/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

I've been really bad about spending lately.
I've bought at least 3 new dresses, and am pursuing a fourth because it's a high-level dream dress.
The problem is I'm affording it by taking out of my savings. i know it's bad but I'm really only hurting myself.
My bf, who does not save any savings, and also spends a lot on his hobbies, has been getting somewhat passive aggressive towards me for it. I don't blame him. But I can't help myself, it's the only thing that makes me happy anymore.

>Start working a new job
>While much happier with this than last job, it leaves me entirely exhausted
>Have been focusing on christmas/presents in my free time lately, nothing else
>Realize now all the hotels for all the cons I want to go to this year are sold out
>I'm too tired to work on cosplay anyways
>tfw
Who needs hobbies or to have anything they enjoy doing? Amirite?