/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

i got into lolita when i was a very skinny, underweight teenager. i slowly put on weight over the years. cgl was the first time i ever received a weight related comment. i had posted a meetup coordinate in a brand miniskirt, and cgl commented on my thighs being fat.

then i started actually putting on weight and cgl called me every name under the sun and talked about how much cuter i "used" to be. i always thought that was funny because cgl didnt like my coordinates when i was thin either! they just made fun of them for other reasons.

i have bad body image issues, for other reasons besides cgl now. im still chubby by cgl standards, and cgl didn't comment on my weight loss or coordinate improvements. most of the users here are just projecting or indulging in a vendetta when they comment on someones weight.