/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Lately I feel like I've gotten out of lolita. I can't ever find an excuse to wear it and so many new releases just look "bleh" to me. I know the right thing to do would be to just cut my wardrobe down to a bare minimum but I still feel so attached to all these pretty dresses I never wear, especially since I've been in the fashion since 2007 and some of my dresses are ones that I longed for for ages.

I don't even know if this is a bad feel, it's more of an apathetic one.

> Dream group/couple cosplay or twinning co-ord
donno - anything cute - tacky oldschool tartan twins
> Age
22
> Gender
female presenting closet transman
> Location
the Netherlands (disclaimer: I'm a french-canadian gaijin)
> Hobbies
league of legends, fashion, writing, film/series/anime
> What/who you are looking for
online pals and maybe someone to hang out irl because i never go outside

>>8347389
can i add you or you add me? my skype is naokikero

I'm looking for some good quality lace and satin ribbons to add to the border of a straw hat, anyone have any opinions about where I could find this?

Preferably a light lavender color.

I think I'm done caring about integrating into my comm. It's not that they're not nice girls, or even that I haven't had fun at meets. I've just been going to meets for over a year now, with a lot of different people in the area, and I haven't really clicked with anyone. I've made a few good friends online but I don't see myself getting on the same level with the girls in my area. I'm not really upset about it, I'm just slowly starting to think of myself as a lone lolita. Even when I go to meet ups, I'd rather break off from the group after the main activity and go do something nice by myself than cram into a purikura booth with a bunch of relative strangers. I don't think it's even a lack of common interests, I guess I'm just a loner at heart. It kind of bums me out to think like this but there's also a sort of relief in not forcing myself to be outgoing in some weird attempt to 'justify' how much I spend on brand.

Let's talk Lone Lolitas.
> are you a lone lolita? why?
> considering your status of lone lolita, do you prefer a smaller wardrobe, or do you want a large wardrobe?
> how do you "enjoy" lolita? (or, how do you often indulge in your enjoyment of lolita, when you don't have local friends/acquaintances/a comm to share it with?)
> how often do you wear lolita?
> location and/or zip code, if you feel like sharing.