/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>10673595
Holy fuck that was manipulative and I am seeing red in your honour

You've still got the bunny suit, right?

>>10673632
Yeah, she's apparently does shit like this with everyone and it got worse when she got older. I never noticed because of my bad English/autism.
>>10673677 I never actually bought the suit and I don't know where she got photo from.

I hate having heavy flows.

dont try doing sausage ringlets with a curling wand if you're a klutz with dyspraxia

>>10673811
Did you burn yourself?

When a bitch tells u to get a bunny suit she either gonna ridicule u or is a freak

Are Japanese lolitas as autistic as American ones? Do they have "little sister" facebook groups where they give each other awful advice? Is this the reality of lolita around the world? I don't want to be in a cringe cosplayer mentality "fashion" that tells girls metallic gold shoes are ever a "good idea"
I want to get off the ride.

>>10673910
If Japanese lolitas aren't like this, where did this mentality come from and why/how did American lolitas fall so far?

>>10673880
Yes. ):
Twice.

>>10673914
What mentality are you talking about? About being nerdy outcasts and helping each other?

Also the Japs are the ones pairing gold shoes with everything even in their burando advertisements so I don't know what made you think that was something Western lolitas invented.

>>10673910
Hate to break it to you, but shoes were normally the ones that matched the least.

The western lolita community is the only autistic 'match only shades' community.

>>10673935
>Japs
Careful nonny, you’re going to trigger the SJWs and shit up the whole thread with their whining

>>10673910
newfag

I really miss bringing my 3ds to cons and just raking in all the street passes. Even when cons are back in swing, those days are never coming back.

>>10673918
I'm sorry to hear.

>>10673940
>you’re going to trigger the SJWs and shit up the whole thread with their whining

Seriously. I wish these fucks would just get banned. It's the most ironic thing for SJWs to use 4chan of all things.

>>10673985
Most of them are trolls laying obvious bait because posters here want something to be angry about

>>10673989
Pretty much this. Too many people larping as SJWs just to get a reaction.

>>10673595
Holy fuck I remember the thread this was in and I thought it was a shitpost the fuck

>>10673677
oh my god I never noticed after all these years... that rabbit has tits

>really miss conventions because only in-person socialization venue outside of work
>might either still be immunocompromised or recovering from some procedure by the time the next con is up

no idea if that counts, and I wrote it already somewhere else but...
>be me, male
>at a "small" con yesterday
>saw a Harley Quinn cosplayer there
>has written "proberty of puddin", and "no touching" on her ass
>started to become a little bit too courages
>go to here and ask if her puddin is here
>answers no
>ask if she has a puddin
>answers no
>grab her ass
>she gets obviously angry and tells me to piss off
>the rest of the crowd gets also a little bit angry
>leave the scene and stay away from the con the con the rest of the day
>only come back to get my price I won in the eating contest
>go to the next police-station after that
>asked if someone reported a sexual offender
>said no
>wanted to self report what I did and told what I did, but they let me go
it was at MostiCon 2021
no idea if that Harley Quinn cosplayer ever reads that, but...
I'm sorry, still feel bad for it

>>10673595
I went to the archive and read the original post, and I just want to give you a hug.

>>10674048
This image will give me nightmares

>>10673937
Matching shades looks so much nicer

Finding cute pants for casual jfashion feels so hard to find. I can find everything else but pants and when I do, it's always in a small size. I just want some pastel pants dammit.

>>10674081
Are you legitimately retarded? How can you have an IQ above 50 and think that was a good idea at all?

>>10674082
What was the pic?

>>10673595
that bunny suit is brand? it looks more like a bunny furry suit than lolita

>>10673595
Wait I found the post.

>Any tips on making a coord fit right over a fursuit? I wanna wear this with my lyrical bunny jsk when it comes in.

>No I'm really asking for help. This is my first coord and I don't want it to look sloppy over my fursuit

>I made the suit myself. I am new to fursuiting and wanted to try it out before spending all the money on a suit.

It seems like you were completely trolling unless you were already into fursuiting. In which case, I don't see how you can blame your friend for how you got dragged by /cgl/ over that hideous fursuit. Unless were you just fucking lying about making and wearing the suit? Why would you do that?

>>10674263
>It is my father modeling my suit while I took the pic but thank you for nice comment.

OP seems like a sheltered, simplton.

my mother just shamed me for eating. she saw me open a can of tuna and she glared at me and said "i thought you were going to take a shower." thanks for the free meanspo, mom. i should've known that telling them about my little "diet" last night was a grave mistake. they were so proud of me. now i can't eat. they'll never take me to my favorite restaurants ever again. i'm the skinny one in a big fat family, i have to set an example. i'm a shining star in a sea of darkness.

i miss hot chocolate on a cold day. i miss the smell of my dad's freshly baked cookies wafting through the halls. i miss buttered, flaky croissants. i miss biscuits. i miss bacon, lettuce, and tomato sandwiches. i miss greasy fried chicken. i miss sodium-loaded microwavable noodles from 7/11. i miss ice cream sundaes. i miss grilled cheese. i miss bagels. i miss cheesy deep-dish pizza. i miss burgers with cheddar and mayo and ketchup and onions. i miss milkshakes. i miss french fries. i miss hot dogs. i miss spaghetti and meatballs. i miss mac n' cheese. i miss it all so much. maybe i can have it again, someday. but right now, i don't deserve to eat.

>>10674246
>Are you legitimately retarded?
I might be

>>10674270
Tuna is fine, that was a bit rude of her to say that if you were just getting tuna. As for abstaining from the rest, you'll be able to eat them again, just remember to do it in moderation. Smaller portions of the junk on special occasions.

>>10674278
Anon obviously is mentally ill and has an eating disorder as a cope for their crushing self-hatred. Giving them normal diet advice isn't exactly going to work.

>>10673918
Happens to everyone

>>10673910
Metallic gold shoes look cute in many cases. Stay mad haters

>>10674310
This is how I know you’re new. Anyone who was around when they were a trend is now traumatized by them

My dog died yesterday. Ive just felt completely empty and devoid of any will to continue learning to hand sew at the moment. Luckily I've stayed relatively on top of my lifting schedule. Everything just feels so fucking empty though. Last week was my first time cosplaying and it felt amazing having people ask to take pics with me, but now I just feel awful. The only thing keeping me going is my family and the thought of crafting my body into the perfect cosplay for Joseph Joestar and Dante from dmc3. Idk, I just needa get over this funk I guess. Ill try my hand at sewing again later today after I finish my grad school work.

>>10674270
ur mom literally just asked a question because you said you were gonna do one thing and did something else and you're going off the rails. get help
>i'm a shining star in a sea of darkness
lmao this is how the ana-chans really see themselves huh

>>10674285
I see you're someone that enjoys spreading negativity. Ignored.

>>10674270
If you throw it up after you can eat all that stuff.

>>10674318
Your pup would want to see you happy. I'm sure they knew you loved them always, and that they lived a happy life without prolonged suffering. Maybe you can sew something as a tribute?

Whenever I'm experiencing loss, I try to channel my focus into my future goals, which luckily it seems like you're already doing.

>>10674321
That's not "negativity", retard, that's just reality. Giving casual diet advice to someone punishing themselves with food restriction isn't going to work. It comes off incredibly naive, like telling someone depressed to "just think positive thoughts".

Anyway diet-chan, good luck and do your best.

>>10674270
She didn't have a problem with you eating, they have a problem with your stench

>>10674320
i'm not an anachan, i'm not underweight
i just have an obese family so i look skinny in comparison

>>10674365
go take a shower stinky

>>10674263
My friend suggested that I say I made the suit. She said things like how people would want to talk to me even if the suit was not good, teach me to craft, and be friends. I was in a really dark place for other personable reasons and wanted new companionship and hobbies to help with where I was. It was dumb to lie but I was desperate for any kind of light at the end of the tunnel that I went with it and believed her. I'm ESL/disabled also and my friend had "helped" me with language/social stuff before so it wasn't unusual for her to give me "advice" on what to say to people even if I didn't think it made sense and I would just go with it because I didn't have much else to go on. It was really dumb and I see that now, but I was in a very dark place and really used to her doing this kind of thing. It's by far not the weirdest/worst thing she convinced me to do.

Worth noting maybe that she also had 2 fursuits that she said she had several items/clothing that she said she had made or customized that she had actually just bought and one of them was a fursuit.

>>10674264
This too. I was definitely really sheltered when I was little because of my disability and that was bad for me and set me up to fall for things like what my friend did. My mom also speaks very little English and my step dad worked a lot so I didn't have anyone to see the red flags for my friend either. I have been doing much better with this since I graduated and got my job/new friends but I still have a lot to learn.

>>10674376
Sorry for just going off about this haha. I found all this out about my friend really recently so it's still fresh.

>>10674376
I am curious about your history with /cgl/. Did you just keep browsing after your friend first showed it to you? Or did you gradually rediscover it when you got deeper into lolita?

>>10674365
I know the feeling. At work people call me skinny but I am overweight at 150 lbs at 5'3". When I turn down donuts and pizza people tell me I should treat myself or I'll fade away if I don't eat. One even asked if I was eating at all because "I never see food at your desk." I eat at lunch and a snack or two on my breaks but because they don't SEE me eat they think I'm starving myself. Shit is stupid and half the time it's old men saying this.

I hate to see gulls calling girls thinner than me fat. I could stand to lose a few pounds (and I’m going to) but I’m a far cry from fat. Feels bad man

>>10674382
Rediscovered. I pretty much just lurk but I post sometimes in some threads.

>>10674424
Idk it sounds like you’re fat and subconsciously realize it and that’s why it upsets you

>>10674461
Nah /cgl/ just thinks anyone who isn't an anachan is fat and then wonder why there's so many anachans here

>>10674462
Sure jan

>>10674465
And then do this when they get called out for it

>>10674424
Don't care what they say then.

>>10674424
I hate seeing girls treat other girls like this. But I guess that's the ugly personality of some and only thing we can really do is set a good example and voice our opinion to show that not all of us are like that

>>10674509
Truth. Gotta stop putting each other down and help each other up instead, no matter how shitty we can be.

>>10674316
This. Also way to take OP literally when gold shoes are just 1 example of the bad advice thrown around on BSOL

Finally found the right fabric to use so I can get my dress modified.

me mum is retarded. she was about to give me dog a Tylenol after upsetting it’s stomach with a raw hot dog.

>>10674424
>far cry
More like a fat cry, because you're fat and you cry (because you're fat)

>>10674462
No theres so many anachans because you're eating their food

>>10674468
Seethe fatty

>>10674641
what the fuck

>>10674646
>>10674652
Oh no gulls someone just called me fat on the internet how am I ever going to bounce back from this oh noooo my life is ruined
Look y'all can keep trying to bury your traumas and insecurities by shitposting on the internet if you want I guess but I'm gonna go take a bubble bath, see you hoes later

Haha nice

Nice lmaooooo

>>10674893
The more you reply to being called fat, the more you weigh. I'm guessing 180lb ±10

>>10674893
Lmao you’re SEETHING.

Why can't I get a cosplay bf!?

>>10674909
This one is almost funny. There's at least effort here. Gonna give this one 2 stars.
>>10674910
You're just straight up not even trying and I'm disappointed. You get like 1/6th of a star maybe.

>>10674974
You better be a dude

>>10674974
lift weights

just found out my roommate talks trash about me, my clothes, and my eating habits behind my back. she pretends she loves me and lolita to my face, literally cried at me the other day about how she was so sad we aren't close and yet....she talks this shit?? i guess she was faking. she apparently even talked shit about me to my BEST FRIEND like you fr thought I wouldn't hear about that? I'm just fucking done with this bitch, not like I wanted to be friends with her anyway since she dresses like an e-goth slut with no taste and weighs nearly 400 lbs so she is literally disgusting to me in every way but...swear I'm just going to slap her so fucking hard next time she tries to talk to me after I've moved. I'm just gonna beat her ass and never speak to her again afterwards. pretty happy I won't have to help her with finding lolita big enough to stuff herself in now, she can have fun scouring the fucking internet all by herself. bye bitch.

>>10674532
THIS
Barely any gulls are actually ana-tier skinny in the first place.
Inb4 "speak for yourself" but I'm certain most of us are average weight (myself included) or above and try to cope with internalized self-hatred by lashing out at people bigger than us or even those with the same weight/body type as us, been there done that. It's a bit sad honestly, I wish we could love ourselves more.

>>10675158
Lift

>>10675157
>nearly 400 lbs
I dunno anon she could probably beat the shit out of me let alone you. you'll probably deal more reflected dmg to yourself when you go for that slap.

i'm kind of pissed at my friend. she said she would want to go to a con with me, but won't be paying for the cosplays she does there. maybe i'm overreacting, i get that cosplay on herself isn't a huge interest of hers, but what? i didn't say she would need to be in cosplay if she came, and she's overweight as shit, i wouldn't even fit into any cosplay i bought for her or be able to reuse it. i don't want to drop 100$ on a XXL cosplay for someone who is going to wear it once and have it be mediocre anyways. (or even more if she plans on cosplaying all 3 days like i am) i'm hopefully going to the same con with a friend who's actually serious about cosplay, and might do a matching group of 3 with both of them, but jesus christ, the first one complains about even wearing wigs and if i drop money on her cosplay i don't want her to drag down the group. again, i feel like an asshole for being mad at her, she's my best friend, but fuck, man

>>10675306
You sound like a shit friend not encouraging her to lose weight :/

>>10675306
adding to this that i didn't ask her if she wanted to come, i just mentioned I'D probably be going and assumed she wouldn't be interested.

>>10675309
anon i see your point but she's anorexic and i don't want to be a cunt about us not sharing a size to her face

>>10675312
??? How can someone be overweight and anorexic?

>>10674310
seconded, they look like shit most of the time but occasionally they're amazing

>>10675313
anorexia or any ed is characterized by disordered eating/thoughts, not weight? she's lost an absurd amount of weight in relatively short time, but is just still overweight because of the weight she started at

>>10675313
Anachans don't start as skeletons, they start at any size and become skeletons

>>10675318
>>10675312
Absolutely wrong. Anorexia nervosa has a DSM requirement of a low BIM for ones age/height/race. If they aren’t underweight it’s not anorexia nervosa. And Atypical anorexia is just OSFED/EDNOS.

>>10675318
>she's lost an absurd amount of weight in relatively short time, but is just still overweight because of the weight she started at

Does not make it anorexia. Like >>10675321 said there’s medical, diagnostic requirements of a low weight for anorexia. Your friend is either just unhealthily crash dieting(which is disordered eating but not an eating disorder, there’s a difference) or if she does have an actual eating disorder it’s something that is not anorexia.

>>10675321
>>10675322
huh. alright thanks anons, i wasn't aware, im not an anachan myself. my point still stands that id feel like a dick encouraging her in whatever it is, though.

>>10675318
>muh anorexia, I weigh 200lbs+ but I lost 20 this month so I have an eating disorder!!!!

This is 100% pure fatty cope. Your fat friend is not anorexic. Tess holiday is not anorexic. And neither are any of the whales who crash diet only for it to never stick.

I don’t know why LARPing fatties don’t claim something believable like bulimia so at least there’s no way to point to a textbook and instantly dismiss this retardation. Pro tip you fat fucks, there’s not a weight requirement in the diagnosis for bulimia nervosa. If you’re going to claim to have an eating disorder for attention go that route or even more realistically say you have BED.

The fact that some people never grow out of being a teenager brings sadness to my heart.
Imagine being 40, 50, 60 and still having the insecurities of a 12-19 year old.
It sounds like hell on earth to me

>tfw no turbolover lolita gf who rocks hard and rides free to come in freewheel burning across desert plains to bring me love
I guess I’ll head out to the highway. I got both of lose at all.

>>10674974
Where do you live?

I just want to share this somewhere that a female audience may find it, particularly for my poor American friends.

>You can buy Misoprostol, the early-term abortion medication, from AllDayChemist online without a prescription.
>Confirmed legitimate seller which also stocks Tretinoin for your skincare needs.

>>10675328
Watching videos on people in nursing homes is sad because they'll be 80 years old and say they still have the same mind as a 16 year old but their body can't keep up.

>>10675313
They make themselves throw up with a breadstick

>>10675438
>/cgl/ posters
>having sex

>>10675226
haha no, most she'd do is cry and run away, she has never been in a fight, bitch has never even worked out once in ENTIRE life. I have no doubt I could kick her Pillsbury doughboy ass even if she is four times my size. might take a little damage sure if she actually faught back but I've certainly been in worse fights with bigger people who actually know what they're doing. but idk it would be worth it to land one good hit even if I do get my ass kicked for all the damage her dog has done to my brand.

would be really neat if arda bothered to keep any of their wigs in stock. you'd think by now they'd have their staffing and logistics sorted out? it's funny how they're blaming covid now when they've always been like this.

People compliment me on my looks so much when I wear normie clothes. But i don't feel like myself when i look normie :(

>>10675566
Holy shit, this!

I've been happy with my life for the past 3 years. Looking forward to when I can go to cons again.

>>10675566
They have been like this for a decade

I love pink and cream coords but I'm also so tired of them.

>>10675438
I bet you're in texas. I'm reporting your ass and collecting the snitch reward
>>10675518
>I've certainly been in worse fights with bigger people
why do you get into so many fights? are you one of those girl gangster boss like in my kdramu? I never been in a fight before. I have a couple of scars on my face from non fight related incidence tho. I like to tell ppl I got them in gang related fights to seem cool. I used to play tennis in high school and one time I accidently wacked myself in the face and gave myself a blackeye. when ppl asked me what happened and I told them the truth I got laughed at. that's when I learned that it's better to make up cool stories about my injuries.

I hate how being bloated affects how I look in costume

I want to go to events again and I'm excited everything is opening up but I am not going to anywhere. I don't work medical but I work a job that has me marking clients as deceased. The numbers I am seeing has me shocked. Guess I'm going to be in lockdown a while longer

Diet starts today, I'm already missing my carbs and my snacks

>>10677522
Same anon. Gotta get in shape for cosplay

>want to cosplay shirtless character but my stomach is still fat
Do I use it as a goal and continue losing body fat or do I be cringe and cosplay with a shirt

I've been sticking to 1200 calories a day and exercising at least 45-60 minutes every day too but I'm only losing 4 pounds a week. At this rate I won't be my goal weight until December, I hate my shitty metabolism.

>get mono
>can’t work out
>get fat
crud

>go to a con
>wear makeup 12+ hours everyday because im a retard
>get a stye
>can't cosplay or wear lolita until it's gone because i can't put makeup on
>gonna probably have to replace all my eye makeup shit anyways
typing this with a warm washcloth on my eye. life is cruel gulls

>>10678015
Anon you might be pushing your metabolism in the wrong direction. That calorie count is way too low unless you’re like 75, and will make you metabolism even worse.
>>10678338
FFF if it makes you feel any better I had a similar thing happen with a cold sore

>>10677766
Be based and cosplay without a shirt anyways. Dad bod is not bad bod.

>>10677766
Never cosplay a shirtless cosplay with a shirt. Confidence and hygiene can do wonders, just make sure your clean and tidy.

>>10678506
Unless you’ve got tiddies. Then maybe wear a shirt. But yeah confidence goes a long way. But if it’s really gonna make you feel self conscious and ruin the weekend for you, maybe cosplay something else?

>>10678340
1200 is fine, I went from 200 to 120 with that and cardio

>>10678564
You got to think long term though. Having 1200 a day for an extended period is gonna wreck your metabolism in the long run. Eat smart, and work out regularly if you want a sustainable physique.

>Go to the shoe section of my local Macy's
>The giant lesbian woman say's it's "Feet inspection day"
>She takes out my feet from my mary janes and starts rubbing the souls on her face
Has anyone else had this happen?

>>10678645
yes but instead she ate the soles

>>10678566
Seconding this. Watched people older than me do all the diet trends from the early 2000's and destroyed their body

people that cancel the order on mercari AFTER confirming it make me want to kill myself so bad
"Canceled due to the convenience of the seller" my ass

>>10678972
Canceled due to the xenophobia of the seller kek

>>10678972
But for real. It’s so annoying. I’ve lost dream dresses like this’d

>find dream dress
> actually complete transaction
> it's a good price too!
> Shipped via EMS
>Apartment makes us use mail forwarding
>retarded mail forwarder loses package
> mail forwarder says their contract is with my apartment building not me, so I have to take it up with leasing office.
>Leasing office says the forwarder is responsible.

out $300, no dream dress, and ready to break lease over this idiocy, but my state has no lease breaking law provisions.

Newlita here that tried joining my local comm. It seemed cute enough but I'm just not into Facebook and forget it exists. I've probably been removed by now why oh why does facebook of all things have to be the community center for lolita groups?

>>10678566
They're talking about losing weight, it doesn't matter if 1200 is long term sustainable because they're not going to eat 1200 forever

>>10679527
Yeah, why don’t you try being on 1200 calories a day for 2 months and see what it does to your metabolism.

>>10679536
Like I said, went from 200 to 120. I'm happy with the results.

>>10675306
since when did even inviting a friend to a con mean you have to pay for a cosplay for them? what the fuck?

>got a bf who wears cat ears and gets rougher each time i call him a good boy
See ya gulls, I made it

>>10679638
>>10679527
If you can't maintain then you'll just gain the weight right back

>>10679700
Not totally true. If you eat 1200 until you lose weight and the BMR of your new weight is above 1200, you just have to eat your new BMR to not gain or lose anymore and most people's BMR is above 1200 unless you're very short and super sedentary with no muscle mass.

>fatita iso gothic or classic
> 50" waist
>budget limit is $50
>hearty kek

>>10679697
we all been there...you'll be back

>>10679697
>I made it
This isn't /fit/ or /fa/ where the goal is to get laid. You don't make it here until you've got a respectable closet of dream dresses or reignited for your cosplay craft.

>>10679697
you’ve made a tranny in the making you mean

>>10679722
How you figure?

>>10679703
Bodyline exists for a reason

>>10679310
If I were you I’d have further important packages shipped to a friend with a reliable home address. Who can later give you the package irl.

>>10679697
Ew go pee yourself pornsick freak

>>10679763
Is bodyline really that big? Damn.

>>10679697
Why can't I be that boyfriend

>>10676466
>I bet you're in texas. I'm reporting your ass and collecting the snitch reward
Afaik, getting an abortion under 8 weeks is still legal in texas

>>10677766
Which character?

>I only lurk, never actually been to a con
>too afraid that I'm going to go and get bullied, or worse, that I'm going to go and unintentionally be a weird creep.
>afriad that I'm going to go and ruin someone else's experience
>afraid that people will recognize me from con IRL or other /cgl/ posters will record me and post me here to laugh at me
It doesnt help that I'm male. I just want dress up in and look at cool outfit
I wish girls werent so scary to be around

>>10679825
How would anyone recognize you if you only lurk? Besides no one cares about you at a con, everyone is busy with their own business to be concerned with you unless you are going around touching people or saying sexual or edgy things unprovoked. Avoid those things and at worst you'll be seen as weird for an hour then forgotten about.

>>10679832
Thats not what he said, he doesn't want to be recognized from the con
>and at worst you'll be seen as weird for an hour then forgotten about.
15 years ago maybe, now that everyone has a camera on them if you look weird you'll end up on Twitter or whatever the kids use these days

>>10679816
oh is it? why are ppl trippin then. 8 weeks seem like it's more than enough time to decide if you want the baby or not.

>>10679963
Most people don’t even know they’re pregnant for like six weeks…

>>10679963
It's 6 weeks and 6 weeks isn't even enough time to know you're even pregnant let alone make a decision whether to keep it or not

>>10679965
>>10679966
oh is that how it works. I thought people buy those pregnancy test right after they do it to see if they're pregnant. as for decision whether to keep it or not isnt that something you should think about before you do it.

>>10679974
more retard gems from the adult man(child) that thought women peed from their vaginas, everyone

>>10675157
Damn you sound familiar, you’re a gothic/kuro lolita right?

>>10679978
false women has 2 holes down there we been knew about that a few feels threads ago.

>>10679982
Please go look up female anatomy instead of being stupid. Not that it's that easy of a task for you anything, but at least try. Women have urethras just like men do.

>>10680008
>Please go look up female anatomy
that's haram.
>Women have urethras just like men do.
OH I learn about this in class. women also have shorter urethras than guys that's why girls are more prone to uti's.
>Not that it's that easy of a task for you anything, but at least try
picrel

>>10680040
Are you underage or home schooled? You learn this in 5th grade.

>>10680066
DAMN BRO YOU DONT HAVE TO DO ME LIKE THAT. I have untreated adhd so my mind wanders during class and I miss stuff. It get so bad sometimes it hits 4k. Why do you ask mommy sorry mommy srr mommy sorry anon? you tryin to tutor (:

>>10680066
Please don't interact with soup.
He's a troll with brain rot who continuously inserts himself into lolita threads even though he doesn't know a damn thing about lolita or even cosplay.

>>10680066
He pretends to be training to be am emt but doesn't know basic anatomy

>>10680094
>>10680097
yeah that's right you better not (you) me or else. I been working out for almost a month now and got that xqc physique.

>>10680127
Okay soup

>>10680127
Talk is cheap

>>10680242
>>10680257
I'm going to do something about it

my sis got my niece to ft me rn. she wanted to ask me to get her an american girl doll. I said ok because I didn't think much of it. I never been jebaited so hard in my life after I googled what they are.

>>10679646
exactly my point anon! it's just so selfish

My friend dressed me up in lolita for fun (I'm a guy) but I weirdly enjoyed it. I feel bad about enjoying it and I'm afraid to tell her I did.

>>10679703
that replica MM example too yikes

Got lip fillers for my cosplay shenanigans and my boyfriend didn’t even notice anything.

>>10680327
Enjoyed it sexually or enjoyed feeling pampered? Sometimes you mistake the idea of crossdressing with just enjoying the full attention of someone.

>>10680352
Anon it HAD to be THAT dress because we all know it's an ita calling card

I'm getting tired of people associating being into japanese fashion as being fetishists of the culture or somehow appropriating something culturally significant/protected. Inwardly I cringe because I don't want to be perceived that way, I just like pastels and cute things, why does that make me so evil in the eyes of tiktok SJWs

>>10680481
i'm perfectly fine with those nuts thinking i'm evil.

>>10680481
not enough melanin duh

>>10680481
uninstall tiktok

>>10680481
Those kids on tiktok are cringe AF anyways. Don't let them get to you, it's the equivalent of when you were a teenager thinking you 'knew everything about the world.'

They just have a platform now that gets them 'influencer' famous for being young and cute.

>>10680481
Your first mistake was caring what tiktokers think

>>10680481
the youths are the leaders of tmr. dont be close minded like your parents or like your parents' parents. you enjoyed your yt privilege for long enough. stop culture appropriating and conform to social norms are dress appropriately

>>10680470
I enjoyed being pampered and the attention but I just really enjoyed how I looked more than anything. I've never felt pretty before. I don't think it was sexual. I couldn't stop looking at myself in a mirror and smiling.

>>10680481
tell them that lolita itself is "appropriating" historical european clothing

>Anon looking for coveted old school dresses
>Am interested since I own one of the dresses in preferred color way
>Max budget is £200
>HEARTY kek

>>10680682
That's genuinely cute. If you like it, keep at it.

I don't know if this fits, but I am having serious regrets so here we go...
>Started out buying all fullsets and mostly OPs for easy coording.
>Got tricked by the whole: JSKs are so much more versatile and you should get them instead.
>Sold almost all my fullsets and OPs.
>Now hate wearing lolita everyday because I have too many options for one dress and I wish I had just kept my fullsets and been a very boring lolita.

>>10679819

>>10680792
thats a fucking mood. Went for the same meme

>>10673595
Fingers crossed for crip/blood lolita coord, I want my two hobbies, lolita viewing and street gang viewing to be combined.

I believe in you hood rat lolitas, just sell enough crack (I recommend cocaine or even tussi since it brings more cash) to buy custom burando.

>>10680792
I wear lolita daily too and have definitely been buying more OPs and sets lately. Coming up with new coords is fun but it's also nice to have something to throw on that doesn't take much thought for lazy days

>>10680792
I love OPs and they are almost a status symbol these days because majority of people in my country cant fit them

>>10680682
You liked being pampered? Lets just say when I'm done you're gonna have to wear pampers. Call me back.

wish people would stop spamming buy/sell groups with the popular dress they *NEED* every single day talking about how desperate they are
stfu and hunt like the rest of us

>>10680735
I want to but I'm afraid to take the plunge.

>>10681186
Then don't. But if you like being pampered, try getting a spa package. Get yourself a massage, facial and manicure. If you feel awkward about being a guy getting this thing, don't. Plenty of places have packages specifically targeted to men. If you want to paint your nails yourself, go for it with clear polish. Just enjoy yourself, you only get one life.

As this is a feels thread, I have good feels that I have completed my dream capsule wardrobe as my first milestone. I have been into gothic lolita (and gothic subculture) for my whole life and finally got spending power to purchase it for myself. I'm happy that I stayed in shape and saved money~

>>10681186
I'm not afraid to plunge into your ass you cute little hon

My xianyu package has been just sitting in China waiting to get on a plane for over a week now. There are 2 dream dresses in there and some pieces to finish of full sets, I'm getting nervous gulls

>>10681093
>Tfw no one to bully me into pampers

>>10681386
I was just talking about plowing him until he's so gaped he can't hold in my cum, not some weird shit like that

I’ve been working for months to get My weight down.I’m 5’3 and At the highest it was 166. Now I’m 150 lbs although when people criticize me they never talk about my weight. I think it’s placed in the best possible way, so I look more like 140 lbs with the right outfit. I can’t get below 145 at all, ever. I also have BDD so to myself I look like around 200 lbs. I was considering a cosplay but when I looked at inspo it just really crushed any motivation out of me. I just want to give up but I’m tired of being fat

I'm very obese right now. I used to look fine but a little chubby and was maintaining my weight at least. Then COVID happened and I got a boyfriend and ballooned up by like 100lbs. I don't hate myself, I've worked a lot on my self esteem. But I do hate my body and that I can't wear my lolita when it made me feel so good and happy. I've been calorie restricting and setting and achieving goals like drinking a gallon of water and making sure to eat certain amounts of fruits and veggies daily, and I'm doing really well for the most part mentally but it's just been one week. I feel very motivated by all my lolita items and the coords I want to wear again, but it is frustrating thinking about the time it is going to take to get there and all the things I am going to miss out on until I get there like new releases or other things since I can't justify spending money on clothes that don't fit. I won't be at my goal weight for a year or more because of how big I've gotten. If you're not happy with your body right now or even if you are, please take care of yourselves gulls. Depression and body dysmorphia are awful and make it so you might not appreciate or realize how good your body is and what it is doing for you every day until you're drowning in trauma and emotions and let yourself go, only to see old photos of yourself and wish you still had the body you hated and took for granted.

>>10680327
I know I'm going to make some posters here mad but God I wish that were me absolutely in a sexual way

>>10680481
this. i genuinely love dressing in jfash and lolita but im so scared to wear it out, especially if i'm doing or eating something pertaining to asia. i like the things i like and i don't pretend to "like" them to appropriate or whatever, but i don't want to look like im doing the latter. like even though i like cute things and that's why im a lolita/ dress in other jfashes, and just simple things like the fact i just like tea so i drink boba(for example), im terrified of being looked at as the weird weeb even though i know that's a bit silly.

I had lost some weight and decided maybe i’ll try on that super tiny cutsew that i thought i could never fit in. Well i put it on and it fits me!!
I still got 5 more lbs to go but it feels good and i feel good

>>10681634
That could be arranged

>>10681768
congrats anon!

I tried out a handlebar moustache for the first time. I thought I'd look silly but I'm really rocking it. It's a very outlandish style around here though so I'm gonna cover it with a coof mask.

2 many happy feels. where are all the mentally ill anons

>>10681768
Congratulations! You deserve it!

An order I placed last month on maxicimam got cancelled because they just realized it's out of stock? After a full month. It's the items I was looking most forward to, too. This fucking blows.
Only now they put up the sold out sign after I already had paid for it.

when the site freezes and doesn't put in your bid :(

>check baby sf site
>oh nice those socks and bows i wanted restocked
>hmmm but maybe i should wait since i dont NEED need them now
>o fuck it i'll just get the socks at least
>pay
>check site again 20 mins later
>socks are back to being sold out
>phew

I’m falling back into my eating disorder. I’m 5’4 and 105lbs and I know that’s technically pretty small but I’ve never hit triple digits in my life and look normal at 92-95lbs. I want to get back to 90. My legs are much shorter than my torso proportionately so I always look so dumpy. Wish me luck, gulls

>>10682147
it's covid

i had been fighting a roach infestation in my house and basically killed them all as of today.
Anyway I went to my closet and found a dead roach folded in one of my blouses i was trying to sell. What the fuck. i don't bring food near my closet and i wash my shit.
Lesson learned i will also be checking anything i sell to be sure i'm not mailing dead roaches to people. i feel so disgusted someone hold me plz

>>10682233
I'm in the same situation. good luck

>>10682308
How did you get rid of them? Asking for a friend and that friend is me.

>>10682467
Honestly i hadn't been doing my dishes in the sink so they were coming for that. i just washed everything immediately and made sure no crumbs were around. And I put a mix of dishwashing soap/detergent/water in a bottle,shook it up and gave a few good squirts when i saw a roach. It kills them in a a couple seconds when you coat them in it. Sometimes i just poured straight detergent onto them too.
I don't like bothering with roach bait because i like to know where they die and be able to remove them, instead of finding random bodies

>>10682256
I guess so, I haven't ordered anything directly from a brand since before the pandemic and it's so delayed I thought by this point they would have arrived at my proxy but seeing this, they haven't even sent anything out yet.
Guess I'll have to wait for re stock or new releases since all the other tops they have that I like are too small or huge on me but then they won't be on sale anymore, sucks to suck

>>10682569
>Sometimes i just poured straight detergent onto them too.
I thought I was the only one that did this. How long did it take you?

>>10682577
Haha nice! I didn't know anyone else did this. It took me a week and todays' the first day i haven't seen any live roaches. They like to come out at night so it's good to kill them if you're awake then. Also if the roach is a big one then you'll need more than a few squirts but just do it until they slow down

I finally started dieting to try and lose the weight I’ve gained during the pandemic. Finished my first week now, went from 151 to 148. Today I went back to the gym, wish me luck.

>>10682580
Good job and keep it up. My issue is the apartment building I live in. I think it doesn't matter what I do if the neighbors aren't doing anything.
>>10682697
Proud of you, good luck and keep going.

I want a hot hot booty to jiggle right on my face but I do not wish to choke or suffocate.

>>10682308
I'm so sorry nonnie. Roaches are the devil. They get into EVERYTHING so be careful. Even if you think there's no way/reason there's a bug somewhere there very well could be.

>>10682709
Roach genocide when.

i'm *this* close to selling off my normal wardrobe and most of my pastel vomit sweet lolita wardrobe so i can only wear yohji yamamoto, boz, and maybe atepi. the pandemic has really made me reshape my thoughts regarding my wardrobe. i have a work wardrobe, a "normie" jfash wardrobe, and a fucking huge lolita wardrobe. i'll probably work from home forever and i'm a total recluse aside from going to shop or eat, and sitting inside in OTT sweet every day is just... uncomfortable. i've seen so many people say it doesn't have to be uncomfortable but it is for me. it makes me feel silly, at the very least.

call me weak but shapeless black clothing that's still stylish and suits every situation sounds extremely appealing if this is how my life is going to be forever. bah humbug.

>>10682577
>>10682580
protip from someone who lives in a shitty townhouse that gets bugs, spraying flying bugs with basically any cleaning solution that's chemical heavy (think windex) will make them immobile because it wets their wings and, idk, makes them sad

the second i see one i spray them and they can't move, and that's when you strike. no mercy.

also stick bay leaves everywhere in your pantry, including in packages of dried goods. that will ward away roaches and the types of pests that you'd find in your flour/rice/what have you. do your dishes immediately, or rinse them after you eat and stick them in the dishwasher. have a covered trashcan. i am in an eternal war on bugs. also, hang your dresses in garment bags if you can. fuck bugs

>>10682885
you know you can wear lolita and not be OTT right

>>10682885
maybe lolita isn't a comfy fashion for you? a lot of people are sensitive to elastic and just don't know.

>>10682905
alright, pardon me for using the term OTT because i think i used it wrong. i don't mean wigs and 100000000 hair accessories. what i mean is the pieces in my wardrobe are loud as hell. i feel like an ass wearing milky planet without at least doing my hair and makeup and coordinating it with matching things. the idea is, it's not something i'd feel comfortable just sitting around in without putting in a good amount of effort.

and before anyone tries to argue about it, this is just a me thing. i built my wardrobe while i was going to uni and was used to wearing crazy shit and going out every day. i just don't feel like it's conducive to my lifestyle anymore.

>>10682908
That's fair anon. I think maybe selling your stuff might be the best decision in that case so you can fund your new wardrobe. Good luck.

>>10682906
i think that might be part of it. like i know i could wear something without a petticoat if i'm just at home, but it looks limp and lifeless and makes me think "what's the point of even wearing this" if i'm going to half-ass it. some dresses look alright without (especially older ones) but most of what i own does not.

I always wanted to wear the more ‘out there’ lolita pieces like SC or stuff with bonnets (i know its just normal lolita but i mean ‘out there’, normie wise). always told myself no because i was self conscious. so i have stuck with muted looking classic. But after going to a few meets, I feel more free and not caring anymore. Well, I feel free if i’m with another person. I’m still not that comfortable being in lolita alone. I guess it’s like a social buffer so i can easily ignore rude people talking about me.
i finally bought SC! I just need the black headbow now。but since many people haven’t gotten theirs yet, hopefully some will pop up for sale soon. And i’m waiting on my antaina order since i didn’t have any tea parties. I’m excited to be able to wear the cutest things soon.

>>10682908
I've done 3 wardrobe purges and changed looks. Its really refreshing and my favorite part about Lolita is it's relatively easy to do without losing money. Trading is such a common thing

I am in a depressive rut and experiencing a lot of burnout

I bought a plastic bowl today. I am going to wear it on my head and become famous:).

>>10674270
nigga just stop being a fat fuck

>>10674365
>i just have an obese family so i look skinny in comparison
are you American?

I applied to an internal job for fun and apparently Interviewing soon. I have no idea what I’m doing and I’m terrified because everyone around me has heard about it. Usually I’ll buy a few dresses until my nerves calm but I’m literally so depressed I can’t even look at my closet right now. What is wrong with me.

>>10683835
proud of you

>>10681789
LONDON
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>>10684206
Wisconsin

How do I explain to people that they aren't entitled to a response?

Often times in public people will try to talk to me, maybe to ask if I know where something is or other general shit like that. I know most people would just say "don't know sorry", but the entitlement of these little people pisses me off so I just ignore them. I didn't agree to have a conversation with you. You aren't entitled to me looking at you and making mouth mouth noise game with you just cuz you said "hey" to me. Fuck off.

>>10684466
I wish I knew. God I hate moids.

>>10684466
>Cringe png
>Shit that has absolutely nothing to do with cgl

This ain't your Tumblr, nonnie.

>>10684466
that's autistic but just ignore and walk away.

>>10684506
You're one to talk, soup.

>>10684525
wdym? I only pretend to be autistic online to be more relatable otherwise gulls would be too intimidated to talk to me because I'm so cool and handsome. ohh did I mention humble? I'm just too nice for this site

>>10684466
>>10684470
You are dysfunctional.

>>10684527
Prove it aspie, act normal for one day. You know, like what your mom would beg you to do when she brought home her boyfriends

>>10684828
No.
Speaking of aspie. I made a discord friend that might legitimately be on the spectrum. It’s so awkward aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I think it’s karma from all these years of pretending to be autistic.

I finally hit my goal weight, but now my legs are too muscly from doing cardio all day. Now I’m going to need to eat even less so I can stop running and atrophy the muscle in my legs. Girls don’t know how good they have it in terms of not building muscle

>>10684466
you dont owe anyone a response, ever.
Be anglo and say "I cannot help you, sorry"

FUCK CONTACT LENSES! FUCK THEIR MOTHER AND THEIR DOG AND THEIR HOUSE AND THEIR EVERYTHING! GODDAMN! FUCK! FUCK!

>>10684403
It's a meme anon also you're kinda far anyway

>>10684858
Charge your damn phone soup

I wish I could somehow become “demisexual”/normal

>>10685055
you wouldn't give someone on twitter unsolicited advice so why are you doing it to me. I'm not that easy to bully bro my pr is like 60lbs + bar now.

someone that's effay peep these rings I copped. are they kino?

>>10685060
I wish I could be asexual

>>10685070
Why?

>>10685072
Don’t want to want sex

>>10685076
You don’t want to bond with someone you love?

>>10685078
Fine without

>>10685067
Take this shit to /fa/ ffs why are you even here

>>10685120
it's for my gothic flying themed coord. stick to your cartoons if you don't know what you're talking about ffs

>>10685067
1st one is good

>>10685067
Post pics of it or fuck off

>>10684466
Queen

>>10684466
You're right when you say that you don't owe anyone a response, but isn't that a bit rude? It's not hard to say "don't know sorry" really, you don't have to have a full on conversation with them to do that.
It's like going to a restaurant and saying "I don't owe anyone a Thank you" after you get your food served, you can simply not do it, but it makes you a bit of an asshole imo.

>>10684466
Bigger more obvious head phones and walk a little bit faster when you see someone start to do that 'wave over or get in path of stranger' sidewalk dance people do

>>10681644
>>10680481
>cultural appropriation of a fashion the Japanese cuturally appropriated from Europe
How many layers of cultural appropriation are we on now

>>10685339
It's called inspiration or admiration. You're welcome

Reminder that cultural appropriation is a neutral term and without it we wouldn't have many of the advances we have today.

I had the worst buying experience of my lolita career on LM, left a neutral review, and then I just went back to look and mods changed it to positive? Do reviews even matter on LM? Jesus.

>>10685122
thanks
>>10685182
I just got them yesterday

No fucking around today we have to study

>>10674270
fuck you now I'm hungry

I’m having mental problems and i haven’t been able to eat much lately. and i’m losing weight when i don’t need to be losing any. Part of me feels like not eating is the only real control i have in my life. and it would be nice to be a little skinnier so i can look more like risa or something. I know this is bad i guess. but i’m just tired of doing what people expect me to do. If i dont feel like eating, i will do so. I just feel alone and hopeless. yesterday i almost fainted and my eyesight went all black for a few seconds when i stood up because i hadn’t eaten much all day.

>>10685485
I got me an all american burger

>>10685503
>>10685505
uhhh sorry

>>10685508
No worries soup i know it wasn’t directed at me lol. But thank you
Maybe i will make myself a burger now tho

>>10685509
don’t stand up too fast when you go make food. I ain’t trying be responsible for any injuries

>>10685423
what happened?

>>10685503
I get this all the time and I'm still fat

>>10685505
fuck you soup now I'm extra hungry

>>10680918
>Angelic Piru

>>10685503
being a little skinnier won’t make you look anything like risa, that’s delusional af. though i’m sure you know that already. plastic surgery, actually starving yourself, and possibly lipo could make you look like a bastardized knock off tho

>see some gulls posting chobits a while ago
>also see arguing about it being trash
>decided to read it myself
>main story is literally about grooming
For the love of fuck, please re-read chobits if you have any positive associations with it. The entire thing is overly sexual and the "chobits" model is supposed to be a child. Whoever said it's for creepy men was right. I feel betrayed

>>10685737
Its actually about the idea of if you can see ai as human. Yes there is content that didnt age well but you cant groom a robot.

>>10685718
Thanks so much anon, you really have a talent to make people feel better. maybe just shut the fuck up thanks.
I was talking about looking like risa bodywise lol

>>10685739
actually anon is right. a lot of people who read manga in general do it in high school. you have rose colored glasses on.(not going touch on the rest of what you said it's too easy)
>implying clamp works in general aren't riddled with pedobait

>>10685739
>the idea of if you can see ai as human.
>can't groom a robot
So which is it?

>>10685739
Yes because a piece of media can only tell one story at a time. Clamp is well known for having tightly written plots that don't meander anywhere, especially not into multiwork series or anything. Sit the fuck down. I know autistic women can't see overt sexualization but this is ridiculous.

>>10685742
>>10685743
>>10685745
don't respond to men.

>>10685741
nta but fuck off if you're just baiting for attention or feel good replies. just say you want anons to comfort you if that's what you want instead of 'ugh i hate myself' whining and hoping people say what you want to hear.

either way you can't have someone else's body even at the same weight and height everyone has different bone structure. you can be thin and look good but even if you're also petite height wise and lose a ton of weight you will just never be risa. get over it and try to be a better you rather than a half assed someone else.

I don't know where the sudden obsession with getting angry at chobits came from. It's decades old, if you don't like it move on. No point in seething about a 20 year old series when there is openly pedobait anime blowing up in popularity right now, much less in a cosplay board. I know lolitas are radfem twitterfags but jfc

>>10685755
Lol i’d rather people ignore me totally than respond with shitty ass replies. I just posted to vent. i didn’t give an invitation for people to think i’m obsessed with being risa and start arguing with me that i’m delusional.

i said i wanted to look MORE LIKE risa i didn’t say i wanted to look JUST LIKE her??? Where are you getting that. Did i say somewhere that i wanted to be risa?? ffs. I just meant i wanted to be really skinny and used risa as an example. Ofc i dont have the same bone structure or face. Now that we cleared that up can you please leave me the fuck alone

>>10685755
settle down, you sound nearly as unhinged as op

>>10685763
you’re posting on an anonymous image board where anybody can reply to you if they want to. expect replies telling you you’re stupid if you post stupid shit. it’s so funny when people say shit on here like “don’t reply to me!” like go to insta or literally any other platform where you can block people who hurt your feelings

>>10685769
Lol you’re right. i don’t care anymore this is a stupid argument.
i’ll keep posting whatever i feel like and ignore people being stupid and you can rage because you think i wanna be risa. Actually thanks, arguing with you made me forget about being depressed

>>10685737
A lot of manga has teens as the main characters and the adult guy with the child like robot is unfortunately a normal dynamic in romance media all over the world. Think back to fairytales and other romances directed at girls. The girls are usually teens (to relate to the reader) while the man is usually much older. That's starting to slowly change nowadays but it's one of those habits from story telling. When you're a teen girl yourself back then, you don't see much wrong with it because all you see is an older, mature handsome guy. You're not really thinking about the age. Even with Sailor Moon and Tuxedo Mask she's 16 and he's 19 by the end. Aladdin is 18 and Jasmine is 15. It's just how it is/was. Sucks too because in high school and even middle school it wasn't uncommon for girls my age talking about how they're dating older men and proud of it because you can do more with an adult than you can someone else your age. We also had a terribly high rate of teen pregnancy and single mothers too. Those men should have really known better.

>>10685772
It's because this appeals to women all over the world. Your sjw morals are not the absolute truth

>>10685773
I didn't say it didn't nor did I say I didn't know why. Did you even read my post or just jump to a conclusion? People waking up to how messed up it is to pair a teen girl with a grown man isn't sjw morals, it's just morals. A teen isn't ready to start a family, nor financially or legally capable to take care of themselves, and the adult men often leave them. It's just a fucked up fact that people want to stop.

>>10685762
Lolitas are fucking obsessed with chobits. It's been brought up in threads a few times in the past couple of months. Probably why people are talking about it.

>>10685774
don't bother, anon is probably just a seething incel who is too triggered by women having any opinions he has to resort to "all women love rape" copypasta tier responses.

>>10685694
hi extra hungry I’m soup. at least you’re not angry on this fine Tuesday morning right anon hehe

Crackers and niggers are ugly

>>10685784
>t. damaged goods roastie projecting her rape fetish onto others

>>10685784
You're right, and he's still triggered lol

>>10685792
I had a dream I posted a pov photo of a half broken off banana on the floor in response to your tasty burger pic

>>10685766
>don't bait for attention on 4chan or whine and expect positivity
>if you want nice comments or pats on the back/comforting replies just ask
>be your best self don't compare yourself to others

In what world is any of that unhinged? It seems like pretty well adjusted advice.

>>10685821
OP is just wking herself by insulting anons trying to calm her down

>>10685763
>can you please leave me the fuck alone

Don't bitch and then cry like you're being bullied when people respond accordingly to your posts.

>>10685817
what a weird thing to dream about. I hope you peeled the banana the right way in your dream.

I’m going out with a guy I have no interest in only to eat nice food that would be too expensive to pay for by myself, am I wrong in doing so?

>>10686058
Of course dude.

>>10686062
But why?

>>10686058
Hes going in this with dishonest intentions too, you're not doing anything wrong

>>10686058
you're doing nothing wrong, he has the opportuity to impress you and he knows it. It's like going to an interview for him, you may not have a vacancy now but you might know of other opportunities outside the company, let him do a practice interview and/or reccomend him to other people. You're fine.

>>10686065
If you're going out with someone, it should be to get to know the other person.

well gulls, the seller finally got back to me after like 10 days lol and they relisted the item i wanted, which i just bought! very happy, now i can complete the set

>>10691396

>>10689349
And to have sex with them, but only after you've gotten to know them well enough that it becomes beautiful and romantic

>>10686409
This, guys are only trying to get their dick wet

>>10691401
attention everyone, soup is a bully! I WILL NOT THINK ABOUT YOU AGAIN

>>10686058
It's going to end with him yelling at you for not going 50/50 or something.

>>10691411
I CALLED YOU SMART HOW IS THAT BULLYING

>>10691429
you said my brain is ugly and I cried!

>>10691456
:] it’s okay anon, the more you type the more cute and smooth your brain seems. Just like mines

>>10691465
okay, I forgive you and I will think about you again with my cute smooth brain

>>10686058
Yes. You're stringing him along for free food. It's absolutely disingenuous.

>>10686409
>>10691407
Going on a date with anyone implies that you *might* have sex at some point which clearly you're both aware of. That's far from disingenuous.

>>10691495
>Going on a date with anyone implies that you *might* have sex at some point which clearly you're both aware o
Absolutely not

>>10691607
Agreed. Saying you “might” have sex is inaccurate. If you’re dating someone, you 100% will have sex with them unless you don’t love them

>>10691607
That's only true if you're ace

Sometimes I want to be hugged and have my hair brushed by mommy. But my mother is dead and she was an abusive monster while she was alive.

>>10691763
Asexuals should kill themselves desu

>>10691821
Seethe.

>>10691863
What do i have to seethe about? I’m not the one missing out on one of the greatest pleasures of life

I know that this place is merciless toward nonwhites but something about the comments in a Halloween thread really disturbed me and Im having trouble shaking it so I'm going to post my feelings here.

Tldr
Whether it's sex, violence, cruelty, shit-talking, petty acts, whatever---Kids need to be off limits, period.
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That thread was tough to scroll. it wasn't even about the
>Hurr I'm gonna give these nigs pennies and peppermints and the white kids full sized candy bars

Because whatever, just throw that shit on that person's lawn and dust your soles before moving to the next house imo

but what gets me is that emotionally stunted adults are actively and gleefully scheming how they're going to go out of their way to make sure their interaction with a nonwhite kid is negative.
You WANT your first and probably only impression on young human being to be harmful? You WANT to leave a bad mark on a fucking child?? And FOH with "kids are resilient, they'll get over it" kids can pick up immediately when someone hates them like anyone else except it's worse because an adult is set out to harm them and theres nothing they can do about it. Just because they can weather violent intent doesn't mean they should have to experience it from an adult! It's bullying and it's cowardly and just plain not right on the part of the adult.

>It's just candy
it's the intent /behind/ handing out shitty candy to nonwhite kids, knowing the dark kid is seeing other kids get twizzlers and Snickers while they get fucking bottom-of-the-purse garbage. This is an adult that wants to send a hateful message, that WANTS the child's feelings to be hurt when they put two and two together

It's fucking gross!

For God's sake they're just kids. How can one be so hard hearted to kids?? Fucking grow up

>>10691932
I'm waiting for the wood glue to dry so I'm gonna take this bait.
You're bitching about free gibs. Girl, they're free. It's something for nothing. And the black kids in this supposed scenario are getting more than white kids elsewhere and black kids in Africa. We don't have free candy holiday in the rest of the world. When kids want candy they have to ask their parents. And the parents often decline because, surprise surprise, candy is bad for you. And they're also taught to not take candy from strangers.
You're living in a country of free stuff and such prosperity that even the poor are getting too fat. Exercise some fucking mindfulness.

>>10691868
Sounds like you are lol

>>10692045
>You're bitching about free gibs.
No, I was bitching about something completely different. I don't have a mean or snappy comeback, but the message I want to communicate to you now is that I think you have zero reading comprehension and I ask that you please don't bother replying.
Have a good day, I hope you find money on the ground or in your pocket.

>>10692186
Reading comprehension? You're contradicting yourself back to back.
>How can one be so hard hearted to kids?? Fucking grow up
So being hard hearted is characteristic of those who haven't grown up aka kids. And they deserve to be treated nicely but people should be unlike them. Make up your mind.
Btw kids really are kinda assholes. You'll lecture them on behaviours they should avoid such as bullying and then they'll do just that right afterwards for fun.

>>10692045
the severe cope of a racist