/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I wish my city had more than one comm that wasn't strictly lolita and that mine wasn't filled with so many...weird people. My options are to be a lone jfash wearer, move to another place, or just never communicate with 7 out of 10 of the comm (which I kind of already do).

>Go to fall picnic with comm one day
>1 girl starts talking about how she wishes she could find a jfashion girlfriend
>I agree, *current location* is terrible for that though.
>She starts getting more excited and listing all the things she could do with her potential gf together
>"I love yuri so much! I would love to have a kawaii kanojo and shop together omg!"
>6 other girls join in on the dreaming
>I'm getting kind of excited and I'm happy we feel the same wa--
>"Oh but I wouldn't actually date a girl. Lesbians are weird lol"
>"Yeah, it's only fun in tv and anime. I'd only be with a girl if my boyfriend could join in."
>"Right? Like, talking to other women is fine and all but how would you even properly sleep together?"
>"Don't you agree, anon?"
>Share wtf glance with other lesbian in group
>They loudly continue on about the perks of threesomes for the rest of the picnic and their favorite yuri pairing while the 3 other girls and I quietly feed the rest of the sandwiches to the ducks

This one wasn't the worst, but seriously most of the things they have to talk about is just dumb and uninformed for a bunch of mid-20s to mid-30s girls. Nothing like trying to enjoy simple group-ups and having the older women ruin it by talking about politics or the "crazy things" them gay peoples are up to at every opportunity.
I always wanted to be in a small comm because I felt that they would be close knit and fun and thought I hit gold when I found one, but midwestern mindsets will invade any grouping it seems.