/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>10350079

Why is she wearing a bjd head just strapped to her blouse?

>>10350071
>>10350072
This HAS to be someone's dad coming to meet and being a good sport. Please tell me.

>>10350083
For fake internet points.

>>10350084
Nope, he has a wife that wears lolita and belly dances so he does them too.
I wonder if she realizes her husband is gay.
Have another ita

>>10350105
What's with these people wanting to wear no bangs lolita hairstyles and actually having 5heads that need bangs
>>10350079
When you live in the backwoods and want to look hick cute

Can some kind soul post the person who wore sex gear on their face and got praised for it in this weeks ScarfingScarves?

>>10350111
No, it was in the last 3 ita threads, just go look for it you lazy newfag.

>>10350084
That's actually a really cute idea desu. Dad meet.

>>10350123
Still think so after seeing >>10350125?

>>10350125

>>10350105
This honest to god looks like a 12-year-old

>>10350129
I supose she is disabled

>>10350137
>>10350137
As a tall-lita, that’s unfortunate. You think your skirt is going to be great, and then you end up with it being almost comically short.

Definitely ita overall, but she doesn’t look hopeless. Hopefully she can find the JSK Version that’s longer and a good petti, and some nice tights. At least she’s got a passable blouse and shoes.

>>10350142
Honestly, skirt length is one rule I don't care about in lolita. I don't want anyone's ass hanging out, but I don't think it's scandalous for something to hit mid-thigh. Chess Chocolate is notoriously short. I don't think I've ever seen it reach anyone's knees.

Never thought Honey Cake could be ita

>>10350125
Male or female? Nightmare

>>10350145
I owned the jsk and it was longer than most of my ap

>>10350111
>"praised for it"
Did you even fucking watch Tyler's video? She absolutely ripped into the fetishist and the shitty CoF mod who went on a power trip over it the whole situation.

>>10350079
Doll head brooches were a thing in dolly kei. She may be basing it off street snaps or some old articles.

>>10350160

>>10350161

>>10350163

>>10350164

>>10350163
She is back, have not seen her in a very long time. Didn't she had bangs before?

>>10350165

>>10350165
Scary this classical neko ears ita

>>10350169

I noticed that bad pancake handmade dress/hat, that awful BNHA cosplay group and now the "punk" non-coord with the pixie cut and red tights all took down their posts after we ass rammed them there. Good. Good for us. Doing what God-Maya's work.

>>10350171

>>10350145
Maybe if she had patterned tights it would make her legs look less long. Not that having long legs is bad, but for me it’s less of a modesty issue and more of a balance issue. Her look feels off balanced. But I feel you.

>>10350174

>>10350175
/dump

>>10350147
It seems like honey cake is a new ita magnet. I feel like this one could be saved, at least with decent legwear, shoes and more balance to the pink up top. It’s a bit hard to tell because of the dogshit lighting.

>>10350163
I’m glad to see she’s wearing makeup. Some progress there. I just wish she wouldn’t pull her hair back like that. It makes it look thin.
My goodwill dries up when I see the fact she’s wearing Leopard print tights. Wtf. The rest of the coord is not great, but the tights are the essence of ita to me.

>>10350178
I weirdly like this

>>10350184
She's cute, but imagine it on an ugly person.

>>10350083
aEstHeTiC

>>10350125
Is that her dad or her mom?

>>10350186
aw, she looks really cute.

>>10350193
I think a goth grandma? Maybe?

>>10350128
I dunno half the older ladies at Whitby look like this... Some women just age like milk. When menopause hits, the skin sags, the pounds pack on, and the hair thins and can even fall out in patches. If they were already tall then they end up looking like old sissies,especially if they dress alternative or in a way that's not what we'd expect of old women.
Makes me a bit sad when we instantly assume someone is a tranny or a sissy. Many of us are going to be ugly old grandmas someday. I'd rather be an ugly old lady in brand than one in a cardie and elastic-waist, wide-legged trousers, even if it makes me look weird or a bit sissyish.
>at least I'll be better dressed than this lady though
>if the daughter is reading this, please tell your mom to get herself a good corset

>>10350125
>>10350128
I dunno half the older ladies at Whitby look like this... Some women just age like milk. When menopause hits, the skin sags, the pounds pack on, and the hair thins and can even fall out in patches. If they were already tall then they end up looking like old sissies,especially if they dress alternative or in a way that's not what we'd expect of old women.
Makes me a bit sad when we instantly assume an older woman who aged badly is a tranny or a sissy. Many of us are going to be ugly old grandmas someday. I'd rather be an ugly old lady in brand than one in a cardie and elastic-waist, wide-legged trousers, even if it makes me look weird or a bit sissyish.
>at least I'll be better dressed than this lady though
>if the daughter is reading this, please tell your mom/gran to get herself a good corset

>>10350111
>praised for it
I thought Tyler didn't have it in her to actually roast someone, but she eviscerated that fetish bitch. I haven't seen her that angry since the John Leigh shit. Not saying you have to like her, I'm personally ambivalent, but maybe watch the video before trying to start a discussion about it.

>>10350137
She got legs for daaaays, damn

>>10350135
Why is this here...? Photo quality is garbage but the coord is passable.

>>10350186
I would like this better with a matching bag and headwear.

>>10350165
props for the individual pieces fitting and for wearing a petti. This could be made cute in a cheapy casual kind of way if it had more accessories and if the shoe color matched.

>>10350137
Why would you wear an AP mini skirt as lolita especially if youre already tall for the fashion
>>10350145
Minimum length should be just above the knee. If you want to wear a mini skirt, then go for it. Just don't do it in lolita. It looks wrong, and is a typical ita/sissy thing
>>10350195
Are you blind? Stripey socks, and mismatched purple on a pink dress?

>>10350180
>It could be saved if you change literally everyone about it lmao

Dump from the gram

this guy is always ita

Actually didn't know it was possible to be this clueless about colour theory

I truly hate whoever brought peignoirs into jfash.

End of dump, the captcha is getting on my nerves

>>10350291
>>10350292
>>10350295
>>10350296
Nitpicks

>>10350294
Milky-Chan deserves better

>>10350137
When this girl figures out how to style herself well she’s going to look absolutely stunning. She looks really young and just excited to have some brand.

>>10350294

>Hotel Hazbin shirt with Lolita.

Don't. Please. PLEASE.

this was in the last thread, and i'll admit i know nothing about dressmaking. Is the arm/chest area so strange because there's no darts?? or because she's not wearing a bra?

>>10350163
This blob never looks good

>>10350302
This makes me sad because it's a good idea, just really poorly executed

And yeah, the chest looks weird because there's no shape whatsoever sewn into the bodice. Also the lace ups are awkwardly wide, and it seems like the dress just doesn't fit the model very well.

someone international give me a ring

+1 7852668173

>>10350137
As a 5' lolita who can never get dresses to even sit above my knee... ita or not?? I'm jealous of her legs... damn.

>>10350123
i'd rather have a mom or grandma meet, i want to dress my grandma up in gothic lolita

>>10350164
ffs this has literally not a single redeeming quality

>>10350165
i feel like this girl has potential even if this outfit is not that good- a change in legwear and shoes could make this cute casual

>>10350175
oh look, it's Popple-in-Boots

>>10350294
the power of three separate outfits combine to create a mess

>>10350300
i've considered watching this show just for richard horvitz but it seems to have a real fandom-aware sleaze factor. am i misreading?

>>10350297
fucking christ i HATE how it all looks like genuine little kid clothes, i could see 10yo me in this outfit. hate these creepy bastards so much.

>>10350175
This could be cute if the shoes were different or at least not a violently clashing shade of pink.

>>10350154
I was obviously talking about the skirt since that's what she's wearing.

>>10350174
>more of a balance issue
Yeah, I can definitely understand that. It can become a lot of one colour without any visual interest.

>>10350253
I don't know why you're spouting the exact rule at me I said I didn't care about.

>>10350300
It's like she's a walking embodiment of autism

>>10350296
I don’t think this is ita enough for this thread. It’s simple and looks like a beginner coord but there’s nothing painful about this

>>10350294
I kinda love it in an intentionally tacky kind of way

>>10350173
Wtf is wrong with its face?

>>10350335

What are you stu-wait.

>Milky-chan print.
>Alastor shirt
>Next to a bunch of antique radios
>Same head tilt and smile.

Ooooo that crafty bitch. She knows exactly what she's doing. You can see the crazed glint of joy in her eyes.

>>10350341
Kys

>>10350341
She has a horrible color scheme too, just like hasbeen.

>>10350346

Never, you grumpy baka.

>>10350071
the actual coord on this ma'am is pretty good tho

>>10350185
an ugly person can make a good coord look shit, we all know that.

>>10350302
Looks like the arm hole is cut extremely low and wide. Lazy chinese factory pattern making imo.

>>10350302
I don’t understand a western brand that makes dresses too short for western bodies. Dresses/bodices being too short and causing fit issues is the main hurdle for western lolitas, it’s the only benefit of buying from a weird indie brand, so why wouldn’t you make your dresses longer?

>>10350294
Her hair is really nice.

>>10350071
Doesn't he usually wear classic? Anyway coord looks good to me. Happy to see guys like this in the fashion.

>>10350379
Fuck off

>>10350137
>>10350142

I feel this, but Chess Chocolate skirt is already meant to be a miniskirt on the short asian girls it's intended for, and furthermore -- the "waist" size is actually the hip size. It's meant to sit low and loose on your hips, not your waist. I'd probably feel more sympathy for her if she'd done this with any other skirt than one that's already marketed as a miniskirt, and actually wore the skirt lower, as intended.

Plus, I feel like if we're gonna give fatties a hard time for squeezing into dresses that don't fit, then tall-litas also ought to step up and buy longer dresses that cover them properly as well. Or at least do some minimum research and figure out that miniskirts aren't the right way to go.

>>10350193
It's her mum, the mum was the one who posted the photos on some FB group, I can't remember which one. She did state somewhere she wanted to try Lolita herself

>>10350071
fucking hell, even that andrea dude looks more feminine than this. At least try?

>>10350180
Seems like it, unfortunately... makes me feel bad for all the girls who waited so long to get their hands on it for it to be ruined by oversaturation of itas.

>>10350206
okay but one look at their FB tells us this is a trans woman (or a sissy) they have multiple posts saying they are trans lmao

>>10350413
>>10350422
Please get your stories straight.

>>10350071
At least he has a proper coord

>>10350123
Tfw have no dad

>>10350137
This is cute as a lolita inspired normie outfit. I'd wear this to somewhere I couldn't explicitly wear the fashion.

>>10350157
She was praised in about half of the comments on CoF unfortunately

>>10350484
cursed image

>>10350297
He should also be part od the bring dad along meet

>>10350386
>since we give shit to fatties squeezing into dresses that dont fit
You can change your weight. You cant change your height/proportions

>>10350071
Sissies can't coord for shit

>>10350533
I couldn’t tell if that’s a he or she

>>10350530
You can easily buy dresses that fit. Buying a mini skirt as a tall person is retarded.

>>10350536
It's an it

>>10350433
could be both?

>>10350533
It's bad but I've seen worse

>>10350536
Well, that 5 o'clock shadow tells me it is a he.

>>10350536
It’s a they uwu

>>10350455
That’s just because the mods deleted all the comments not kissing her ass.

Every time she says not to repost an image, she ends up here.

>>10350167
no, but for a while she had a clipin

>>10350557
The skirt looks way too short, pulling it down a bit would improve the coord so much, I usually don't mind short skirts but this just looks unbalanced

>>10350557
Is she wearing a tshirt over a blouse??

>>10350567
No, it looks like a tank top meant for exercise.

>>10350567
she explained that its a blouse-sweater vest combo but all I see is a sports top

either way its ita

>>10350195
Beside the color purple, hardly any of the items she’s wearing have a common theme. Seashell bag, striped alphabet socks, cross motif shoes. It hurts to look at.

>>10350567
Looks like a knit vest.

>>10350572
I just mean she, herself, looks really cute. like all her items fit her well, and she has clean, well styled hair. yeah she could do with more cohesion theme wise I'm just saying I think the girl is cute

>>10350591
no1curr

>>10350186
I really hate the Melanie Martinez hair but I have to agree with the other person that this isn't exactly horrible. She did a good job recognizing colors. The only problems that stand out to me are the socks and the mismatched themes (the seashell bag and cross shoes) but I feel like those are mistakes I could easily make when I was newer, prioritizing color matching over thematic elements. I honestly don't think this is terrible, it just suffers from thematic problems, as >>10350572 put it.

>>10350135
Is there any better pics of the modified bodyline bjd outfit

>>10350137
If she just had slightly smaller hips this wouldn’t be so high up on her and would sit just right on her but she is already thin enough so possible mod the waist band just enough that it is lying on the hips.

>>10350292
I’m getting sick of these replicas, can’t we start getting lolitas in customs in different locations and interspect to have them destroy.

>>10350645
Perhaps if we bully them hard enough, itas will stop buying them (since kind explanations about why replicas are bad clearly don't stop them from supporting literal art theft)

>>10350158
It's still a hideously ita outfit

>>10350701
The bjd community has been outright bullying recast owners for the last decade and all it has done is made recasts more visible and popular than ever. So good luck with that.

I don't know why people think they can influence what a person buys. They're going to buy whatever they want regardless of what you do or say.

>>10350701
Doesn't this guy buy brand though? It just fits terribly on him cause he has a tube body.

>>10350744
Ntayrt, I think they were talking abt itas in general
I agree w you though, he should dress for his body shape

>>10350737
Those poor socks on her ginormous legs

>>10350738

t. replica/recast buyer who doesn't want to be bullied for their art theft

>>10350757
I am indeed a recast buyer (no interest in replica dresses), have had people try to bully me for it plenty including blatantly wishing violence on me or telling me to kms, and it has had zero effect. I simply block them and continue to buy what I want. Again, good luck with that!

>>10350764

Obviously death threats are way worse than saying "hey we don't want you in our group if you don't respect original artists' intellectual property rights for unique pieces". I didn't mean literal bullying beyond expressing that behavior is unwelcome, and I guess assumed people itt didn't either, assuming people even care enough about dolls and dresses to send death threats about them as you're claiming.

Out of curiosity, how does the BJD community feel about buying factory dolls for doll customization? The doll customizing community never seems to use factory dolls and generally customizes storebought or secondhand authentic dolls but I've seen a lot of listings online for knockoffs and wondered why people don't just bulk buy blank copies if they will just destroy the doll anyway.

Not sure if the BJD and doll customizing communities overlap as I don't do either myself but just view a lot of content from both online.

>>10350755
Thats what you noticed anon, really?

>>10350285
b-but... her ankles... Doesn't that hurt?

>>10350737
How many times are we going to post this

>>10350071
dunno anon, without knowing anything else about him this doesn't read as sissy or troon to me. he looks like he put actual effort into his coord and didn't try to shoehorn in fetish heels or gaudy makeup or a party city wig, the usual telltale signs of a sissy. He's cute, I wouldn't mind more guys in the fashion who actually tried like this.

>>10350072
also he looks better than the rest of these chonkers so

>>10350557
You're doing God's work, anon.

The more I look at it the more I hate it.

It’s not even a real dress yet but it’s already hideous.

>>10350881
Not ita

>>10350885

Every time a gamergal posts a gamer lolita dress it's always ugly as shit. Why?

Also, do they realise they're probably the reason there's no gamer dresses? I'm not sure anyone wants to associate their fashion identity with this kind of ita group.

>>10350887
>Too-small normie tights
>Reds don’t match
>Dress doesn’t fit
>Melanie Martinez hair

But sure, it’s not ita.

>>10350773

(not that anon). BJDs are a little different, they're made of resin. Part of the outbirk against replicas is some of the early ones are actually known to be made from cheap hazardous materials that give off some strong smell or dust. Plus unlike lolita where replicas were introduced as "you'll never own the OG SC for $600 so here is $100 replica", recasts were originally sold as the original dolls, fully intending to trick the buyers out of their money and then give them not just a cheap knockoff, but one made from cheap materials that's actually hazardous to their health. That's why the BJD community was much faster to adopt a no-recast rule.

I'd be wary of "factory" dolls that come from dodgy sources -- proper resin dolls are fairly safe, but "factory" or "surplus" is often just another name for replicas, recasts. Even worse if they tell you "it didn't meet QC because of small flaw" -- did it really? Maybe it's actually offgassing something hazardous.

It's hard to say for sure everything is kosher and 100% cured properly. I'd rather not pay for a "cheap" doll with my health, and I'm pretty sure no artist wants the headache of dealing with that either.

Plus, original BJDs are inherently meant to be customiseable anyway. A lot of companies sell just the blank, empty dolls (Unoas actually come as disassembled kits), then it's up to you to paint their faces on, give them clothes, wigs, eyes, if you want to you can make custom parts for them as well. Several people have frankendollies -- head from one company, body from another, animal parts from a third company. I don't really see much that you need to "destroy", there's not a whole lot of demand for broken up dolls? Mostly you're paying for the artist to have sculpted a decent body and face that you like for you to customise.

>>10350899

I was thinking about people using vinyl and plastic dolls mostly and was unsure how similar they are to BJD customizing.

Like the big doll art customizers on YouTube use fashion dolls like Monster High dolls for example, (with MH especially the older, higher quality ones with more articulated limbs for posing; possibly a poor man's BJD?), and I've seen custom Blythe dolls as well and tons of factory Blythes on Etsy for example. I guess was wondering why in the more plastic doll comms they don't start with blank dolls and instead have to deconstruct and remove paints from and reroot premade dolls but I guess even with plastic or vinyl it could be a dangerous cheap plastic that is harmful.

>>10350899
actually this isn't true. resin is particularly dangerous on it's own anyway. most of the recasts weren't dangerous or anything. infact the bjd stole this from the gundam community because those chinese replicas were resin instead of plastic which is dangerous to sand without respirator.

>>10350902

That's why I mentioned BJDs in particular are a little different, they're mostly blank to start with anyway.

Honestly, if you're artist and you openly admit to dodgy dealings, it's like painting a target on your back. You already deal with recasts, which is stealing someone else's work, so you can never complain about someone else stealing your work, reposting your art, copying your doll, etc etc. Plus it's always going to be easy for people to believe bad, nasty rumours about you because you already do replicas. Again, who wants that on their hands?

I believe it's still fine if someone was a beginner and bought a few fake doll parts for themselves to customise, people can be sympathetic that you don't want to deface an original. Lately the Pullip has a line of blank dolls that you can customise as well, so some companies are paying attention that people want to do craftsy stuff to their dolls.

>>10350905

Anon the early replicas from 2006 were reported to be crumbly on the inside. I don't know about you but I don't want to breathe the dust and bits that fall out from that thanks. Nevermind sanding it.

>>10350910
that doesn't change that both recasts and originals are both resin.

>>10350912

It's fine, you can keep buying the replicas. Not my problem anyway.

>>10350910

The only argument I could see for factory dolls is wanting one that isn't white. Or the fatter bodies I saw some factory Blythe manufacturers advertising.

>>10350701
Everyone that I know used to have replicas and now doesn’t wear them anymore has came to the conclusion they are bad trough valid arguments. Bullying people usually leads them to feel like you are just mean and elitist and doesn’t have much of an effect. Of course arguing politely won’t work on everyone, some people just don’t give a damn, but they won’t change trough bullying either.

>>10350484
>that makeup
Is this supposed to be a cosplay?

Also this reminds me of like 2012-ish Miles Jai.

Can you guys take the BJD discussion out of this thread? This really isn’t the place for it.

>>10350071
If he wore that gun cat dress it would probably suit him really well.

>>10350557
I actually thought this was a sports bra, oops.

>>10350891
I would love to see a cute animal crossing dress, would kill for a Nintendo x AP collab.

>>10350071
I can't hate this, like the coord is fine and he looks so happy. Would definitely prefer to see men wear pretty dresses rather than ugly ass jeans/cargo pants and ratty polo shirts.

>>10350147
honestly like the casual retro vibe, even with the cons. Somehow it works to me, like if she was going to disneyland or something I think it 's fine

>>10350970
Yeah, same. He’s adorable.

>>10350970
>>10350978

Gross

Leave

>>10350891
Nayrt, theres only one proper loliable 'gamer dress' (pic related) I know of but yet again, I've never seen it in a non-ita coord

>>10350999
Oh wow this is...not a good dress.

>>10351001
But if we photoshop a Chinese girl to look like an elf no one will notice how poorly made the dress is!

>>10350881
She should not have been holding the skirt and pulling it out. It makes you question whether her tights are falling down or if her ass is just about covered but is easily seen with a slight breeze.
Also I get the look she was going for with the hand written sign and the dress theme but as you can clearly see that her own head can fit in her thighs with room to spare, it makes her look like a joke. I hope she can find better fitted clothes that don’t work against her as she has a good eye for coordinating themes well.

>>10350999
It’s the dress she is wanting to make but with a few added touches. Someone should let her know she can just buy this and modify it with her add lace and controller aplic.

>>10350079
Now this is ita

>>10350881
this isnt ita. its actually a decent plus size lolita coord

>>10350881
Just a question, and not in a mean way, how does one get this big and not freak out and do something drastic? I was 25 pounds overweight and could not fucking handle it anymore and snapped. I started a serious complete lifestyle change diet and hired a trainer. I can’t imagine getting that overweight and not being extremely distraught and motivated to make drastic changes. Is it very slow weight gain over time that makes you complacent? Or do you try to not think about it? I’m not here saying anyone’s a bad/gross person for being fat, just in our society there’s so much pressure not to be overweight I can’t imagine not having a total mental meltdown and making huge changes if I got this overweight

>>10351157
As someone overweight it’s usually a slow creep that snowballs. You can have bad body image and think you’re disgusting and still not feel compelled to do anything because it often feels like it’s too late/it’ll be impossible. Mental illness like binge eating disorder exist as well, anorexia isn’t the only ED out here. There are also life circumstances and genetics that play into stuff like this. Maybe they (no one specific) can’t medically do much physically or is on medications that make them gain weight even with maintaining a relatively healthy diet. There’s also the possibility that they (not this person in specific, again) just doesn’t care and doesn’t feel the need to change herself just because others don’t like how she looks.

>>10350885
This is exactly the type of post that turned me off from LSC long ago. I'm guessing that "none of the above, please start from scratch" is not an option?

>>10351157
I know that feel, I too used to be overweight in my teens and the thought of it still haunts me although I'm at a normal weight now.

>just in our society there’s so much pressure not to be overweight
I think it's quite the opposite, thinking of body positivity movements and such, also in terms of clothing being more accessable to bigger people. On the other hand, many overweight people still struggle with mental health issues or disordered eating and feel guilty about themselves. From personal experience I can say, that many ~ positive and self-loving ~ overweight people (especially women) are likely to have those issues and use the fake attitude as some sort of coping
(inb4 not all of them: Yes, not all of them. Some are actually comfortable being bigger.)

>>10350105
This is an actual child and her very first coord.

>>10351179
That's what I thought too. It's not too awful for babbys first coord, we've been there

>>10351164
>>10351157


I gained weight so gradually, that I didn’t notice for years. Just a little bit heavier here or there, but then it hit me. I’ve been diligently tracking my weight loss through diet and have lost 15 pounds this year.
I think part of the problem is that you fall into bad habits without realizing it, and starting out to lose weight, the sheer amount of information, good and bad, is overwhelming.
I spent last year trying different things to figure out what worked best for my body, and more importantly, started a mindset of making good decisions. But that takes a long term commitment to hold yourself accountable, and yes, be uncomfortable sometimes. Not everyone is willing to do that for the long haul. I’m lucky, I don’t have an underlying mental health condition that causes me to binge eat. Having to tackle mental health issues alongside of my body issues would be very difficult, especially without professional help.
Hope that helps provide some perspective.

>>10351157
Size acceptance movement. If you get huge and people still call you a beautiful queen there's no motivation to lose the weight

>>10350083
It was a big thing in cult party kei which is what I assume this is going for.

>>10350135
This is the first time I’ve seen someone twinning with their doll where it’s actually cute and not creepy or ita.

>>10351171
The body positivity movement is a very small amount of people. Society as a whole still has a massive amount of pressure towards being thin, especially with women.

>>10350178
I feel bad for this girl, she’s cute, really good at sewing, and has so much potential but her comm is so massively ita that they actively prevent her from improving by their bad example.

>>10350178
>>10350184
She looks like an extra in a children’s musical.

>>10351191
Is that Jessi Slaughter?

>>10351207
>>10351171
I agree that there's a lot of pressure to be thin in our society. People are generally invasive about weight when you're skinny or fat (though probably less so when you're skinny). I've never been overweight, but there was a point when I put on weight and people were extremely invasive about it, asking me why or how I put on weight (I was on a new depression medication) pushing me to go to the gym or to eat less etc. when I lost that weight, people continued to be invasive, asking me how I lost it, if I was ok, if I was eating well, I look "too skinny", men like curves (I'm not joking when I say people would tell me that, often indirectly) and things like that. People are just really rude about weight, and a lot of people project their insecurities about their weight onto other people. People who are most judgmental about it tend to be really insecure about themselves or they are fat too.
People in our culture tend to be weirdly obsessed with being skinny even if they are making no efforts to lose weight.

>>10351216
Yes, they wear lolita sometimes now.

>>10350891
That fabric could look super cute in more modern styles but pink controllers just feel off in lolita. There’s lots of games that have good aesthetics for lolita but no one with any taste ever tries to make them. Which makes sense, the overlap of like Professor Layton fans and lolitas is probably too small to be able to sell well.

>>10351220
"lolita"

>>10351207
And yet in the USA 40% of adults are obese.

>>10350178
Does she have some kind of ed?

>>10350386
>I feel like if we're gonna give fatties a hard time for squeezing into dresses that don't fit, then tall-litas also ought to step up and buy longer dresses
Are you really gonna act as if being born tall is just as bad as being fat...?
>>10350541
Before you said they need to do research and now you claim that finding long enough pieces is "easy". It's not, so the last thing tallitas need is assholes like you who put them in the same category as fatties on top of the other difficulties they already face.

>>10350881
At first I wanted to say it's not that bad, then I scrolled down and saw her legs?! How come her lower body is like this but she doesn't even have a double chin? I'm so jealous of people with naturally slim faces.

>>10351216
yeah,really old picture tho

>>10351222
god I can’t fucking express how much I’d love to see some sort of tasteful crossover between Lolita and Professor Layton

>>10350072
>florida

>>10350137
with legs like that she can wear all the short skirts she wants

>>10350079
She looks like mayonegg Ann from Arrested Development

>>10351169
What’s funny is it was started by gulls as a way to escape all the shit in the other sewing group

Now the two are indistinguishable

I think the last time I was there someone blocked me for trying to explain the difference between good and bad lace

>>10351229
Photoshop, moron

>>10351229
nayrt but chess chocolate is literally a miniskirt. you could "easily" buy literally any lolita dress or skirt that isn't a fucking miniskirt

>>10351169
I feel like the good lolita seamstress mostly don't lose their time posting to Facebook groups since they don't seem to be in search of concrit or asspats.

Nowadays I prefer to just follow those who have nice sewing skills on their social media and casually interact on non-lolita groups when I need specific advice.

>>10351169
>>10351303
I wish someone would make a vetted sewing group because I want some place to have discussions vs. just looking at people’s finished pieces (think RC vs. COF). Wasn’t LSC supposed to be vetted?

>>10351297
no, I've seen her I at paradiso. she really does have a slim face. it's bizarre

>>10350744
yes this one is brand, also got the gray and blue

>>10351229
Some heavy set people just don't collect fat in their necks and faces. Take a look at the most successful plus size models-they all have remarkably thin faces relative to their bodies.

>>10350999
Sauce? This is so cute!

>>10351169
The person who started the group was what turned me off.
The shit in it just sealed the deal

>>10350553
No, that's definitely a he.

>>10350701
People will buy whatever they want. Bullying people will serve no purpose except make you look like a cunt. Let the itas look like shit and move on. Replicas aren't going anywhere.

>>10351375
This was tagged lolita? It's almost cute for a weird garden party of some sort, but 0% lolita

>>10351376
Equipped with fat boob stretch marks to boot.

>>10350072
Obeasts and gender specials. I hate current era.

>>10350206
Care to explain how menopause supposedly turns your hands and feet into the size of Shrek's? That's not a woman, and never was.

>>10350297
I hope the corona virus gets all sissies.

>>10351375
Is she insane? With her fat ass hanging out as well as her boobs, in a full normie cheap ass fast fashion outfit?

>>10350264
>just change shoes and legwear, balance the top
Learn2reading comprehension

>>10350294
This would be so much better without that damn Hazbin Hotel shirt but I have the feeling she knows it doesn't go well and simply doesn't care

>>10350297
>calling a Frozen dress lolita

>>10350330
The show is very tryhard edgy, you either hate it or love it. Personally I don't think most jokes are even funny

>>10350125
The lolita looks embarrassed lol.

>>10351375
Looks like a skanky fat normalfag

>>10351535
It's exactly what it looks like

>>10351375
I remember thinking that knee-high socks made an otherwise normie floral dress lolita. To my credit, I was 12 and none of the brands even shipped overseas yet. Also we had to walk uphill through the snow both ways! This girl has no excuses.

oh honey

>>10350071
Proudly incontinent ita was up there, not sure if we're talking about the same one or not.

>>10350125
this is high quality

>>10350137
freakin love the skirt though

>>10351375
doubt she meant the right lolita

quadboob and too fat for skirt, great combination

>>10351583
Every time I see her I’m surprised at how bad she looks because she’s the moderator for so many of the fun communities and posts so much about the fashion

>>10351606
Oops
fb communities, not fun communities

>>10351583
...why not wear a comfortable bra?

>>10351619
Ikr it looks painful

>>10351362
it's a joke dumbass

>>10351583

Avoided boob loaf only to trade it for muffin topping and an ill fitting bra.

This might be passable as a cute casual coord if it actually fit. She should lose weight or get ahold of roomier pieces.

>>10351559
I must know where this wig is from

>>10350294
>Hazbin hotel
Please no

>>10350885
Why do people insist on using the busiest fabrics possible?

>>10350970
>>10350973
Fuck off sissies

>>10351641
I find /cgl/'s homofobia extremely based.

>>10351642
>Hating sissies is the same as being homophobic
Fuck off retard

>>10351645
oh it isn't, I see those too things being pretty close 2bh

>>10351638
Because they have no taste. I love this fashion but damn, it attracts a lot of people with very little taste. Alternative fashion need extra taste and fashion sense to pull off, not less

>>10351647
everyone just wants to be kawaii sparkly princesses or some shit.

>>10350297
why is this guy still in the atlanta com is my biggest question, they are clearly a sissy with all the disney dresses so why have the mods not kick them out

>>10351654
muh inclusion of course.

>>10351654
A girl dressed in normie clothes came up to me in a store and claimed to be a lolita in the ATL comm. She said A was a mentor to her and multiple other people and got her into lolita in the first place. She recommended I contact A directly (not the mods) if I wanted information about joining the comm. I've heard elsewhere that A has anger management issues. The girl was either trolling me or there is something sinister going on.

>>10351672
People have very mixed opinions on A. I've met her a few times and she's been perfectly lovely to me, but I know a lot of people who have had really negative experiences and I don't think they're bullshitting me. I'm not entirely sure how she "vets" people she likes or doesn't.

>>10351677
A is usually fine at the meet ups i have met them at and they are always in full lolita. But then on fb they are always dressed up in children disney themed clothes and carrying around american great dolls. Idk if they ever worn their frozen dresses or brought the dolls to the meet up but always though that looked really weird. If you do meet them they will talk your ear out of how much money and travel they do and how theu live an extravagant life.

>>10351635
her caption:
"OOTD 2/29/20
~Dress: WD-NY
~ Shoes: Converse
~ Satchel: The Cambridge Satchel Company
~ Wig: Arda Wigs- “Luthien silky” (nutmeg)"

>>10351375
I hate fat people with face piercings

>>10351631
It's a joke you autistic faggot.

>>10351715

>>10351583
I can't believe this shiny landwhale thinks she has any authority over lolita when she looks and dresses like that. Yikes.

>>10351157
for me personally anon, it's because my depression became really, really bad and I legit did not notice what I was doing to myself. I couldn't get out of my brain's habits long enough to even see my own body. I'm p sure a lotta people have been there/are there.

>>10351248
underrated comment

>>10351646
I would say lumping in men who get off by dressing as a woman because they find it humiliating (i.e. sissies) in with normal gay men is the more homophobic move but ok

>>10351646
How? And please don’t waste my time some bullshit “gay people are the same as sissies” nonsense.

>>10351157
I had a job where i was exposed to food for a long time that was free. I'm a compulsive eater and despite my resistance, I gained a lot of weight. It just happened so slowly i didn't notice until my thighs were watermelons. Took a long time to accept it enough to start changing it back. Lost fifteen pounds but it's way harder to loose than to gain it.

These people really are the worst.

>>10351611
which communities does she moderate?

>>10351583
is she a dwarf or something? her proportions are insanely awkward and her... her face? wtf is wrong with her?

>>10350367
And the girl modelling it is short too (5'2") so it would look wrong on anyone taller than her

>>10351807
She’s just ugly

>>10351778
Never mind this absolute garbage outfit, I just hate this as a photo. Why are her shoes cut off? Seriously it’s not hard to get the whole person in a shot or edit the photo so that it doesn’t get off by Instagram’s dimensions. Horrible.

>>10351583

>>10351583
She looks like she’s constipated

>>10351248
Who?

>>10351894
Is Google not available in your country?

>>10350533
Someone slap some sense into him and get him into EGA, it'd look so good imho.
>>10351583
Now this is good ita, I'm in almost as much pain as her boobs are just from looking at this shit.

>>10351901

>>10351807
She is just old and a bitch

>>10351782
Almost certain she comes here, but Sounds Like Something an Ita Would Say and sOuNdS LikE YoU dOnT kNoW wHaT LoLiTa FaShIoN aCtUaLlY iS are two of them

posting one of my favorite itas

>>10351982
Is that one of those toys that kids put between their legs to pretend they’re riding a horse.....?

>>10351999
I think it's meant to be a scepter, but yes

>>10351248
yeah, egg is a nice....

>>10351721
>no u
apex retard

>>10351948
she's admitted to coming here publicly. So has the other Daily-EGL mod.

fresh content

>>10352023
This is just straight up mall goth. Why is she only wearing one contact?

>>10351982
This looks like a parody of everything wrong with OTT sweet.

>>10352025
because apparently thats punk

i dont know how the flowing kimono fits into it. or the straw hat. both of the textures are wrong for punk

>>10351583
This could really just be saved with better undergarments. A better fitting bra would fix the quadboob and some kind of shapewear would help with the skirt waistband squeezing and pushing out her stomach, since its making the belt push out funny too.
I hate giving concrit on undergarments for chub-litas in fb threads because someone always comes in like "yOu dOnT hAvE tO cHaNge Ur bOdy tO fIt rOri!!!1!! uR pErFeCt aNd yOu dOnt hAvE tO wEaR uNcOmfOrTabLe GaRmEntSs tO fIT!!!!" and that's not what I'm saying.
I'm actually saying the opposite. Changing your body would be losing weight, and shapewear that fits isn't uncomfortable. People just always ignore size charts and buy it too small because they think itll make them smaller.
Chubby girls are just softer so garments don't lay as smooth, and shapewear is the difference between cute fatties and sloppy looking ones.

>>10351754
well is you saying it's not the same, so please enlighten me, sounds like major cope and mental gimnastics, but oh you're so sure, so do share

>>10350999
I want this just for game night desu. It’s not Lolita, but it is cute. Sauce?

>>10352031
How do men who want to fuck other men and men who get humiliated and turned on by the thought of being a woman seem the same at all?

>>10352029
I don't get the hate towards shapewear. I'm xs/s and I wear it too, shapewear looks good on any size really. Most garments just look nicer imo.

>>10352031
Do you think gay and trans are the same thing? Trans people still aren’t the same as sissies but at least that would make more sense in a terf kinda way.

>>10350147
This is cute, she just needs to wear the beret better and look less frightened.

>>10352080
Converse will never be lolita and she’s way too fat for the dress and cardigan

>>10352002
She should never use that as a scepter again

>>10351375
I hate this

>>10352031
Nayrt, but I'm so tired of this lowkey homophobic shit disguised as progressivism.

Let's get one thing straight, sissies are cismen who use feminine clothing as a costume for humiliation. I shouldnt have to explain why comparing this to gay men and transwomen is wildly offensive, but let's do it anyway since you seem to equate any kind of critical thinking to mental gymnastics.

For starters, equating sissies to gay men implies that all gay men are in some way feminine or even cross-dressers which is just flat out untrue. There is nothing wrong with gay men acting or presenting femme, but it's often portrayed as the *only* way gay men act in both mainstream and popular lgbt culture and it's a damaging misrepresentation of the community.
Let's get further into it though, and talk about cross-dressers, drag queens, and especially transwomen.
Cross-dressers and drag queens aren't humiliated by dressing in feminine clothing like sissies are, so thats an unfair comparison too.
Lumping transwomen in with that assumes that transwomen are crossdressing and not simply dressing in accordance to their gender identity, and wearing feminine clothing is actually empowering, not humiliating to them. Transwomen also don't have to dress in a hyper-feminine way to validate their gender, and crossdressing, drag, and sissies are often purposefully an exaggeration of feminine presentation.

The LGBT community has been working for decades to normalize the idea of presenting outside of the gender binary, and sissies re-enforce the idea that presenting outside of the gender binary[especially in a femme way] is an embarrassing, humiliating act for the sake of their sick fetish. They don't belong in the community, and in my opinion, they need therapy. Some fetishes come from a place of hate and I think sissification is one of them.
/end essay

TLDR; Sisses are sick misogynists and fuck anyone for being one or supporting them.

>>10350999
I mean the dress aside, why the elf ears and eye-patch? Choose a theme and stick to it, goddamnit

>>10351778
IS THAT POOP-CHAN

>>10352114
thanks for the new pasta

>>10352114
It's all faggotry anyway.

>inb4 “nitpick”
Normie tights
Blouse doesn’t match dress
Ugly headpiece
Petti is MIA

>>10352223
Oof that poor dress. Needs a minimizer bra or to maybe let out the shirring

>>10352223
this is a nitpick desu but that fit is atrocious

>>10352223
she is so cute. I feel like this outfit would be great with a different, more elegant main piece. Like an old floral Baby piece. The bag, tights, blouse, and shoes don't really lend well to the style of the JSK

>>10352223
I like the headpiece but it’s the type you have to wear with ott and a big twin-tail wig.

>>10352223
I think the solid tight isn’t bad, it seems like a decent match to the dress. If there was more pink (that wasn’t that stupid headband), I think it would be better.

Damn, she looks like a sneeze could rip her bodice in half.

>>10352114
trans"women" are crossdressing though

>>10352242
I’m not even gonna bother with attempting to get you to understand the difference between cross dressing and being trans but saying trans/cross dressing/gay = sissy is like saying lolita = ddlg.

>>10350185
>come play with me Danny
>forever and ever and ever...

>>10352025
>Why is she only wearing one contact?
I'd assume it's inspired by Manson and/or Bowie.

>>10352256
Don't respond to terf bait.

>>10352256
>a man dressing up like a woman is not the same as a (mentally ill) man dressing up like a woman

>>10352114
The overwhelming majority of troons are pornsick AGPs. And performative femininity isn't empowering libfem-chan.

They tagged their post with the words “sex” and “kink”.
How tf did this get approved?

Just ignore the TERF bait y'all it ain't worth it and the thread will just get shit up ajd shut down.

>>10350135
qt mexican lolita. not ita at all

>>10352295
faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot faggot

>>10352295
go back to facebook

>>10352047
Agree. That’s why corsets existed for so long. Most women didn’t actually tighten their waist smaller (only rich young stylish women who hadn’t had children), it was to create a nice shape so that their tailored garments fit smoothly And to provide bus support

>>10352223
I have this and even though there’s plenty of room in it it still gives me a boob loaf. The bodice is just cut super shallow and it’s really unflattering with anybody above like a B cup

>>10352295
It ain't bait if it's true, pickmeisha

>>10352308
"b cup" literally means nothing without a band size, just say you're a male and go.

>>10352327
>implying american women know anything about bras

>>10352347
well hey, I'm an american so who knows. I feel like if you're going to wear a fashion this expensive and extravagant you should at least know what bra size you wear. It just screams larper to me when I see that shit.

>>10352347
Also an American woman who understands bras. I mean, just go into any Victoria’s Secret or even Target and without even actively comparing you can tell a 32B isn’t remotely the same cup size as a 38B. But maybe I am overestimating gulls’ intelligence.

>>10352308
learn how bra sizes work

>>10352114
Well written. Though, the people on this board are too stubborn to get it

>>10352114
A lot of people on this board are homophobic and transphobic. What can you really expect?

>>10352347
What even is this stereotype? Where is this coming from?

>>10352308
Sort of why I got the white colorway after seeing others wearing it. At least the princess seams are a little less obvious. Still doesn't help the shape though.

>>10352327
Cup size is the difference between the fullest part of the bust and the band size. What >>10352308 is referring to is that most ready-made blouses and main pieces are cut and designed for a small cup size. They are not cut to accommodate large boobs. Shirring is added in the back to add additional leeway, and brands often add additonal button holes or longer straps so that the bodice length can be adjusted. This does nothing to change the curve in the seam so that your tits have somewhere to go. They end up flattened against the bodice. That's boobloaf. It's pretty common, and hard to avoid it if you've got big tits. Some fabrics, cuts, and bust detailing work better. Others don't. It's always a toss-up.

In the case where it doesn't, it helps having a variety of supportive undergarments, as well as other coordination options (boleros, cardigans, etc) to help ease the appearance of flattened boobs.

And yes, this can happen to thin people with large boobs. Losing weight does not always make cup sizes reduce on everyone. (Anecdotally, I dropped a lot of weight. While my band size and overall horizontal measurements decreased, my cup size did not. Still a 4" difference between bust and band). A binder doesn't help, and only adds to the warped shape.

One of my facebook friends just posted this. Absolutely tragic

>>10352518
Ignoring the drag queen, dress on the left could come out cute if she has decent sewing skills

>>10352524
Decent maybe, she seems to be a good seamstress, but most certainly not for a lolita event.

>>10352518
If you took Trixi Mattel out of this I think it could be cute, not particularly lolita but cute.

>>10351948
Wich proves the ones who are more vocal about itas are the real itas

>>10351220
"They"

>>10352507
Thank you. That’s exactly what I was taking about. The shirring provides for a range of overall measurements but due to the curvature of the bodice seams there is only a 2” difference between the bust and rib portion of the bodice, hence me saying it would only work for a b cup and below, no matter the band size. Guess understanding how dress seams work makes me a make larper tho

>>10352824
Ugh, I forgot she was a thing.

>>10352824
Why are both of the third girls in from each side not wearing shoes? Where are their shoes???

>>10352824
guro girl is cute

The facial pose just emphasis "mouth breather." Looks like the top and bottom are from 2 different dresses.

>>10350160
cute photo just not very lolita at all

>>10350071
Fresh bread
>>10353087
>>10353087
>>10353087

>>10351752
what about the man posted at the beginning of this thread gave off sissy vibes to you? his coord was fine and respectful so it really seems like you just hate men in dresses, which is pretty fucking homophobic

>>10352114
the only thing that bothers me with this is that according to cgl, every man who wears lolita is automatically a sissy, even the ones who are just exploring the fashion. like it's clear who's a sissy and who's not, but any man posted here, even those trying to make a genuine attempt, are just lumped together with the sissy fetish and called gross.

leave the name calling to the actual sissies and stop acting like every man in a dress has a fucking fetish for it

>>10352824
WHY ARE SOME OF THEM BAREFOOT

>>10352952
guro girl is the only cute girl there to be honest

>>10350105
>posting a fucking child
the absolute state of this board.

>>10350137
such a pretty girl and the coord isn't all that bad, just needs some nice hair and maybe a bit of makeup
definitely has some nice legs
not ita

>>10350147
Why is she pale and her legs look black lol