/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9053045

I don't know if this is the right place to ask this but I'm making an essay about hierarchy and status in lolita fashion and I'd like to know if any on you would like to tell me about how would you tell hierarchy takes place and affect relationships in lolita communities and this applied to the lolita community online? also what would you consider is the origin of looking for status in the community, does it have to do with having brand or other things like personality and physical appearance has something to do with all this? all this within your experiences and perceptions. I'd be really thankful! also excuse me for my english if something is misspelled or weird structured.

>>8526378

I'll share.
>Grew up in a hoarders house(I've shared in other threads about it)
>Mega nasty house. Like, almost call protective services level. Animals shit and piss on everything. Have to keep room closed at all times, otherwise they will destroy it.
>Grew up hoarding like my parents and grandma.
>Come into adulthood, I'm just exhausted and tired of it. Tired of hoarding and burying myself in things. I've got like, 20 totes of just random crap in a shed, and all the other crap in my bedroom, and in the patio. Some stuff I don't even remember owning. Losing things and having to buy them, end up accumulating multiples of things because stuff just keeps getting lost.
>Finally after several years of trying and working with myself, all my stuff is down to a reasonable amount. Like both my stuff and my husband's combined(including our furniture) could fit on a uhaul(Which makes stuff much easier to deal with, and the next time we move a piece of cake).
>Finally, for the first time in my life, tomorrow I'm having a yardsale. A damn YARDSALE. Almost everything that doesn't sell is going to goodwill(Outside of fabric, sewing supplies, and wigs, those can go to friends)
>MFW, I feel a sense of triumph over my past.
I know it sounds kind of stupid, but imagine watching shows like clean house and hoarders, and you see those houses? I grew up in a home like that, and now without somebody else stepping in to fix it, I've been able to do most of it on my own.

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>>6820158
You're not alone anon, we can be kawaii together

>>6766489
Oh don't let the immature little cunts win, go get ye some gifs and join in.

>>6577550
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