/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9680176
Fukken do it anon.
Because you'll get older and regret even more as time goes on. There's no age to start, go for it!
I suggest you give styles you like a more "mature" twist maybe (for example in lolita,changing the blouse style or wearing a cardigan to make a sweet dress less "childish"),a way that makes the outfit comfortable for you to wear.
It doesn't make you a "normie" like that retard over there >>9682723 said. Just self aware that sometimes, things don't always suit you. But that's not a reason to totally abandon it!

I would also suggest to first go out with friends, you'll feel less overwhelmed by people looking at you if you're in a (small or big) group.
That and start slowly. Maybe don't wear a full outfit all at once. Start with shoes, or accessories,...

Finally I would tell you to think about it. Why should you care about what random strangers think? If you're happy with yourself that's all that matters. If they feel the need to come and bother you/laugh at you, you should feel sorry for them if anything, just leave them do it, they're dumb,at most they'll post on their normiebook or IG about how "hurr saw this weirdo lmao it's not halloween" with three crying emojis. And if your peers reject you, then maybe it's time to find new people to hang out with. A true friend will show support or at least tolerance. At the end,it's just (flashy) clothes. It's still you underneath.
It's perfectly normal to feel the way you do. Just know you're not alone.
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Are there lolitas in Nova Scotia and/or going to Hal-con? I signed up for the waitlist and was just accepted. I'm pretty sure I'm going to go but I wanted to ask about the jfashion out there because Im not local and my main audience is lolitas and jfashion peeps

Im feeling sad after a fight with my SO, I'm really tempted to buy random lolita shit to cheer myself up but I shouldnt be spending money on it right now.

>>8566262

I used to have a similar situation as you anon and it really sucks. Basically I had gotten a rip in the lining of my vaginal wall and even though it had healed, the scarring wasn't as elastic as the rest of my va jay jay. Even touching the spot was super painful. Sex was painful all the time and it took years after the fact to get better. Even though now its improved, I have a mental block that sex sucks so I'm very unmotivated to do it. Latex-free condoms I find help a lot, lot of fore-play because you need to make sure you're in the mood, and if all else fails I'd see the doctor. Also I'm not sure of your situation but make sure you dont have any STIs? A lot of STIs will cause painful sex so if its a possibility you could have one, i'd check it out. Tbh a lot of them aren't that scary since most are curable, so don't feel too panicked if thats your case.

I'm torn between wearing an Easter themed coord for my comms meet up or showing off my new Marine Kingdom irl.

>I think I've decided easter theme
>but dammit marine kingdom I love you so much

>Finally went to see doctor months ago for depression/anxiety
>puts me on anxiety medication and it starts strong but eventually wears off
>feel like shit again
>go again and adds in depression medication
>its starting to work and I'm finally getting my life back together
>able to concentrate at my work at home
>started working out and eating better
>if I continue maybe I can lose some weight I gained from feeling bad
>maybe even fit lolita better
>fuck yeah
>feels good to get better man