/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>10422724
One lolita in my comm reported another who was a known drama monger for saying negative things to her at a meet. We believed her and kicked the drama monger from the comm. Turns out the "victim" was equally as crazy, just hid it better, and probably made it up. I still to this day don't know who was telling the truth. Lolitas are a wild bunch.

>>10422764
Boston?

>>10422765
Nope, but I wouldn't say even if you got it right. I'm sure this kind of behavior is quite widespread

>>10422765
It's no fun to have these kinds of threads if people are just gonna try to guess which comm an anon is in.

Long since left lolita but I was best friends with that Raine girl for about 5 years (UK oldfags will know) and ready to spill all. Will try to find some old getoffegl shit to give context to the yanks and newbies.

>>10422779
https://getoffegl.livejournal.com/428281.html
Here we are.

Right which topic is of the most interest- disgusting hygiene and habits, troon shit, or the rampant cheating and social drama?

Definitely the time someone posted all the pictures from our comms ‘introduce yourself’-post to the Ita thread.

>>10422764
Lmao LA

>>10422784
god, fuck off. Quit trying to out people who post here. What is the point of being anon.

>>10422780
I remember this bitch clearly, as well as that meme with her sitting on a chair on top of a bed saying something like you will provide me with your finest lolita dresses

>>10422797
>her sitting on a chair on top of a bed saying something like you will provide me with your finest lolita dresses
so this is what lolita terrorist videos are like

>>10422724
There was a girl in our comm who had posts about using her sippy cup on her social media, there was more concrete evidence of her being an ageplayer too but not here to out myself or her

>>10422799
It really was like that, if anyone has that image still saved please share

>>10422801
I'm pretty sure I saw some light ageplay action at a meet last year from some fucking teen girls.
Bitch would not stop saying "that's a mood!!" in the most fucking obnoxious voice and said something like "can baby have this??" to the girl she was with.
Fucking creeped me out so much.

Our comm had a girl who tried to sell bodiline shoes for 200$

>>10422841
that's fucking hilarious

I feel like I am a weirdo among weirdos in the "comm" I am in.

>>10422780
All of the above, but the troon shit catches my eye.

>>10422780
Hygiene and troon

>>10422724
I mean technically she wasn't even a lolita, because she was a new member and this was her first meet. But extreme tl dr, we went to a big cross comm meet out of town, where she had a public breakdown, called a security guard the n word, screamed expletives in a child's face, smoked weed in a bathroom full of soccer moms and kids (before it was legalized), and all this in a coord I almost entirely lent her.

When she was banned she called the comm ableist (well among other things) and threatened a mod with bodily harm.

>>10422940
Holy fucking shit, I think you win

Lady Kai...

>>10422787
no one is doing that...

Hoo boy, let's see...

>The first comm I was in had a new girl join. She wore a lot of brand and her dad(or grandpa?) accompanied her to meetups. At a mall meetup she demanded he buy her stuff in the Sanrio store. After being in the comm for ~2 months she became infamous on getoff EGL because she bought ~$10,000 worth of clothes and wigs from people, then claimed her credit card was stolen and did chargebacks. She'd convinced the sellers to use the "Friends and Family" PayPal option, so they woke up to negative money in their accounts. I'm not sure how much of the money she eventually returned to people. She also claimed to he hafu when she was clearly white. The lolita went then though a phase of calling her mom and ex friends bitches and cunts on Facebook and posting pictures of her bleeding slit wrists. She's now into drag culture and being a "bio queen".

>>10423159
>into drag as a bio queen
>Bio queen
What the fuck even.

So, our comm once had a restaurant meet. And one Lolita ordered few bottles of expencive champagne and left without paying

>>10423159
Continued.

>I moved, and later joined a comm run by a girl who used to be semi infamous for her ita coords, but she's actually pretty chill IRL. Out of nowhere, some literal who decided to skinwalk the mod. The skinwalker adopted a name similar to the mod's, and she started her own "Kawaii Fashion Community" group on Facebook. Why she thought she could create her own comm when she didn't wear lolita herself, or have lolita friends, I don't know. Skinwalker convinced a DJ friend to let her host a J-Fashion night at a local goth club, then showed up 2 hours late to her own club event. She also didn't help the DJ or the club staff to run or clean up the event at all. I think skinwalker-chan has since fucked off into the sun.

>>10422940
Did you... did you get the stuff you lent her back?

Our comm had a girl who could only afford bodyline. She was a bodyline queen.
Turned out she was a prostitute. Imagine sucking dicks all day to only be able to buy 30$ dress

>>10423172
Good God, that’s depressing as fuck

>>10423172
weird, the girls who are in my comm who happen to be sex workers usually have enough for brand.

There was a girl in our comm's fb group that made a post asking everyone what their dream dress was, but she never commented on other posts or went to meets.
She was asked to be a vendor at a local con to try and bring in more Lolita attendees, and she was selling overpriced Bodyline, Taobao, and blatant replicas. Someone went to the booth to ask why she was selling replicas and one of her volunteers started screeching that she didn't know they were fake. The replicas were 'hidden' in the lower racks so they weren't as noticeable, but several people bought them and wore them throughout the weekend.
Word got out after the con and a public post was made. The girl who owned the booth tried to play dumb and say she had no idea they were fake until someone showed receipts and caps. Somehow she wasn't banned from the comm.

img is an example of what was being sold vs the actual brand piece.

Our online comm has the worst girl ever. She owns only the cheapest options, like bodyline, taobao and the ugliest burando nobody else wants.
Her hair looks dead and as greasy as if she never washes it. She also never wears make up cause "she is allergic". She is in her mid 20s but looks like shes 40 at least.
And god, she likes to argue. She would comment every post and pic with unwanted criticism, claiming that all who are against her are mentally ill. Also she is perma-ita with ugly boots, no petti, ill fitting bodyline etc. Yet she tells everyone that lolita is luxurious hobby and you need a lot of money to afford it.

>>10423188
there's haenuli replicas?? where? never seen them on taobao

>>10423208
They're all over taobao and aliexpress, anon. It's usually the skeleton dress though.

>>10422764
DFW. Her friend got kicked out too for defending her. Turns out it was the Austin comm leader who actually started it all. She left a post about it on her facebook.

>>10422952
Seriously?
Someone was guessing which comm those anons were in which makes it less anonymous.

>>10423239
Anon, you know we have friend threads right? Guessing other's comms is standard in these threads.

One time I was at a Michigan lolita swap meet, one of the lolitas brought some old school stuff to sell and there was a crowd of 10 girls going through it. I don't know who did it but someone let out a silent, rotten fart. Fucking nasty

>>10422764
Don‘t forget to mention dragging that husband around to fight with him constantly. Best was forcing him to mc the IlD raffle in his normie clothes. That event was one rollercoaster of disappointment.

>>10423206
>>Online comm
If only there were any good ones.

>>10423230
How long ago was this?

>>10423279
End of last year. It was nuts.

>>10422940
Toronto?

>>10423159
Oh shit I actually remember this! Either that or something eerily similar where a lolita used a recently deceased relative's card to buy everything and it got charged back.

>>10423172
imagine sucking dicks for validation instead of money.

>>10422941
a shit prize, hahaha

>>10423169
Yes, luckily. The girl in question had carpooled in the same vehicle I did and changed in the car. My friend, who was driving and a total saint, was just about ready to buy her a Greyhound ticket and tell her to fuck off into the sunset, but she ended up not saying anything to keep the peace and avoid further confrontation. Another friend who also carpooled with us ended up going home in a different vehicle bc she couldn't stand to be near the cunty girl for one more second. That friend was contemplating just booting the girl midmeet and then doing a fundraiser to replace my things. Granted, it was only Bodyline (blouse, jsk, wristcuffs) and a taobao headbow, but she was also wearing my petticoat from the now defunct victoriangirldress. it's such a good daily petti and would not have been easily replaceable at the time, so I was on edge all day. The next morning I put everything in the washing machine to purge the crazy from it. I'm a lot more careful about who I lend my stuff to now, and the comm will never bring a new member to such a big meet ever again.

>>10423358
yep, the aquarium incident. we were the visiting comm.

>>10423181
Can confirm sex work makes more than enough to afford brand

>>10423181
why would literal whores be interested in a modest fashion? and why would anyone allow them to be associated with a comm?

>>10423972
Sex work means a lot of things, not just peen in vagina

>>10423973
the question still applies

>>10423961
No one cares, whore

>>10423269
Not the same comm, anon. But hearing old drama from my comm is a nice tea sip mood

>>10423972
>Lolitas must be lovelies

>>10423172
Must be a pretty fucking poor quality dick sucker then.

>>10423972
1. It's not a modest fashion, it's punk.
2. Comms let make creeps join; the bar is low.

>>10423972
1. It's not a modest fashion, it's punk.
2. Comms let 'trans' creeps join; the bar is low.

>>10424016
is this a joke? lolita is about being as covered up/nonsexual as possible

>>10424051
You’re either a newfag or a scrote who can’t even be bothered to read the Wikipedia article about the fashion you’re fetishizing.

>>10424058
are you new or just retarded? lolita hasn't been a political thing in a couple decades now and only proto/extremely early lolita wasn't modest

>>10423997
I don't know about you, but I don't want to hang out with actual prostitutes under any circumstances. Just like I wouldn't want to hang out with a junkie or a felon.

One "ouji accessory" dated multiple people from my comm. After break up he just moved to next one. I don't get what those girls saw in him.

>>10424075
I swear some Lolitas cream themselves over the weirdest looking, most unpleasant dudes just because they're into a similar fashion (that they basically never look good in anyway). I'll never understand it.

>>10422918
>>10422937
Lovely ducks, I'll start with the troon shit.
>R has always been very blokey, very masculine, calls herself genderfluid and i never had any particular issue with this
>lose contact with her for a couple years after i get sick of the constant drama with her cheating on her fiancé
>she reaches out to me on FB unexpectedly and says she's changed, she knows she was a complete shit, but she's come out as trans ftm now and it's made her a lot less chaotic and attention seeking
>hmm okay well good for you! Go for dinner with her, she has sideburns and is dressed like a dude, it actually really suits her and I'm supportive (let's be real she was never gonna be a pretty girl)
>this all seems chill so decide to be friends again
>she's still cheating on her fiancé but only with girls now so she can 'assert her masculinity'
>has 2 tumblrcore gfs and is still milking the fiancé for home and bills
>discover that not only is she still wearing lolita while kicking up a big stink about being ftm, she also wears it to solicit attention from men and then gets mad that they don't see her as pretty
>while identifying as a man
>with facial hair
>hitting on straight men
>accuses a guy who fucked her before troontown but not after of transphobia nd sexual assault
>constantly trying to get dicked as a girl while telling her fiance she's lesbian/straight ftm

>>10424075
>>10424108
Guys into Jfash who aren’t overt gross perverts are so incredibly rare that girls will trip over themselves to praise them. There’s an ouji/brolita in my comm who is a huge asshole to absolutely everyone but people excuse it because he’s not a sissy and dresses okay. If a girl said even half of the things he did she’d have been shunned ages ago.

>>10424112
And here's the mother of all hygiene stories, 100% true from the horse's mouth (toko staff)
>Raine is a regular at Tokonatsu, a UK weeb camping event
>usually gets a tokotent, one you rent from the event for the weekend
>she is no longer allowed to rent a tokotent after one specific year
>leaves her tent up and doesn't bother to pack it down and return it before leaving
>staff member goes to pack it down
>it is fucking swimming with used condoms and cum
>they have to burn the tent

>>10424118
>"accidentally drops name
>hurdur they burned the tent
this is such a shit fake story.

>>10424124
The name was already posted upthread.

>>10424124
Nta, but as someone who followed her drama on getoffegl, this really doesn't seem that outlandish for her. You could try looking her up but I think most of it has been deleted now

>>10424075
Gross. Imagine knowing who your boyfriends dick had been in.

>>10424134
Have you never seen pics of your bf's ex or anything...? I have, and even met her, and I don't care at all

>>10424142
My boyfriend a virgin

>>10423972
Not here to defend the person you're talking about but just answering a question: Whores as shameful as they are, are women too. It's not unlikely that a prostitute wants to be modest outside of work or maybe even gain back that innocence she lost. I'm not defending sex work either but I'm just reminded of a Japanese Host Club documentary. A lot of their regular customers were prostitutes that wanted to be in the company of a man without sex. Treated romantically for once before going back to being a fuck toy. So I wouldn't doubt that this girl just wants to be pretty and proper every now and then.

>>10424061
I've had one as a co-worker. She did sex work/strip club on the side and was actually a pretty fun person. She'd pay for everyone, tell her stories of the men she's been with, we'd all jam out on lunch break on our way to somewhere to eat. At work she she was a professional but outside of work she was chill as fuck.

>>10424118
How do you even know that?

>>10424130
NTA but they would have just thrown the thing out, not burned it. OP sounds underage.

>>10424258
I dated a dude on the committee for several years and he regaled me with this when he found out I knew her.

>>10424260
To be fair I'm sure burning garbage is part of packdown after the event so they probably just burned it for fun/convenience/comedy, but that shit had to go somehow.

>>10424112
>>10424118
Ew. Kinda sad I missed out on this cow

>>10424226
Nayrt but have fun being his trial run

>>10424260
I mean it'd be pretty weird from someone under 18 to bother lying about a cow whose milk is over a decade old

>>10423977
Boo hoo I’ll go cry in my closet full of Moitie

>>10423172
She must have sucked at selling herself then, prostitution is 50% skill, 50% marketing

>>10424279
...alone because no one will ever marry you.

>>10424226
the various bfs you will have in life will not all be virgins, so time to get used to the idea.

>>10424249
Stripping and prostitution are two very different things. One is illegal and extremely dangerous while the other is neither. The latter is more comparable to addicts shooting up in back alleys in terms of being undesirable company.

>>10424550
Yes, she did both. She stripped and also got paid for extra services. Told us which strip clubs in the city do that under the table prostitution.

>>10423972
Because lolita fashion isn't an entire personality. I've met plenty of sex workers in the fashion (mostly strippers/camgirls) and while most of them are not going to win any perfect manners awards, they're generally fine. They wear the fashion well and show up to meets. As far as I know, they don't incorporate lolita at all in their sex work.
I think lolita tends to attract more offbeat people, which is why there are more sex workers than you'd expect.

>>10424556
this is why i prefer being a lonelita. my local comm has a bunch of troons and druggies that i would never want to be associated with. it's too bad there aren't common shared values like other subcultures have.

>>10424573
I think we have the same comm

question to those actually in comms
are they usually safe? i actually dont have any near me i dont believe but i am just wondering if there's an actual "threat"

>>10424539
>scrote identified

>>10423188
I remember this. It was complete nightmare. I'm still shocked she wasn't banned from the dealer's room.

>>10424075
Same in my comm. He jumped from one girl to the next, was pretty predatory, and made it through at least three before anyone clocked him as a bit of a problem. He was the only cismale ouji too, so he was worshipped for doing the bare minimum.

I joined a comm that gave weird vibes to those not in brand, telling them if they want to look good they should just save up, trying to extort money out of them for "style lessons", and asking them to remove themselves from photos to make the comm page "look better"
they never were terrible towards me since I wore all brand and I played along with it for the most part, then one day they invited me to a group chat where they would routinely make lolita secrets about members they considered to be ita usually underage girls who just started learning about the fashion, one girl who was autistic and had trouble learning, and one girl who mainly wore bodyline since she could afford more dresses that way (this was before taobao dresses were mainstream)

There was one member who kept calling them out on how horrible they were, and in the group chat we (yes I was guilty of this too) conspired to make her look as insane as possible so our comm would still look good. We made secrets about her, made up some shit about her, even tried to make her a lolcow at one point, posted her to cgl calling her a gross ita, the works. The harrassment made her go off the deep end and that honestly made her an easier target for everyone, even people not within the community. I occasionally see people shit talking her here still, but I feel sort of bad knowing it was almost all made up, mainly because we didn't want someone not wearing brand in our comm pictures. And I'm going to be honest, I'm not going to come forward and say who it is because I, nor any of the comm wants to become accountable

>>10424667
Hello, fellow vaguely midwestern anon

>>10424533
10% Luck
20% Skill
15% Concentrated power of will
5% Pleasure
50% Pain
100% reason to remember the name

>>10424738
Kek

>>10424061
You need Jesus

>>10424585
I wouldn't say there's any more of a threat than there is leaving your house to begin with.

>>10424926
fuCK LMFAO

>>10423172
>someone in my old comm wasnt a sex worker but she might as well have been. she was sleeping with a dude who was in engineering so he had thousands to spend on her. yet she continued to only wear bodyline kek she used the money for flights to japan to get more bodyline which makes it even more cringe. then her boyfriend dumped her so she quit lolita and cried to her ex who she originally left and fucked him for money for probably more bodyline. thats also where she got all her cosplays lmao

>>10424959
>flying to Japan to buy bodyline
But why

>>10424585
Threat of what, exactly? Of being posted to cgl? Of being assaulted? Of going out as a group and being accosted by strangers? You'll have to specify.

As far as bullying and member relations go, comms are supposed to have a way of dealing with that. If a member makes you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, you go to the mods, who will deal with according to comm rules. Ideally. At the very least I can say I wouldn't want to be part of a comm that refuses to boot shitty people.

>>10424585
Look, I guess I've heard a story from >>10423172 . People literally took their time looking over the escort sites (sic!) to make sure it's her and out her to the community. Having that in mind, do some homework. Look at the local anonymous/secrets boards. How many people from your comm are being gossiped about and what are the topics? How keen anon is posting the same people over and over? That might give you some clues.

>>10423159
>She wore a lot of brand and her dad(or grandpa?) accompanied her to meetups. At a mall meetup she demanded he buy her stuff in the Sanrio store.
Sounds like a sugar daddy desu

>>10423976
Because clothes are just clothes. Not everyone is some LARPing weeb who's pretending they're in an uwu modest anime

>>10424051
Just because you don't find it sexual doesn't mean that's the reality of it. Plenty of perverts follow the fashion because of their fetishes. If you really wanted people to find you nonsexual, wearing a fashion called "lolita" that involves wearing imitation childrens' clothing is not the way to do it, sorry.

>>10424061
Junkies and felons hurt people. Prostitutes aren't going to rape you or something unless they're a low class street prostitute junkie. Your pearl clutching makes no sense.

>>10425049
Nice bait, here's the (you) that you so desperately want

>>10424263
>I'm sure burning garbage is part of packdown after the event
No, it isn't. People would just throw it out. There is no logical reason to risk starting a fire to burn a plastic tent when it can be sent to a dump with all the other trash. That story is fake and gay.

>>10425054
This is an event that has a big ass bonfire every night. Yes they burn trash. Turn the autism down a notch.

>>10424963
she likely did other things but she bought more when she visited

>>10424573
>common shared values like other subcultures
like which subcultures do you have in mind, exactly?

>>10424963
when I saw the exterior of the shop on my first visit to Japan, I legitimately thought it was a costume shop.

>>10425056
The bonfire is not large enough to burn a bunch of trash, nor is there any logical reason to. Plus. anyone who's spent time backpacking would know burning plastic trash in the wilderness is the most retarded possible thing you could do and no organization would even consider it. Sorry no one is believing your fake ass story, work on your critical thinking skills next time you try a hand at creative writing.

>>10425056
burning a big plastic tent would melt it into an even harder to throw away mess.

With how much gossiping goes on around here, there's gotta be more stories

our comm had a girl that was retard. like medically.
once we had luna Park party and she came. She asked one of the girls to buy her a lemonade too. The girl said no. Then the retard girl said she thinks it's OK if she would drink leftovers cause she can't buy herself a drink as she had no money

>>10435197
>Go to a luxury fashion meetup
>Doesn't have a few dollars for a lemonade

>>10435197
That's kinda sad.

>>10435246

To be medically retarded your IQ has to below 70 or 80 anon, logic doesn't make sense to these people.

>>10422724
I'd love to see this as a YouTube series.

>>10424061
Jesus did.

>>10424667
Yeah this is why I'm never joining a comm. Women seem to enjoy psychologically traumatizing each other over the pettiest of reasons ever.
I say this as a bio woman, but I just really don't trust you bitches.

There’s this fucking chick in my comm who has little to no online presence, But every month she makes a story post saying she’s deleting all of her posts, and “before you ask, no, they’re not coming back.” Like bitch nobody cares about your shitty food pics and vidya screenshots anyhow. She shits on everything all the time, and even when she complains about her life, still makes herself look bad. It’s like throwing a pity party but saying nobody’s invited. And then she says “If I seem aggressive to you, it’s because I’m done with everyone’s shit. If you have the privilege to be offended by me, then maybe you should reflect on what parts of your life have afforded you the comfort to not have to deal with real problems, because I have too many issues in my life to deal with online bullshit.” Like what? I’m poor and depressed and off my meds and have a junkie brother that puts strain on my family but I’m still offended by her personality. She always talks about how she’s gonna lock down her account and restrict people she doesn’t know well but like bitch just use private stories like everyone else ugh. I also heard through friends of friends that she abused/neglected her animals
She was nice when I briefly spoke to her at a meet but on insta she’s god awful

>>10435554
>have a junkie brother that puts strain on my family
IKTF and it's fucking rough, like you don't know if you're gonna come back from work and all your shit is gone so he can get high for a couple days, crash, and repeat the process. I hope you're holding up in spite of that, Anon

Creepy photographers. Some girl got gripped by some tiktok cosplayer.

>>10424075
Sounds a lot like Finland

>>10423188
I have seen the actual haenuli dress before and the replica is not far off desu.. it's that bad.

>>10424051
you don't wear your work clothes when you're not at work. Come on anon, you can be a slut and then wear modest clothing when you aren't working. I'm not even in support of sex workers, but really now... how dumb do you have to be to think someone dares dress differently outside of work than their way of making money would suggest.

>>10435772
You're not the only one who thought of that

>>10435246
Sadly this is like my comm and we don't even have literal retards. They always want to have park "meets" because they don't want to pay money to do anything else.

>>10435554
I think I know exactly who you're talking about, or our comms have eerily similar people. Basically had the same experience, she seemed fine during a brief introduction at a meetup, exchanged instagrams, immediate regret... Nothing but hypocritical complaining and dramatically nuking her instagram. I've also heard the animal abuse thing but don't have enough info to make any judgements based on that. I wish I could just block her without worrying about running into her again/causing issues with mutual friends

>>10424118
>they have to burn the tent
my sides

Who has the tea on dollsmeat? pisslita? I figured she was active on here based on her egdelord bpd aesthetic on instagram.

>>10437621
Lolcow

>>10436869
don't wanna reveal myself any further, but I'm on the west coast, you?

>>10422940
Why not just say nigger? Everyone knows what you're talking about. You don't come off as polite by calling it an n word instead.

>>10440997
ye, i'm sure it's the same person

>>10441027
Why does someone else's word choice concern you?

>>10442821
because they want more people to say slurs openly

There was a meet where some lolitas cheated on the raffle, one of the other attendees got very mad and started a heated up discussion demanding that they gave their prizes it got to the point that people needed to interfere so it didn’t end physically. We almost banned raffles because of this incident.

>>10442834
How do you cheat on a raffle?

>>10424550
>Stripping and prostitution are two very different things. One is illegal and extremely dangerous while the other is neither.

This is America.

>>10424667
how does it feel to be subhuman filth

>>10422940
This sounds similar to the story that ended with the girl trying to climb out of the bathroom window with the borrowed stuff. I wonder if it is the same girl and she went to another comm to try again.

>>10442862
Stuffing the box, if i had to guess

>>10435544
As an atheist, who cares who some self important guy had as a cult follower? Also, it was debunked, she wasn't a prostitute

>>10424667
I knew women were fucking horrible creatures but Jesus Christ.

>>10444372
Right, that’s why all the serial killers are women and why 90% of violent crime is committed by them.

>>10444372
Feels good to be gay.
I was part of a lolita comm when I was briefly interested in EGA and whew.

>>10444364
>As an atheist
lmao

>>10423206
North of England?

There's a permo ita in my comm ( NE England). I dread going to meets because, although I love the rest of the people in it, she ruins it. I'm convinced she has a mental disability and spells so badly in the comm chat that I struggle to understand what she says. I've seen other comm members on here talk about her before so I know I'm not on my own in this opinion.

There was a TERRIBLE UK girl about.. 6? Years ago who tried to become efamous however I don't remember her name. She was of originally obsessed with Halloween prints, then that switched to chocolate prints. She made BTB posts about her "friends" and demand they buy her items when she decided to sell them all to spend £1k on her next fixation. I wish I could remember her name.

>>10444383
>implying gay people don't into drama

bitch, please

>>10444364
Mary Magdalene wasn’t a prostitute, but he did hang with prostitutes. And I’m an atheist too, but what difference does that make? Jesus was a real person.

>>10444732
No, hes implying men tend to be less interested in drama, because they are.
Fucking retard

>>10422784
LA and OC comms are both hot fucking messes

>>10444754
>Men are less dramatic than women!!!
Stop fucking lying. Mean while the gaming community is ridden with drama and thd beauty community wasn't riddled with drama until men started dominating it. I fucking hate men with a burning passion how they are believe they are perfect little angels whilst destroying the world and blaming it on women. The male suicide rate needs to be higher.

>>10444976
> the male suicide rate needs to be higher!

More proof that women are crazy bitches lol

Also you seem to be the one who thinks *women* are perfect angles. I'm a bio woman and while men do have their faults (violence, for one), women are way more catty and seem to enjoy being psychology abusive as opposed to physically abusive.

You're going to need to learn that both genders are capable of being shitty. I see no evidence that men start drama in female dominated communities. Women can achieve that all on their own and its almost infantalising the way you seem to think women are incapable of evil.

>>10444981
*psychologically

>>10444976
Try talking to the daughters who have suffered from psychological abuse at the hands of their mothers and they will tell you that it sticks with them almost more than physical abuse does because of how it gets in your head and make you feel worthless. On top of that, we have stupid fucks like you who like to minimize the psychological damage women cause, which adds a whole other layer frosting to the shit cake.
You're the one being dishonest.

>>10444976
Oh ok. Glad to know men were responsible for the bullying I had to deal with from other women during beauty school.

>>10422724
>a stage play or musical about a dysfunctional lolita comm
that sounds horrible, please do not do this
>>10435274
I would give this a shot if it wasn't super fucking cringy (on the part of the creator, not the stories themselves)

>>10444986
>>10444985
>>10444981
>>10444976
Gulls, BOTH sides of this are right. Yes, women are capable of inflicting horrible harn upon other women, but this is largely because we are raised to value ourselves through male attention and to compete for it. The answer isn't to twist yourself up getting mad about it online, but to invest your time in supportive women's communities.

>>10444995
> when women are horrible its mens' fault

Like i hear you but also what the fuck?
Do you really think that if men didn't exist, it would be a perfect utopia and women would just sit around braiding each others' hair all day?

Women are capable of being terrible because they're fucking human and humans are flawed. Pretending like every flaw women have is due to some male influence honestly sounds even more misogynistic than anything.

Competition within male groups and female groups is largely evolutionary anyway, not that we can't learn to fight those instincts but let's not pretend that biology has nothing to with it either.

>>10445000
*men's
*Other's
Fuck

I can’t tell it without people knowing what comm it is so idgaf.

1. Girly toot/ Kate
If you think this one is a lot from the outside, from the inside it was fucking buzzaro.
- the LACE fiasco.
- that time when she stood creepily in the unlit corner of a local apartment listing ad, then it made local news.
- breaking the rules at tekko by speaking to the judges for the fashion contest ahead of the judging. the comm was heated after she again and again.
- when she returned from California and basically begged for money from younger and impressionable comm members, and started dating a truly tragic looking sugar situation.

- eventually, stars aligned for a big ole fuck you constellation and both she and goose were in the comm at the same time.

2. Goose
- lied about her age to younger members, scammed people, and pretended to be Mexican for that sweet sjw “I’m not white” clout.

- Stalked Kate for nearly 3 months, drove to her house in California unannounced and insisted on staying. Then took info from Kate’s logged in FB account (according to Kate and supported by the actions of the mods).

- was finally banned from the comm for harassment and attempted coercion then I shit you not, threatened to sue the mods for “wrongful termination” lol. This bih.


3. Jenna, aka naturally cunt

Dear fucking lord. holy fuck balls is she a hot mess.

- thinks that black girls shouldn’t wear pastel colors and has said that basic styles are more “historically accurate” for black Lolitas to wear.

- has openly and repeatedly stated that she thinks light skinned girls look the best in Lolita.

- claims to be “naturally cute” but shops the shit out of her photos.

- due to the enormous tolerance our mod team has shown towards racism and race based comments, she has yet to be banned.

On a more serious note the Pitt comm has had two suicides in the last two years. Stay safe ladies.

>>10445024
Another clear example of men being the reason for all of the drama in this comm.

I wish we could get rid of men so lolitas wouldn't drive each other to suicide...

>>10444995
>Men and women can be criticized equitably
>but it's men fault

What a dumpster fire of a statement.

>>10444995
Yeah, no. I fucking hate this sentiment that everything I do is because of men, and that’s exactly what sexists claim to say that women are inferior to them. Don’t insult my free will and make every woman a victim.

>>10445087
>>10445000
Either of y'all actually spent a relevant amount of time in woman-centred communities to verify your claims? By WCC, i mean like, a social group that passes the Bechdel test.

>>10445089
My claims that women can be fucking evil outside of male evidence?
Sorry bud, I don't need a feminist council to factcheck the idea that women are human and capable of atrocity on their own.
Love the assumption that I couldn't possibly have these opinions on my own, it just be because I'm hanging around too many men right?
Lmao the irony

>>10445091
*influence
Not evidence

>>10445089
Did you seriously just ask me to provide evidence that I have free will? Are you retarded or just trolling?

>>10445089
What do you mean by passes the Bechdel test? What sort of community doesn’t pass it? It’s a test for media, not real life. Or do you believe that there is some community that has women that don’t have names that only talk about men?

>>10445099
she means to say that if your opinion deviates from feminist rhetoric it's probably because you just hang around groups of men