/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>Stay more active. Go swimming more and walk instead of taking the subway several times a week.
>Sell some of the lolita things I impulse bought and don't need.
>Stay active in my comm and try to help it grow.
>Get to know some of the other lolitas in my comm better and hang out with the ones I'm already friends with.
>Gather more GLBs.
>Find my tripod and use my actual camera for coord shots, instead of my shitty phone camera.

I'm not really a lifestyler, but I'm having a problem that some of you might relate to... So I really really love lolita, it makes me feel so happy and chill. I'm usually a very anxious person towards myself, but with others I'm very laid-back and easygoing, I'm just happy to be around other lolitas when I can be.

But due to a comment someone made around me, I worry that I'm coming off as fake. I'm not trying be some sort of "lovely" person, I'm really not sure what I'm doing wrong to seem insincere. How can I show that I love being in my comm and around the other girls there without coming off as fake?

>>9679671
I really love this coord, it has a simple elegance. You don't see turtlenecks in lolita often and the necklace really brings the coord together. I've been looking to buy a turtle neck but all the one's I have tried on so far have given me the death choke.

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>>9432762
my fav

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>>8882527
I don't really know, I've never had to explain why I wouldn't want to do my hair, makeup, and wear heels and a nice dress to sit around my house before. At the same time, I don't understand why someone would want to get dressed up just to sit around at home. I guess we can't ever really understand each other because it's just a personal feeling we both have that doesn't have a logical reason. So we can just agree to disagree without making weird judgments about each other, yea?

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>>8281592
Am I the only one that really despises cutsews like this? They just don't look lolita to me, and most of the time just look like ~kawaii~ t-shirts.