason of my discomfort was that I haven't ran into such problem before. I'm tall, but very slim. I have to admit I was always wearing loose clothes, and I was fitting in unisex S and M loose. When looking for pants, I had to either find XS or even XXS to not fall off me, but then also worry about length. Thankfully my mom is a seamstress, so she was always able to narrow bigger size for me and I never paid attention to my exact sizes.
Before buying my first lolita I was extensively measuring myself, but there's only as much as I can check myself. I had the biggest trouble with being sure of my shoulders, but I was pretty sure that I was S. Trying on the unfortunate dress was like hitting against the wall of reality. But I faced it again. I'm pretty sure I'm 35.5 cm, but the dress is mere 32.5 cm. I called my mom a while ago to help me make sure what size of clothing I should wear, and we both got to the conclusion that I'm size S.
I should note, I don't have ED.

I indeed have a lot of insecurities, but not fitting clothes in size wasn't one of them. I never really cared about looking good, or being pretty, and I'm already in my 20s. I'm yet to learn to use make-up beyond foundation. I finally can care for my hair. Sadly my breasts are small, and I think my face could be prettier, but that I will somehow get used to.

>>9780687
I'm proud of my height, and measurements. After being sad at first, I looked up fashion models' sizes. Turns out I'm not that much different, they also are tall with wide shoulders.
I didn't know that about flat shoes. I'm already learning to wear heels, now I want to wear them often.
I'm really slim, but I think I still could cut a little in the waist, if I took better care of myself.
My boobs are a problem, but it's more about lack of them…
I will do my best! I will adapt!
Thank you.

>TFW can't control that I only like Japanese
>TFW I'm a gross weeb
>TFW my knowledge if jfash and lolita just comes off as creepy to actual Japanese women
>TFW this thread is making me cry

There's no hope for me. Why can't I like any other race?

>>9330952
>TFW you will never have loved ones into Lolita
>TFW people will never support your hobbies
>TFW you're not cute
>TFW none of your hobbies are productive
>TFW you don't have a bright future
>TFW you ronly strength is the ability to endure terrible stenches due to growing up in a household with 3 men who showered maybe one every 2 months and threw garbage everywhere

>>8515643
>IMO it's easier to go solo at Sac Anime because of its size

I am new to Sacramento and would like to go in hopes of meeting other weebs who are local. The thing is, I'm 28 years old. How many people in my age group can I hope to see?