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Get it off your chest

>> No.10541248

>>10541246
GET SOME NEW PICTURES BITCH

>> No.10541254

>>10541246
YEAH IDIOT STOP POSTING LEWDS ON A BLUE BOARD

>> No.10541258
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10541258

There's so many fucking coomer threads lately. And too many dumbasses taking the bait or bumping the threads when they're close to being archived. Why can't cosmut have its own board so we dont have to be forced to interact with each other. I'm so tired...

>> No.10541260

>>10541258
ikr op should throw some pasties on them nippies

>> No.10541264

>>10541258
Even if the cosplay coomers were forced out we'd still have to deal with the tryhard lolita newfags as well as shitty oldfag trolling.

>> No.10541265

>>10541264
I would deal with lolitas over coomers anyday. Coomers dont even appreciate cosplay.

>> No.10541274
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10541274

Gulls please halp. I want to get rid of a sizeable chunk of my wardrobe but whenever it comes to actually sort through what I genuinely love and what I don't, I can't actually get rid of shit. Even the ones that I never reach for anymore and the ones that I don't feel my best in. I have faves obviously but here's the issue: a lot of those are too OTT or delicate to wear on a regular basis, even around the house. Ik I should just konmari my shit and see if it truly sparks joy but that's so hard to do when I have such a strong attachment to it all. And the money I could get back by selling is kinda for naught because I've got almost everything I want.

>> No.10541277

>>10541274
No advice, but feel free to drop that lace market link later

>> No.10541282

>>10541277
Yeah nonny I'd say the exact same thing. Thanks for the reality check

>> No.10541296

>>10540823
Not hardware, but i work retail, we're often requirred to ask by management.

also repostin because last thread died
Here's a feel, I'm bitter that there's an arisocats collab with disney centered on thee white kitten Marie but not on the black kitten,Berlioz. A black set with little colorful paw prints on piano keys could be really fun.

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10541315

>nothing but WTB posts in sales groups
>bunch of poor fags that don't wanna pay over $100 or complaining about prices and sizing
why do I even bother

>> No.10541323

>>10541315
>poorfags

Facebook?

>> No.10541327

CC has a dream dress of mine available but Japan isn't shipping to my country.

Why even live

>> No.10541333

>>10541258
The Y chromosome was a mistake

>> No.10541336
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10541336

new league champ is so cool looking

>> No.10541338

>>10541336
.....daddy?

>> No.10541339

>>10541336
>another shirtless dude
At least they're taking equal opportunity fanservice seriously I guess

>> No.10541343

>>10541274
Look at capsule wardrobes for inspo? Even if you keep a lot, pruning it down to stuff that basically all matches each other in color, theme, etc might be a good way to go. Instead of focusing on what pieces spark joy, make your wardrobe as a whole spark joy

>> No.10541347

A little over two years ago, some weirdo asked for a dakimakura of me on a /cgl/ feels thread. A few days ago was our 2 year anniversary together, and I still feel like the happiest lolita gf in the world

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>>10541347
Please let this be bait.

>> No.10541356

>>10541353
It's not, I was there. It's also cute as fuck.

>> No.10541361

>>10541356
Please don't tell me there's an actual dakimakura.

>> No.10541385

>>10541327
what country? If you don't mind paying for me to ship to your country I can mail it to you and have it shipped to me in the US

>> No.10541386

>>10541327
>>10541385
Can't you still buy stuff and CC will just hold it until some form of shipping resumes?

>> No.10541392

Man, I just love lolita.

>> No.10541397

>>10541327
They can ship by DHL if post is suspended to your country

>> No.10541442

>>10541356
4chan scrotes are never cute.

>> No.10541453

>>10541274
I recently just had the urge to purge my closet since i havent really worn lolita in about two years. And with the rate Covid shit is "improving" i imagine this year wont change much from last.
But heres how i started.
Try everything on again. Then evaluate if you love it or not. I have some fond memories of a salopette that i bought in AP in laforet, but even now that i lost weight its still just way too short. I made a pile of everything that had a weird cut, didnt fit me right, i didnt have the perferred colorway or cut etc and put it into a sell pile.
I did keep my first brand dress i bought new though despite it being a sack dress.
Then i went through all my accessories and picked all of them that didnt match the dresses i was keeping. Which was basically all sweet accesories. They sold fast and inspired me to keep listing and selling of things.
I decided to get rid of all but one skirt because i never wear skirts. They remind me of fatty chan coords and i dont like wearing high waists.
I then took out all cardigans and coats and automatcally pulled out all that didnt match my dress keep pile.
Then i pulled out all my blouses and only kept ones that go with current dresses i own.
I didnt have any New brand socks so i didnt bother sorting socks to list; but i do have quite a few socks that could probably be put into my normal sock drawer or thrown away. I do have brand socks that no longer match anything i own but its a small fraction of my drawer.

If you really have an attachment to Everything and cant even start by listing an item or two, just let it sit in your closet for longer. It took me 2-3 years to list some of these items.

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>>10541246
I havent met up with another person since August and before that it was February

Kinda lonely ;_;

>> No.10541478

>>10541442
my bf is also from here

>> No.10541479

>>10541442
there's some cute boys in /fa/ and /fit/. Too bad they're all gay

>> No.10541480

>>10541361
Yes there is.

>> No.10541490

>>10541480
Anon, these guys are the betas you get to simp for you. You don't marry the betabux.

>> No.10541492

>>10541490
getting married is just having a simp for life.

>> No.10541507

>>10541490
>being so jaded you can't even appreciate a cute /cgl/ couple story

>> No.10541508

>>10541347
Are you the girl that went to prom with a jojo body pillow?

>> No.10541533

I know it's my fault for not looking more closely at the reviews (I only skimmed the first few pages and they seemed alright) but I wish buyers on Lacemarket weren't so afraid of leaving negative feedback. I know they're afraid of retaliation but it gives you the wrong impression when you see all of the positive feedbacks that say something completely different in the fine text. Like, "wonderful seller!! Everything was great!! Except actually there was pet hair on the dress and they didn't communicate at all and I didn't get my item until 3 months later" Now I feel like I'm about to go on the same exact ride. This seller's already not responding to any of my messages. Ugh.

>> No.10541546

I wish poorfags would get out of Lolita.

>> No.10541555

>>10541480
So some guy wanted a dakimakura of some lolita and they got together in a relationship and he currently owns a dakimakura of her.

There's legends of men saving women from dragons and then there's real legends like those two.

>> No.10541558

K.K. Cruisin' > Bubblegum K.K.

>> No.10541559

>>10541508
Yes

>> No.10541560

>>10541558
hell yeah
https://youtu.be/xybLsPwa-HU
best version

>> No.10541568

>>10541442
I'm dating a jani, we met outside of 4ch though. In the same way that not all the lolitas on here are itas; not all the scrotes stink anon.

>> No.10541569

>>10541258
>Why can't cosmut have its own board
It does, it's called /s/. But coomers forget that that board isn't just for full-on topless picks so they dump it here instead.

>> No.10541570

>>10541568
If you're dating a janitor can you ask him to delete all the offtopic threads that keep stinking up this board because he should

>> No.10541571

I want people to stop announcing dream dresses, drawing attention to and hyping up prints and spoonfeeding newbs with shopping links- just leave the deals for us and the rest of you go to lacemarket for scraps with dirty armpits and overpriced wunderwelt 2ndhand. Wtf is it with that site I have always gotten worn stuff called good condition. And chinese lolitas raping the closet child updates can fuck right off, too.

>> No.10541572

>>10541546
How much of a poorfags are we talking about?

>> No.10541573

>>10541570
He works on a different board, trust me, I ask.

>> No.10541577

>>10541573
how much is he paid? kek

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>>10541577
Don't hurt me in this way

>> No.10541642

>>10541571
Did you visit me in my dreams last night? I had a dream I posted a very similar rant

>> No.10541701

I fell for the big-chested girls don't look good in babydoll cuts meme. Finally tried it, and it looks great on me. I guess it was just code for obese girls don't look good in babydoll cuts.

>> No.10541728

You know, Adam and Eve really shouldn’t have Eden that apple

>> No.10541739

>>10541533
I'm having the same issue, I bought something awhile ago and I asked for shipping information. Radio silence since then. Ugh what's the point of leaving a review if you lie about it to make it seem better than it was?

>> No.10541745

>>10541569
That makes me feel even worse somehow.

>> No.10541748

Honestly, romantic gothic fashion looks like a cheaper, worse version of gothic lolita

>> No.10541751

>>10541642
Twin souls, anon

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10541773

As a classic lolita, I feel like I entered this fashion way too late, since mary magdelene is a zombie brand rn. I imagine lots of sweet lolitas feel the same considering the sweet boom going on

>> No.10541775

>>10541748
all western gothic fashion looks cheap compared to the Japanese versions.

>> No.10541776
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10541776

My receding hairline has gotten to the point where when I put on a cosplay wigs I genuinely can't recall how low on my foreheard a "normal" hairline is supposed to start. Fuckin' genetics, man.

>> No.10541777

>>10541748
>>10541775
This is how I got into lolita. It still amazes me how much better quality jfash is for basically the same price point as western gothic fashion

>> No.10541784

>>10541773
yeah, i've been a sweet lolita who only likes old releases for ~7 years and this sweet boom thing is crushing me. i can afford the scalper prices for the most part but i just don't want to give in out of principle--the more we feed into it the longer it'll go on

rip all of the dresses on my wishlist lol

>> No.10541796

>>10541776
I feel this one in my bones. Don't get discouraged my guy.

>> No.10541807

>self improooving
>doing derma rolling for stretch marks (did 2 sessions at home with a pen, no results yet, but have really bad thigh marks so I'll have to keep trying)
>tried IPL laser for hair removal, no results
>want to keep trying with it and if no results in 6 months maybe go to a local place for electrolysis (it's $90/hr which is affordable)
>always on the lookout for better skincare products
>got kojic acid power for my farmer tan, thought it would be more effective than soap (i mean you wash it off in 3 minutes? what is it doing, really?)
>learning how to cut my hair better
>on strict diet, already seeing weight loss and my clothes fit better
>trying to upgrade my clothing
>bought essential oils for daily fragrance
>get milia frequently, have learned to remove them at home
>learned how to get rid of flaky chapped lips so bad it always looked like i had a split lip (coconut oil!), lips are perfect now

>all for naught because my chin decided it wanted to break out today and now i feel hopelessly disgusting and hideous
I put so much effort into my appearance and my own body betrays me like this.

>> No.10541812

>>10541442
>actually browse /soc/ and check out the kik profile photos of people in my area
>they're all absolutely hideous fuggos, like if you met them in an alley at night you would scream and cry
>one literally looks like a murderhobo
I'm cursed? I did fuck one cute guy who goes on 4chan, but we met on tinder, and he was cute but totally nuts. Apparently he's living in a van now, on top of it.

I mean, would you even want to date anyone who posts in this cesspit?

>> No.10541816

>>10541812
The only 4chan user I'd date is myself. And that's not an option for straight girls.

>> No.10541817

>>10541816
I wouldn't date me. I'm a cheapskate and a bitch. I do smell nice though.

>> No.10541824

>>10541807
How do you get rid of milia, anon? I get them around my eyes/cheeks but all I've ever done is pick at them until they eventually fall off. I get the feeling that's not the best way to go about it. It's the ones around my eyes that are the worst and the hardest to remove.

>> No.10541841

i lost 32lbs since august! feels good.

>> No.10541848

>>10541824
make sure we're talking about hte same thing: little white bead inside the skin that never goes away unless you physically remove it. not a zit, no head, not poppable.

buy a metal lancing tool. basically you do what the derma would, jab that bitch in there and create an opening for the milia to be removed through. hurts and bloody, but it works. there's an art to it to minimize the damage and remove it more effectively, basically knowing where to jab and the technique to wiggle it out of there.

problem is i have these giant mega sized milia in my labia. they're like, idk 4 mm wide? smaller than a pea but way bigger than any facial milia. been there for years. i tried twice to remove them but i'd have to buy a fucking scalpel. for those i need an actual derma i guess, still putting it off because obviously it's my cunt and rather embarrassing. they're clustered on one side, been there for at least 5 years now, never change. outer labia. i fucking detest them, maybe i'll nut up and call the derma soon to slice my pussy open and get the fuckers out. never had a scrote make a comment but i bet several noticed at least.
>>10541841
good job anon!

>> No.10541849

>>10541347
I remember you! Happy anniversary!

>> No.10541864

>>10541442
Idk, I've shown my face on discord to a few lolitas here. Got positive responses for being good looking.

>> No.10541883

>>10541442
Ash Steele posts on 4chan sometimes, he's kinda cute

>> No.10541901
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10541901

Had a nice little birthday tea party today in a lovely tea room and it was bliss.

>> No.10541944

>>10541701
Everything is just code for "fatty-chan looks like shit in [x]", Anony. One of the good points of this board is we don't have to talk in code, but some anons are like Navajos and keep talking in code even when it isn't necessary anymore.

>> No.10541945

>>10541701
same here but with salopettes.

>> No.10541946

>>10541944

A lot of it is self perpetuated. For some strange reason here, this board either has the biggest concentration of barbie proportioned humans, or people are just lying. You choose.

>> No.10541947 [DELETED] 

>>10541442
some hot ass asian dude used to self on here last year. everyone else seems ugly tho

>> No.10541948

>>10541442
some hot ass asian dude used to self post on here last year. everyone else seems ugly tho

>> No.10541949

>>10541946
I have to admit you have a point here, fatty-chan is surely among us coping her ass off even now and that's where a bunch of it comes from. I think "barbie proportioned humans" is exaggerated though, I'm sure there are tons of just skinny/plain girls who merely aren't obeasts. Plus I'm convicned that the board tone filters the worst Walmart ogres and so there genuinely are fewer of them than elsewhere.

>> No.10541958

>>10541945
except big chests really do look off with salopettes, even if you're thin or average sized everywhere else it just looks awkward to have boobs spilling out the sides of your dress

>> No.10541995

Still haven’t heard anything back from my friend who I bought a Victorian Maiden JSK for as a Christmas present. :(

>> No.10542007

Gulls who else thinks that it's cringy that some lolitas are so so so open about their fujoshi desires on their lolita socials....don't tell me that it's just me that thinks so.

>> No.10542009

>>10542007
stick to coords and lifestyle posts. thats gross.

>> No.10542010

>>10541258
what's the problem? they seem harmless to me, this board is slow enough that we aren't missing any discussion because a few people made a image dump thread.

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>>10541776
yeah man it's fucking rough out here, inna same boat.

>> No.10542013

>>10542010
>harmless
>coomer
ok

>> No.10542097

>>10542010
Because it attracts the wrong sort of people to the board. Bad enough we have retards that don't just go to the help thread.

>> No.10542109

I’m really fat, but I’m using all the new releases and my ability to purchase dream dresses as motivation. I’ve started bringing out a different dress every week to look at when I get home from work to make me work out. If I keep it up and eat healthy for a year, I’ll be to my target weight and fit my brand. Just gotta keep at it! I’m feeling pumped!

>> No.10542133

>>10542109
look into intermittant fasting. i've done 2 kinds: only eating every other day, and what i'm currently doing (eat nothing after 1pm.) it's much more effective than healthy eating alone, because healthy food can still have a lot of calories. /fit/ /fast/ has good resources. don't dryfast though, that's retarded.

ganbatte anon

>> No.10542136

>>10542133
I’ve tried intermittent fasting, and my nutritionist has recommended against it. I’ve got a really unhealthy LES, and tend to reflux/get sick without a little bit of food on my stomach. I know it works for some people, but I’m unfortunately just not one of them. Thank you for the encouragement, though! Just did today’s workout and I’m feeling really good!

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>>10541339
Viego and Sett are pretty quality. They're still releasing way too many champs though, but that's not for this board

>> No.10542250

I wish I had the confidence of these tiktok lolitas who think that wiggling their doughy caked face into the camera 8 times a week will get them more e-fame.

>> No.10542251

>>10542109
I'm rooting for you anon! Any improvement on yourself is improvement!

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>>10542007

>> No.10542319

>>10542318
cringe

>> No.10542321 [DELETED] 

Off

https://youtu.be/93yhVbtec2I

>> No.10542322

I'm really fucking tall. Its hard to coordinate lolita.
I used to be roasted endlessly in ita threads for my skirt being to short, or having my peices not be from the same set, or otks not being high enough.
I stopped beating myself because ive realized, despite all the shit i have been given, no one else knows how to dress tall people either. Ask them and they will say "uhh... underskirt?"
Or they will just get up in arms and say "well OBVIOUSLY i know how to dress a tall person, youre the one whos shit at fashion because you expect handouts" (in short they dont know either)

>> No.10542324

>>10541807
Why do you spend so much money on all this shit? Like how "grotesque" are you?

>> No.10542332

>>10542324
That's all pretty normal stuff other than the dermarolling. If you don't take care of yourself you'll be grotesque by the time you hit your late 20s.

>> No.10542337

Waiting on my SS to get back to me about SC *sigh* I really hope I didn't fuck up by not getting the USA made to order

>> No.10542376

>>10542322
why don't you dress in something that fits?

>> No.10542384

decided to buy SC when orders ship in October or Paris/US gets extra stock. hope I didn't fuck myself over

>> No.10542386

>>10542007
Any examples?

>> No.10542410

>>10542007
there is a girl in my old comm who would talk about hentai during meets come to find out her socials are full of that kind of stuff.

>> No.10542418

>>10542010
I could go on a long rant about all of the problems with it but in short, none of those threads are about cosplay. It's just women in lingerie and shitty wigs or Aliexpress costumes half naked. This is a fashion board, not a softcore porn board. I don't mind costhoting in general, but I want separation between it and genuine cosplay. There's already board(s) for appreciating sexy women. I wish they would go there and let the rest of us sperg about fabrics and props and shit

>> No.10542420

>>10542097
>Bad enough we have retards that don't just go to the help thread.
God there's been so much of it lately too. I'm genuinely amazed these mongoloids can manage to work a chinese underwater basketweaving forum and yet cant think to fucking google their questions first

>> No.10542427

>>10541776
Men have shorter foreheads than women, it's only of the only sexually dimorphic traits that you can see from just someone's skull.
If you're a woman with average finger length, butt the top of your palm against your brow.
Your wig should come down to about where your shortest long finger (for me it's my ring finger).
I think it's fine to use that as a rough measure, but put it where you want.

>> No.10542431

>>10541777
>>10541775
>>10541748
This is because you're used to Killstar and post HT-death Tripp etc.
Can say that EU gothic brands from back in the day were the highest tier shit, but even brands Hot Topic sold had good materials once upon a time.
Always better to go with a small Atelier

>> No.10542432

>>10542376
I do. Brands rarely make things that fit so its usually
>brand op
>offbrand blouse
>offbrand socks
>odfbrand shoes
>brand headbow

I've been heavily criticized for this.

>> No.10542439

>>10542420
Where are all these newfags even coming from? I didn't think people recommended cgl anymore since it'd be too "problematic" for the young woke crowd.

>> No.10542442

>>10542439
I wonder that myself. half of them type like they still use facebook

>> No.10542443

>>10542432

Oddly enough I do these things and am rarely criticsed... though, I'm not a tall person so I guess the brand OP fits me anyway.

I'd have gone the handmade route if I had so much trouble with lolita, but if you don't have the skills, I'd still look into some DIY. The offbrand stuff might just have lacked some details and don't quite look right with lolita, sometimes (not always) you can fix them up with a little DIY.

For socks I'd recommend switching over to lace tights/thigh highs. The pattern doesn't look as boring as plain socks/tights. If you're artsy there's places where you can order custom print tights, those will be better than trying to do normie socks with lolita

(kinda obvious, but nayrt. Just hoping to give you some additional ideas than underskirts. We used to have a tall lolita thread, maybe someone can start one up again)

>> No.10542517

>>10542410
You just KNOW

>> No.10542519

I miss conventions and it's making me really sad.

>> No.10542520

>>10542133
how do you combat feeling hungry though? drinking tea/water?

i'd like to fast and exercise (i'm 5'3 and 115-120) to get down to ~105 but i'm also worried fasting will make my partner think i have an ed or something. eek.

>> No.10542521

>>10542520
Just think about how you won't look disgusting if you can hold out for the next couple days, I've lost 50 lb. Feels good man. Gotta buy some new suits for work but it's worth it.

>> No.10542523

>>10542439
They hear about 4chan because it's on the news all the fucking time (my dad knows about 4chan from NPR because of Q), and on the homepage there's a link that says cosplay. Simple as that.

>> No.10542524

>>10542521
i-i don't think i look disgusting now but thanks anon

>> No.10542526

Girls are icky and gross

t. 30 yo boomer

>> No.10542531

>>10541558
Agent K.K. and Marine Song 2001 for me

>> No.10542536

>slept my first full night in awhile
>Dreamt I went shopping in Laforet with with my husbando
>We get frozen yogurt
>Happiest I've been in years
>Woken by someone calling me with more problems

>> No.10542539

>>10542523
We're talking about lolita newfags.

>> No.10542551

I don’t feel happy about lolita and my wardrobe is a big waste.

>> No.10542553

>>10542551
Why?

>> No.10542554

>>10542524
Anon if you want to diet that’s fine but 115 is a fine weight for your height, ignore the anachans

>> No.10542556

>>10542007
yeah how dare lolitas have desires outside of talking about clothing all day

>> No.10542558

>>10542553
I take no pride in looking cute and I barely feel anything about clothes themselves.

>> No.10542559

>>10542558
sounds like u need therapy anon

>> No.10542562

>>10542558
Sounds like it's time to prune your wardrobe. Or maybe you're just depressed or burnt out on the fashion. It's okay to take a break if you need to.

>> No.10542563

>>10542559
Since when not liking cutesy theme is something you need to treat with therapy?

>> No.10542565

>>10542563
Assuming you once liked your wardrobe and liked looking cute and all of a sudden you don't, you might be depressed, unless you just became interested heavily in other things.

>> No.10542566

>>10542563
Not the point. The thing that signals they need therapy is that they're collecting things that don't bring happiness to them.

>> No.10542572

>>10542566
OP, I did because the person I liked at that moment liked my looks in it, although I realized that I don’t really feel attractive wearing it.

>> No.10542573

>>10542572
Then why you you keep it if it brings nothing of value to you?

>> No.10542574

>>10542573
Sometimes it does bring a little bit of dopamine to me, but I still regret for the money I spent and will never going to get back.

>> No.10542582

>>10542574
Then sell it? Even if you don't make all of it back it's better than making nothing not to mention taking up a bunch of space lol

>> No.10542590

>>10542574
You've put yourself in a corner and to the outsiders perspective you're just proving how much you're wasting your own time. Sad. I home you find something more meaningful in life anon. And I mean that with no disrespect as someone who requires xanax and lexapro to stay out of my Depression.

>> No.10542591

>>10542590
*hope

>> No.10542592
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10542592

>last year
>find a nice dress
>not my preferred colorway, a little out of my comfort zone, but it seemed interesting enough to coord
>can test the fit to see if I would buy the same dress in my preferred color
>buy it
>covid happens, dress ends up in shipping purgatory

>today
>dress pops up in preferred colorway
Best case scenario: I have two dresses that fit beautifully
Worst case scenario: I have to sell two dresses

>> No.10542608

>>10541339
>>10542205

It bugs my autism. You are going to battle and you can afford armor. Why are you naked?

>> No.10542609

>>10542608
>Why are you naked?
That's the question people have always asked about skimpy female designs. wae indeed

>> No.10542611

>>10542609

No, I know it's supposed to be appealing for marketing purposes. It still bugs me hence why I call it autism. At least have them wear a form fitting suit. They're going to mar their skin with cuts if they're naked.

>> No.10542620

>>10542608
you have to last hit minions to buy armor and weapons

>> No.10542629

>>10542611
just assume it's because they think that they are too cool to get injured.

>> No.10542630

>>10542592
>Can test the got
You should invest in tailor tape and measure yourself.

>> No.10542641

>>10542630
you sound retarded

>> No.10542645

>>10542611
One of them is supposed to be a fist fighter and the other is a ghost. It doesn't make sense when you consider who they're fighting, but it makes sense for their own stories.

>> No.10542649

>purgatory
“Dopamine” wasn’t a clue lol, I literally mean the joy of accomplishing some task. You’re a ridiculous nut and this is fucking stupid.

>> No.10542658

>>10542384
I'm in the same boat, Anon. Wish you the best of luck!

>> No.10542659

I am finally leaving my current not so nice living situation and get to move into a new place with enough closet space for all my lolita and j fashion with room to spare; I'm so excited!

>> No.10542665

>>10542649
What the hell are you on about?

>> No.10542666

>>10541995
What happened? Do you need a new friend?

>> No.10542670

>>10542556
yeah how dare lolitas sexualize gay men.

>> No.10542681

>>10542670
is it just lolitas you have a problem with because if so you should be taking this up with all fujos kek

>> No.10542683

>>10542681
guess you couldn't understand the sarcasm in that sentence dumbass.

>> No.10542684

>>10542670
>implying gay men give a fuck
get with the times

>> No.10542686

>>10542007
I'm a fujo and I don't understand fujos who REALLY REALLY want to talk about their taste in porn in public and to people who didn't ask. No one cares about your bnha ship. It's not progressive, it's not canon. There's a time and a forum for it.

>> No.10542687

>>10542524
If you're happy with how you look then have fun, stinky

>> No.10542693

>>10542686
I don't get it either but i guess it's a giant warning sign for people like me who avoid fujos like the plague, because not even self described fujos like yourself like them.

>> No.10542701

>>10542683
>backpedaling this hard

>> No.10542703

>>10542686
Tbh same I avoid anyone who openly discusses their porn tastes or how much they love it in public. Huge fucking red flag. Especially in these types of communities.

>> No.10542730

>>10542670
no gay man actually cares that someone wants to see deku and bakugou fuck

>> No.10542736

>>10542684
>>10542730
this, some women moralfag over the dumbest shit

>> No.10542737

>>10542736
there’s an increased amount of twitter/tumblr “anti” shit popping up on here. first the fujo sperging, and that thread about “aging up fictional characters”

>> No.10542740

>>10542520
It's best if you're upfront about it. Say something like "I'm going to fast for 36 hours, and after that we'll have a nice meal."

If your partner can see you enjoying food without guilt I don't think it'll be a problem.

>> No.10542887
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10542887

> haven't felt like myself lately
> constant feeling of dread and anxiety for no reason at all
> can't fucking function anymore, any time someone talks to me I just blank
> nothing brings me happiness anymore
> not even burando soothes the pain

Why live

>> No.10542890

>>10542887
Sounds like depression. You should probably talk to your doctor

>> No.10542891

>>10542887
you need some adrenaline m8

>> No.10542905

>>10542681
also a fujo, morals over anime characters shipping are stupid. it’s just kind of cringe to see lolitas i look up to and see them post about anime men tits and post explicit visual novels caps all over their stories and socials

>> No.10542912

>>10542905
Not every lolita on social media is trying to be a kawaii ambassador. They’re just wearing the same clothes as you. I miss the LJ era, back then there wasn’t pressure to he totes rori 24/7

>> No.10542913

> got a little bit of inspo to wear lolita
> got it from left woke person I wouldn't like ti give credit to
> not really glad to be back
honestly, staying out of that bullshit was pretty nice

>> No.10542920

>>10542912
this is just incorrect.

>> No.10542926

>>10542912
no one mentioned anything about lolita’s strictly posting only about kawaii lifestyle or clothes. it’s cringe when people post 18+/porn on their main public account. i’m surprised this is even a conversation considering how everyone’s totes shocked and disgusted when they find other lolitas posting their kinky fetish stuff on their main. Why is it any different just because it’s drawn or animated?

>> No.10542933

>>10542926
the initial post said “fujoshi desires” is that including just drawing or reblogging sfw art of a ship or fangirling over a specific character or is it only talking about sharing 18+ content? because if it’s the latter, that shouldn’t be limited to fujos, no one should share any kind of porn on public accounts

>> No.10542934

>>10542933
the latter. and agreed. any porn posted on public accs is bad.

>> No.10542936

>>10542933
i hate when people defend fujoshits like this

>> No.10542937

>>10542936
Yeah you know what? You’re right fujoshits are just as cringe as waifu posters. It’s okay its entertaining.

>> No.10542939

>>10542913
why do you need to associate wearing lolita with that person, just wear it for yourself

>> No.10542961

>>10542890
I don't know man. Last time I did they refused to medicate me and instead put me up with some fake therapist pretending to care for $$. I try to improve by eating healthy and exercising but it's not enough. Idk man

>> No.10542971

>>10542961
They always refuse to medicate bc they're trying to cross out the people looking for tranquilizers. You have to be firm and give them proof of your symptoms. Mine was giving them my daily journal describing how i felt everyday. Even if ya gotta go asshole mode on them. You're the one paying them. So be firm and confident when you talk about your problems. You deserve help. And eating healthy and drinking water and shit doesn't fix depression. Only minimizes the symptoms for some people.

>> No.10542974

>>10542971
Nta but do the meds help

>> No.10542988

>>10542961
Where do you live? I decided to go to teladoc.com cause my insurance covers it, got an appointment with a psychiatrist less than a week later. It was over the phone, I've never had to see the guy or have him see me. 15 min later I got my antidepressant filled at the pharmacy. They don't prescribe any controlled substances like xanax or Adderall though. My partner uses a website called bright side to see a psychiatrist and he also got antidepressants after his first consult.

>>10542971
This isn't my experience. The only things doctors don't readily hand out are benzos and amphetamines since they're controlled substances. Antidepressants aren't controlled substances, my bf can pick them up at the pharmacy for me without me even being there (when I was prescribed xanax only I could pick up my rx and I had to show ID).

>>10542974
Depends, everyone is different. You may have to try multiple different things before you find one that works for you. I've been on 3 different antidepressants over the past decade and they've all helped (prozac was the best for my anxiety but it also made me sleep all the time and orgasming was difficult, zoloft and wellbutrin didn't make me tired and didn't give me sexual side effects).

>> No.10543004

>>10542988
depressed journal anon here. It might differ by state/country. In my city only I'm the only one allowed to pick up my prescription. But with what you're saying I believe is also how it can be. I wish it were that easy for me here when im in a pinch.
>>10542974
Meds arent a miracle instantly but if you're patient and firm with ur psychiatrist you'll end up with the right dosage of ssri etc.

>> No.10543007

>>10542974
also, i forgot to say it depends on the person. My friend found her match in the first try and for me it took 5 different types to figure out what worked for me. My doctors did not believe I was that suicidal till I ended up in the ER after trying to overdose on a few boxes of NSAID tablets.

>> No.10543017

>>10542974
This thread makes me more encouraged to try meds, but I am scared of my personality changing and gaining weight. Love having those irrational thoughts even though I have a degree and worked in clinical mental health.

>> No.10543018

>>10541812
dating people from 4chan is something you will regret for the rest of your life. trust me.

>> No.10543021

>>10543017
The personality changing doesn't really happen in the way people think it does who haven't taken meds. My friends say I am still me just less irrational and sensitive over certain topics. I still create art for a living and am just as creative as I was before...just my suicidal tendencies are not my muse anymore...But my inspiration in my growth as a human being is. I'm sure this result varies. Does not hurt to try especially if you have health insurance. I feel for those who cannot afford medication who really need it.

>> No.10543024

>>10541327
Just get a SS like Tenshi

>> No.10543028

>>10543017
My partner was worried about SSRIs for the same reason, he saw what it did to family members and had shit experiences with shrinks.
When he started zoloft he didn't have a personality change so much as less stressors that drove his reactions into extremes.
Not being as anxious, being able to properly sleep rather than stew in ruminating thoughts all night, not having that aggressively negative inner voice constantly dismantling every social interaction, actually having some mental 'peace and quiet'
I mean, not sure what exactly you're dealing with, but they do help a lot more than I ever thought.
Will say that he gets the 'kaleidoscope' migraine hallucinations sometimes, and I'm not a big fan of the decreased sex drive, but seeing him more relaxed in his own skin is worth it.

>> No.10543029

>>10542324
>why do you brush your teeth so much, how grotesque are your teeth lol?
>why do you shower so much, do you smell that bad lol?
>why do you eat vegetables lmao are you constipated or something?
that's how dumb you sound.
>>10542520
I naturally never want to eat in evenings. /fa/ and /fit/ both have threads with advice. broth, tea, water, more water, or something with essentially no calories like a bell pepper or a pile of lettuce or pickles if you really need to munch.
>>10542686
if you watched 8man's yahari teenage romcom, there's a fujo in it who breaks down gushing over slash all the time and it's super cringe. she gets put with the fat incel otaku. i don't even mind gay porn, i'm completely indifferent whether it's gay or straight.

>> No.10543030

>>10541784
Hey but at least it looks like AP is finally starting to put in sone efforts! This year’s spring releases are awesome and they’re making of ton of accessories and sweaters and stuff again. Cheer up it’s getting better!!

>> No.10543032

>>10541807
Coconut oil is comedogenic so your chin may be breaking out from residue of what you’re putting on your lips. Try a different product on your lips, anon.

>> No.10543036

>>10541807
chin acne is hormonal anon, nothing you could have done to prevent that so don't sweat it

>> No.10543041

>>10543032
>>10543036
the duality of gulls

>> No.10543042

>>10543028
Thats encouraging to hear. Yeah, just general anxiety/thoughts chewing at me. I started using SH to deal when I was young but stopped when I got married. Now I just majorly lose my marbles maybe once or twice a month over small things that trigger big bad thoughts, guilt cycle, etc, no healthy coping stops it. Mostly I feel bad for my hubs that has to give me headpats and doesn't understand why I'm irrationally distressed. Definitely better than it used to be, but maybe I will get up with a telehealth soon.

>> No.10543052

At least daily I get into a slump of existential dread for 5-20 minutes.

>I'm going to die
>Everyone who will remember will die
>I will fade into non-existance
>People will forget
>Any acheivements I make are for naught
>Humanity will die out at the end of the universe
>There's no point to any of this
>To minimise suffering I should kill myself
>Not like it'll matter anyway
>I should just give up

Then I'll snap out of it and just continue doing whatever I was doing.

Is this normal?

>> No.10543057 [DELETED] 

>>10543029
No you're doing all this extra bullshit to your face when you can't change genetics. Please straw man more and present some more false equivalencies. Enjoy your awful skin btw while pissing away time and money. Top kek

>> No.10543058

>>10543041
is it really "duality"? both are true. Some chin acne is hormonal and nothing can be really done without maybe a prescription, some might be from other products.

>> No.10543060

>>10542556
I mean, it's fine to sexually like whatever. No one cares, but in the same vein, no one wants to know.

Keep it to yourself.

>> No.10543062

>>10542332
>>10542324
IPL for hair removal LMAO. This anon sounds like a larper.

Men wash their face with the same shit they do their balls and have better skin than 90% of females. It's not just a meme. This person sounds like they are trying to overcompensate for bad looks or early aging. If you eat healthy, drink water, and sleep enough and exercise you're not going to actually start seeing much aging until late 30s early 40s. Mid 30s if you're super unlucky.

>> No.10543066

>>10543052
At this point, all of these notions bring me relief. I just want to rest.

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10543069

>>10543052
I do that too so I'd say yes.
We're just a tiny speck in the universe, so might as well enjoy the idea that our planet allows us to exist.
Also the universe (hopefully) won't end anytime soon. Our galaxy will for sure tho when it inevitably collides with Andromeda . Luckily we'll be dead by then.

>> No.10543074

>>10541948
if you're that kakashi cosplayer that posts himself in every "hot guys" thread, PLEASE stop self posting about yourself.

>> No.10543075

>>10542686
Anyone (guy or girl) that talks about sex stuff out in public without any sense of irony or sarcasm, unprompted, immediately ticks the "this person is probably autistic and/or can't pick up on social cues" box for me. Unfortunately, there's a lot of these people at cons, and another reason why I like to distance myself from the community and keep it under wraps.

>> No.10543076
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10543076

>12 year old weeb in love with Lolita fashion
>puberty starts
>panic, troon out
>get a mastectomy
>buy my first Lolita dress
>cries because I love it but I look like a fugly brolita instead
>buys more dresses

I hate myself, I can’t detransition because I was seen as a “TruTrans” the entire time

>> No.10543081

>>10543062
>Men wash their face with the same shit they do their balls and have better skin than 90% of females
Have you ever seen a man?

>> No.10543091

>>10543075
i dont think you realize how often the normie side of twitter and insragram talks about sex

>> No.10543111

>>10543091
>normie side of twitter

There is no normie side of twitter. Everyone is an extremist.

>> No.10543122

>>10541336
Wannabe emo Paimon

>> No.10543142

> tfw some cute brooch on sale
> never looked for it specifically, but it’s pretty and will work with many clothes
> no, gotta save money
> brooch is on sale all day long
> okay, it’s not that expensive, gotta buy it
> it’s sold out

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10543168

>>10543081
Yes and they all have better skin due to not having stupid hormone spikes throughout the month. You act like disgusting neckbeards are all the world has to offer rofl.

Who tf is hodling btw?
>become multimillionaire
>buy lambos instead of burando

>> No.10543193

Try not to beat up myself over that brooch because I would feel stupid when it’s back on sale. But I feel a little bit of regret.

>> No.10543196

>>10543062
Agree.
I was looking pretty haggard around 26?, but keeping up on my routine, buying good things and keeping out of the sun bought me enough years to look the same now as I did at 22ish, since I didn't into skincare much.
Just on the cusp of 29

>> No.10543198

>>10543076
By who?
Doesn't sound like they'd actually be anyone you should care about.

>> No.10543202

>>10542988
>>10542974
>>10542971
>>10543028
Hey anons, I'm >>10542887
Thank you so much for all your advice and sharing your experiences. Im going to try not to doxx myself by saying too much, but I am temporarily living overseas, which makes health insurance stuff a little tricky/pricy because I'm not a citizen here. However, I'm going to plan a gp appointment soon and tell them about my problems and be firm. I'd much rather dig into my savings and be healthy than continue living like this. I've been through so many depressive episodes by now, and it never seems to stop no matter what I do. Your responses are very encouraging and I hope to finally get better soon. I know this is a bit of a dramatic blog post, but I just wanted to share so you know sharing your stories helped. Thanks!

>> No.10543206

>>10543202
I hope everything goes well anon, glad what little I had to offer had a good effect.

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10543217

>>10543198
My family, anon. I was so annoying about pronouns when I first came out that now both my parents are hardcore TRAs. This is my karma.
>I’ll never get to be the cute bear lolita ;_;

>> No.10543218

>>10543217
just say to them that you no longer feel gender dysphoria or self-identify as a woman. If they believe that gender is entirely determined by self-identity, they'll understand that you're now a man because you identify as one. Don't ruin your body cuz of your family and the mental illness you experienced years ago

>> No.10543220

>>10543202
You're not being dramatic! You will get to that better place anon, I believe in youuuu~

>> No.10543221

>>10542536
Get rid of problem havers and just nest with husbando desu
Assuming he's real and not a cartoon that is

>> No.10543226

>>10543218
Anon do you understand I’m female to male? The problem is that I don’t want to be a man anymore. I’ve explained it all to them but they still don’t get it. I already had top surgery.

>> No.10543240

>>10543226
sorry, I thought you were male to female. I'm sorry to hear that, anon. Maybe if you show them examples of detransitioners, they'll understand? But they probably won't

>> No.10543257

>>10543076
I feel bad for you anon and you have my deep condolences. But I do feel strongly vindicated that I have been fighting against normilsation of trannies because of specifically your situtation which I get constantly told "never happens".

>> No.10543259

>>10543257
>fighting against normilsation of trannies
How are you doing this? What do you mean by "normalisation of trannies"?

>> No.10543264

I was in an abusive relationship for a number of years and finally got the courage and in a safe enough place to end it two years ago. It wasn't always terrible, but for the last half of it it was. My former partner really liked lolita and was supportive of it, which gives me really bad nostalgia for when we had good times together. I can't stand to even look at the pieces I wore when we were together for fun dates and things, so they've been stashed away for a couple years now. I'm finally getting around to purging those things now and it feels so good. Feels bad because some of the items I really loved, and just seeing them again brings up the pain, but I know it's me moving on finally and I get to use the money to buy fun "clean slate" items that I'll be able to enjoy again. I just wish people wouldn't ask my why I'm getting rid of stuff that "looked so good" or they "thought I really loved".

>> No.10543269

>>10543259
Fighting was the wrong word. But I do actively oppose any sort of transexual education towards children, using public funding for medical treatment, letting them use the opposite sex's bathroom, gender neutral bathrooms and treating them as whatever gender they believe they are.

I understand these people have a genuine disorder but I do not believe this current path that society takes of giving them ass pats, assuming that every child who display non-stereotypical behaviour must be trans and funding treatment with very poor rates of success. You don't indulge mental illness, you cure it. But any talks of curing transgenderism is met with flaming torches and pitchforks because of the "born this way" culture rather than acknowledging that these people are deeply sick.
It might be a personal vendetta but I see this stuff and it bothers me. I'm a guy with relatively feminine body language. I sit with my legs together, I kneel rather than squat, I'm very shy, I cover my mouth when I laugh, etc. I am pestered by friends asking if I've ever had feelings I was born as the wrong gender.

>> No.10543272

>>10543076
Just get on the pill and get a boob job

>> No.10543276

>>10543269
Cringe

>> No.10543277

>>10543276
Nta but it's not cringe at all. You sound like a transtrender.

>> No.10543293

>>10543277
>I'm a guy with relatively feminine body language. I sit with my legs together, I kneel rather than squat, I'm very shy, I cover my mouth when I laugh, etc.
That’s cringe af. No one talks like that. You’re not an anime character dude kek

>> No.10543294

>>10543277
I'm >>10543259, not >>10543276>>10543293, I really wish all boards on 4chan had unique thread ids.

>> No.10543295

>>10543293
He probably thinks he’s a femboy kek

>> No.10543342

>>10543052
I had that for a while, add "you'll die alone with dementia in a retirement home like the rest of your family"

>> No.10543346

>really want a friend because seeing true friendships in anime makes me nostalgic for something i've never had
>all of those friendships are guy-guy
>am girl
>never get along with other girls
>guys just try to get me in bed
i feel like women can't have true friendships like men can and it makes me feel very lonely.

>> No.10543347

>>10543346
>i feel like women can't have true friendships like men can
Lmaooo wtf? Why?

>> No.10543348

>>10543346
sounds like a you problem. You sound like those girls who are "not like other girls uwu" And ur ego and attitude is preventing you from getting along with your own sex. sad.

>> No.10543350

>>10543346
you won’t make any friends with that sort of mindset

>> No.10543352

>>10543346

Getting strong "pick me" vibes from you.

>> No.10543368

>>10543346
>i feel like women can't have true friendships like men can and it makes me feel very lonely.
You watch too much shonen anime sounds like

>> No.10543375

>>10543346
If you think that, you're creating a self fulfilling prophecy. Get out of your house and meet people, you'll be so surprised. Women aren't a monolith.

>> No.10543376

why has actual clown make up become a trend? How do you come up with a worse trend than the dumb tumblr noses
It looks like shit

>> No.10543377

>>10543376

Costume and SFX makeup has always been a fun/popular thing. Clowns are just flavor of the month and I guess as far as lolita is concerned, one of the few "influencers" we have is really into Halloween and clown stuff so others might find it cool if they like spoopy shit.

>> No.10543378

>>10543346
I used to feel intimidated by talking to women and it made it really hard to build friendships with them because I was the one making it weird due to my own preconceived ideas about women. Joining the local lolita comm helped that a lot actually cause I was put into situations where I had to talk to people. I've since made a lot of growth in how I relate/talk to women. I would suggest just putting some effort forward, you are probably just shutting yourself off on accident.

>> No.10543391
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10543391

Misako has the right idea

>> No.10543407

>>10541246
Does anyone else hate when Meta has a cute or potentially good print but uses ugly ass colorways or just has no pink colorway on something it would make sense to have a pink colorway for? I love Teddy Chocolatier but the navy and wine colorways over having pink and brown is so annoying to me and confusing given it's typical for chocolate prints to have one or more brown shades, mint, and pink across sweet brands.

>> No.10543413

>>10543346
the internalized misogyny jumped out

>> No.10543414

>>10543076
Im not sure if this is bait or not. But if its real, please check out detransition advocacy groups. There is pique resilience project and r/detrans though Im not sure if the latter has gone to hell or not since the purging of all GC topics from reddit.

I really hope whatever life you decide to live, you can be comfortable and happy anon.

>> No.10543418

>>10542097
>Because it attracts the wrong sort of people to the board.
It's unfair to kick them off-board when their posts are on-topic, because it might attract "the wrong sort of people" (who is that wrong sort, anyway?). There is nothing wrong with posting cosplay pictures in a cosplay imageboard.
>>10542097
>Bad enough we have retards that don't just go to the help thread.
I can't see any relation between those 2. Regarding people not going to the help thread first: tell them to lurk more.
>>10542418
>none of those threads are about cosplay
Guess we just disagree. I can't see how a thread for dumping cosplay pics is not about cosplay. I don't think using shitty wigs or Aliexpress costumes makes them any less valid, it's all cosplay. You can make a thread for self-made cosplay pics if you desire to.
>I don't mind costhoting in general, but I want separation between it and genuine cosplay.
Again, someone making lewd cosplays doesn't make them any less of a cosplayer. Why aren't they "genuine"?
>There's already board(s) for appreciating sexy women.
These are NSFW.
Regardless of being NSFW or not, some topics might fit more than one board, which is also not a problem by itself or anything that needs action.
>I wish they would go there and let the rest of us sperg about fabrics and props and shit
We're all free to do that.
Here's hoping cons come back soon. I miss goofing around with friends in cosplay.

>> No.10543421

>>10542007
Cringe? That sounds pretty based to me

>> No.10543422

>>10543418
>There's already board(s) for appreciating sexy women.
>These are NSFW.

Uhhh, nayrt but so are at least half of the titty cosplay pics posted if not more in those photo dump threads. If they were just sexy, they wouldn't be NSFW; they are lewd, as you said, or photographed in a way that is clearly sexual (pussy shots in a pair of skintight pants are different than normal angles of photos of the same costume) and the lewdness makes it NSFW. That stuff can be taken to the NSFW boards, even if it is legit cosplay because it isn't really allowed on cgl if it isn't sfw.

>> No.10543425

>>10542007
didn't that coconut head girl do that

>> No.10543430

>>10543422
>the lewdness makes it NSFW
This criteria isn't used in basically any board, if you look at what actually gets deleted/banned... To get banned for NSFW, you have to post explicit genitalia (any sex) or female nipples.
"Lewdness" is not a good way to classify something as NSFW - for some people, feet pics are the lewdest thing. With explicit stuff OTOH is much easier to draw the line.

>> No.10543433
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>>10543425
yes and now she meme'd herself into becoming an e-prostitute

>> No.10543434

>>10543418
you're the wrong sort of person. spergs who write walls of text because you are so pressed someone wants to scroll through the board without tit threads. you can't even put that shit on IG. it doesn't belong here. most image dump threads that don't allow for discussion are bad enough.

>> No.10543435

>>10543433
SHE WHAT

>> No.10543439

>>10543434
>why are you writing text
>cosplay doesn't belong here

>> No.10543441

>>10543435
The slippery slope is something like this
>starts tiktok early 2020 due to covid
>starts posting about yagamiyami audios which is like erotic audios(?)
>those posts get gather her way more attention than her lolita content
>falls further and further down the coomer slippery slope
>gives up wearing lolita for e-girl aesthetic
>opens an onlyfans late 2020

>> No.10543449
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>>10543441
jesus

>> No.10543452
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>>10543269
I’m the detrans anon and I don’t know what else to say but thank you.

>> No.10543456

>>10543441
Don’t get me wrong he’s got a cute voice but Christ never thought it would cause a fucking downward spiral like this.

>> No.10543457

>>10543269
Based

>> No.10543460
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>>10543414
I’m already on online communities for detrans women which has helped a lot! Reddit hasn’t been the same since the purge.

>> No.10543461

>>10541848
Anon... I feel your pain in my utter soul. I didn't know what this was called, and no gyno has been any help to me, thus destroying my self esteem. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, and I wish you the best in getting rid of yours.

>> No.10543469

>>10543346
This is until just one of them sexually harasses you. Then you find yourself without any support and are one of those "drama mongers" you were convinced other girls are. Plus many men are just as big into drama and gossip as women, it's just the end of the world everytime it happens.

>> No.10543476
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>>10543272
I really wish I had gotten a reduction instead. I’ve seen some detrans women get implants after and it always ends up looking like a TIM’s results. The last thing I’d ever want is to look like a TIM, but if I wear lolita I will.
>mfw I realized fucked myself over big time even if I don’t have dysphoria anymore.

>> No.10543478

>>10543441
all her videos are her in e-girl outfits and talking about trauma or sexual content
She's made bank off onlyfans tho

>> No.10543483

>>10543478
>she's made bank off onlyfans tho
doubt

>> No.10543485

>>10543478
I read that the onlyfans market is becoming oversaturated. As more and more girls think "easy money" the supply increases but the demand of horny pervents stays the same. This has driven the price down for onlyfans content substantially.

Girls are slowly becoming simple crack whores. Selling out their dignity and future for pennies, not dollars because they just don't want to work.

>> No.10543486

>>10543483
supposedly 5k in just a month

it's really fucking sad, her coords weren't anything groundbreaking but they were always consistently pleasing to look at. fucking coomerbrained by erotic voice actor sex moans tape, what an unexpected twist.

>> No.10543488

>>10543485
The cycle of lewds > nudes > porn is as old as porn itself.

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>>10543425
Who?

>> No.10543491

>>10543486
is she actually doing nudes/porn or is it just like lewd outfits?

>> No.10543495

>>10543478
>$1300 CAD
>"bank"

>> No.10543497

>>10543456
>he
Yagami Yato is a woman, anon

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>>10543478
>all her videos are her in e-girl outfits and talking about trauma or sexual content
what the... I guess that does sounds something that would appeal to tik tok users. what a mess that app has become desu

>>10543486
Her coords were cute imo

>> No.10543502

>>10543491
I'm not paying to find out but yeah like >>10543488 said it's only a matter of time.

>> No.10543503

>>10543486
cgl hated her and now you're upset she left the fashion and moved on? shouldn't you all be happy

>> No.10543505

>>10543503
cgl is not a hive mind and also every time she got posted it was only maybe 2 anons who would talk shit and make vendetta-y posts.

>>10543497
Bait or not. He's a man.

>> No.10543506

>>10543293
I was raised exclusively by women and got praised as a kid for my 'polite' body language.

>> No.10543507

>>10543503
>cgl hated her
her coords were posted here all the time in a positive manner?

>> No.10543510

>>10543505
yagami has an instagram account. shes a woman.

>>10543507
a quick look in the archive says otherwise.

>> No.10543512

>>10543486
so the way onlyfans works, people who subscribe can "pay ahead" for several months. this means that she's making more this month than she might for the months that follow, because the simps already paid her.

rip.

>>10543491
she does "pay per view" which is undoubtedly nudes/porn

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>>10543510
Yeah trans woman aka male. His voice changer "female" voice is cringy af too.

>> No.10543525

>>10543510
she was posted in sweet lolita/good coords threads often, but yes, she had kind of a bad rep from selfposting and stirring shit on /cgl/ like 6 years ago when her hair was shorter (aka the coconut head comments). Some people remembered that and carried vendettas but many people either didn't know or didn't care.

>> No.10543529

>>10543525
i wouldn't call it a vendetta because she's been pretty milky ever since. she really did it to herself desu.

>> No.10543536

>>10543529
Before all of this weird VA horny stuff, she had a pretty good run of staying quiet and posting cute outfits. I think it was maybe the tattoo drama from last year that really started the downfall.

>> No.10543568

>spend years outfitting my entire house with romapri and other japanese princess furniture
>fancy rugs, curtains the works
>very proud
>post pictures on my IG
>one of my acquaintances comments on how his gf loves this kind of thing and has a similar room to mine and links her IG
>it's all ageplay/egirl shit
>she also has a bunch of ageplay tattoos
time to burn everything

>> No.10543594

>>10543568
Don't be foolish, anon. Sell it to her and make your coin back. Profit off of their depravity and buy burando.

>> No.10543601

I'm really fucking tired of social media

>> No.10543607

>>10543601
Delete it. You will feel much more refreshed.

>> No.10543618

>>10543601
Social media can absolutely suck a fat one, the only thing I use it for is to occasionally post utter nonsense on a page dedicated to posting utter nonsense for me and a friend of mine.

>> No.10543628

>>10543430
What is NSFW to people on a board like cgl which has far more normies between the cosplay and lolita posters both is probably a bit more strict than the other boards with more degenerate coomers, let's be real. /vp/ is a blue board with tons of fap threads of clearly underage pokemon characters and outright pornographic pokemon art and no one reports it or tells them to take their lolicon to /b/ because the board is full of majority coomers who came to jerk it to that shit and shit talk Nintendo anyway, but a lack of moderation or complaints doesn't mean the rules are being followed.

But in addition to that, feet pics aren't really lewd unless the feet are being presented to the camera the way they typically are for foot fetish material, which is my whole point. It has to do with the framing of the subject and presentation. A picture of someone in the ita thread with bare feet is different than a picture of someone's bottom of their foot aimed straight at the camera for wikifeet, and pretending to not understand the nuance of those things is being intellectually dishonest. The whole concept of what is or isn't NSFW is nuanced and dependent upon various workplace cultures in general, but it's better to err on the side of caution and post all the titty pics you want elsewhere so people expecting blue boards to be sfw can actually get that.

>> No.10543643

>>10543594
I think anon is upset that her furniture is being associated with egirl shit.

>> No.10543648

>>10543643
No one tell her about the nugget couches

>> No.10543658

>>10543648
Did you even read the OP?

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>>10543476
Anon, you have a lot of life left to live and know this is not your fault, you were tricked into being a medical experiment.


All I can say is my grandmother was a very elegant woman and she had a double masectomy for cancer back in the days they were absolutely brutal everything taken no nipples or much upper arm muscle left *but* she was also the most feminine woman I ever knew and her lack of breasts had no bearing on her love of clothes (stylish, dressed younger than me) and her elegance. I doubt anyone even noticed they weren't there....i think you may be wrong about the boob op and may revise your opinion in years to come but just wear a corset/falsies if you feel self conscious in lolita.

>> No.10543679

>>10543658
I just think the thought of worrying if people associate your furniture with something unsavory or that you dislike was sort of similar and found it funny

>> No.10543688

>>10543676
i am going to sound harsh as fuck but OP sounds like a retarded larper to me. boobs don't add to the look of lolita in the slightest.

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>>10543688
It’s one of the things I’m sad about. I’m worried I’d look like a brolita because my voice is deeper than my dad’s... besides I’m allowed to feel sad about liking such a girly style but not trying it out until after my surgery. I get that breasts don’t add to the look of Lolita, that’s literally the only positive for me here. ;_; I’m paranoid I’d look as ridiculous as the girl in pic, if even for different reasons.

>> No.10543717

>>10543441
apparently her infatuation with that youtuber/nsfw audios ruined her relationship with her bf too

>> No.10543738

Feels good to see SC listed at 200 BIN thanks to that MTO. Gonna get me one for cheap, idc if it's faded.

Makes me even more sad that HC wasn't cotton though cause it's still hella hard to come by the original without bleeding or damage

>> No.10543740

I'm honestly amazed at how much cheaper AP dresses are nowadays. While every other lolita brand has increased prices, most of the new AP print releases are like sub-$300. It's such a large difference from 2015, when some cuts were priced at $500. Shoutout to AP for making lolita more accessible to the masses. We stan AP for not being classist fucks.

>> No.10543742

>>10543536
I'm betting on her coming back to lolita as an old schooler

>> No.10543744

>>10543740
this has to be bait

>> No.10543747

>>10543461
i actually contacted a fucking vaginal derma about it (they're a derma who also treats vag derm issues). they said they won't even see me without a referral. i argued with them that i am a paying customer and have no primary doctor and no insurance, paying in cash. they still refused me. this is our medical system, locked behind paywalls and bureaucracy. and i can't into measuring. like, idk, smaller than a caper. maybe a peppercorn size? i'm seriously thinking about buying a scalpel and making a 1mm incision on my own baginaskin to remove them myself. it's god damned infuriating.
luckily it's only an issue if my clothes ever came off. but still.
>>10543601
just delete it.

>> No.10543753

>>10543742
god please no

>> No.10543770

>>10543715
I kinda love this pic tho

>> No.10543773

>>10541739
So sorry to hear you're going through this too anon. Have you gotten a reply since then? I wonder if we bought from the same seller lmao. I hope both of us get our items soon. All the best to you.

>> No.10543793

>>10543052
Intrusive thoughts are a common symptom for depression- lots of other mental illnesses too, but especially that.

>> No.10543798

>>10543264
Your friends are worried about you.
With all this double talk about what's expected when you think a friend is depressed and acting on it, there's bound to be a lot of misunderstandings.
If a friend of mine 'out of the blue' were to start selling a bunch of pieces I know she really liked and said fit well etc I'd want to reach out to see how she's doing too.

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>buy a body pillow because everyone says its great to sleep with and i never sleep well
>comfy, but thats it. ill never get a cover for it, thats cringe
>daki cover of my favorite character pops up on my etsy
>on sale
>dont do it anon
>dont do it
>pillowcase shows up a month later, open the package
>mfw
>immediately throw it in my closet out of embarrassment
>eventually say fuck it and put it on the pillow
>sleep like a baby for the first time in years
>its so soft and silky and every night i put a little nice smelling fabric spray on it
>look foward to going to sleep now instead of dreading it because i get to cuddle it to sleep

fuck it gulls, who gives a fuck about being cringe. this was the best decision ive ever made.

>> No.10543806

After GameStop goes further toward the moon I'm buying a lambo and some more burando. Sorry to the anon that sold calls for 7k profit.

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10543810

Mfw he messages me asking if "the doll thing" is a fetish

I just wanna wear cute clothes. I only wear classic and occasionally gothic or dark/ muted color sweet

>> No.10543816

God, I love girls.

>> No.10543828

Found a skirt I'd been wanting on depop for not too bad a price so that's pretty sick.

>> No.10543831

>>10543810
He is a ding dong
Also fetishists ruin everything gdi and especially now with the internet encouraging people to over share and spilling it into real life. Also wow that image.

>> No.10543839

>>10543831
Thanks I was so offput by his comment it honestly made me want to sell my wardrobe, I stopped wearing OTT sweet because of those comments but figured classic and gothic were fine and looked fashionable

>> No.10543874

>>10543628
>What is NSFW to people on a board like cgl which has far more normies between the cosplay and lolita posters both is probably a bit more strict than the other boards with more degenerate coomers, let's be real
Aren't sexy cosplay threads evidence against that?
Regarding your second paragraph, I'd be impressed if you could make the case for a foot pic with no nudity to be NSFW.
>pretending to not understand the nuance of those things is being intellectually dishonest.
No need for name calling. Have a good day.
>people expecting blue boards to be sfw can actually get that
We do get that. NSFW content (read: explicit genitalia, female nipples or cropped sex pics) on blue boards usually gets deleted fast. If this criteria for defining NSFW isn't good enough for you, that's fair enough. I personally like it because we (as users) very easily know if something can get you banned or not.

>> No.10543875

>>10543805
based

>> No.10543879

>>10543874
Female nipples aren't inherently sexual so those standards are retarded. SFW means something you could get away with viewing at work in a general sense.

>> No.10543880

>>10543874
Those threads started recently with crossboarders and/or trolls, and for years weren't really as common

>> No.10543885

>>10543879
Nothing is inherently sexual. You need some standards.

>> No.10543899

>>10543879
>SFW means something you could get away with viewing at work in a general sense.
That's the original definition, yes, but it never worked that way with 4chan.
I'd argue that a bikini cosplay pic is much easier to handle at a workplace nowadays than a post screaming "NIGGER NIGGER NIGGER" in all caps.

>> No.10543909

>>10543899
WOAH dude you can't say that word

>> No.10543910

Why are so many lolitas ugly? It makes me so sad. The clothes are expensive, beautiful and fit the girls... only to see a face like LovelyLor’s. It feels like such a waste. I know it shouldn’t matter but it ruins the outfit for me but I could never say that. Why aren’t there more girls like Chokelate who are into lolita?

>> No.10543925

>>10543910
Most people are ugly

>> No.10543926

>>10543925
Not true, anon. That’s just a cope that ugly people say.

>> No.10543930

>>10543910
Chokelate was a mainstream model. Even lolita models don’t look like that. There aren’t many lolitas who look like her, but I’d say most with any amount of following (Lor excepted) are decently cute.

>> No.10544010

more board feels than anything but why are the girls here who are into non-lolita jfash so autistic? the "other jfash" thread, the yumekawaii/fairykei thread, even in the kimono thread, there are always a million salty gulls slinging shit about nothing. just wear your clothes and shut up.

>> No.10544065

>>10543926
Most people really are ugly, unless you live in LA or a rich part of NYC

>> No.10544067

>>10543910
I’m including myself in this because I am ugly, but actually hot people like Choke don’t need lolita to feel beautiful, it’s something that would never catch their interest. Many lolitas found the fashion through weebshit which already trends to attract awkward girls with an ugly duckling complex

>> No.10544074

>>10544067
you aren't beautiful just because you wear fancy clothes. you are just a pig in a dress.

>> No.10544079

>>10544074
You’re confusing ugly with fatties anon

>> No.10544235

>Artist released ketchup
>Worldwide shipping through buyee
>Sign up
>Suppose I should order some more stuff so it's not just one ketchup
>Leap into Mercari rabbithole
>Crawl out later with an armful of orders

Nice. Shopping serotonin.

>> No.10544281

>>10543926
No, they're completely right. You either have low standards or are an uggo in denial.

>> No.10544321

>>10544281
I’m into lots of different alternative styles and they all attract beautiful women. It makes me sad that lolita doesn’t seem to do the same when the clothes are decadent. Maybe I don’t follow enough lolitas on social media? Who are the pretty ones? I want some inspiration and I’m tired of looking at pig faces. It might be the makeup and hair styling that so many lolitas seem to do that I might hate, too.

>> No.10546282

>>10541739
I also bought something awhile ago and the seller has yet to contact me, I've sent her a couple of messages but I don't know to do

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Looking at people talking about their husbandos and their childhood cartoon crushes makes me kinda envious and sad. I've never felt that sorta spergyness where I would like a fictional character, especially the fact that I missed out on this as a kid. The closest thing was a passing liking of Howl from Howl's moving castle when I was 13. I just want to have a husbando