/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

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I definitely think that coming from an old school lolita that this is what happened to her.

I understand the need for concrit specially for new lolitas but there was a time when oldschool and oldschool styling such as natural hair, less accessories, and not being matchy-matchy/not perfectly matching your colors, wearing black shoes in a coord with no black etc was very much frowned upon.

I even specifically remember this outfit being posted in the itathread and practically the whole community deeming it ita. It would pop up multiple times and it was held as a prime example of an ita. I think some people popped up saying it was oldchool but they where promptly shot down by the entire board claiming they where WK etc.

Looking back on it now it's old school done perfectly well it just wasn't popular. Which is why I understand why she would feel that way.

I agree with her but at the same time I agree we shouldn't just stop giving concrit though idk

I feel like the new people might need it. But if someone is doing something for a while we should probably be more understanding of peoples personal style etc when giving concrit?