/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>friend likes the look of lolita
>I'm desperate for a lolita friend
>link her bodyline
>directly goes for itaest messes
>link her nice dresses for 1000-3000 jpy
>"but too expensive anon! model is ugly. look this one looks awful on the person with big tits!"
>mfw she doesn't even have big tits, B-C cup but chubby
>"this one is pretty!"
>OTT Angelic Pretty
>mfw she doesn't even wear anything other than jeans daily, OTT is a big jump
>mfw I give up

I'm okay with being a lonelita but damn, I feel really lonely sometimes. Online friends are nice but you can't coord together with them, twin with them, take cute photos etc. I wish I had a community somewhere I can travel at least, or just one person also interested in lolita.

Lonelita Edition
Previous thread: >>9893791

>Head to toe moitie gothic coords are boring and lazy
>people who get upset about conlitas need to get a life because it's really not that serious
>curley and wavey hair (or wigs) looks better than straight hair almost always
>Boz is the best gothic brand
>having two ILDs a year is dumb
>having an international lolita week would be cooler but i realize a week couldnt really work in real life
>Shirring is cute, especially full shirring
>detachable sleeves were the peak of lolita blouses
>princess sleeves are kind of ugly (looking at you AtePie)

I've been slowly losing my only friend over the last couple years.

I'm not into cons or anime. My only friend made a new friend recently who is. I don't know if it's related or not, but they are BFF's now and my friend has basically forgotten about me because she's one of those people who tend to pick a favorite person and everyone else is "out of sight; out of mind." They hang out and go to cons and meanwhile I can't even get my friend to answer my messages. To top it off, I feel the new friend encourages my friend to abuse alcohol and be apathetic.

I live in hick country, and making new friends is so hard for me because I'm shy in the first place, it seems impossible I'll ever click with someone else where I live. I keep trying to tell myself I'll make a new friend one day. Just trying to stay positive in spite of how lonely I am.