/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>be me
>gothic/classic lolita for 4 years
>want to wear sweet lolita
>best lolita friend hates sweet lolita, has the cgl bait-tier mentality of "it's just ageplay!" to every damn thing I like
>talks shit about sweet lolitas in comm just because they wear sweet

It's not even OTT twintail bunny-backpack sweet. I've started buying pieces and have gotten positive feedback on coords, but I've taken her bullshit on board so hard that I'm starting to think I look awful even though I love sweet. It makes me feel like shit, I want to get rid of everything and never let myself fall into the trap again.
I feel like I'm in an endless cycle of buy sweet dream dress > wear it > feel like shit > sell it > regret > buy another sweet dream dress > etc.

Sorry for rant

I missed this for really cheap on LM recently, rip

Wtb French cafe jsk (either cut) or op.
Looking for the blue colorway only.
Also interested in matching headbow and accessories and any matching cardigans.